HORAK, Douglas Brassil
Douglas Brassil Horak, 25 years old, of West Hartford and beloved eldest son of Ellen Brassil and Jack Horak died an untimely death on Friday (September 7, 2012). Doug also leaves his three younger brothers, John, Tom and Martin, who all adored him and looked up to him since childhood, remembering his help with projects, imaginative games and traditions like building the "Christmas fort." A graduate of the University of Hartford, Doug was a gifted artist and illustrator and would have completed his MFA from the Savannah College of Art and Design next spring. Doug's art had drawn the attention of many, and in addition to his talent as an illustrator and portrait artist, he had mastered many techniques using complex 3-D modeling software such as Maya and Z-Brush and had ventured into the challenging world of skilled animation. Doug had won many art awards and his work earned international acclaim, including Grand Prize Winner of the 2011 Lucasfilm "Man versus Nature" Concept Art Award, leading to an internship at Lucasfilm studios in California. Doug recently won a competition sponsored by Animation Magazine for his rendition titled "Box," about a young protagonist and his robot creation - drawn from his own sketch book. "I try to draw inspirations from everywhere and everything," said Doug of his source material, evidenced in everything from his watercolor landscapes done while studying in Sicily, sketches of friends or his animation production entitled "Viridian," with music and sound design by Douglas Perry. Even as a boy, Doug knew the height, speed, G-forces and other vital statistics of the world's great roller coasters. He was a talented carpenter, from building half-pipes, forts and ramps as a boy to recently working with his mom to re-design the living room mantle. Doug loved all animals and over the years had helped care for family pets as varied as dogs, ferrets, gerbils, rabbits, and even his aunt's horses. Doug became an avid reader sailing through many of the classics for a second time just for the fun of it after finishing college. Doug enjoyed playing his great-grandmother's piano, and his trumpet in the Conard high school band, and was a natural athlete who excelled in skating and diving. Doug had a charitable heart and bristled at meanness, always ready to befriend peers in need or defend a quiet kid being pushed around. In addition to his parents and brothers, Doug leaves many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Douglas' legacy will continue on in others through the gift of tissue donation.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Thomas the Apostle Catholic Church on Farmington Ave in West Hartford at 11 a.m. on Friday, September 14th. Burial will be in Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford. Donations in Doug's memory may be made to Connecticut Institute for the Blind Oak Hill, 120 Holcomb St., Hartford, CT 06112 or The Little Sisters of the Poor, 1365 Enfield Street, Enfield, CT 06082. Arrangements are being handled by The Ahern Funeral Homes, Inc., www.ahernfuneralhome.com.
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Sponsored by His loving mother, Ellen Brassil.
Gabriel Bellman
January 25, 2019
I eternally grateful for the humble honor of knowing you. The world needs more kind hearted people like you rest in peace my friend the way you showed me kindness when not many fellow students did I am forever grateful
February 12, 2013
my deepest sympathy to the horak family Doug was so kind to others once I witnessed him stand for a special needs student at conard the world needs more kind souls like him I wish I had a chance to get to know him. I'm so sorry for the loss. peace be with the horak family
Connie Robinson
September 28, 2012
Ellen:
Although we don't know each other well, you and your family have been in my thoughts. I can't imagine your pain and grief, but I know a mother's heart. There are now words to express my sympathy.
Sincerely,
Connie Robinson
September 23, 2012
I am thinking of you, Ellen. I am so sorry to hear about your son.
Jan Leird
September 23, 2012
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Tom and Andrea Pringle
September 18, 2012
Dear Ellen and Jack: No words can begin to express our thoughts for you on Doug's passing. You, your boys and the family are in our prayers.
September 18, 2012
Dear Jack and Ellen - My heart is with you. I have been there. I send my deepest sympathy and affection. Helen Krieble
September 15, 2012
Ellen, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I have a framed illustration hanging in my home in Savannah that Doug made when he was in eighth grade. A cover for the Sedgwick yearbook. Words cannot express what I wish to convey. You are all in my prayers.
