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Chad Matthew Waters Chad Matthew Waters. 30, of Topeka, passed away on Saturday, July 16, 2005. He was born on Sept. 1, 1974, in Topeka, the son of Larry G. and Barbara J. Ronsick Waters. He graduated from Topeka Lutheran School, Topeka West High School and from Washburn University with a degree in psychology. He was a member of St. Johns Lutheran Church. At Topeka West, he played football and basketball, and ran track. He was all-conference in football and played in the Shrine Bowl. He also played at Fort Scott Junior College. He still holds the freshman long jump record of 21 feet, 9 inches. He jumped for the Topeka Thunderbolt Track Club at AAU and TAC events. He was third nationally in both when he was 12 years of age. He played baseball for the SCABA Pistols team, which won several state championships. More recently, he played flag football for DOS, over 30 baseball and basketball. He was an avid fisherman, hunter, bow hunter, golfer and scuba diver. He also bowled and was in a pool league. He was a business and financial mentor for Junior Achievement for Topeka government. He was a mortgage broker for Arrow Financial. He married Melissa Missy Allen, his high school sweetheart, on June 3, 2000, in Topeka. She survives. Other survivors include his parents, Larry and Barbara Waters, Topeka; one brother, Chis Waters, Auburn; one sister, Shari Waters, Topeka; two nieces, Elizabeth and Caroline, and one nephew, C. Benjamin, all of Topeka. Services will be held at 2 p.m. Thursday at St. Johns Lutheran Church. Burial will follow in Penwell-Gabel Memorial Park Cemetery. Chad will lie in state after noon Wednesday at Penwell-Gabel Mid Town Chapel, where the family will receive friends from 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be given to Topeka Lutheran School, 701 S.W. Roosevelt, Topeka, Kan. 66606, or the Shriners Hospitals for Children, in care of the Arab Temple, 1305 S. Kansas Ave., Topeka, Kan. 66612. A special message may be given to the family online at www.PenwellGabel.com. Chad Waters.

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Published by Topeka Capital-Journal from Jul. 19 to Jul. 20, 2005.

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Melissa McCracken

December 5, 2005

Chris and family,



I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Chad was a very intelligent man and I was glad to meet him thanks to you. I will always remember his kindness and that smile. I enjoyed working with him in purchasing my first home. It will be something that I will always remember. Please let me know if you need anything.



Melissa Cyr-McCracken

Debra Thomas

October 20, 2005

Chad is so missed.....we think of him so often.

Julie Campbell (Kent)

August 3, 2005

I have not seen Chad since our freshman year in high school. I remember him being very kind, always a lot of fun and he had the charisma of 10 people. He will be deeply missed.

Lisa Bosch-Lockhart

July 29, 2005

To the Waters' Family and Missy,



Words cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your loss! As a spouse and a parent, I cannot, just cannot fathom the feelings you must be dealing with. I have read through all the kind comments everyone has left and am not suprised at how many lives Chad has touched during his short time on God's earth.



I had the pleasure of attending TLS with Chad. Those eyes...always smiling. I can't help but think about how I ran into him not so many years ago at a wedding; he ran came right up to me like not a day had passed. Such a beautiful soul.



Take comfort that Chad is in a wonderful and perfect place, with our Lord, Jesus Christ. I know it seems easy for me to say, but these are the times when our faith is tested. If He brings you to it, He will bring you through it. Give your troubled hearts to the Lord, for He will carry your burdens for you.



All my thougts and prayers are with you!

Jack and Faith Greenwood

July 26, 2005

Barb and Larry:



Jack and I learned of Chad's death through David and of course, were very shocked. Please know that we are thinking of you at this time and will pray for your comfort and healing.

Pat Kimbrough

July 25, 2005

Dear Barb, Larry, and family,



We were so sorry to hear about Chad. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.



Pat Kimbrough & Erin Kidwell

Nancy Taylor

July 24, 2005

Barb,Larry and family,



We were so sorry to hear of Chad's death. Dustin and I want you to know you will be in our prayers. God's Blessings to your family.



