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Michael Ciarcia Obituary

CIARCIA, Michael Anthony Michael Anthony Ciarcia, 56, of Berlin passed from this life peacefully on Monday (August 10, 2009) at home surrounded by his family following a courageous 18 month battle with cancer. He was loved much and will be missed greatly by his wife, Peggy (Margaret Calandra of Freehold, NJ) of 32 years; his daughter, Caitlin; his son, Matthew; his granddaughter, Makayla; his parents, Joseph and Gloria (Savo) Ciarcia (of Newington); his brother, Frank and wife Suzanne and their sons, Nick and Paul (of Berlin); his brother, Joseph Jr. and his longtime companion George Gustafson (of Tuscan, AZ), and his many cousins and close friends. He was also loved and will be missed by Peggy's parents, John and Marge Calandra; her sisters, Nancy and Theresa and brother, Paul and their spouses, and all of his nieces and nephews in Texas. Mike was born in Hartford and lived in Newington until 1977 when he moved to Berlin. He graduated from Newington High School in 1971, received his B.A. degree in 1975 in Psychology from Fairleigh Dickinson University in Rutherford, NJ (where he met Peggy), and his M.S. degree in Special Education in 1979 from Central Connecticut State University. He taught at the Newington Children's Hospital School from 1979-1983 when he started CRC Chrome Corporation with his father and brother Frank. He was very active in youth sports in the town of Berlin when his children were young, coaching soccer, Little League baseball, and Pop-Warner football for many years. He was also co-leader of his son's Boy Scout troop for several years and as a member of St. Paul Church in Kensington he served as a confirmation mentor for his daughter's confirmation class. In recent years he had been a Literacy Volunteer, assisting immigrants in learning to read, write, and speak English. He was an avid outdoorsman, and loved birding, hiking, camping, kayaking, and swimming. He loved the state of Maine and from the age of 16 had spent some time each summer on Frye Island in Sebago Lake. For the past eight years Mike and Peg had a summer home on Frye Island so they spent considerable time there vacationing with various family members and close friends and they had come to know the Englewood, FL area and loved spending time there in the fall and winter. He felt he had led a happy, blessed, and full life and had no regrets. He was an unpretentious and reserved man who had a gift for talking with people. Strangers found him approachable and always engaged him in conversation. He was thought of as a good person and a fine man by all who knew him and he will be sorely missed by many. Family and friends may gather to say goodbye to Mike and celebrate his life at Berlin Memorial Funeral Home, 96 Main Street Kensington Connecticut, on Friday August 14 from 9-11 a.m. A Memorial Mass will be held that same day at St. Paul Church, Alling Street Kensington Connecticut at 11:30 a.m. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family. Memorial donations may be made in honor of Michael Anthony Ciarcia to the American Brain Tumor Association at www.abta.org; 800-886-2282; American Brain Tumor Association, 2720 River Road, Des Plaines, IL 60018.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Aug. 12, 2009.

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Bruce Ellison

January 9, 2010

I met Mike in the 5th grade at the Northwest School. He was a powerful kid that was hard to bring down in football. Competitive as he was he was a respectful of his peers even then. He was one of the first guys to welcome me to the school.

Mike was there at all the parties in Junior High where our band, the Denim Blues played. He had a fine girlfriend and treated her like a queen. Peggy was a lucky girl to land a guy like Mike. I'm sure he was a good family man.

I last spoke with Mike at our 20th reunion. I lost track of Mike after that reunion but I'm sure he did well in all his endeavors win or lose.

I hope to meet him in heaven, Lord willing.

Jennifer Sanborn

August 18, 2009

Peggy, I was stunned and saddened to return from vacation this week and learn of Mike's death. Please know that all of us at the University of Hartford have been holding you both and your children in our prayers and our thoughts for these many months, and we will do so for many months more. Thinking of all of you, and wishing you tears of true sadness and laughter of remembered joy.

Kevin Schmitt

August 18, 2009

To the Ciarcia family,
My deepest condolences to you all. I was part of the Reservoir Road crew in Newington, and graduated with Mike in '71. It was nice to read of the major impact Mike has had on the lives of many. He'll be missed!

