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Nancy Brooks Obituary

SEAFORD - Nancy H. Brooks, a retired third-grade teacher of Seaford Elementary School from 1984 to 2001, died Wednesday, Oct. 21, 2009. She was 64.
Mrs. Brooks was Seaford's advisor to the Student Council Association (SCA) from 1989 to 1996. In 1996, the Virginia Student Councils Association recognized her as the Elementary Advisor of the Year for the entire state. In 1999, Seaford recognized her as teacher of the year.
Mrs. Brooks became a Seaford teacher while her own two children were students there. As part of a tradition that began at Seaford in the early 1980s and continues to this day, her classroom was assigned an alliterative nickname, Brooks' Braves, in orange block letters above her door.
During the 1985-86 school year, Mrs. Brooks directed a production of "Mary Poppins." Behind stage, she used the reel of a fishing pole to lift a cardboard replica of Poppins (and her umbrella) off into the canvas sky.
While SCA's advisor, Mrs. Brooks guided the student officers' initiatives to run weekly council meetings, plan dances and skating parties, and attend an SCA camp in the summer and state convention in the spring.
Mrs. Brooks loved her students. She was diagnosed with Parkinson's Disease around the same time she began teaching at Seaford, but kept her battle with its debilitating effects a secret until 1997. Although many told her that they already knew, she responded that she had been silent because she did not want to be held to a lower standard or treated as disabled. She continued teaching until Parkinson's made it impossible for her to do so, and retired in Fall 2000. A year and a half later, one of Mrs. Brooks' first students from 1985-86 filled her classroom slot; she teaches the third grade at Seaford to this day.
In retirement, Mrs. Brooks delighted in a monthly lunch gathering with other retired teachers, in reading novels, playing bridge, and in watching the birds and squirrels in her backyard.
Mrs. Brooks was a native of Charlotte and earned her teaching degree from Greensboro College, N.C., in 1967. Prior to coming to Seaford Elementary, she taught in various elementary schools in Virginia and North Carolina. She is survived by her husband, Thomas Brooks; her two children, Jennifer Brooks of Seaford, and David Brooks of Arlington; a brother, Bruce Harris of Florence, S.C.; and her father, Carl Harris of Charlotte, N.C.
Mrs. Brooks was preceded in death by her mother, Sarah R. Harris.
The family will receive friends from 7 to 8 p.m. Friday, Oct. 23, at Amory Funeral Home, Grafton. A funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, Oct. 24, at Crooks Memorial United Methodist Church. View and post condolences on our online guestbook at dailypress.com/guestbooks.

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Published by Daily Press from Oct. 22 to Oct. 24, 2009.

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Jermaine Hester

January 26, 2010

If there is one person that I owe my future academic success to, it would be Mrs.Brooks. At the time I was in 3rd grade, she felt I needed to do 3rd grade over again. While at the time I know I walked around being mad about that, Mrs. Brooks leaned over and said- I will be on you even harder next year :) That's just how she was- an amazing teacher who would stay on top of you until the task at hand was complete. She had this thing where she'd stand over top of you and give you the I'm watching you til this is finished look. All I can say is I would not be the teacher I am today without ever crossing paths with Mrs. Brooks. From the bottom of my heart to just hear she passed away a few months ago saddened me because not only did the family lose a great mom, wife, aunt, etc., but her colleagues and students lost a tireless worker and great friend. I will try the rest of my time as a teacher to work as hard as she did. Key word is try because I'll never match Mrs. Brooks' work ethic. Not sure anyone could!

Betsy Poulsen

October 28, 2009

October 28, 2009

Tom, Jennie, and David,

As you know, I had the privilege of serving as Nancy’s principal for 9 years (1990-1999). She was an extremely dedicated teacher who worked long hours to ensure that those extra details were taken care of to create a smooth, meaningful day. She was a both a kind and firm teacher who ensured her students knew she cared about them both as individuals and as students.

Nancy had a few projects she carried out annually like the reading of the book, Little House on the Big Prairie. She spent hours coordinating the culminating activity down to bringing in a fiddler, preparing bacon and flapjacks, and setting up games customary to that time. Of course Nancy looked like Laura Ingalls Wilder and all the students were dressed accordingly too.

I remember when coming on board at Seaford Elementary that Nancy was the first teacher to visit and offer her words of advice. She let me know, “The teachers in this school are very professional and everything is running well, so you really ought to take your cues from them. They can best tell you what to do.” And she was right.

When the onset of the Parkinson’s began to show, Nancy tried hard to hide it and to manage it. She wanted to continue to teach; it was so important to her. She was strong-willed, determined, and tenacious. She didn’t want to give it up.

I am grateful to have known Nancy. She was a model for all to follow. She was also most fortunate to have had such a caring and compassionate family.