Nancy and Dustin Taylor

Jennifer Johnson

July 24, 2005

To Missy and the Waters Family:



Although I have not seen Missy or Chad since high school, I was shocked and saddened to read about him. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I always remember Chad as smiling and happy. May God give all of you the strength and wisdom to carry you through this difficult time.

You can rest easy knowing that Chad is watching out for all of his loved ones.



God Bless,

Jennifer Johnson (Duran)

Bonnie Wyatt

July 22, 2005

To Shari, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother.While I did not know him personally, I have heard from others what a wonderful person he was. My prayers are with you and your family.

Samantha Nardella (Sharp)

July 21, 2005

Missy,

You are in my prayers....may the loving memories of Chad comfort you during this difficult time. I pray that you find peaceful moments in the coming months.

All my love,

Samantha Nardella (Sharp)

Amy Snook

July 21, 2005

Missy, I'm so sorry to hear about Chad. Stay strong, my thoughts are with you.



Amy Snook

Angie Shank (Duker)

July 21, 2005

Waters family,

My heart goes out to you during this sad time. I will always remember Chad's beautiful smile.

Tim Osier

July 21, 2005

I use to run around with Chad and Pual Siorek when Missy and Shannon were roomates. I also played baseball for the Mustages at SCABA. So I to know what a strong man he was. This world is at a great loss with out him in it. My heart goes out to Missy and the whole Waters family. May god bless you all!

Candy Lundy

July 21, 2005

To the Waters Family....I am so sorry and saddened to hear about Chad. He was truly an amazing person, and he brought so much happiness to those who knew him. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Megan Heaslip

July 21, 2005

Waters Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that me and my family are here for all of you. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Cathy & Whitney Nicoletti

July 21, 2005

Mr. and Mrs. Waters,



My daughter Whitney is a friend of Elizabeth's and you have opened up your house and swimming pool for her. She has enjoyed coming to your house. Whitney told me of the loss of your son. We are deeply sorry. We just wanted you to know that we are praying for you. Take care.

Wendi States

July 21, 2005

Chad was so unique. Never again will there be a Black & Mild smoking, Nati Light drinking, competitive playing (football, basketball, poker, track, bowling, pool, tiddly winks, etc ....)constantly cussing, bushy eyebrow having, 1,000 friend knowing, story telling, raspy laughing, good time loving, money making, penny pinching, good advice giving, big time smiling, special king of guy. Chad, you will always be with us. Sorry we signed twice, we had a lot to say.



Chad, Wendi & Caenan States

Josh Gonzales

July 21, 2005

To Missy & Family



Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Chad was a great man & a wonderful friend. Chad has touched so many lives. He's bright smile and personality will always be remembered. May God Bless you always.



Josh Gonzales & Family

Lesley Bartley

July 21, 2005

Water's Family I am very sorry to hear of your loss. It seems we were just in high school a year ago but time has slipped away. I will always remember his smile...it was worth a million. You could never have a bad day being in Chad's company. God always takes the good ones first and he wanted Chad. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Lesley

Christine Gordon (Fleenor)

July 21, 2005

Missy and family,



Although I haven't seen you in some time, I wanted to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.



Christine Gordon (Fleenor)

Dick & Dorothy Taylor

July 21, 2005

Barb,Larry,Chris,Shari,

I am so sorry to hear about Chad. Out hearts go out to you and we will remember you in our prayers.

Nick Casarona

July 21, 2005

Missy and Family,



Knowing Chad was an honor I will forever be thankful for. We were good friends in High School & we have become GREAT friends these past five years since he began working at Arrow. I will never forget the day I moved to Phoenix last week and the conversation we had as we loaded up my truck. That is the impact Chad had on many lives once you met him you would never forget him! My heart and soul ache today for you all knowing I cannot be there for one of my best friends and most of all for you Missy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!



Chadly buddy you will forever be remember, missed and I raise a Natty Light to you buddy!!!!!



Nicky

Mike and Ashley Donnelly

July 21, 2005

To the Waters family,

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lance Carter

July 21, 2005

To the Waters Family,



I wish to send my deepest sympathy and thoughts to your family. The years of competing with and against Chad growing up was truly an honor. I have had and always will have a deep respect for Chad and his accomplishments. You all are in my prayers.

