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Martha McLean Obituary

MARTHA L. MCLEAN

ASHEVILLE - Martha L. McLean, 57, of Asheville, N.C. returned to Source on Tuesday, May 3, 2011 after a 19 month journey with breast cancer.

Martha was an activist, librarian, singer-songwriter, daughter, friend, and partner. She recently published her first book of creative non-fiction, Looking for Sheville. The book is based on her life in the Asheville lesbian-feminist community in the mid 1970's. This work was her last creative endeavor and one of her proudest accomplishments.

Martha received her Bachelor of Arts degree in Behavioral Sciences from Warren Wilson College, Swannanoa, N.C., and her Master of Library Science from UNC Greensboro. Her career spanned 35 years, beginning at the After School Program at Asheville YWCA and concluding at Ellison Library, Warren Wilson College, where she was a Technical Services Assistant. The library, books and learning were among her passions. But her greatest satisfaction came from helping others search for knowledge. Through the years, she also held positions at Thom's Rehabilitation Hospital, Mountain Area Health Education Center, East Tennessee State University, and Asheville-Buncombe Technical College.

Martha was dedicated to women's rights and was a key organizer of the Asheville-Buncombe Women's Center in the 1980's. She published the Women's Center newsletter for several years. She also hosted listening parties to help women connect to community through meaningful music. In 1979 she helped organize the first Women Take Back the Night March in Asheville, which was co-sponsored by Women Against Violence Against Women, The Rape Crisis Center, and the A-B Women's Center. Martha was a founding member of LETSA, a social organization for lesbians in Upper East Tennessee.

Martha enjoyed singing, playing guitar and writing. She also loved dogs, hiking, nature and traveling. She lived in Philadelphia, Chicago, San Francisco, Greensboro, and Johnson City. However, she always returned home to Asheville, and it was Asheville where she chose to live her final days.

As her life drew to a close, Martha was a peace knowing she had lived well, loved deeply, and learned much. She leaves a beautiful legacy of creative work and love with her music CD, Walkin'; her book, Looking for Sheville; and a multitude of loving, caring friends.

The outpouring of love and friendship in her last days was testimony to the kindness she shared with everyone she met. She described her religion has Kindness, believing that the world would be a better place if we were kinder to one another.

Martha is survived by her parents, Wallace and Louise McLean; a sister, Amy Pearce and her husband, David; two nieces, Katie and Christy, all of the Philadelphia, Pa. area; and her beloved dog, Piper, a rescued greyhound now living with friends in Johnson City, Tennessee.

A memorial service and celebration of Martha's life will take place on Friday, May 20 at 5:30 p.m., in the Chapel of Warren Wilson College campus, officiated by the Rev. Kathryn Cartledge and the Rev. Steve Runholt.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Martha's name to Lesbian Connection (http://www.lconline.org), CaringBridge (http://www.donate.caringbridge.org), Campaign for Southern Equality (www.southernequality.org), or the John Keever Solace Center in Asheville

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asheville Citizen-Times from May 7 to May 8, 2011.

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pd Swan

May 19, 2011

Martha was a role model for us all. She sincerely and authentically lived.
Her intense loyalty to women's music and her impact on women's herstory will be her legacy. She kept the social network of the Lesbians in NorthCarolina together before facebook or twitter. Her reach of close friends span the country. Both her life and death brought the women of Asheville together. She will be deeply missed.

May 19, 2011

Martha will be joining our old friend Laura who loved and admired her so much. They will be raising the wind together. Robin

Martha Earl

May 18, 2011

In a more desperate time in my life, Martha encouraged me. As a parting gift, along with hope, she provided calming crystals that I kept in my pocket to remind me of her strength and kindness.
Every Christmas her letters made me smile with her adventures or marvel at her endurance. She brought music and humor into the world.
A lover of penguins, Martha now flies. Her song will never end.

May 7, 2011

I enjoyed reading Martha's book. The story came close to home.
Diane

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