Jamie Newman, Savannah, GA
Javier Crespo
September 14, 2012
Ellen, my deepest sympathies on the loss of your son. Your family will be in my thoughts.
September 14, 2012
Dear Ellen, John and Family,
I am so, so sad. Max called me and I know wishes he was here. I remember the many, many times Doug (and often his brother) came to pick Max up and off they went to skate. I always felt comfortable when it was Doug picking Max up to go! I am so sorry.
Roberta Rensen
Lynn Sette
September 13, 2012
Thinking of you Ellen.
September 13, 2012
Ellen & family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your son.
Katherine Stemmer Frumento
Sharon Cooke
September 13, 2012
Dear Cousin Ellen, Jack and sons,
Words seem to fail me at a time such as this.. I only wish I would have gotten to know Douglas the man, artist and animal lover. I have taken out Aunt Dor's novena book she kept close after Terry's death and will bring it to you. She made it through those days of sorrow and I hope you find the same spirit. Love from all the Riley cousins and peace to you, Sharry
Laura Brown
September 13, 2012
Ellen,
I can't imagine what you and your family must be going though. Doug sounded like a very special person that will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
September 13, 2012
Ellen, my deepest sympathies at this most difficult time. Michael Heyd.
September 13, 2012
Dear Ellen, My heart goes out to you and your family at this tragic loss. May you find comfort in the knowledge that love lives forever. Evelyn Morgen, fellow librarian
September 13, 2012
Dear John & Ellen & Family,
I am so sad. Max called me this evening. He wished he was there but I can tell you he is in his thoughts. I was always glad to receive Doug's calls when he asked for Max and they all hopped into the car to go skating. I knew Max was in safe hands with Doug.
Roberta Rensen
September 12, 2012
Ellen, Jack and sons, words can's express my condolences. you are all in my prayers as you face the days ahead. God bless.
Sharon Barnes (formerly NWC staff)
Diane Schwartz
September 12, 2012
My sincerest sympathy on your loss.
Sister Ellen Ryan, O.P.
September 12, 2012
It is clear that Douglas was a compassionate, sensitive, and talented person. The void created by his loss will be felt always.
But may you find consolation and strength in the sure knowledge that Douglas now rejoices in the presence of Our Lord, the saints, and the family who have gone before him. And at this most difficult time may you experience the continued presence and intercession of Our Lady, Queen of Heaven. She, too, shares your grief. Yet we know Mary has already presented Douglas to Her Son.
God bless you all.
Kathy Garre-Ayars
September 12, 2012
Dear Jack,and family,
I know I speak for our entire organization when I say that we are deeply saddened by your loss.
Our prayers are with you all.
September 12, 2012
To my Sister (and mother), Ellen, Nephews (and cousins) John, Martin, Tom and to (father)Jack, May you feel the great love of your family around you as we honor this wonderful boy. We lean upon the great Mercy of the Lord in our Sorrow.
Much Love, "Aboo" Aunt Lib, Uncle Ed, Kevin, Eddie and Tiffany plus the host of our dear creatures who felt the same tenderness from you so many speak of...Amen
Don Wilson
September 12, 2012
Jack,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Don Wilson
John Chowaniec
September 12, 2012
Jack,Ellen and boys,It was truely a pleasure to have known such a wonderful and talented,considerate young man who lived with us for a short while, he will be missed.
Patrick Akin
September 12, 2012
Just wanted to let you know what a good person I thought Doug was. He was naturally kind to everyone around him and it made you feel good just to be in his presence. Please know that you are in my prayers.
Sean McCann
September 12, 2012
Doug was a tremendous young man blessed with passion and a kind heart. I was fortunate to have many amazing, insightful conversations with Doug in which I left each chat for the better. Doug will always have a place in my heart and in my character...I will miss him dearly. My deepest sympathies to your family....God Bless
Florence Marino
September 12, 2012
Dearest Family, my heart is broken over your loss. May the good Lord wrap you in His loving arms as you cope with Doug's passing.