Fanny Stein

July 21, 2005

Barbara and Larry,

We have such nice memories of Chad, dating back to rollerskating on the driveway and playing in his backyard fort. Please know that we are thinking of you both.

Please take care,

Fanny and Leah Stein

Kent and Kylie Smith

July 21, 2005

My thoughts are with the entire Waters family, and everyone that Chad's dynamic life had touched. He was a truly remarkable spirit. Chad brought light with him everywhere he went, with laughter, thoughfulness, and a natural ability to set others at ease. He was gentle,kind and a character in every sense of the word. I believe the world needs a lot more characters. We will mourn the loss of Chad greatly. May all suffering from this loss find strength in your family, friends and others who, as well, miss Chad deeply. Our love is with you.

Marc and Paige Alonzo

July 20, 2005

To the Waters family, We are so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in out thoughts and prayers.

Jacob Pease

July 20, 2005

I went to TLS with Chad up until the end of fifth grade, and even though over fifteen years have passed since the last time I saw him, he has always burned so brightly in the memory of my youth that I have never been able to forget him. The fact that he was not the type of person who left behind fading or fadeworthy memories provides some relief to my sorrow, for I know that my happy recollections of him will always be a part of my life.

Sparkle (Mack) Sherrod

July 20, 2005

Dear family,

I used to run with Chad on the Thunderbolts Track Team, I remember him very fondly. He had a very sweet spirit. My prayers go out to his family and Shari who was my basketball coach at THS. May God Bless and Keep you all.

Amy Aufdemberge

July 20, 2005

Shari:



Julie called to let me know. I can't even imagine what this must be like. My thoughts and prayers are with you.



Amy

Todd Han

July 20, 2005

The Waters Family: I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Please keep doing the things that remind you of Chad and realize that he loved you all very much. He brought happiness to so many. God Bless.

Mandy Uhler

July 20, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss. Shari, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mandy Uhler (Lovera)

Debbie Stadler

July 20, 2005

Dear Waters Family- I too was surprised to see Chad's obituary in the paper. I immediately called Mary Jo and asked her if she had seen also. We remember you all very fondly from many visits to the doctor's office and of course at the Lutheran Bazaar that Dr. Pierce always took us to. My prayers and thoughts are with you now. May God Bless you all- Debbie (one of Dr. Pierce's nurses)

P

July 20, 2005

Well, you built us a raft and she's ready for foatin' Ol' Mississippi, she's callin' your name. Catfish are jumpin' That paddle wheel thumpin' Chad Waters keeps rollin' on past just the same. Ol' Chad Waters keep on rollin' Mississippi moon, wont you keep on shinin' on me. Yeah keep on shinin' your light. Your light will always shine bright. Thanks for the great memories. We will always love you. P and family.

Larry Brayton

July 20, 2005

Shari,

I am so sorry for the loss of Chad.

Chad was a unique person who had a lot to give. I was always impressed of how he worked in my classroom with HSA students.

His smile & easy laugh were a welcome contribution to the lessons he taught.

The lessons he passed on to students about being a good citizen.s and keeping good credit for their future was something that all young people need to here. I am so glad that Chad was the one to that gave that message to our young people.

Please know that you & your family are in Kathy & my prayers.

Mitchel Muse

July 20, 2005

Missy & Family...

I have lost contact with Chad over the years, but will always remember his powerful personality. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this extremely difficult loss...



Mitchel & Kellie Muse

Rene and Jennifer Tinajero

July 20, 2005

Dear Barb and Larry



With deepest sympathy. May God bless you and your family.

Melissa Wegner (Young)

July 20, 2005

I am so sorry for your loss of Chad. Though it's been years since I've seen or talked with Chad, I would hear every now and then how he was and what he was up to through different friends. I always enjoyed that and I will truly miss that and the possibility of actually "running into him". And even though he was a part of my life for such a short time, it was the most memorable time.

There was just something about him.



Mel

Allison Berndsen

July 20, 2005

Chad had such an inviting personality. I'll remember his laughter...and storytelling. Missy-my heart goes out to you.

