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Mark Behr Obituary

Mark Behr

Johannesburg South Africa

Mark Behr, an internationally acclaimed novelist and professor of English Literature and Creative Writing at Rhodes College, passed away Friday, November 27, 2015, in Johannesburg, South Africa, at the age of 52, of a heart attack. Behr was born in Tanzania in 1963, and grew up in South Africa. His first published novel, The Smell of Apples (1995), appeared first in Afrikaans in 1993 (as Die Reuk van Appels). The book garnered significant recognition in the form of the M-Net Award, one of South Africa's most prestigious literary prizes, as well as the Eugene Marais and the CNA Debut Literary Awards in South Africa, and the Betty Trask Award for the best first novel published in the United Kingdom. The novel was also short-listed for both the Steinbeck and Guardian Literary Awards. In 1997 the novel received the Art Seidenbaum Award from the Los Angeles Times. Behr's second novel, Embrace (2000) was shortlisted for the Sunday Times Fiction Prize and the Encore Award in the United Kingdom. His third, Kings of the Water, was published in 2009. Behr did his undergraduate and honors degrees at Stellenbosch University in South Africa in the late 1980s, and three MA degrees at University of Notre Dame in the United States, finishing the last in 2000. In addition to teaching at Rhodes College, Behr previously taught in the MA program at the University of the Witwatersrand in Johannesburg, South Africa, and at the College of Santa Fe in New Mexico. Rhodes College will host a memorial service Friday, December 4, from 4:30 - 6 p.m. in the Bryan Campus Life Center. The memorial is open to the public.

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Published by The Commercial Appeal from Dec. 2 to Dec. 3, 2015.

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Robert H Ezerman, M.D.

February 28, 2024

I'm 83, not overtly queer, simply love Mark's creative writing. EMBRACE is my favorite book, period. I did have a troubled childhood, no sibs, emotionally distant parents when I needed them most but who gifted me with Asperger's and who did the best they could for me.
"EMBRACE" vicariously gave me the childhood I never had 70-75 years ago.
Condolences to all others he moved toward greater insights; and, to his family who lost a treasure, though some of his writing may interfere with their perception of that reality. Rob Ezerman, VT, USA

Beverly Bond

December 4, 2015

So sorry for the lost of a truly remarkable human being. He touched so many people, probably more than he knew. RIP, Mark.

December 3, 2015

Sorry, for the sorrow you and family must be feeling now, but find comfort in the promise of God at Issiah 25:8 Cm Wis

Mary B

December 3, 2015

Mark-
I unfortunately will be unable to make your memorial at Rhodes, but oddly I think that it wouldn't matter to you. You were my best and favorite professor, an awesome friend, and a completely selfless man. You have taught me a lot, and I hope to carry just a small piece of your wit, intelligence, and kindness into my own teaching career. You changed my life. You changed the world. Thank you.

John FINCHER

December 3, 2015

when he walked into a room a 1000 watt light bulb turned on.
a man of my heart. RIP.

DeAnna Akers

December 3, 2015

RIP

Marius van Rooyen

December 3, 2015

Mark Behr Memorial Celebration: Live YouTube Stream
The Memorial Celebration for Mark will be held in Houghton Johannesburg South Africa tomorrow, Friday 4 December 2015 at 11h00 local time.
A live stream will be available at the following URL: https://youtu.be/hJ-5j 80L4s on all device platforms
or simply go to YouTube, and search for: Mark Behr Memorial

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