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Kenneth AREY Obituary

AREY, Kenneth D. Kenneth Duncan Arey, age 87, of Manchester, CT. died on May 8, 2011 at Manchester Memorial Hospital. He was born in Templeton, MA on Nov 16, 1923, son of the late Harold C. Arey, M.D. and Jean G. (McIntosh) Arey, M.D. and was a 1942 graduate of Gardner High School. He was an aircraft mechanic in the U.S. Air Force from March 1943 to Feb. 1946. He attended Coburn Classical Prep School in Waterville, Maine for 18 months. He graduated from Wentworth Institute in Boston in 1949. He worked at General Electric in Fitchburg, MA for four years and at Pratt and Whitney Aircraft in E. Hartford for 30 years, retiring in 1986. He was a member of the Church of Christ, 595 Tolland Turnpike Manchester. He was a resident of Manchester for 55 years. He was an avid woodworker for the past 50 years and received awards for his wooden bowls that he sold at craft fairs for many years. He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Eleanor Bruce Arey; his son Bruce Arey and wife Debra of N. Grafton, MA, his daughter Martha Karlak and husband Michael of Seymour, Ct; his sister Charlotte Hoppe of Avon, CT; seven grand children, seven great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by sisters, Marjorie O'Connor, Barbara Ambler and brother, Philip Arey. Family and friends may call Thursday, May 12, 2011 from 5-8 p.m. at Holmes Funeral Home, 400 Main Street, Manchester. Funeral services will be held Friday, May 13, 2011 at 10 a.m. at the Church of Christ 595 Tolland Turnpike Manchester. Burial will follow with military honors in Rose Hill Memorial Park Rocky Hill, CT. In place of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the charity of the donor choice or the Church of Christ. For directions to the funeral home and to sign the online guestbook please visit www.holmes-watkinsfuneralhomes.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 10, 2011.

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Beth Stafford

May 17, 2011

Dearest Eleanor, Bruce, Martha and Families,

My heart aches with yours as we say goodbye to Ken. You have been kind to us since we came in 1980 and have been our famiy.

I will never forget Ken making me a special box with 2 rocks in it in 1988. He gave it to me and winked when he said "you have lost so much weight, I made this to help you keep from blowing away!" He made my day as he knew how hard I was trying to lose weight.

This is my best memory!!! I also loved the times I sat at your table in the kitchen and shared some soup and great conversations. I was always impressed by the things he made and by the love you had for each other.

Love you!!!

A Nelson

May 15, 2011

Mrs. Arey,
Each time I came home, Mr. Arey always made a point to make sure he found me at church to say hello and he always had a huge smile on his face. I cherish the bowl that he made us out of an apple tree that I climbed as a little kid that came from my Mom and Dad's property.
I love you too, Annie Nelson

Don & Juanita Nelson

May 15, 2011

Ken spoke of his love for the Lord and the Lords church at our last Sr.Saints gathering, only a few weeks ago.What a wonderful way to be remembered, praising the Lord.
Love you Eleanor but God loves you even more.
Don and Juanita Nelson

Carole & Jim Lietz

May 13, 2011

Dear Eleanor,

We were all so enriched by knowing Ken for so many years. Your marriage was an inspiration to us all, and was pleasing to God. I am sure that God is speaking to Ken now, saying "Well done, good and faithful servant". We love you, Eleanor.

Liz Carey and Scott Ingalls

May 11, 2011

Dear Eleanor and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. Ken was such a cheerful and knowledgeable man. I will never forget our wedding when Ken and my grandfather- Gene Carey- reconnected after so long from working at Pratt & Whitney together. What a small world! Our family's prayers are with you at this time.
With Love,

Heather and Graeme Davidson

May 10, 2011

Eleanor and Family,

Ken was such an amazing man. We really enjoyed having conversations with Ken and he was always full of wisdom and love. We will always treasure the wooden bowl he made us for our wedding. The loss of Ken here on earth is a gain to the Lord in Heaven who is embracing Ken in his arms for an eternity of paradise. We love you Ken and always will. Our prayers are with you Eleanor and your family as you endure this difficult time.

With Love,

May 10, 2011

Dear Sweet Eleanor, I do think of you often of your tender spirit and hospitality you both always showed us. The Lord brings home many thoughts and peace to all that will turn to him. I am always telling my kids that behind every dark cloud there is a rainbow. Hopefully for you there will be many. In Christian Love, Fred and Marveta

May 10, 2011

Dear Arey Family
We remember Ken as a steadfast worker for the Lord who never waivered in his faith. What a blessing it was to have known him. He is now enjoying the fruits of his labor. Maynard and Brenda Johnson, Tolland, CT

Steve and Lynn Holt

May 10, 2011

Dear Eleanor, Bruce, and Martha:

We were sorry to hear of your recent loss. We have fond memories of Ken, and celebrate his good and faithful life. Our prayers are with all of you in your time of loss.

In Christian love,

Kate Moule

May 10, 2011

Dear Eleanor and Family,
Thank you for sharing such a lovely man with us. What an incrediable Shepard he was for our Church Family and the Lord. Blessings to all. Gary, Kate and Gary Jr. Moule

Toimi & Candie Martikainen

May 10, 2011

Ken and Eleanor have been faithful to their Lord all their lives. Ken will only be missed for a short while as one day we will share eternity with him. May Eleanor receive support from her brothers and sisters during her loss. We all loved Ken dearly.

Holmes Funeral Home

May 10, 2011

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

Larry Muller

May 10, 2011

Three decades separated Ken and me, but we called each other friends. He always found time for a few words and a genuine handshake. I look forward to seeing him in heaven! My prayer is for Eleanor and family.

Paula Freeman

May 10, 2011

I fondly remember Ken's warm welcome to us when we first visited the church of Christ -- referring to himself as "canary" so we'd be sure to remember his name. He and Eleanor were always an encouragement as they persevered and served despite health related issues. Praying now that Eleanor is comforted by the sweet memories of their many years together and experiencing peace knowing they'll meet again. May God bless your entire family during this difficult time.

Lori King

May 10, 2011

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Abel & Sharlette Hernandez

May 9, 2011

We were so sorry to learn of Mr. Arey's passing. He was a hard worker in the Lord's church and is now enjoying the fruit of his labor.

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