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Fredericka Deena
January 10, 2015
Marilyn
God Bless and keep you during this moment. Lance was a great man who impacted many. I am honored to have known such a man.
January 10, 2015
Dearest Friend and CWU Sister Marilyn, My heart's desire is to be with you today, but, circumstances dictate otherwise. My Husband Alden joins me in remembering Lance, “The Gentle Giant” for the hungry, Homeless and margin zed. His life was in-tuned with Dr. M.L. King's infamous words: “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere”. The CWU Movement during my presidency knew that Lance had our backs. He and Marilyn were two peas in the pod on issues that we fought for that affected women and Children. On this day of remembrance and “Tall Tales” know that a champion for peace is laid to rest but the lives he touched live on to continue his legacy. With warmest regards to his Family, Janet and Alden T. Coleman
Marysue Huckabee
December 22, 2014
Our love goes out to all the family as we remember with such joy the fun times shared between the Wilcox and Shreffler families. Our dads are having such a wonderful reunion!
Craig Whitaker
December 20, 2014
A wonderful teacher and a wonderful man
Bob Fitrakis
December 19, 2014
A relentless and tireless peace advocate and he had a calming and peaceful effect wherever he went. He could also be counted on to stand up for social justice. God will say, Well done, my good and faithful servant.
December 19, 2014
In the 7th grade, Mr. S. asked us to look out the window (onto Arlington Av) and asked the class what we saw. All of our answers were different. He said, "You see that all of your answers are correct. Please remember that all of our visions were valid."
Susan Huhta UA '59
Betty Melragon
December 18, 2014
Lance's caring and creative hand guided many fresh Freshman faces at OSU, easing their adjustment to a sometimes confounding setting, and making those of us who worked with them more effective at the same time. What a legacy!
Lynn Hammond Carden
December 17, 2014
Being on Mr. Schreffler's debate team was the best training for adult life. He taught us how to think logically and hold our own. I have always felt indebted to him.
Lynn Hammond Carden
Class of '59
December 17, 2014
Shreff...7th grade speech teacher, high school debate etc:...enjoyed learning a lot from him. Thanks for your contributions to my life.
Bill Cuppy UA '59
Bob Stalter
December 17, 2014
One never knows when or how someone will affect another's life. Mr. Shreffler taught me at UA; something I've never forgotten, but always remembered. Blessings to all his family and thankfulness for the experience of knowing him.
December 17, 2014
Sophomores in his Speech class were amazed when they entered the classroom and saw their teacher standing on his head. You have to look at things from all different angles, he then explained. Thx Lance. Bill Pflaum, Clas of '59
Diane & Dave Selby
December 17, 2014
Dear Marilyn, we extend our deepest sympathy to you and the family. Mr. Shreffler was such an important part of my life - teaching me to "talk" and to reason with logic - what great memories I have of the UAHS Debate Team and winning the state meet! I shall always treasure his memory and the influence he had on so many lives.
Sue Allen
December 16, 2014
I often tell people that the class that has meant the most to my adult life was the speech class with "Mr. Shreffler." Later on, as "Lance," he was so nice to be around. Not many make the impact that he did. My sympathy, Marilyn
Joyce Richardson Canfield
December 16, 2014
Dear Marilyn, You and Shref contributed to the world. Many happy memories from my high school days. I am sharing this "Graduation" with the class worldwide.
December 15, 2014
Marilyn--
We've admired and loved Lance for many years, as fellow peace activists and seekers of justice. He was a gifted person. We will miss his gracious smile. Fellow travelers, Linda Musmeci Kimball and Jeffrey Kimball
December 15, 2014
Kris - So very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. You will be in my prayers as you process your grief. Fondly - Barb Enders
Bill Grant
December 15, 2014
Many good memories of Shreff assisting a new teacher to the
UA high school, ie 1962-1965. Always helpful in answering
my concerns about students who sought me out for advice.
Agnes and Bill
December 15, 2014
What a wonderful friend for more than 50 years. We loved him dearly and will miss him greatly. We have many delightful memories.
Pat Merkle
December 15, 2014
We are so sorry to hear of Lance's passing. He was a kind and energizing spirit in the neighborhood. Always involved in so many great causes. Extending love and support to Marilyn and her family.
December 15, 2014
A great teacher at Upper Arlington High School. Really dedicated--just a great guy.
Joy Daniels Schmitter--UA 1962
Robert Studzinski
December 15, 2014
A great and good man. Lance you will be missed and remembered.
Joseph Hook
December 15, 2014
One thing I learned from watching Lance, if you're going to raise "holy hell", have fun doing it.
Mary Hamilton
December 14, 2014
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Felicia Lemaster Martin
December 14, 2014
Many found memories of Lance.
Herb USMC
December 14, 2014
ONE of "THE"
Herb USMC
December 14, 2014
Herb USMC
December 14, 2014
European Theatre
Herb USMC
December 14, 2014
Herb Guyer-Sharfenaker USMC
December 14, 2014
God Bless/RIP,to ALL who served in WWII. The USA would NOT be as it is today. Thank YOU for your service in The United States Army,Lance. Semper Fi
Gene Cahall
December 13, 2014
Well done, good and faithful servant! I have many fond memories of Lance, his loving spirit, and his faithfulness. I offer my condolences and love to Marilyn & the family.
Debby Turoff
December 13, 2014
A beautiful life, very well lived, a true gentleman
Lance - Thanksgiving 2010
Mark Sandeen
December 13, 2014
Lance and his adoring family
Mark Sandeen
December 13, 2014
Lance, Marilyn, Lisa, Bruce & Kris - 50th Anniversary
Mark Sandeen
December 13, 2014
Lance was always up for a party
Mark Sandeen
December 13, 2014
Lance with the love of his life
Mark Sandeen
December 13, 2014
Lance & Marilyn on their 50th Anniversary
Mark Sandeen
December 13, 2014
Lance playing Blackout Bridge
Mark Sandeen
December 13, 2014
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