David Charles Dickey

David Charles Dickey

David Dickey Obituary

Published by Daily Progress from Nov. 26 to Nov. 27, 2009.
David Charles Dickey

David Charles Dickey, 68, died at his home in Stanardsville on Tuesday, November 24, 2009, after a long struggle with lung disease.

He was born on March 11, 1941, in Detroit, Michigan, the eldest son of John Wakeman Dickey and Patricia Hope Dickey, and was followed by John Michael Dickey in 1942.

The family lived in Detroit, Pony Hollow, New York, Ridgewood, New Jersey, and Pine Glenn, Pennsylvania, before moving to Greenway Cottage in Esmont, Virginia, in 1960. He was particularly proud of making Eagle Scout and of founding with his brother the Rocky and Bullwinkle Fan Club as a teenager.

He graduated in 1959 from The Hill School in Pottstown, Pennsylvania, also the alma mater of his brother and his son. At The Hill School he developed a passion for wrestling, a belief in broad, classical education, and a love of victimless pranks. After several years studying engineering and competing as a wrestler at the University of Michigan, he worked as a court reporter and taught himself ancient Greek in Charlottesville. He then enrolled at St. John's College in Annapolis, Maryland. St. John's was an idyllic immersion into the great classics of western civilization that solidified his deep convictions about justice and freedom, and he responded by matriculating at the University of Virginia School of Law.

In 1970, he opened a solo practice in Stanardsville, which he continued until his retirement in 2009, serving as Commonwealth Attorney for the County of Greene from 1972 until 1984. His calling as a lawyer came to define his life, and he enjoyed nothing more than fighting for his clients in the courtroom. He loved learning, philosophy, local and national politics, University of Michigan football, and culture. He delighted in his Scottish heritage, science fiction, making omelets, hiking, the ocean, and games of skill. He was especially devoted to chess, working on gambits, spending long evenings at the chess table with visitors, and sharing his love of the game with his children and grandchildren. His long commitment to the Independent Order of Odd Fellows and its branches yielded among other honors the title of Past Grand Master of the State of Virginia.

He is survived by his former wife, Julia D. Dickey of Stanardsville and their four children, Thomas Edward Dickey of Richmond, Anne Winston Dickey and partner, Laura Hartman of Rock Island, Illinois, Sarah Kathleen Dickey of Stanardsville, and Rachel Perry Holderied and her husband, Anthony, of Lumberton, North Carolina; his brother, John Michael Dickey and his wife, Claire, of Elizabethtown, North Carolina; a grandson, Jackson Reese Wakeman Dickey of Richmond; and two granddaughters, Alder Elizabeth Dickey of Richmond and Avery Jordan Holderied of Lumberton.

He followed his father and mother John and Patricia Dickey of Stanardsville in death.

A graveside service will be held at the Stanardsville Cemetery 1 p.m. Saturday, November 28, 2009, with Grace Cangialosi.

Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice of the Piedmont, 675 Peter Jefferson Parkway, Suite 300, Charlottesville, VA 22911.


This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.

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July 11, 2010

Donna Day (Gomez) posted to the memorial.

December 24, 2009

Mark Warriner posted to the memorial.

December 22, 2009

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Donna Day (Gomez)

July 11, 2010

David was my first love and we shared four years together. He guided me through the death of my father, taught me all things as a parent would, and helped me grow with love. He once told someone we had been friends for over 50 years, and we were. We exchanged phone calls, emails, IMs, and visited at his home. We read together on-line and he continued to teach me with his amazing intellect and kindness. I still talk to him in my prayers every day and miss him so very, very much. My deep sympathy and prayers go to his brother Michael. May God give you strength Mike.

Mark Warriner

December 24, 2009

I would like to offer my sincerest condolences to Mr. Dickey's family and friends.

I only met Mr. Dickey once, over the chess board at the 1984 Virginia State Chess Closed Championship (first big tournament in which I participated). I knew that he had been a past President of the Virginia Chess Federation (1968-69). He knew that I was very nervous and was very kind and analyzed the game with me afterwards. I enjoyed meeting him. He helped me along the path to the enjoyment of chess as a lifetime hobby.

MARY PINTO

December 22, 2009

miss you mr dickey

December 9, 2009

I was lucky enough to know David for the past 10 years. I will miss having coffee with him every Thursday. It was a privilege to know him. He was kind, funny, and I'll miss him.

Michael Crosby

November 30, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with David's family during this difficult time.

Peggy Davis Williams
Chapin, SC

mary pinto

November 30, 2009

most wouderful man i ever met.miss you mr dickey.you will always be in my heart.

Barry Kean

November 30, 2009

David was a good friend, though we'd lost contact in recent y6ears, and he possessed one of the finest minds I've ever known. He will be missed. My prayers and thoughts are with his family.

November 29, 2009

I had the good fortune to meet David at the University of Virginia and am honored to count him as a friend. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Jack W. Brooks, Jr.

Waverly Parker, Jr.

November 29, 2009

David was a very gifted attorney, and a wonderful, humorous fellow. I will miss him. My thoughts and prayers go with him and with his family. May God guard him and give him peace.

Robbi Chisholm

November 29, 2009

No mere words ever really "help" at a time like this. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Blessed Be.

Virginia has lost one of her far too few truly honest and mind-blowingly able attorneys, whose shining intellect eclipses that of all other persons in my recollection. I have lost one of my few real friends, and deeply regret that I was not informed so that I could have attended the service and paid small but greatly deserved honour. David's help was invaluable to me on a number of difficult occasions; his friendship over the past more-than-50 years is something I shall always treasure.

Hey, Royal SmartPerson, if you're paying attention -- I miss ya, old son!

JANET FRYE

November 29, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

November 28, 2009

MY family and I are thinking of you,May God bless each of you' Ramona Eddins,Addison.Bill and James(Goo)

November 28, 2009

We extend to all the members of David's family our sympathy, compassion, and understanding at this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers will remain with all of you. Feel free to call on us if we can be of any assistance to the family. May God Bless All.

Dan and Amy Bouton

Lisa Shifflett

November 28, 2009

In the two years we were acquainted David taught me many things. We had long in depth conversations and I only wish I had the courage to visit him when he was on my mind weeks ago. God Bless you Mr. Dickey. God Bless your family.

steven shareff

November 27, 2009

God bless you David Steven Shareff

November 27, 2009

Your family is our thoughts and prayer at this time. Mr. Dickey was a very great man.

Jeffrey Hughes and Family

john and olimpia lucey

November 27, 2009

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Pedro Saavedra

November 27, 2009

David was my best man, one of my most frequent chess playing buddies, and otherwise one of my closest friends during my graduate school years. We even climbed Old Rag together and played what may have been the first speed chess game ever played at the summit. He was my predecessor as president of the Virginia Chess Federation, and we were active in the same political group at the University.

Over the years, as I moved away from central Virginia, our contacts dwindled and my visits to Stanardsville became less frequent. I had not seen him in the last two decades, though we had exchanged e-mails and a couple of telephone calls.

I have lost a dear friend. My condolences go to all his family. My prayers and those of my wife are with all of you.

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