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Stephen Welti Barlow finished the final chapter of his mortal experience July 26, 2013. Though we hoped there would be more chapters, we realize the quality of his existence exceeded the quantity of his time. Steve's life was written in spectacular color, from his discovery of hot rods as a teenager in Bountiful to his century bike rides as a "senior citizen". His beautiful blonde hair and his welcoming smile never dimmed. Steve never got tired of looking at or talking about the speed and style of automobiles. He tried to own as many makes and models of cars as was modestly possible. He enjoyed biographies, traveling, biking, boating, motorcycles, skiing and sunset rides on Lake Powell.
Much of Steve's life story was written with his best friend and eternal companion, Marcy Ence Barlow. Their journey together began in 1967 just before Steve received a B.S. at Weber State University and an MBA at the University of Utah. He was an honorable, devoted husband, a beloved father and a playful, active grandpa.
Though he had a love for history and biology, he had a remarkable head for business. As an adviser with Northwestern Mutual, he was a leader; he received accolades and awards in his industry including being a lifetime member of the MDRT. Steve was known for his fair treatment of colleagues and clients and he valued taking part in the various organizations of his profession.
Steve loved the gospel of Jesus Christ and he lived rather than preached his testimony. The pages of his life are full of acts of service. He served missions to New Zealand and the Salt Lake City Inner City and he held many church positions. He was a valued support to several community charities and predictably stopped to offer assistance to those stranded on the highway. He treated all people with the same respect and dignity.
Steve was an exceptional father and much of his time and resources were spent on his seven children. His children thank him for his good name and for the life lessons he taught by example: respect others, serve unconditionally, face challenges with courage, be generous, take pride in ownership, be friendly to everyone, work before you play and don't spend more than you earn!! Dad, as your family, we assure you that your generous heart, your integrity and your desire to serve will continue through us.
Steve is preceded in death by his father LaMar L. Barlow.
He is survived by his wife Marcy, his mother Thelma Welti Barlow, his children Brett (Mariah Pallo), Brooke (Jeffrey) Lewis, Jeremy (Lisa Condie), Liza (Tom) Telford, Emily (Jake) Redd, Jake (Jamie Hawkins), Julianna (Christian) Barney, and his twenty grandchildren, his brothers Walt (Claudette), Bruce (Emily), Philip (Debe) Allen (Cheri), John and sisters Kathryn (Gary) Helgesen and Marianne (Mike Lopez) and loving inlaws from the Condie, Ence and Johnsen families and many treasured nieces and nephews.
Family and friends may greet the family at the Somerset Chapel, 1885 Summerwood Drive, Farmington, UT on Tuesday, July 30, 6-8 p.m. Services will be held at the LDS Stake Center on 729 Shepard Lane, Farmington, UT on Wednesday, July 31 at 11 a.m. Family and friends may greet the family on Wednesday, July 31 from 9:30-10:30 a.m.
Interment at the Farmington Cemetery.
Services entrusted to Lindquist Kaysville Mortuary, 400 North Main Street.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the Church Perpetual Education Fund.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Barlow
Robert Dodge
July 21, 2020
Stephen was a fine individual. We pursued the same business and very seldom crossed paths except for luncheons a the Hotel Utah. He is an example for all to follow. Goodbye dear friend. Robert Dodge
Cindy Ortolani
August 23, 2013
I just wanted to express my deepest sympathies to your family. I just heard about Steve's passing last night at the temple. My husband and I worked with him there and adored him. I called him Robert Redford for a time. I thought he looked like Mr Redford. From that we developed a friendship. What a great man. I will truly miss him.
August 7, 2013
I will miss your smile from former 21 ward member
We spent a lot good of times together Steve.
Rulon Cushing
August 3, 2013
August 3, 2013
Marcy, you probably don't remember me but you and I were such good friends when you worked in the Clerk's Office and I worked for the District Attorney's Office all those years ago. You were just a doll and I've never forgotten you or our friendship. I was so sorry to see that your Steve had passed away at such a young age. Now that I am older, I think 70 is quite young. Please know that I am thinking of you at this time. Feel a hug old friend, Cindy
August 2, 2013
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Richard and Kim Condie
August 2, 2013
Dear Marcy and family, Our hearts are breaking with yours. We love Steve. We love you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Steve left a magnificent legacy of love, faith, service, and example. We are all better because he came into our lives. Much love.
