Search by Name

Search by Name

Margaret SILLS-CARTER Obituary

HAMPTON - Margaret Doles Sills-Carter slipped peacefully into eternal rest on Tuesday, Jan. 5, 2010, at Newport News Nursing and Rehab.
Margaret was born on March 25, 1943, in Courtland, Va.
She was preceded in death by her father, Robert Doles; her mother, Ilean Doles and her brother, Robert (Huck) Doles.
She was a graduate of Huntington High School and attended Norfolk State. She retired from Newport News Public School System after 35 years of service.
She was married to Michael Sills and from this union they had two daughters.
She is survived by her husband, Kenneth Carter; two daughters, Arvis Abban (Abe), Dawna DuBose; two grandsons, Kevin McDonald II, Kwesi Abban; and a sister, Blanche Gillis.
In celebration of Margaret's life a Memorial Service will be held at 1 p.m. Jan. 16, 2010, at Sixth Mount Zion Baptist Temple, 3100 Butternut Drive, Hampton, VA 23666. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Daily Press from Jan. 8 to Jan. 15, 2010.

Memories and Condolences
for Margaret SILLS-CARTER

Not sure what to say?





Barbara Hicks

January 17, 2010

I am so sorry to learn about Margaret's death. When we lived in Hampton our family Freddie J. Hicks, Jr., (deceased) Carlton and Dawn and myself spent many weekends together with Margaret and Michael. Arvis and Dawn were just little ones and they were favorite playmates of Carlton and Dawn. Margaret would always braid Dawn's hair for me because I never could master a good braid. She was fun loving and always ready for an adventure. Please extend my condolences to your entire family.

Sarah Bond Brown

January 15, 2010

To the Sills-Carter family,
I first met Margaret when I was a very young 23 and teaching at Walter Reed Elementary School. She was very kind, helpful and friendly to me, one of three white people in the entire school. It is now 40 years later and I have probably seen her only a handful of times over the years, but I will always treasure the friendship she extended to me. May the memories of your wife and mother comfort you now.

January 15, 2010

Mrs. Sills was my sons favorite teacher. She had such a heart for children and seemed to know their needs. She will be missed. Our love and prayers are with the family now. Thank you Mrs. Sills for a job well done!

Connie Goode

January 15, 2010

We send you the deepest sympathy and our sincere prayers during this time of loss. I had the pleasure of meeting Margaret many years ago and enjoyed her joyful nature. May you find peace in knowing others care.

Barbara Newton

January 15, 2010

Kenny, Arvis and Dawn,

I have to be honest with you -- during a time like this, even though my shepherd says I shall not want, "I find myself wanting." "I find myself wanting the friendship of the one who's gone." Your wife, mother and my friend will be greatly missed but the memories will be cherished forever because they are priceless.

Marie Hamlin

January 14, 2010

Kenny, Arvis and Dawn, may those beautiful memories of your wife and mother bring you comfort in the time of sorrow. Margaret was loved by many and will be missed by all. I regret not having the opportunity to get to know her better after she married Kenny, who is my brother. I am happy to have the memories of our High School Days. May peace and happiness come to you in the future.

January 14, 2010

Kenny, Arvis and Dawn, may those beautiful memories of your wife and mother bring you comfort in the time of sorrow. Margaret was loved by many and will be missed by all. I regret not having the opportunity to get to know her better after she married Kenny, who is my brother. I am happy to have the memories of our High School Days. May peace and happiness come to you in the future.

Theronette Brown

January 14, 2010

I became acquainted with Margaret when I joined Twentieth Century Women's Club. I remember her as a very expressive person with a great sense of humor. I wish to express my heart felt sympathy to each family member. You are in my prayers.

January 14, 2010

Arvis,Dawn and Kenny, I am so sorry to hear of the death of Margaret. I hold fond memories of her and our good times in Buckroe, she was a strong as well as a loving woman and our family loved her so much. Keep strong, I know she's happy now and smiling down on all of us. Connie Brown

Joyce McAfee

January 14, 2010

OUR PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME. YOUR MOM AND I USE TO HANG IN SCHOOL. SHE WAS A WARM AND LOVING PERSON. I WILL MISS HER DEARLY. JOYCE GREEN MCAEE. KEE THE FAITH AND REMEMBER GOD IS ONLY A WOR AWAY. JOYCE G MCAFEE

January 14, 2010

Dawna, Arvis and Kenny!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

The Earley Family

Mark Warren

January 14, 2010

Kenny, Arvis, and Dawn Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief. Aunt Margaret will be truly missed.

Kelly Fullwood

January 14, 2010

Kenny, Arvis and Dawn,

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.