Marilee Casarona-Orton

July 20, 2005

Missy & Family...My love, thoughts and prayers are with you in this devastating time. Chad was a joy and a gentleman. I always enjoyed talking to him when I called Arrow for Nick. He was a friend to many and all who had the privilege of knowing Chad share your loss. May God be with you as you struggle though your tremendous loss.



Marilee Casarona-Orton

Tucson

Marilee Casarona-Orton

July 20, 2005

Missy & Family...My love, thoughts and prayers are with you in this devastating loss. I always enjoyed talking to Chad when I called Arrow for Nick. He was a great man and an awesome friend to many, and all who knew him share your sadness and will miss him dearly. May God bless and keep you in this difficult time.



Marilee Casarona-Orton

Tucson

Chad States

July 19, 2005

To the Waters and Allen family's



We are truly blessed to have had chad in our lives. He was a remarkable, and loving person. We are so very sorry for your loss. There are no words to describe the pain that you all will suffer, for that we will pray. Chad is a brother of mine that we will never forget. We love you all and may God be with you always.



States Family

(Chad, Wendi, and Caenan)

Bill and Leora Harrison

July 19, 2005

Bill and I were very shocked and saddened by the news of Chad's death. Although we moved away we have unending memories of Chad at T.L.S. May all the wonderful memories be with you forever. Chad is in a special place with God and our prayers are with all of you.

Chris and Heather Santa Lucia

July 19, 2005

To Melissa and the Waters family,

We are very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

With love and deepest sympathy,

Chris and Heather Santa Lucia

DeCorey Harvey

July 19, 2005

To the Waters family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. From little league sports to adulthood Chad was one of the most competitive and respectful friends I knew. Chad and his smile will be truly missed....may God bless you all.



DeCorey Harvey

Holly Michael (Barta)

July 19, 2005

I am so saddened by the news. I have thought of Missy and your family over the past few days and my prayers are with all of you! Chad is and will always be a big part of my memories and I know that he will never be forgotten. May the Lord keep you close in this sad time.



Holly Michael and family

Christopher Gutierrez

July 19, 2005

To the Waters family: Sorry for the loss of Chad. As mostly a high school friend I will always keep the great memories of playing sports along side with Chad, ever wishing I had the talent he possessed. May the many memories of him heal you all for your loss.



Sincerely

Christopher Gutierrez

Jim Brunkhardt

July 19, 2005

Dear Barbara & Larry,



Polly & I send our deepest sympathy to you & your family. While we didn't know Chad, he obviously had a great family to provide him with so many opportunities to accomplish so much during his younger years. Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time.



Our Best to your family.



Polly & Jim Brunkhardt

July 19, 2005

Melissa Martin (Shivers)

July 19, 2005

Missy & Family-

My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. It has been so many years since Topeka West and I was really sad to hear about Chad. I hope you find these words a comfort. Chad was a great guy who is very much a part of everyone he ever met.



"May the LORD keep watch between you and me when we are away from each other" Genesis 31:49



Melissa Martin (Shivers)

Kurt Nieman

July 19, 2005

Dear Chris, Jennifer, and family:



I am deeply saddened by our loss. I will miss Chad's wit and laugh. I always enjoyed his company. He was a great young man. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your loved ones.

Scott Pankratz

July 19, 2005

You are all in my thoughts and prayers. We have truly lost a great man.

Jenni (Bringle) Kerber

July 19, 2005

Dearest Waters and Allen Families,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I played for Shari at THS and I remember Chad's sparkling eyes and bright smile. My love and prayers are with you all...

Love, Jenni (Bringle) Kerber

Robin (Geer) Troxell

July 19, 2005

Shari, Barb and Larry-

I'm so sorry for the grief and loss you are going through, and my prayers are with all of you.

Love, Robin

Angie (Berroth) Taylor

July 19, 2005

To Chris and Mr. & Mrs. Walters, I am so very sorry to learn of the loss of Chad. The memories of Chad as the "baby" during our Jr High and Sr. High years are all I have, but knowing the family I know he was an exceptional man also. My prayers go out to all of you. May God hold you close.