Jim Babcock
July 31, 2013
How grateful I am to have known Steve, beginning over 50 years ago in New Zealand. A genuine, true and trusted friend. Arohanui ehoa.......
July 31, 2013
My Dear Sweet "Family",
I was shocked to learn of Steve's passing. Marcy, you know how much I love your family. I have no words that can convey how honored I was to be a small part of what you & Steve created. Please know that my heart is so sad right now, but he is looking down and watching all the people he so generously influenced and the most wonderful family that I know. I love you all, Kara Pinell
Matt and Julie Nelson
July 30, 2013
Marcy, We are thinking of you during this extremely difficult week. You and your clan are some of our very favorite people and we hope only the best for you. Much love.
Don Magleby
July 30, 2013
Marcy and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss.
John Hewlett
July 30, 2013
I was so touched reading about the passing of my colleague of several decades ago. I have wonderful memories and intense admiration for the many wonderful qualities and character of Steve. I will always be grateful for his example, kindness, and influence on a young insurance agent who had the privilege of sharing his workspace for 5 years. Love to Marcy and the family.
Shannon Day
July 30, 2013
Steve always smiling and so great at making people feel special when he entered the room and greeted them. Steve's spirit and joy radiated from his smile. He was wonderful dad, as he raised such kind, generous and friendly kids. I have so many memories growing up as a friend at the Barlow house and the spirit there was strong, as Steve was obviously a humble patriarch of his family. Thoughts and prayers to your whole family!
Sonya & Matt Hansen
July 30, 2013
Marcy,
You two were the first people we had the pleasure of meeting when we moved into your circle. You were traveling in your motorhome, excited about your recent trip and glowed with unity. Matt was thrilled to have someone around who loved to talk shop. We have mentioned several times that we hope to be a couple like you... fabulous friends, active, kind, always laughing, generous and an example of sincere sweet love. We greatly admire you both and are the lucky ones to live nearby. Our thoughts, love and prayers go out to your family. Steve will be so missed.
Beckie Rock
July 30, 2013
It breaks my heart to know that happy smile is no longer here for us to enjoy. Steve was a wonderful man. The only comfort I get is that he and Rob are now rejoicing their new spiritual freedom from earthly bodies. Rob loved his Barlow cousins and their annual Thanksgivings together as young boys and their adventures together. Much love to your family.
July 30, 2013
I'm sorry for your loss. May God give you and your family peace in your time of sorrow.
Ms Porter
JJ Shaw
July 30, 2013
Barlow Family,
I was so sad to hear of Steve's passing. It's been many years since I've seen Steve or most of the family but I will never forget how generous and caring he was to me and the great example he set as a Father. Our prayers are with you.
July 30, 2013
My deepest sympathy to you. Steve's life made such a huge difference in so many lives. He will be remembered for his friendships and the legacies he created through his great care, his patience, his love and planning. He mentored so many, lifted up others, encouraged and inspired. Steve was truly a remarkable being, full of life, so kind and so positive about everything; a person who turned the spirit of God's Love into living action. May you find comfort in knowing Steve lives on in so many ways.
With heartfelt condolences,
Sincerely,
John Johnson
Robert Dodge
July 30, 2013
The Barlow Family,
Steve is one of the finest people I have know in this big world. I have been blessed with the friendship of many fine people and feel it a privilege to have known Steve.
Steve conducted the operation of his insurance business in an unquestionable manner.
I visited with Steve on a few occasions in the past year and learned of his appreciation for fine things like his Mercedes sports car. However, his interests will turn to more heavenly things as he dwells in the hereafter with the best of spirits that have inhabited this earth.
My best wishes to his family whom will have only the best of memories of this great human.
May his family be blessed with the best of health, happiness and prosperity.
Robert M. Dodge, CLU
Rich and Tammy Watts
July 30, 2013
Dear Brooke and family,
Our hearts are with you at this difficult time. We love your family so much! You are all so special and such dear friends. When we think of all of you we think of laughter, happiness and unity. You are in our prayers. With much love and sympathy, Rich and Tammy
Liz Brough
July 30, 2013
Uncle Steve was always very kind and generous to me growing up. I have so many memories of him at the steering wheel of his boat on family vacations when he would patiently give tips on water skiing! He and Marcy opened up their home in St. George to our little family and always made us feel so welcome to stay there. I loved sleeping over at their home growing up and being around the loving family they created together. He will be missed.
