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Stillman "Tim" Foote Westbrook, age 60, of Newark, DE, died on Tuesday, October 5, 2010, at his home.
Tim was born in Pittsburgh, PA, on October 7, 1949. He grew up in Delaware County, PA, graduated from the Episcopal Academy in Merion, PA, and Randolph-Macon College, in Ashland, VA, where he was a member of Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity. Tim later lived in North Carolina where he worked in local government and information technology for many years. He recently retired as information systems manager for New Castle County government in Delaware after over 15 years of service. Tim was a founder and leader of several professional groups throughout his career.
Tim relished a life of sailing, reading, political observation, hiking and of sharing his passion and knowledge of history with his family and others. He was a lifelong, active member of the Episcopal Church. Throughout his life within the Episcopal Church, he held numerous leadership positions at several parishes and dioceses, including as a member of the choir and of the vestry in which he held the position of senior warden multiple times. Most recently, he was a member of St. Thomas's Episcopal Parish in Newark, DE.
He was preceded in death by his father, Stillman F. Westbrook Jr. He is survived by his wife of 34 years, Catherine Luker Westbrook; daughters, Catherine E. Westbrook of Honey Brook, PA, Margaret L. Westbrook of West Chester, PA, and Jennie S. Westbrook of Washington DC; mother, Eugenia H. Westbrook of Newtown Square, PA; sister, Ellen E. Westbrook of Strafford, NH; mother-in-law, Mary Catherine Luker of Brewton, AL; brother-in-law, William Luker and his wife, Lisa, of Brewton, AL, and their children. Additionally, Tim is survived by a large extended family, including numerous aunts, uncles and cousins.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, October 16 at 3:30 p.m. at St. Thomas's Episcopal Parish, 276 S. College Avenue, Newark, DE. A visitation will be held prior to the service from 2:30 until 3:15 p.m. at the same location. A private burial in Hartford, CT, will take place at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, gifts in memory of Stillman "Tim" Westbrook may be given to The Appalachian Trail Conservancy (PO Box 807, Harper's Ferry, WV 25425, www.appalachiantrail.org) or directed to support Dr. John J. Laterra's research in neuro-oncology (Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center) www.hopkinsmedicine.org or checks payable to Johns Hopkins University, with a memo indicating a gift in memory of Tim mailed to Johns Hopkins Kimmel Cancer Center, 100 North Charles Street, Suite 234, Baltimore, MD, 21201).

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Published by The News Journal from Oct. 13 to Oct. 14, 2010.

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Ann Hill Williams

October 7, 2021

Tim was such a kind, loving nephew. I think of him often and miss his smile and presence in my life. He was such a devoted member of our family. With loving thoughts and memories, Ann

Cheryl Gallan

October 7, 2020

Tim was a truly wonderful man. I remember sailing many years ago with him and his family in New Bern NC where all of us were awed by seeing a double rainbow! Tim drew positivity and sometimes magic to those around him. I always smile when I think of him. I fantasize that he would have been a perfect friend for Bill Bryon! It's easy for me to picture them telling stories to each other in a British pub. Rest easy, Tim.

Dick French

October 7, 2020

I went to our 50th high school reunion in 2017 -- Tim's classmates and I shared stories of those we had lost, and I had a chance to share several stories about Tim that others had not heard. Everyone remembered him as a kind, generous, and very positive influence on our class, and we miss him.

cheryl gallan

August 6, 2011

I am so sorry to learn of Tim's passing and send my love and thoughts to everyone. You may remember me as Cheryl Wright....

Laura Harless

October 14, 2010

Aunt Gigi, Ellen, Jennie, Margaret and Kate.....I have no words to bring comfort to your sorrow. Your family will always hold a special place in my heart. I will never forget the summers at the lake when your family thought nothing of embracing Joshua, Jennifer and myself as an extension of your own. As years go by, we all allow life to get in the way of building upon the respect and love family members feel for each other. Please know that Tim will always hold a special place in my memory and in my heart. Prayers and peace to Tim as he joins my Dad and my Son in Heaven.

Dick French

October 13, 2010

I was a classmate of Tim's in high school, and I remember him well as a kind and generous friend. We sang together in the glee club and I never heard a complaint, criticism, or unkind word from him. I learned the word 'vexillology' from him - he was madly interested in flags at the time - and he had a full-blown enthusiasm and curiosity about the world. Thanks for your friendship, Tim.

October 11, 2010

Our nephew, Tim, will always be remembered as a caring, family oriented person. His passion for the family's ancestory will live on forever. We will miss you, Tim. Love and peace, Aunt Ann

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