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JOHN COSSAREK Obituary
John Cumming Cossarek Sr., age 80, beloved husband of Phyllis, nee Schmidt; loving father of Linda Ann (Howard) Graham, Mary Lynn Cossarek (Elaine Turpin), Connie Cossarek-Mills, Susan Jon (Andrew) Jackman, John C. (Leah) Cossarek Jr. and Diane Phyllis (Michael) Baker; dear grandfather of Christina and John Graham, Kevin, Alex and Whitney Jackman, Alyssa and Sarah Cossarek and Nick Baker; brother of Mary (the late David) Williams; uncle of David Williams and Kathy Williams. Visitation Wednesday, 4 to 8 p.m. Funeral Thursday, 9:30 a.m. from Donnellan Family Funeral Home, 10045 Skokie Blvd. at Old Orchard Rd., Skokie, to Saint Joseph Church, 1747 Lake Ave., Wilmette, IL 60091 Mass 10 a.m. Interment Memorial Park Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Saint Joseph Church. Info: 847/675-1990 or www.donnellanfuneral.com. 
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Memories and Condolences
for JOHN COSSAREK
Richard Brey
April 1, 2011
I was saddened to learn of Johns passing. John was a long time friend of my family, all police officers in Evanston. John welcomed me to his security force where I worked part-time for him for over ten years. I enjoyed listening to all the old cop stories he could tell so well. Good man, good cop, good boss, good friend.
Scott Lafferty
October 23, 2010
Linda---I was saddened to read of the loss of your father. He was an outstanding man and a wonderful member of the community. Best wishes and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
Jeannine Leonhart
October 22, 2010
My sincere sympathy, Phyllis, on the loss of your husband, John. Prayers for you and your family.
George Dadian
October 22, 2010
Dear Phyllis,
My deep sympathies to and your dear family. Knowing John over 40 years brings back memories of a fine gentleman with great character and capability who will be missed by many outside your family. I recently lost my wife Astrid after 66 years and have walked in your foot steps.God bless and comfort you and your family at this difficult time.
George Dadian
Debbie & Mike Bischoff
October 21, 2010
Dear Phyllis and family,
We are so sorry to hear of John's passing and sorry we did not make it to the funeral. Your family has always been so dear to our family. Praise God John is now in a better place. Many prayers for you all as you mourn the loss of this dear beloved man. Love, Mike & Debbie Bischoff
Earl Tuckman
October 20, 2010
Mrs. Cossarek & Family,
I am sorry for your loss. I am currently an officer with KPD and had the pleasure of meeting and seeing John on a couple occasions. I also worked with his daughter Diane many years ago at a Bank in Northfield. My heart goes out to you all and you are in my prayers.
Evelyn Dill
October 20, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Joan Corboy and Family
October 20, 2010
We just can't believe such a wonderful and kind man has passed. We have enjoyed almost 20 years of being neighbors and have had many wonderful times over the years to share good times as well as face challenges. John was a giant of a man and attacked life with gusto and passion. His love of dogs and animals is well known to all. He always had a good word for everyone and my late husand, Ed Corboy, Sr., always enjoyed his talks with John. The Cossareks are the best of people and we know what John and Phyllis faced the past years with John's many health challenges. He showed great courage. We wish Phyllis and the entire Cossarek family our very best, will say many prayers and offer our deepest sympathies at this time of great sadness. Heaven is certainly a better place.
Marie and Lloyd Jackman
October 19, 2010
We are thinking of all the Cossareks, but especially of Phyllis and Susie. We live too far away to have seen John often, but we liked him and respected him very much. We're glad that Mary was able to make the trip from Australia this summer. Families are so good to have. We send our love to Sue, Andy, Kevin, Alex, and Whitney. Kind thoughts and sympathy, especially to Phyllis, and to you all.
October 19, 2010
Mrs. Cossarek and Family,
There will never be another John Cossarek, what a kind and sweet man. He always made me laugh. I think of him often when I usher the 9:00 Mass, he taught me well. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Katie Tetzlaff and Family
October 19, 2010
Dear Phyllis, I worked with John for five or six years on the KPD and will miss John as I think back to his strenght and his wonderful sense of humnor.The first few days on the job he was showing me how to defend myself as he pulled his weapon out of his holster and fired five rounds while we were inside the KPD.He was facing me at the time and needless to say, scared the .... out of me. I found out soon enough that he was shooting blanks! Many times during those years(1966 until he retired) he would continue to lead me in the right direction by using his humor and his experience. I did meet you a few times and was at the retirement party of Musche and John. May God continue to look after you and your wonderful family. John was more than just a good cop, he was loved by most all that knew him, and those that did not do not matter.
James D.Fullington, Former KPD Police Officer.
Diane Cossarek-Baker
October 19, 2010
You gave us more then anyone could ever want or need Dad!!
80 majestic years of life, 60 wonderful years of marriage, 6 adoring children, 8 beautiful grandchildren. All wrapped up in a legacy of boundless memories. I take pride that goes leaps and bounds beyond the limits in calling you my Father. Rest in Peace.
Your Loving Daughter, Diane xxoo "see you later alligator..."
Christine Jones
October 19, 2010
Diane - Thinking of you and your family today. Our most sincere condolences to you all...Chris (Hosken) Jones and family.
Nora Wolff
October 19, 2010
Dear Phyllis, may God give you strength during this hard time. I know how you feel, I lost Gary in August. There are no words to say. He will be missed.
Craig & Lucy Klatzco
October 19, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mary Lynn Cossarek
October 18, 2010
Simply the best! Love and wonderful memories forever----- Mary Lynn xx
Marge and Bud Rubenstein
October 18, 2010
Dear Phyllis....so sorry to read about John in the paper. We go back a long way...we used to live across the street from you on Arbor Lane and Connie and Jeff were in the same class.Its been quite a while since we have seen each other (we live in Scottsdale now and have been here 31 years. ) But I believe we both moved into the subdivision when it was first built in 1958.
May you find strength in the days ahead...there are no words for the loss of a mate..
October 18, 2010
I love you Daddy. You are the best Dad ever. Rest in peace
October 18, 2010
I love you Daddy, forever and ever.....You are the best Dad that anyone could ever dream of having. I love you so much and will miss you deeply...You will always be Superman to me..... Susie Jon
s rudolfi
October 18, 2010
Well done good and faithful servant!
Margaret Klein
October 18, 2010
Dear Phyllis,
I want you to know how sorry I am to hear of the passing of your dear husband John. My prayers are with you
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