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Eugene Pate Obituary

Pate, Eugene A.
Eugene A. Pate, 54, of Old Greenwich passed away at Greenwich Hospital on January 9, 2014 with his loving family by his side, after a courageous battle with cancer. Eugene was born in New York City and moved to Greenwich in 1973 at the age of 14. He graduated from Greenwich High School in 1977, and attended West Liberty State College in West Virginia where he met his future bride, Nicole. Eugene received his BA from Sacred Heart University and worked for many years in Sales at Nestle Water NA in Stamford, CT. A devoted father and husband, Eugene was a fixture at his sons' many baseball, football, and basketball games. When Eugene wasn't cheering for his sons from the many varied sidelines, he enjoyed reading, playing softball with the Greenwich adult softball league, taking his kayak out into Long Island Sound and fishing. Eugene also enjoyed volunteering for the annual North Mianus Pow Wow, even after his sons graduated. Eugene was blessed to have so many loving and devoted friends from childhood, his softball team and the North Mianus Bull Dog community. He is survived by his best friend and wife Nicole, sons Brett and Adam; his mother Betty Pate of Cos Cob, CT; father Eugene Pate of Whiting, NJ; sisters Eileen Tweddle (Herbert) of Cos Cob, CT and Liz Pate of Riverside, CT; brother James Pate of Cos Cob, CT; several nieces and nephews, as well as many cousins.
A Wake will be held on Monday, January 13 from 4-8 pm at Leo P. Gallagher's Funeral Home, 31 Arch Street, Greenwich, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Tuesday, January 14 at 10 am at St. Mary's Parish, 178 Greenwich Ave., Greenwich, CT. A private burial will follow at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, a "Pate Children Educational Trust " has been established. Donations may be mailed to the Law Offices of Eileen M. Pate, LLC. 80 Fourth St. Stamford, CT 06905. To leave an online condolence please visit www.leopgallaghergreenwich.com

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Published by Greenwich Time from Jan. 12 to Jan. 13, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Eugene Pate

58 Entries

Norma J. Cece

January 7, 2024

Don and I sat down and shared memories of Eugene and what a fine man he was. We talked about his smile and great attitude and how he was always helping out in Don's store. So much more. so glad we knew him. Don and Norma Cece

Bob di Scipio

January 31, 2014

Nicole and family, please accept my most sincere condolences. I loved Eugene and am praying for your family and you to have peace with the everlasting memory of how much Eugene loved you. One of the best things about him was among our group of friends with lots of testosterone and bravado, he was always one to be gracious and humble when a calming voice was needed. May he and you enjoy an extra measure of God's grace.
“God resists the proud,
But gives grace to the humble." James 4:6
With Hope for All Nations, Bob di Scipio (and family)

Kevin O'Connell

January 22, 2014

We are deeply sadden to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Kevin & Winnie O

Eric Boyer

January 21, 2014

I am deeply saddened to hear of Eugene's passing. He was a great childhood friend and will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

January 20, 2014

To the Pate Family,

Though it's been many years, we are all deeply saddened to learn of Eugene's passing. Our sympathy, thoughts and prayers to the entire family at this time of loss.

Pamela Boyer Myers, Robert and Mary Ann Boyer

January 15, 2014

To The PateFamily,

Memories of Baseball with Adam are in our thoughts. Eugene was there with us as our boys with encouragement and his great personality. it was our great privilege to have crossed paths with this wonderful family. We send our prayers, love and fond memories to all.

Your hearts will never be the same but you will learn to adapt with the loss. We feel for you at this very difficult moment.

With all our Love,
The Hall Family
(Our son - Matthew played baseball with Adam years ago)

LAURENCE A WHITE

January 15, 2014

EUGENE,WAS A VERY GOOD FRIEND TO ME,AND I WILL MISS HIM VERY MUCH,MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE ENTIRE " PATE" FAMILY.

Shylene Nunez

January 15, 2014

Dear Liz, Truly sorry to learn of you loss. Wishing you and your family strength and comfort during these difficult times.

Niki Plomaritis

January 14, 2014

Liz and the Pate Family,
So truly saddened to hear of your loss of Eugene! My heartfelt sympathy and prayers to your family during this time.

