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Ned Shreffler Obituary

Shreffler Lance Shreffler - A Life Well Lived. Ned Lance Shreffler was born in Shelby, Ohio July 4, 1923 and passed quietly in Columbus, Ohio surrounded by family on December 11, 2014 at the age of 91. Family man, beloved teacher, peace activist, humanitarian, and friend, Lance Shreffler served in WWII with the Army Corps of Engineers in the European theater. Compassion, kindness and an extraordinary commitment to peace and social justice were legendary qualities exhibited throughout his life. Lance graduated from the College of Wooster in Ohio and later completed his Masters and PhD from Ohio State University. He and his wife, Marilyn lived in Clintonville for over 50 years. Lance taught at Upper Arlington High School (1952-1967) and then Ohio State University until 1979. He was a passionate drama director and debate coach at UAHS, fondly remembered by countless students for his unique ability to engage their emerging talents, such as outfitting his debate team in long trench coats, matching fedoras, and briefcases as a way of impressing the opposing teams. He also announced the UAHS football games and managed UA Pools during the summer. While at OSU, he was the Assistant Dean at University College responsible for Student Guidance and Counseling. Upon his retirement, Lance commenced his next career tirelessly working for peace and social justice. He was President of the Ohio SANE/Freeze movement. He traveled to the West Bank acting as a witness to the violence between Palestinians and Israelis. Many times his work with Pastors for Peace and Worldwide Humanitarian Aid included driving medical supplies to Central America. He was also a board member of Open Shelter and most recently was very active in The B.R.E.A.D. Organization. For over 60 years, Lance was a constant voice and member at Indianola Presbyterian Church. In 2001, the Columbus Metropolitan Area Church Council honored Lance with their Living Faith Award. In his words, "What a gift it is to be alive, to learn and know about love. This life that I have is only a beginning of what I will learn." Lance Shreffler is pre-deceased by his parents Robert and Ruth (Gadsby), his elder brothers Robert (Lolly) and Richard. He is survived by his wife and love of his life for 61 years, Marilyn (Schneider); his sister, Mary Mack; his children, Lisa Sandeen (Mark), Bruce Shreffler, and Kristina Goettler (David); eight grandchildren, many adoring nieces and nephews; and a community of cherished friends and former students. Celebration of life and memorial service will be held before spring. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made directly to B.R.E.A.D. or Indianola Presbyterian Church in Columbus.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Dec. 12 to Dec. 14, 2014.

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Fredericka Deena

January 10, 2015

Marilyn
God Bless and keep you during this moment. Lance was a great man who impacted many. I am honored to have known such a man.

January 10, 2015

Dearest Friend and CWU Sister Marilyn, My heart's desire is to be with you today, but, circumstances dictate otherwise. My Husband Alden joins me in remembering Lance, “The Gentle Giant” for the hungry, Homeless and margin zed. His life was in-tuned with Dr. M.L. King's infamous words: “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere”. The CWU Movement during my presidency knew that Lance had our backs. He and Marilyn were two peas in the pod on issues that we fought for that affected women and Children. On this day of remembrance and “Tall Tales” know that a champion for peace is laid to rest but the lives he touched live on to continue his legacy. With warmest regards to his Family, Janet and Alden T. Coleman

Marysue Huckabee

December 22, 2014

Our love goes out to all the family as we remember with such joy the fun times shared between the Wilcox and Shreffler families. Our dads are having such a wonderful reunion!

Craig Whitaker

December 20, 2014

A wonderful teacher and a wonderful man

Bob Fitrakis

December 19, 2014

A relentless and tireless peace advocate and he had a calming and peaceful effect wherever he went. He could also be counted on to stand up for social justice. God will say, Well done, my good and faithful servant.

December 19, 2014

In the 7th grade, Mr. S. asked us to look out the window (onto Arlington Av) and asked the class what we saw. All of our answers were different. He said, "You see that all of your answers are correct. Please remember that all of our visions were valid."
Susan Huhta UA '59

Betty Melragon

December 18, 2014

Lance's caring and creative hand guided many fresh Freshman faces at OSU, easing their adjustment to a sometimes confounding setting, and making those of us who worked with them more effective at the same time. What a legacy!