Janet Fournier
September 11, 2012
Ellen, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
cindy carpenter
September 11, 2012
I am going to miss you. I am blessed that I had the chance to know you. You were one of the most talented people I knew. good bless you My friend
September 11, 2012
RIP
Patricia Walsh
September 11, 2012
On behalf of Principal/Chief Administrator Margaret Williamson and the entire Northwest Catholic High School community, I offer my deepest sympathy on the passing of Douglas Brassil Horak.
Douglas' mother, Ellen Brassil '70, his father, former NWC Board member Jack Horak, his aunt, Catherine Brassil Luby '65, his uncle Robert Brassil '69, and his cousin, Ed Spinella '01, are all valued members of the NWC community, so we mourn Douglas' untimely loss along with all who loved him.
Please know that we will remember Douglas and his entire family in a special way during our daily prayers this week and also at our next schoolwide Mass in October.
We are very sorry for your loss.
Patricia L. Walsh
NWC Director of Advancement
Billie Lee DeLade
September 11, 2012
I Was Blessed To Have Known Such A Talented Person, I Will MISS YOU DOUG, Your Friend and Co Worker from Panera Bread in West Hartford, R.I.P
Ronni Newton
September 11, 2012
Ellen, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this incredibly sad time.
Jeremiah Patterson
September 11, 2012
I was blessed to have Doug as a student on many occasions, including his participation in my Sicily course at the Hartford Art School. His love of drawing and painting drove his work to excellence. It was only surpassed by the generosity of his spirit. He will always have a very special place in my heart as I contemplate the vast space of Sicily's mountains, with it's veils of light cascading across those rugged plains, that he so elegantly put to his brush.
My condolences to all his family and friends in this most difficult time.
Judith Green
September 11, 2012
Dear Jack and family, so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Mort Handel
September 11, 2012
Jack, I'm deeply sorry about the loss of your son. Irma and I extend our deepest condolences to you and your family.
Dirina, Luke & Zack Powers
September 11, 2012
Jack and family,
We are so sorry for your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
September 11, 2012
You don't know me, but I send my condolences. What a remarkable son you had! Your loss is heaven's gain. His spirit will always surround you.
Lily Eastwood
September 11, 2012
Jack and family, I am saddened to learn about the passing of your son. My sincere sympathy to your family.
Bob Brassil
September 11, 2012
Dear Ellen, Jack, John, Martin & Thomas - Your son (& brother) will be missed by all his relatives. Of his many gifts his obituary touched on his kindness. We ask the Lord that His mercy & kindness be extended to Doug and to each of us. Blessing & "abracos". Uncle Bob & Family
Dorothy Paleologos
September 11, 2012
Jack and Family,
So sorry to hear this very sad news. My prayers are with you. May his memory be eternal.
Joe & Mari DeLucco
September 11, 2012
Ellen, Jack, and family:
Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of a wonderful young man. You and Doug are in our thoughts and prayers. We will see you on Friday. Sincerely,
John and Jeanette Bonee
September 11, 2012
Doug was a wonderful neighbor to my brother's family on Cornell Road in West Hartford--four boys across the street from three girls! He gave so much to his community. Jeanette and I and Phil and Val wish to express our deepest sympathy; his passing is a terrible loss, but we must remember always what he gave not only in his love for others, the art he created, but also in the caring kindness for his brothers, parents and the many animals in God's kingdom to whom he ministered. John Bonee.
September 11, 2012
RIP Doug
September 11, 2012
R.I.P. God bless you and those you have touched ~
Bob, Barbara & Anne Cloonan
September 11, 2012
Jack & Family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Thank you for sharing a wonderful life story. Douglas certainly mirrored the considerate and caring character of his parents.
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