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David Fess Obituary

Fess, David J.

Mendon: Passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on December 27th, 2013 at the age of 69. He was predeceased by his mother, Evelyn Fess. He is survived by his son, Timothy Fess; significant other, Sally Parsons; daughter-in-law, Annette Fess; and grandson, Wyatt Fess.

Family and friends are invited to celebrate David's life on Sat., January 4th at 1:00pm at the American Legion Post 282, 2475 State Route 65, Bloomfield NY 14469. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Legion. Rochester Memorial Chapel.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Dec. 29, 2013.

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deb williams

January 9, 2014

"There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship." - Thomas Aquinas quotes ... I just heard about Dave's passing. He was very kind to me My memories of Dave are so full of life & fun. My heart aches for Sally, Tim & Annette ... aww he was so proud of little Wyatt. hope you find comfort with all the friends Dave made in his lifetime. he was a good friend. hugs, deb & the kids

Roberta Dickson ( Pye)

January 4, 2014

David, will be missed and always there will be a special place in my memories for him

Holly Gears

January 3, 2014

He was a great guy and will be missed...

Lee Loomis

January 3, 2014

Dear Fess Family,

On behalf of the RG&E Armed Forces Club, please accept our condolences and the thanks of a grateful nation for David's service to his country.

He was a hard worker, respected by everyone and a good friend to all who knew him.

Sincerely,

Lee M. Loomis, Chaplain

Dick & Joanne

January 2, 2014

Miss the laughs,the opinions, the stuff. No more dinner on the deck, boat rides and winter visits.Dave knew lots of people, remembered their names and made many of them feel like THEY were his best friend. Sorry he left so early.

Allan/Suzie Fraser

January 2, 2014

Friendship is a precious commodity and so it was with Dave – over 45 years. Where did the time go? He was an amazing individual and it was an honor to know him. Farewell dear friend, farewell. To Tim, Annette, Sally, and Wyatt, we know David loved you all very much. We send our deepest condolences to you on your loss.

January 2, 2014

Dave was a great member of #28 schools class of 1958. He was always in the middle of the fun.
Janis Saydak Kier

Eugene Goff

January 1, 2014

We will miss Dave very very much. He was always a joy to be around and everyone always had so much fun being with him, Sally, and Tim.

James Hable

December 31, 2013

Tim Your dad and I went to grade school together. I am saddened to learn about his death. He was very proud that you were his son and he loved you so much

Cor Lubberts

December 30, 2013

Saddened to hear of Dave's passing. We grew up pretty much on the same block. Lost touch after a stint in the service. Condolences to family. Godspeed.....

Herb,and Roxann Babcock

December 30, 2013

We will always remember the laughter and the good times on his deck at the lake.He will sadly be missed by all. Our deepest sympathy to Tim,and Sally...

December 30, 2013

I knew Dave for over 50 years and always had a great time when we were together lots of fun. He will be missed by many Paul & Janet Smith

Bianca Gauthier

December 30, 2013

I am very sorry to hear of Dave's passing. He was such a cool guy with a great sense of humor. He will be sadly missed. Many prayers to his family and friends.

December 30, 2013

We were shocked to learn of Dave's passing. I will miss walking by and stopping for good conversation and hearing about what he bought that week at the sales he and Sally went to. Thanks for the memories! Renee and Bob Babcock.

December 30, 2013

Perhaps they are not stars, but rather openings where the love of our lost one pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. Our deepest sympathy to Tim and his family and Sally, love sue and wayne lampi

Beef and Peg

December 30, 2013

Our thoughts, prayers and memories are with the family. Dave will be greatly missed!

Greg George

December 30, 2013

I worked for Dave in the gas engineering department for RG&E at the Operations Center on Jefferson Rd. He was a very intelligent, good person.

Ray Povio

December 29, 2013

Sad to hear of Dave's passing. Many fond memories of Dave at the lake. Rest in peace Dave, you will be missed.

Ken/Kathy Friedrich/Meacham

December 29, 2013

Shocked and saddened to hear of Dave's passing. We have many fond memories from the lake. Our prayers go out to all.

Dave is in the center - Charlie is on the right

Charlie Worbois

December 29, 2013

My sympathy to Dave's family and Sally. It has been an honor to have Dave as a life long friend. It brought me much joy to spend time reminiscing about the good old days and the many childhood friends we shared. He will be sadly missed but hope we will be together again. Thanks for the memories my friend...

Bill and Barb Krellner

December 29, 2013

We are so sorry and shocked to hear of the passing of Dave. I'm sure he is at peace and free of pain at this time. I will greatly miss the many conversations and the friendship we built at the lake. My deepest sympathies to Timmy and Sally and the rest of your family. Sincerely,

Bryant & Michele Griffin

December 29, 2013

Summers at the Lake won't be the same without David.

Cathy Wesley

December 29, 2013

I am so very sorry for your loss. He will be missed dearly, expecially during yard sale season.

Pat Wall

December 29, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Dave's passing. I am sure he is at peace now and free from pain. Dave had many interests and was knowledgeable about a wide variety of topics. He will be missed by all especially by his family and my sister Sally. Rest in peace Dave.

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