Karl and Courtney Luetje

July 19, 2005

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Susan and Tonya Holmes

July 19, 2005

Dear Barbara and Larry,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We offer our condolences and prayers for you and your family. While no one can explain why we must suffer in this life, we truly believe that there is a reason for everything that happens and there will be peace for you and for Chad. Sincerely, Susan and Tonya

Tom Price

July 19, 2005

To the friends and family of Chad:

I am so sorry for your loss, Chad was a very good friend and co-worker and will be missed dearly. Our prayers will go out to you all.

Tom Price and family.

Kristine Mesh

July 19, 2005

Dear Waters Family,

I wish I knew the magic words to say to take away the pain and hardship that the loss of Chad has brought into your lives. I indeed do not have these words; but know that you are loved and have true friends who are holding you at this time in their intentions and prayers.

With deepest sympathy,

Kristine Mesh and family

Bret Bisel

July 19, 2005

Chad was a dear friend with a mesmerizing personality. The world will miss you Chad, I will miss you. God Bless you my friend.

Adam Stein

July 19, 2005

My sisters and I grew up several houses down from Chad. We always loved his company. He was a superb athlete and a sweet child. I have kept him in my thoughts over the years and will continue to remember him fondly.

Duane Bond

July 19, 2005

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Randy & Liz Gragg

July 19, 2005

Waters Family,

It truly saddens my heart to hear of the loss of Chad. He was always someone special to Liz and myself. I am every so glad to have know Chad and your family. He was one of our first "Hoop Shoot" Kids that we followed in our lives. His spirit and love of sports took him far in life and he made many friends along the way. His 30 years were not nearly enough. We feel special to be apart of his life in our little way. He will truly be missed. Our love and prayers go out to your family.



Randy & Liz Gragg

Regional Director

Elks National Free Throw Contest

7400 NW Wilson Road

Topeka, Kansas 66618

Jim & Suzanne Griffith

July 19, 2005

Dear Barb & Larry:

We were so surprised to read Chad's obituary. We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family. GOD works in mysterious ways. He must of had a more important plan for Chad.

Allison Reynolds

July 19, 2005

My heart truly goes out to all of you. May you find comfort with each other. God bless you all. Chad will be missed by many.

Gold star football O-line

July 19, 2005

Our condolences to the Waters family. Chad was a great competitor as a stand up guy. He will tuley be missed. This is a great blow to our city as well as our flag football league.

Olivia Belnay

July 19, 2005

Missy and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.

Racquel Shortman

July 19, 2005

To Waters Family

I can't imagine the pain you must feel at this time. I went to high school with both Missy and Chad. Even though we never kept in touch over the years I felt compelled to send you a note that I was thinking of you all at this time.



-Racquel Shortman (aka Rocky Six)

Kem & Peggy Golliher

July 19, 2005

Our deepest sympathy to each and everyone of you. Our love and prayers will be with you all during this time and in the days to come.

Jennifer Lundberg

July 19, 2005

To the Waters family...I'm so sorry to hear about Chad. He will be missed by so many people. I remember playing with him at Chris and Karen's house when we were little kids and he was laways so much fun and always had some crazy ideas of what we could do. I know you are all hurting and there's nothing any of us can say to make it go away. I will continue to pray for you and will be here for all of you if there's anything you need.



Jen Lundberg

Gary Kentch

July 19, 2005

Chris and Jennifer..We can't begin to tell you that we understand. We can only let you know that a little part of us grieves because of your loss.May strength and comfort come to you in the days ahead. Our Deepest Sympathies, Gary and Linda Kentch

Dan Canfield

July 19, 2005

Chad was my closest friend, I will miss him so much words can't describe my sense of loss. He was such a great person and friend to everyone.

Geoff & Debbie Blenden

July 19, 2005

With our deepest sympathy and regrets during this time of such immense pain and sorrow,you are in our thoughts and prayers from this day forward as you struggle to find a path on this journey that God has vowed to carry you in times of hardship.



Our deepest regrets,

Blenden Family

(Geoff, Debbie)

kim tompkins-coit

July 19, 2005

I am glad that I got to watch Chad play high school football at Topeka West and I will always remember those games. I am sending my thoughts and prayers to Barbara and Larry Waters and to my cousin Missy and her family. Chad was a really nice gentleman and I am glad my family and I knew him. He will be greatly missed.

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