Billy & Cecelia White

January 13, 2010

Arvis, Dawn and Kenny,
Our hearts go out to you for your loss. Margaret was a great influence on our life and we will miss her. We go back to the Magruder Recreation days. Throughout the years we have shared some of our most memorable lifetime moments with her. Please know that Margaret touched many lives with her love, generosity, humor and spirit. May His promise of eternal life be a comfort to you in the loss of one so dear. She will be greatly missed.

Prayerfully,

Marlette McNeal-Mills

January 12, 2010

Dear Arvis and Dawn, I just want to send my deepest condolences to you and the rest of your family. I am so sorry to hear about your lost. Your mom; (Mrs. Sills to me was always as sweet as pie. ) I will always have fond memories of all the fun we had down at you guys house; playing school and putting on shows. We had a great childhood. Your guys are in my thoughts and prayers. Marlette McNeal-Mills from the Burgess Avenue family.

January 11, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear about you mom. You're in my prayers.

S. Brown

Lena Wilson-Brown & Family

January 11, 2010

To The Family:
I worked with Margaret many years ago at Drug Emporium, with her sister Blanche. They were great ladies to work with, and Margaret was a burst of laughter. Although I have not seen her in many years, I still remember her smile, and laughter that lit up the room.
May God strengthen, and watch over you at this time, in the loss of your loved one.

maxine williams

January 10, 2010

Hello Arvis and Dawn, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers go out to yall and your family at this time of need. God felt that he was missing a special angel and he found ha angel when he called on your mom. She is in a heavenly place where there is no sorrow only happiness and love. Always keep your fondess memeories close to your hearts and you will find peace in the lord to get you through this. Stay strong and look to each oher for guidance. You will need each other in these up coming times and days.

Love
Maxine Williams

Tanya Freeman

January 10, 2010

Arvis, Dawn, and Entire family. Please accept my deepest sympathy. I will always have fond memories of Mrs. Sills and how pretty she kept her two daughters looking in our Merrimack Elementary days. She was truly a blessing to everyone in the Buckroe Community. May God be with each and everyone of you that loved Mrs.Sills

January 9, 2010

Miss Margaret was Buckroe Food Lion legend who was always great fun to work alongside.A fine teacher as well.I'm proud to say that she seemed like a second mother to me,and that surely makes her one of a kind in my lifetime.God's care and peace to an extraordinary woman and her fine family. John H Bell (Danville,Va.)

Wanda Brown

January 9, 2010

Arvis , Dawn,an Mr. KENNY may god bless u. Thank u 4 sharing your mother with me.u r truelly blessed 2 have such a powerful woman as a mother.RIP MS. SILLS-CARTER

Wanda Brown

January 9, 2010

Arvis , Dawn,an Mr. KENNY may god bless u. Thank u 4 sharing your mother with me.u r truelly blessed 2 have such a powerful woman as a mother.RIP MS. SILLS-CARTER

Adrian Brown

January 9, 2010

Arvis,Dawn,there are no amount of words I can say to express my condolences because I`ve known your family just about all of my life.She will always be Mrs.Sills to me and she will always have a place in my heart.She was like a second Mom to me so I feel a loss too.Prayers and thoughts go out to the family!!!!

Carolane(Piggy) Marsh

January 9, 2010

Dawn/Arvis/Doles Family,
My prayers and my thoughts are with you all in your time of grief. Margaret was like family to me. The first wedding I attended was hers. Margaret was one of the sweetest people I had the pleasure of knowing. May God bless and keep your memories of her present and soothing, always.
Carol

LaVerne Ricks-Brown

January 9, 2010

Arvis and Dawn,
We are shocked to hear of Margaret's passing. The last time we saw her, she had that big smile and had us all laughing! Know that we will be keeping you both close in our hearts and prayers.
Your cousins,
LaVerne, Carl, Kwame, and Jamila

Cristina Gonzalez

January 8, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

January 8, 2010

Dawna and Arvis,
Prayers and thoughts of comfort for you two and rest of your family. Wanted to take the opportunity to try and lift your spirits...just think, Margaret and Huck are up there wreaking havoc together! :-) Love, encouragement, and support from Clayton, Pie and the Ashby family!

CLA

January 8, 2010

Dawn,
My condolences are with you and your family. I pray for your continued and encouraging strength during this time and always.

Vatricia

mary l. mcDonald

January 8, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Sarah Sudduth

January 8, 2010

I will always remember Margaret as a good friend. She always was friendly when I saw her and she attended the 50th anniversary party our children gave us in 2002. I have her gift in my china cabinet. She was always happy when we saw her.

Showing 1 - 30 of 30 results

Make a Donation
in Margaret SILLS-CARTER's name

Memorial Events
for Margaret SILLS-CARTER

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Margaret's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Margaret SILLS-CARTER's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more