Betsy (DeRousse) Poulsen

Christine Simmons

October 25, 2009

David and Family:
Lee and I share your sorrow for having lost such a dear mother and wife. For all the miles that have divided us over these past 11 years, it's amazing that we somehow were able to enjoy not just one but several visits with your mom. I always admired how gracious and welcoming she was to everyone. I'm sorry not to meet her again until I see her in Heaven.
Here is my prayer for you: May our God who is sovereign over all beginnings and all ends give you comfort and strength during these next weeks. May you be blessed with many joyful memories of the beautiful woman she was. May those memories sustain you and help you laugh through your tears. May the Lord work in you a blessing to Himself through this time. In the name of Jesus, let it be.
With love and sympathy,
Christine

October 24, 2009

TO NANCY: You left us with quiet dignity, grace, and strength -- just the way you lived your tortuous years with Parkinson's. Your poem in the pamphlet for the Funeral Visitation was to the point and so eloquent. I am only one of many people who has many happy memories of you -- "of happy times and laughing times/and bright and sunny days." My tears won't "dry before the sun," but I know how much better a person I am for having been your sister-in-law.
TO TOM, JENNIE, AND DAVID: You were the beloved husband and children of Nancy. I am certain that the love for each of you and the pride she had in each of you sustained her. Nancy's Christian faith and conviction somehow grew stronger as she grew weaker. Nancy was an inspiration to many, many people. I will treasure my happy memories of Nancy, and I pray that your pain will ease and that you will be able to successfully achieve your own goals and aspirations throughout the years to come. Bobby, Brent, Bonnie, and I love each of you so much!
-- Rieppe Brooks
Winter Springs, FL

Michael Nachman

October 24, 2009

I just wanted to let everybody in the family know that they are in my prayers. I'm thankful to have known Mrs. Brooks and will always remember her laugh, smile, and the way she cared about her students and children.

October 23, 2009

To the Brooks and Harris family..I send my most deepest sympathy.
For Carl & Bruce: My name is Pat Rogers Wayne. You may remember my mother Marguerite Cummings. She was a dear friend of you Carl and Sarah. She died several yrs. before Sarah. When Sarah died, it broke my heart. I remember, Carl, when you and Sarah moved to the Methodist Home. I also remember in such detail visiting Hawthorne Lane Church. I don't know the rest of the family, but I do extend my love to each and everyone of you..It's been so many, many yrs. ago since I had any contact with you Carl..so again my message is to let you know how sad it makes me to learn of Nancy's death.. If anyone wishes to contact me by [email protected].
I still live in Charlotte, N. C.
So may the Lord Bless You and give all of you peace during this sad time.
Love to all
Pat Rogers Wayne

Judy Shematek

October 23, 2009

I've known Nancy since before our children were born (her David and my Amber) only days apart. She was a wonderful person, always so kind and thoughtful. My grandaughter, Audrey, was fortunate enough to be in Nancy's class and always spoke highly of her time with her. My thoughts and prayers go out to Tom, Jennie and David. She will be missed by many.

October 23, 2009

I was at Seaford Elementary for my first year of teaching in 1997-98. I remember Nancy Brooks as a truly good person, so kind and so peaceful. With deepest sympathy and blessings to her family, Michelle Reisel

Gary Jones

October 23, 2009

My Love and Prayers go with you. May GOD open his arms to welcome home one of his finest creations. I can never repay the calm and understanding that you graced upon me during a crisis time in my life as a young boy. I will forever be indebted. Until we all meet again.
Love, your Mothers Day Flower Admirer

angie coxton

October 22, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Erika Wilson

October 22, 2009

I was in 3rd grade 16 years ago, and I still have the best memories of Mrs. Brooks. I remember being extremely excited when I got my teacher assignment in the mail from Seaford. She was an exceptional teacher and I consider myself lucky to have been one of her students. She was very supportive of everything I tackled in school - beyond the time I was in her classroom and through middle and high school. There aren't enough people, or teachers like her. She was such a caring individual and she will definitely be missed.

Susan (Lusk) Rhew

October 22, 2009

I have many fond memories of my teaching days with Nancy at Seaford Elementary. She was an exceptional educator who cared deeply about her students. I also remember our fun-filled after school gatherings at Nancy's house. Nancy was part of a group of teachers at Seaford that became lifetime friends.
My sincere condolences to Tom, David, and Jennie. Even though I have not seen you in awhile, Pauline keeps me updated on you. I look forward to seeing you later this week.

October 22, 2009

I have some of the best memories in her class when I was in third grade. I'm sure the entire Seaford staff will miss her!

Sheila and Jim Majka

October 22, 2009

Mrs. Brooks was a wonderful teacher, and we feel fortunate that our daughter Christina benefitted from her classroom experiences. Somewhere in a closet is the Yorktown monument project that Christina made 16 years ago for Mrs. Brooks :-); it even survived the wrath of Hurricane Isabel and the destruction of our home. We like to think that it is symbolic of Mrs. Brooks' courage, grace, and dedication to her Seaford Elementary School community. We will miss her.

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