Lynn Hammond Carden

December 17, 2014

Being on Mr. Schreffler's debate team was the best training for adult life. He taught us how to think logically and hold our own. I have always felt indebted to him.
Lynn Hammond Carden
Class of '59

December 17, 2014

Shreff...7th grade speech teacher, high school debate etc:...enjoyed learning a lot from him. Thanks for your contributions to my life.
Bill Cuppy UA '59

Bob Stalter

December 17, 2014

One never knows when or how someone will affect another's life. Mr. Shreffler taught me at UA; something I've never forgotten, but always remembered. Blessings to all his family and thankfulness for the experience of knowing him.

December 17, 2014

Sophomores in his Speech class were amazed when they entered the classroom and saw their teacher standing on his head. You have to look at things from all different angles, he then explained. Thx Lance. Bill Pflaum, Clas of '59

Diane & Dave Selby

December 17, 2014

Dear Marilyn, we extend our deepest sympathy to you and the family. Mr. Shreffler was such an important part of my life - teaching me to "talk" and to reason with logic - what great memories I have of the UAHS Debate Team and winning the state meet! I shall always treasure his memory and the influence he had on so many lives.

Sue Allen

December 16, 2014

I often tell people that the class that has meant the most to my adult life was the speech class with "Mr. Shreffler." Later on, as "Lance," he was so nice to be around. Not many make the impact that he did. My sympathy, Marilyn

Joyce Richardson Canfield

December 16, 2014

Dear Marilyn, You and Shref contributed to the world. Many happy memories from my high school days. I am sharing this "Graduation" with the class worldwide.

December 15, 2014

Marilyn--
We've admired and loved Lance for many years, as fellow peace activists and seekers of justice. He was a gifted person. We will miss his gracious smile. Fellow travelers, Linda Musmeci Kimball and Jeffrey Kimball

December 15, 2014

Kris - So very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. You will be in my prayers as you process your grief. Fondly - Barb Enders

Bill Grant

December 15, 2014

Many good memories of Shreff assisting a new teacher to the
UA high school, ie 1962-1965. Always helpful in answering
my concerns about students who sought me out for advice.

Agnes and Bill

December 15, 2014

What a wonderful friend for more than 50 years. We loved him dearly and will miss him greatly. We have many delightful memories.

Pat Merkle

December 15, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of Lance's passing. He was a kind and energizing spirit in the neighborhood. Always involved in so many great causes. Extending love and support to Marilyn and her family.

December 15, 2014

A great teacher at Upper Arlington High School. Really dedicated--just a great guy.

Joy Daniels Schmitter--UA 1962

Robert Studzinski

December 15, 2014

A great and good man. Lance you will be missed and remembered.

Joseph Hook

December 15, 2014

One thing I learned from watching Lance, if you're going to raise "holy hell", have fun doing it.

Mary Hamilton

December 14, 2014

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Felicia Lemaster Martin

December 14, 2014

Many found memories of Lance.

Herb USMC

December 14, 2014

ONE of "THE"

Herb USMC

December 14, 2014

Herb USMC

December 14, 2014

European Theatre

Herb USMC

December 14, 2014

Herb Guyer-Sharfenaker USMC

December 14, 2014

God Bless/RIP,to ALL who served in WWII. The USA would NOT be as it is today. Thank YOU for your service in The United States Army,Lance. Semper Fi

Gene Cahall

December 13, 2014

Well done, good and faithful servant! I have many fond memories of Lance, his loving spirit, and his faithfulness. I offer my condolences and love to Marilyn & the family.

Debby Turoff

December 13, 2014

A beautiful life, very well lived, a true gentleman

Lance - Thanksgiving 2010

Mark Sandeen

December 13, 2014

Lance and his adoring family

Mark Sandeen

December 13, 2014

Lance, Marilyn, Lisa, Bruce & Kris - 50th Anniversary

Mark Sandeen

December 13, 2014

Lance was always up for a party

Mark Sandeen

December 13, 2014

Lance with the love of his life

Mark Sandeen

December 13, 2014

Lance & Marilyn on their 50th Anniversary

Mark Sandeen

December 13, 2014

Lance playing Blackout Bridge

Mark Sandeen

December 13, 2014

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