July 30, 2013
Marcy we were so sad to learn of Steve's passing. He was such a kind, positive person. The two of you were an amazing couple. We are out of town this week,but know our thouhgts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
Keith and Carol Wallace
July 30, 2013
Stephen Barlow is one of the most kind, patient and insightful persons we have ever known. What a blessing to have had his influence in our lives.
Glenn & Marilyn Goodrich
July 30, 2013
Marci and Family,
Debbie and I officed next to Steve for the past 15 years. He was always interested in us and our family and treated us with kindness and respect. We will miss him.
Carl and Debbie Gallup
John & Linda Hoffman
July 30, 2013
Marci, we miss Steve, as he was an important part of both our lives. We love you. We pray for you. We know you will continue to be the force and strength you've always been in your family until you and Steve are reunited. You've had a tough battle. Please know that we greatly admire your efforts. We hope to see you soon.
Mary Ann (Ensign) Gilchrist
July 30, 2013
Sincere sympathy in this time of loss. I hope your joyful memories of cherished moments will ease the pain of loss for those who were blessed to know him well. Our prayers are with you. Best Wishes, Mary Ann (Ensign) Gilchrist
July 30, 2013
Sincere sympathy in this time of loss. I hope your joyful memories of cherished moments will ease the pain of loss for those who were blessed to know him well. Our prayers are with you. Best Wishes, Mary Ann (Ensign) Gilchrist
Jim & Karen Talbot
July 29, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, Marci, and to all of your terrific family. Steve was always so good to our kids growing up, and they will, along with us, cherish those memories beyond this life. He really did make everyone around him seem like they were his best friend. We will miss his friendly hello and his wonderful smile.
Nancy Rodgers Campbell
July 29, 2013
Our old gang from the Bountiful 3rd ward will miss your smiling face. "Happy Trails" from those of us that are left to carry on the work.
Nancy Rodgers Campbell
July 29, 2013
Dearest Barlows
What a wonderful man and a tremendous loss. Sending love and light your way.
Molly Prentice
Ruthann Waldoch
July 29, 2013
Dear Marcy, I remember your sweet family from the 21st Ward. Your sweetheart was the best kind of Bishop to all he served. I know how much the young teens thought of him and how his spirit helped them. Donald Dean, my son and his friends had many conversations of the help and understanding he gave to them. He will be missed, but rest assured, he will always be close by. Wishing you many blessings thru your life to come for
you and your family.
Sincerely Ruthann Waldoch
July 29, 2013
Please know my thought and prayers are with you during this most difficult time, much love
Marianne Burdett Rickbaugh
Ann Rusch
July 29, 2013
What a wonderful man and a great example of service. He will truly be missed.
July 29, 2013
Dear Barlow Family,
My experiences with Bishop Barlow and Sister Barlow were during my college years. I remember visiting their home and admiring their chiming clocks. They were such an example to the young people of the 21st Ward. Their love for each other was amazing to watch. They lived their love, which was a powerful lesson for me during those formative years in my life. A smile was ever on his face. He influenced many in his life.
Marguerite Emmer
Mike and Shauna Robbins
July 29, 2013
Dear Marcy and family,
We are saddened by your loss and have been thinking of you all this week. We love your family and are grateful to have known your beloved Steve for as long as we have. Please know your thoughts and prayers are with you as you celebrate a wonderful father and husband and a life so well lived. Our love, Mike and Shauna Robbins
Howard & Ellen Holt
July 29, 2013
Dear Marcy, We are so blessed to know you & Steve. We appreciate the example of selfless service and righteous living you both live. Steve and his beautiful smile and concern for others will be greatly missed in our neighborhood. May love, peace and comfort be with you and your family in the months ahead. We love you.
Bruce Reading
July 29, 2013
He will be missed...my condolences to your family
Krystal Davis
July 29, 2013
A very giving and loving man whose family has forever affected my life for the better!
Nina( Woodbury) & Russ Booth
July 29, 2013
Marcy, So sorry to read of the(temporary)loss of your worthy partner. I have felt you(two)were among the finest folks on the planet. Russ held Steve in highest regard. Prayers for you from a Skyline Hi friend.