January 14, 2014

Dear Nicole and family,
We were deeply saddened to hear about
Eugene. He was a joy to know, always
pleasant. We were able to watch the boys grow up from your Christmas card
every year and know how delighted and
proud he was of his family. His memory
will always be in our hearts.
Don and Norma Cece
Naples, Florida

January 14, 2014

Dear Nicole,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys, and with your families during this very sad time. May God bless you with courage and strength. Eugene now has a place in heaven and will watch over all of you.
In sympathy,
Susan, Jim, Laurel & Owen Fisher

Patti Riggans (verdon)

January 14, 2014

To Eileen & Family:

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you.

January 13, 2014

The wonderful stories and memories from Ft. Lauderdale during Spring Break 1977 with Eric A., may there be great concerts in heaven.

Love Greg Altznauer

Drew Lethbridge

January 13, 2014

Huge as in larger than life, as in a giant heart, as in a great love, as in a great man, as in a giant friend, as in a large gift to us, as in selfless giver. Huge. You are loved and will be missed.

The Rada Family

January 13, 2014

Friends are the pillars on your porch. Sometimes they hold you up, sometimes they lean on you, and sometimes it's just enough to know that they are standing by. Rest in Peace Eugene

Donna

January 13, 2014

To the Pate Family,

My deepest sympathies on the loss of Eugene. Eugene was a sincere and true soul. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this sorrowful time.

Karen and Bill Fishman

January 13, 2014

Dear Pate Family, I didn't know Eugene but I know Liz and Betty. I am so sorry for you loss. If there is anything we can do for you during this trying time please do not hesitate to ask. We know how trying this time can be, please reach out if you need us. You are all in our hearts and prayers.

Donna Mead

January 13, 2014

Dear Nicole, Brett and Adam,

So very sorry for your loss; sometimes there just are no words.

Elizabeth & Noel Bourdin

January 13, 2014

Dear Pate Family,
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. May the good memories of him surround you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Elizabeth & Noel Bourdin

Tom Carroux

January 13, 2014

Eugene was a good friend, a solid guy and a lot of laughs. I miss you.

Lorraine Busardo (Bazydola)

January 13, 2014

Although it's been 30+ years since Eugene and I have been childhood neighbors I remember him as being a very kind person and he loved rock and roll. My sincere sympathies to all of his family. May your thoughts of Eugene always bring a smile and a warmth to your heart. RIP Eugene and God Bless.

January 13, 2014

When I heard the news my heart broke open and I felt such loss. He was a great friend and I will miss his smile immensely. Then, I was reminded that he was in the presence of the divine and I can connect with him and that smile whenever I take a still moment. Love is eternal. My deepest sympathy during this gentle time.
Roland

January 13, 2014

Dear Pate family,
We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
The Hennessey Family
Trinity Catholic High School

Meghan Moore

January 13, 2014

Dear Pate Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Kady Benda

January 13, 2014

I was sad to hear of Eugene's passing. I worked with him many years at the Pow Wow and whenever I saw him at a practice or around town he always had a smile on his face. I am sorry for your loss/

January 13, 2014

Eugene was known to many at the North Mianus School Community. He has continued to be an active part of our annual PowWow team and over the years we have all gotten to know him. He truly enjoyed coming back every year to help. His untimely passing comes as a shock to us all. Sending peace, love and condolences to all of his family at this very sad time. The North Mianus School PTA and PowWow Committee

robin carpenter

January 12, 2014

Dear Liz, Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. With Love, Robin

Maine Friends

January 12, 2014

Jose Infante

January 12, 2014

Hi Liz, I am truly sorry for your loss. I am praying for strength during this time for you and your family.

Susan Osterberg

January 12, 2014

Liz, so sorry to hear about your brother. our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Susan & Patty

January 12, 2014

Dear Betty,Nicole, and sons,

I am so very sorry about your loss. As a friend of Betty's, I never met Eugene, but knowing what kind of person and mother she is, I'm sure that he was a very special kind of guy and will e missed by many beyond his close family. We can only accept what we cannot change.

MiriamMennin, Cos Cob CT

Roanoke

January 12, 2014

Maine

January 12, 2014

Jerry and Diane Nietupski

January 12, 2014

Dear Betty, Nicole, Brett, Adam, and the entire Pate Family,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Miami

January 12, 2014

Mechelle Moran

January 12, 2014

Nicole, Brett and Adam,
Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow. We are so sorry to hear about your loss.
Deepest sympathy,
Mechelle, Dave, Zach, Tyler Moran

January 12, 2014

North Mianus Pow Wow

January 12, 2014

Michigan!

