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Paul Stelmack Obituary

Paul H. Stelmack SchenectadyPaul H. Stelmack, 56, of Fifth Ave. passed away on September 28, 2014. Born in Schenectady, he was the son of the late Loretta and Henry Stelmack. He was a graduate of Mont Pleasant High School and was employed by Lowe's in Niskayuna. Paul is also predeceased by his loving sister, Susan M. Stelmack. He is survived by several aunts, uncles and cousins. Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, October 8, at 1 p.m. in St. Adalbert Cemetery followed by interment. Contributions in Paul's memory may be made to a charity of one's choice.

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Published by The Daily Gazette Co. from Oct. 6 to Oct. 8, 2014.

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Sheila

November 2, 2014

Paul,
Fond memories of friendship and much laughter. Wishing strength and peace to your family.

October 8, 2014

Tuna, I miss you so much, hugs R.I.P. Love Toots

Renay Roe

October 8, 2014

Paul I was very heartbroken to find out what had happened to you and thought why does it always happen to the nicest and gentle people we only had known each other for almost 2 yrs from lowes but you were a great worker friend and great guy and you will be missed by many

Ann Wetsell

October 8, 2014

Paul- you helped me thru some bad times when my husband passed away. Thank you. You were a great friend to my sister and brother -in-law. May you rest in peace. God Bless

Ken Madej

October 8, 2014

Paul caught the garter at my wedding 32 years ago. Wish we had kept in touch. A really good guy, wish I could tell him that now. Nice to see so many friends at the cemetery.

Carol

October 8, 2014

Went to St. Adalberts with Paul. I'm so sorry to see his passing. May you have eternal peace with your family.

Rick Bumgarner

October 8, 2014

You're and nice, sweet guy Paul. You'll be missed by all you touched. Hope you're having the best time ever now.

October 7, 2014

To a great guy: All though it was years ago now, there are alot of memories of fun and good times.Always enjoyed being around Paul

Wayne Cooper
Troy,N.Y.

Carla Scofield

October 7, 2014

Forty years of memories of the farm,camping,fishing and just being together. My heart is broken. Miss you Stelmacks

Jean McCray

October 6, 2014

Paul...I worked with u at pj food service for almost 13 years and we grew to be family..we brought the new years in together with your sister and my sister one year..i will miss u and i love u ....ALWAYS.....

October 6, 2014

To the family, I am so sorry for now another. I use to spend many days at the house with Susan growing up and going to school with both. My condolences Deborah(DiSorbo) Morris

Karen Spencer

October 6, 2014

Forever in Our Hearts "Pollack"
Forever in Our Prayers

Scott, Karen & Aaron Spencer

Karen Spencer

October 6, 2014

My Dearest Paul,

I had already written you but never got to send it to you. Here are a "few" of my precious thoughts that will never be forgotten.
Having you in our lives is such a blessing. You, Mom & Sue took me right in as the girlfriend & wife of your best friend. The holiday dinners will go on with the "Polish sausage & Deviled eggs" at or table.
Choosing you as our son's Godfather was a no brainer. No on else can fill the shoes.
Only family members get to call me by my nickname. "KaKa" loves you ".
Oh my...the crazy fun we all had. They memories will always be remembered & told.
Rest in Peace until we meet again.
You will be so... missed

Forever in my thoughts
Karen (KaKa)

K

October 6, 2014

Paul it was a pleasure to have become friends with you this last year, just wish there was more time to smile together. Fly high my friend.

Scott Spencer

October 6, 2014

Paul;
Words can not express enough how much you will be Missed and all the good times will never be forgotten.

Paul Spencer

October 6, 2014

I knew Paul through his sister and mother. He was a devoted brother and son.

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