Leslie Bailey Garff
July 29, 2013
Dear Marcy and Family:
What a wonderfully written tribute to a life well lived. I've thought of all of you often during this difficult time of Steve's illness. It is comforting and brings peace to know where Steve is and that he's free from pain. However, his absence will be always felt. The happy and sacred memories of a strong patriarch are a legacy of love that will always remain. My children and I send all our love and sympathy.
Brian Bailey
July 29, 2013
Steve helped me see as a college intern what was possible in my career with Northwestern! He always greeted me as if we had seen each other within the last few days and yet we lived hundreds of miles apart.
I will forever be grateful for my friendship with him!
July 29, 2013
Dear Barlow Family,
We in the Graduate Medical Education Office at University of Utah Hospital knew Steve for many, many years in a professional capacity. Steve had a way of going beyond "professional" and became our very good friend. We knew him to be warm, caring, and generous, and always interested in each individual staff member in our office. We will miss Steve very, very much. Our warmest thoughts are with all of his family members.
From the staff of the GME Office--Alan Smith, Chris Springman, Anne Vinsel, Sharee Bracken, Breanna Stoll, Renn Butterfield, Ronnie Koon, Melanie Powell, and Kyle Wheeler.
Jesse and Elisabeth Theurer
July 29, 2013
My heart goes out to the Barlow family at this time of loss. As you well know Steve set a great example of fairness in business and love of people. His dedication to family and the Gospel of Christ continues to be a positive influence in my life for which I am most grateful. Our prayers and thoughts are with you Marcy and with your family.
July 29, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Reading the words of the Obituary tells me how loved and loving Stephen was. I am sure that love will never pass! God Bless You!
Bart Spencer
July 29, 2013
Jeremy and Jeff and rest of family, Please accept my condolences in the loss of your father and mentor. What a great heritage you and your children enjoy. My you be comforted in knowing the goodness of this exampilary man.
Barbara Mulder Thompson
July 29, 2013
Marcy I am so sorry for your loss.
Dennis McCarthy
July 29, 2013
I am so sorry to hear that Steve has passed away. I have many fond memories as a teenager from the 21st Ward. I remember washing Steve's Firebird and he trusted me enough to let me take it for a couple of hours. He is a great example to us all and will be missed.
Steve and Patricia Andersen
July 29, 2013
Steve has gone beyond the veil early and we all will miss him. He leaves behind a earthly journey filled with with kindness and service. We are all blessed by his smile and enthusiasm to just do good. The Heavenly ranks have increased by one worthy husband, father and righteous priesthood man.
He now looks at us from beyond the veil and prays for all of our safe journeys home.
God be with you 'til we meet again.
July 29, 2013
Steve is a role model for all of us. His gentle style is an inspiration. He has had a geometric impact for good and no one can do better than that. It was an honor to know him and to be a small part of Team Barlow.
As his son, Jeremy has said, "a life without regrets," which is pure poetry and a perfect reflection of this wonderful man.
Tom Schenkenberg
July 29, 2013
Dear Barlow Family, We were so sorry to learn of Steve's passing. He has been a dear friend and a living example of Christ's pure love. Our service together at the Bountiful Temple and our long lasting association in the Bountiful 16th Ward and beyond have given us cherished memories. Bob and Carol Weddington, Nauvoo Temple Missionaries.
Ron & Tonya Ence and Family
July 28, 2013
Steve is our hero of service and unconditional love. We will miss his smile and fun sense of humor. Our love to Marcy, children and darling grandchildren.
Braden Bell
July 28, 2013
Dear Barlow Family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Bro. Barlow was a significant influence on me when I was a boy. He radiated such a positive, good influence that I noticed him at Stake events and he really left a mark on me, helping me decide on who I wanted to be. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Roland & Debbi (Barlow) Radack
July 28, 2013
Emily, our condolences to you and all your family on the passing of your dad. It sounds like he was a good man. Please give our love to your mom and Aunt Thlema.
Bert Robison
July 28, 2013
Dear friend Steve, great example of lasting friendship, miss you love you!
