DERESIENSKI, Peter S.
Peter S. Deresienski, 74, of Windsor, CT, beloved husband of Beatrice (Forino) Deresienski, passed away Monday, (October 17, 2011) at the Suffield House in Suffield, CT due to complications of Parkinson' Disease. Peter was born August 21, 1937 in Hartford, CT, to the late Peter A. and Anna (Staron) Deresienski. He was raised with his family on his grandmother's dairy farm in Rocky Hill, CT and was an all-star baseball player, record-holding high school swimmer and a National Honor Society member. He earned a Bachelor's degree from the University of Connecticut and an MBA from the University of Hartford. He worked as an Information Technology Director beginning as a computer programmer with United Technologies Corp. (Hamilton Sundstrand) and then with Alstom (formerly Combustion Engineering, Inc.) for over 20 years. He then embarked upon a computer consulting career that took him into his post retirement years working for CIGNA, The Hartford and Aetna. He also served his country as an officer in the National Guard for many years. Peter loved his family and friends and lived an adventurous life to the fullest. He enjoyed nature, hiking in the White Mountains, hunting and fishing with childhood friends, boating and camping with his family, beekeeping, establishing and growing a vineyard where he made his own wine, farming trees and berries, running marathons, purchasing and renovating historic homes, owning and managing apartment buildings in Hartford, Enfield and East Windsor, CT, and spending time with his grandsons on the ball field. Peter was an active, devoted parishioner of St. Gabriel Church in Windsor, CT where along with his wife Bea, spent many years in the choir performing during the holidays and at special events. Including Beatrice, his wife of 52 years, he is survived by his two children; daughter and son-in-law Dr. Diane Deresienski and Dr. Gregory Lewbart of Raleigh, NC; son and daughter-in-law, David and Linda Deresienski of West Hartford, CT; two grandsons, Bretton and Blake Deresienski; his brother and sister-in-law, Dr. Mark and Carol Deresienski of Narragansett, RI; many nieces and nephews that he loved dearly, and his best canine friend "Mocha." He was predeceased by his sister and brother-in-law, Janice and Edward Griffin. Special thanks are given to all the staff at The Suffield House for the compassionate care they gave to Peter.
His family will receive friends Thursday, October 20, 2011 from 5-8 p.m. at Carmon Windsor Funeral Home. Family and friends may gather Friday, October 21, 2011, 9:15 a.m., at Carmon Windsor Funeral Home, 807 Bloomfield Ave., Windsor, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial, 10 a.m., at St. Gabriel Church in Windsor, CT. Burial will be at Rose Hill Cemetery, Rocky Hill, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his name to St. Gabriel Church, 379 Broad St., Windsor, CT 06095 or the Nature Conservancy (http://my.nature.org/donate/tribute-giving.html). To leave on-line condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com.
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November 21, 2011
Dr. D, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. I just found out or I would have written sooner. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at such a difficult time. Please let me know if I can do anything. Phyllis Partin, Raleigh, NC
June Mahoney (Owens)
October 27, 2011
Dear Bea,
Clark emailed me the sad news of losing Pete. He was a good friend and always had kind words for everyone. Both of you were always a pleasure to see and spend time with at our many reunions. Class of '55 was and is a unique group, and Pete stood out. We'll all miss him.
Kindest regards to you and your family
Bruce Mosher
October 24, 2011
Peter was a solid member of the class and seemed a good fit as president. As I learn about his life, I identify with much from beekeeping to 52 years of marriage. God's peace should cover the family.
Denis & Marie Pomfret
October 21, 2011
Dear Bea and family. I'm so sorry about Pete's passing. I'll always have fond memories of the hikes, our lunch get togethers and working with Pete.
Marie and I send our deepest sympathies.
October 21, 2011
Bea and family, I am very sorry for your loss. Pete was a unique, wonderful man and the two of you were soul mates. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Karen Maguire Kiley
October 21, 2011
Bea: Clark Whelton forwarded me the sad news that Pete had died. My condolences to you and your family. He was a stalwart member of the Class of '55. Bob Abbe, Alameda, CA
October 20, 2011
Bea, we are very sorry to learn that Pete is no longer with us. He was always thoughtful and kind, fun to be with. He will not be forgotten or the many memories we shared growing up. Peace, Bob and Alice Watras
October 20, 2011
I enjoyed my high school times with Pete. He was always more interested in finding out about me than talking about himself. I looked forward to seeing him at our reunions. Thinking about you- Bea,at this difficult time. Russ Press
Celia Humphreys
October 20, 2011
So sorry to hear about Peter. He was the best. Always treated everyone with friendship and respect. The world is a little less friendly without him. Condolences to Bea and the family.
anita caldwell
October 19, 2011
Mrs D, Diane, and David, My thoughts are with you as are the very special memories of your family and days of fun in and around the big house on Hayden Station. I wish you all peace, understanding, and the kind comfort you always bestowed on me as a child. Anita (Chalifoux) Caldwell, Rutland, VT
Marie & Keith Burgie
October 19, 2011
Bea,
Your and Pete's love for each other and life is inspirational. Please find comfort in memories of happier days.
Pam (Lindeyer) Newcomb
October 19, 2011
Bea, Diane and David , my thoughts go out to you during this sad time. I will be forever grateful for having had the time I did living on Hayden Station Road. Peter was an exceptional person. I will always remember his kindness and charm.
Lynn & Brad Baker
October 19, 2011
Bea
With our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Pete. He was a nice man and it was always fun to spend time with both of you at Kathy and Robert's Christmas parties.
Yvon & Renate Lemieux
October 19, 2011
Bea, David, & Diane,
Knowing Pete was to know a true friend. For more than 45 years our paths crossed in work and in play. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. He will be missed and may your memories bring you comfort.
October 19, 2011
Uncle Pete we will miss you dearly. You were a very important part in mine and Ken's life in showing us what hard work can do and with the proper modivation, start and run a successful business. We will have the memories of working on your properties with you always.
Ettore Namias
October 19, 2011
My sad condolences to Peter's family. I had the pleasure of working with Peter at Aetna. He is a good man and will be missed.
Jim Stankevich
October 19, 2011
Bea, Diane, & David,
Some of my best memories was when I lived next door to you on Hayden Station Rd. Pete became the big brother I never had and his friendship over the past 35 yrs has been a highlight of my life. Pete was one of the best people to ever grace this earth and he will be missed by everyone that was lucky enough to know him.
Carmon Funeral Homes, Inc.
October 19, 2011
With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.
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