Jason Bittner

August 17, 2009

Frank,
My sincere condolences for your loss. You and your entire family are in our prayers.

Lynda DelGaudiooncord

August 16, 2009

To the Ciarcia Family,
My thoughts and prays are with all of you. May God give you peace in your hearts. Lean on him and he will ease your pain.
I am George's sister I did not know Michael but I'm sure he was a wounderful person.

August 15, 2009

Michael Ciarcia was salt of the earth. My heartfelt sympathies to the entire Ciarcia family.

Deborah Sheiman Shprentz

August 15, 2009

Michael Ciarcia was salt of the earth. My heartfelt sympathies to the entire Ciarcia family.

Henry Mondschein

August 14, 2009

Frank, sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. G-d bless all of you.

August 14, 2009

Dear Peggy,
We were only in your company a few times, but we knew right from the first time we met both you and Mike that you both were wonderful, warm and caring people. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this most difficult time. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Fondly, Tom and Cathy Fahey

Dinnie Cheryl

August 14, 2009

I remember Mike when he was little - he was a good friend of my brother, Bruce, and I remember him as very sweet and kind . It sounds like he was always that way - what a legacy. My thoughts are with you.

Patti Genack

August 13, 2009

Peggy. Love from Colorado. I can't believe Mike is gone. Photos coming via Felix. love Patti

Janet Nagler

August 13, 2009

Peggy and family,My deepest thoughts are with you all.

all my love, Janet Nagler

Louise Albin

August 13, 2009

Frank, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Louise Albin

Phillip Arnold

August 13, 2009

Aloha,
We are friends of Joe and George and Joe Sr and Gloria. Though we never met Michael, Joe and George always spoke highly of his brother and his parents certainly displayed their love for their son Michael. May God bless and be with you all. Aloha Phillip & John

DEAN CASELLA

August 13, 2009

I'M sorry for your loss MIKE was a very nice person we had some good times coaching football and i thank you for taking D.J.on vacation with you.he will be missed by all

Bruecker Johnson

August 13, 2009

Condolence to the family at the passing of Michael from friends of his brother Joe (Jay) in Tucson AZ, "Those we have loved and lost we will meet again, somewhere, sometime."

August 13, 2009

Frank,

Sorry for your loss. If I can help in any way please call.

Herb Glick

Kathy (KJ) Johnson - Szymanski

August 13, 2009

Attended FDU with Mike and Peggy - Mike was a true gentle man - as evidenced by his life. Our prayers are with his entire family

Paul Lombardo

August 13, 2009

Dear Frank & Family
I 'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
God Bless
Paul Lombardo

Tom Russo

August 13, 2009

Frank:

So sorry to hear about the passing of your brother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family.

Please take good care.

Tom

Lindsay Benson

August 13, 2009

Mrs. Ciarcia, Caitlin, Kayla & Matthew,

I am so sorry for your loss. I have so many great memories from when Cait and I were younger. You were my second family for many, many years. I will always remember Mr. C's interest in what was happening in our lives, his kind words and advice. He was a wonderful man who will be missed by all that new him. Please know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

May your memories of him bring you some peace and comfort during this difficult time.

Linda Phillips

August 13, 2009

My condolences to the entire Ciarcia family. While I didn't know Mike, I am a friend of his brother, Frank, who always spoke so highly of his brother.

May you all find comfort knowing that he is resting peacefully.

Stanley Zima

August 13, 2009

My condolencences to the Ciarcia family. I am a friend and business associate of Mike and Frank. I have known Mike for thirty years and have the utmost respect for him. He will be truly missed.

Rick Williams

August 12, 2009

A friend of Frank's and fellow NHS Grad ('74) and Newington Resident, growing up.

Our thoughts are and have been with the entire extended family - from our extended family.

You're all in our prayers, today and always.

Peace,

Myra & Will Schiff

August 12, 2009

Our condolences to Mikes family. We Knew him through our daughter Caryl and Son-in-law Steve
They were friends for many years.
Myra & Will Schiff

Adorna Carroll

August 12, 2009

My condolences to the family - I went to high school with Mke a long, long time ago - he was a wonderful person and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Adorna Occhialini Carroll

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