January 12, 2014

Tampa - Parents weekend

January 12, 2014

We are moved to the greatest sorrow at the passing of such a great friend, and, a truly unique individual. To say that Huge was one of a kind, is, literally, a HUGE understatement. Joel & Shelley Slachowitz

January 12, 2014

Always remember the laughter, and the good times He will always be with all of you Be well. Karen & Jon boy and family

Monica & Gregg Tujak & Lethbridge

January 12, 2014

Dear Nicole and boys - So sorry for your loss, we are thinking of you at this difficult time. We hope that all of the happy memories keep you smiling. Monica, Gregg and Girls

Stephen and Tracy Limpe

January 12, 2014

Dear Betty,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Eugene's family and your entire extended family during this very difficult time. We extend our deepest sympathies and condolences for your loss. We pray that you can take some comfort that Eugene finally rests in peace with our Heavenly Father.

Joseph Tarzia

January 12, 2014

I LOVE you Eugene , you will be missed dearly by all who LOVED you . We had some great times like going to see the Boss at Shea stadium 10 years ago . GOD bless till we meet again old friend

Jeff, Cheryl, Justin and Cari Rada

January 12, 2014

Dear Nicole, Brett and Adam,

There are not enough words that can express our thoughts at this moment. In thinking about Eugene, it is amazing how one person has influenced so many people in so many different parts of our world. Huge was "one of a kind," and a true friend to everyone and anyone he met. He will always hold a place in our hearts.

Jo-Ann Minishi

January 12, 2014

Dear Betty and Family:
My prayers and thoughts are with you. Betty you were and still are an exceptional Mom, you took care of Eugene with lots of love and joy.
You will miss him deeply but please know he is in heaven with our beloved God.
Take good care of yourself Betty.
Jo-Ann Minishi

Alison Kistler

January 12, 2014

Nicole, Brett and Adam,
As you remember Eugene in the minutes, weeks, months and years to come keep your heart open to all of the smiles he brought to you. Think of the countless hours at baseball and basketball games and how he was the biggest "cheerleader" It will be these special memories that will help you find the strength to get through. Our love and prayers are with all of you all,
Roland, Alison, Brandon and Hayden Kistler

The Lee Family: Chris, Cristina, Balin & Alejandra

January 12, 2014

Huge was the best! His memory will be always in our hearts. He always brightened the room with his smile and warmth, he will be missed. We give our deepest condolences to Nicole, Brett, Adam and the Pate family. And we send you our love during this time of sorrow.

January 12, 2014

With many thoughts and deepest sympathy, I warmly pray that God helps your family through this difficult time. (Psalm 146:5, 9)

Leonor Loparco

January 12, 2014

Dear Nicole, Brett & Adam,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. May your special memories of Eugene bring you peace and comfort.

Sincerely,

Leonor, David, Chris & Alex Loparco

Jerry & Ruth White

January 12, 2014

We are absolutely stunned and grief stricken over the news of Eugene's passing. There just are no words to express our sorrow and sadness. May the sorrow you all feel in your heart be lightened by the love of friends who surround you.

Eric, Debra, Rebecca Abramson

January 12, 2014

Eugene touched so many lives with his soulfully sharp wit and his endearingly energetic and boisterous humor. The hearts of his family and countless friends ache at his departure. My dearest friend in life, as I recall the countless good times and the laughs we shared, the indelible mark you have left in my heart will never be erased. May the Lord eternally bless your soul in the glory of his kingdom. From the silence of our hearts, we extend our thoughts and prayers to Nicole, Brett, Adam, and the Pate family, that they may find peace in this difficult time and be comforted in their sorrow.

Pierce Foster

January 12, 2014

Our condolences on your loss. We enjoyed seeing Eugene at all the baseball games. He was a good guy and will be missed.
Your friends from the Greenwich Junior Babe Ruth League.

Chris, Mindy & Devon White

January 11, 2014

The loss we feel is beyond words. Huge was the heart and soul of our circle of friends and his passing leaves a big empty space that can never be filled. There is only one Huge and we are so blessed to have had him in our lives.

Peggy & Larry Dusablon

January 11, 2014

Saddened to hear of Eugene's untimely passing. Our hearts and thoughts are with Nicole, Brett, Adam, the Pate family, and the many people whose lives Eugene touched. His ready laugh and upbeat spirit will be remembered fondly.

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