Kathy Sorte
July 28, 2013
Our acquaintance with Steve was brief, but so impactful in our lives. We feel honored and privileged to have known Steve through our service in the Inner City Mission. God bless you, Marcy.
Glenn and Kathy Sorte
July 28, 2013
I'm so thankful I was privileged to have felt the friendship of brother Steve. My brief acquaintance with the family through video taping several weddings helped me see first hand the love that is shared by each member. He was such a kind and considerate fellow and an easy person to love. My deepest sympathy to Marcy and the whole family. Beautiful man beautiful memories.
July 28, 2013
Marcy, I will always be grateful for the many and constant kindnesses shown me and my family by the entire Barlow Family. We are sad at this moment and pray that love and comfort will bless the life of each member of your family as you all have blessed others in the past. Wes Turner
Jeff Johnsen
July 28, 2013
You could not have asked for an uncle more kind and friendly than Steve Barlow. I am his nephew, and I can speak for all 6 of my siblings, that we will always cherish our trips with his family. He had a way of always treating you like you were very important to him, like you were one of his own kids. He will be greatly missed by the Johnsen's and we are better for having known him.
Valerie Albrechtsen
July 28, 2013
What an amazing person Steve was and is. His life is a legacy of service and love for others. I will miss his sense of humor and beautiful smile. He must be very needed on the other side to leave his beautiful family at this time in his life. We love you Marcy, and will continue to pray for you!
Rob McMaster
July 27, 2013
Every conversation I had with Steve made me think and laugh and have more hope. I will miss those. I feel so lucky to have been his neighbor. Much love to Marcy and the Barlow family.
Kimberly Gutierrez
July 27, 2013
Bishop Barlow is how I will always think of him. He was such an influence for good in my life. He made me believe that the gospel was the best way to live. His dedication to the gospel and his loving way changed my life for the better. I truly loved him, and will forever be grateful that he was part of my life.
Mike Bullard
July 27, 2013
Steve was a great example to me as a youth growing up in Somerset. Always smiling, ever honest. My heart goes out to the entire Barlow family. He will be greatly missed.
Craig Davies
July 27, 2013
I consider it my good fortune to have had the blessing of knowing Steve and his entire family. Steve's smile could light up any room he walked into, and his personal greetings and one-on-one conversations that followed were equally as bright and enjoyable. Thank you Steve for the legacy and memories you have left each of us!
Dwight Williams
July 27, 2013
It was a privilege to have known Steve for nearly 6 decades. He was a man of integrity and professional excellence. Steve and I worked on some estate planning cases together several years ago, and I was impressed to observe how he always put the client's interest first.
Heartfelt condolences to the Barlow family!
Katy and Rand Ryser
July 27, 2013
Thank you Barlows, for your service in the Inner City Project. Your talent at teaching English blessed many lives. It was incredible to observe Steve serving as long as possible - a true missionary!
Kathryn Minson
July 27, 2013
Dear Marcy,
I never had the privilege of meeting your fine husband (that I remember), but I have heard so many wonderful things about him over the years. I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that the peace of the Comforter will be upon you and your family, along with the knowledge that this is only a temporary separation.
My memories of you, Marcy, go back many, many years. I send you my love,
Kathy Parr Minson
Jeannie Jex Erickson
July 27, 2013
Bishop Barlow-yours and Marcy's influence during my critical teen years greatly impacted the quality of my adult life. Your life was a model of Christlike service and love.
Doug & Vickie Macdonald
July 27, 2013
Thank you for your unwavering generosity, support and happy smile, Steve. You will be greatly missed in our neighborhood.
Rulon Cushing
July 27, 2013
Good by good Friend. I remeember going to Court (for racing his NEW Hot Rod at the Jr. High 1960) to testify for you on Seinor Sluff Day, I would not have do that for anyone else. Rulon
Brent Manwaring
July 27, 2013
My sincerest condolences to Marcy and family. We all loved Steve very much and will miss him.
Kim and Cheryl Johansen
July 26, 2013
We love you Steve. It's been an honor being friends with you. Thank you for your love, friendship and all the help you've been to us over the years. We cherish our memories and are grateful there are so many. Our hearts, prayers and love are with you and your beautiful family Marcy. We love you!
Amy Stowe
July 26, 2013
Steve was such a wonderful man. A great friend, father and husband. Thinking of you Marcy. Much love...
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