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Philippa COUGHLAN Obituary

COUGHLAN, Dr. Philippa M. Dr. Philippa Mathieu Coughlan, 75, a clinical psychologist, the founder and for 40 years the Director of the Office of Behavioral Health for Students at Wesleyan University, passed away peacefully at Middlesex Hospital in Connecticut, on (March 17, 2011). She was a resident of Middletown, Connecticut, and had a home in Newport, Rhode Island. Philippa was born in Boston, Massachusetts, graduated from Boston University, where she was President of the Newman Society for three years, and received a Ph.D. from University of Wisconsin-Madison, where she worked with Carl Rogers. At Wisconsin, she was a principal in the post-Vatican II transformation of the University Catholic Center. In addition to her long professional career at Wesleyan, Philippa taught in the Psychiatry Department of the Yale School of Medicine, served for eight years as Chair of the Connecticut State Board of Mental Health and was a Governor's Appointee to the Community Health Strategy Board. In her youth Philippa was an accomplished figure skater with the Skating Club of Boston and later a respected judge for the US Figure Skating Association. She was a pioneer in the field of behavioral health for college students and spent a lifetime making a positive difference in young people's lives. Philippa was a loving wife, mother, and grandmother, and she was a generous friend. She is survived by her husband, Neil and son, John; daughter-in-law, Karen and grandson, Patrick (to whom she is "Pippa"); brother-in-law, Paul; sister-in-law, Tina; nieces, Nicole and Monica. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Monday, March 21 at Corpus Christi Church, 529 West 121st Street, New York City, preceded at 9:30 a.m. by a viewing in the church. There will be a noon reception for friends and family at the New York Athletic Club, 180 Central Park South. Philippa will be buried in a private family service at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Valhalla, New York.

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Published by Hartford Courant from Mar. 19 to Mar. 20, 2011.

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Janet Frisch

May 16, 2025

Philippa and I became friends in Madison through figure skating.

Jim Feinerman

April 4, 2011

Neil and John,

Very sorry and sad to learn of Philippa's death. What a loss for both of you and so many others. She was a source of genuine warmth and sly wit, with the greatest concern for others. Please know that she and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Fames (as she christened me)

Lorraine Broderick

March 27, 2011

Dear Neil and John, we have been out of the country for the past two weeks and were so sorry to hear about Philippa. She was responsible for bringing both of us to Wesleyan, and was a role model, mentor, inspiration and true friend for over 30 years. We will miss her very much. Our hearts go out to you both. Much love, Lorraine and Ron

Jane Donaldson

March 25, 2011

Dear Neil and John,

We have just returned from abroad to news of Philippa's death. My best to you both. Philippa was simply uniquely wonderful and a blessing to us all.

Doug Korty

March 23, 2011

I had the pleasure and honor of knowing Philippa over the last 45 years. She was an extraordinary and wonderfully warm person. I only regret not seeing her more often.

Nancy Thomas

March 22, 2011

During Philippa's tenure as Chair of the Connecticut State Board of Mental Health & Addiction Services, I had the privilege of working with her as administrative support staff to the Board. It was an honor to know her as both colleague and friend. She touched the lives of many for the better in her lifetime, and I send my sincere condolences to her family. May God bless and comfort you. You are in my prayers.

Alan Kleinman

March 21, 2011

I got to know Philippa through Neil. I regret not having gotten to know her while I was at Wesleyan, for her wisdom and warmth.

March 21, 2011

Philippa Coughlan generously gave her time, wisdom, support and offer of ongoing assistance when our family and son most needed reassurance and an ally at Wesleyan. She was a remarkable person - deeply caring, wise, witty, insightful and genuine. Wesleyan has lost an unsung heroine.

A Wesleyan mom

Rafael Porrata-Doria

March 20, 2011

Dear Neil and family:

Our deepest sympathy on the death of Philippa. You and yours are in our family's prayers.

March 20, 2011

Neil:
My most sincere condolences to you and your family for your loss.
Bill Corvo

Gertrude Smiddy

March 20, 2011

My sympathy to the Coughlan family. You were a delight and a pleasure to know.

March 20, 2011

Dr. Coughlan was a mentor, friend and light in my life for many years. Her intelligence, wit, caring and compassion made indelible imprints.

I will miss her always.

Candace La Vigne
Mt. Kisco, NY

Marra and Michael Giuliano

March 19, 2011

Neil and John,
We are shocked and saddened to hear of Philippa's passing. She has been a guiding light and a bright beacon for so many of us. I'll miss her sage wisdom and the calmness and strength she brought to my life. She was a considerate and generous dear friend who I will miss terribly. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

March 19, 2011

We will miss Philippa very much. She was a kind and generous person - a dear and constant friend. God's peace to the family. Gordon and Jane Quist

sandra frimel

March 19, 2011

Dear Neil and family,
I share your sorrow; I will miss her smile, her wit, and her warmth. She has been a good friend, colleague, and mentor for twenty-five years and Davison Health Center will not be the same for me without her. Sandra Frimel

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