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Paul Simonelli Obituary



Paul Andrew Simonelli, 49 of Cromwell, formerly of Colchester, CT died unexpectedly on October 7, 2014. He was predeceased by his father John Simonelli. Paul's career spanned over thirty years in the elevator industry that included working for Westinghouse, Montgomery and eventually Kone. He was very active in IEUC local 91. Paul was long regarded as an industry expert and was occasionally sent to other states to fix those "impossible problems". Paul graduated from A.I, Prince Technical School and attended the Connecticut State Technical College to further hone his skills. Paul was an avid golfer and he truly enjoyed many hilarious rounds with his friends and his brother Steve plus his annual pilgrimage to Myrtle Beach, SC. Along with his former wife Debbie they opened JS Toy and Hobby Store in Salem, CT, which sparked his passion for RC cars and airplanes. Paul was also a New York Giants Football fan and never missed an opportunity to cheer them on even during those many losing years. He especially enjoyed hosting his special Super Bowl party. Later in life Paul also developed a passion for NASCAR. Along with the rest of his family he shared a deep passion for cooking. He also spent many hours of his free time tinkering on his house. Paul was one of those special individuals you could always count on to be there for you in your time of need. He could never say no to family or friends. He is survived by his mother Patricia (Shumski) Simonelli of Rocky Hill, his former wife Debbie of Colchester, his son John of Seattle, WA, and his daughter Abbey of Colchester. Paul also leaves his brother, John and his wife Cathy and nieces Emily and Marissa of Broad Brook, CT and niece Bryana and her husband Daniel of Franklin, MA and their new twin boys, and his other beloved brother Steve of Cromwell. His aunt and uncle Peggy and Paul Patry of Saint Albans, VT. His very special uncle and aunt Jack and Emily DeRosa and their children Julie, Jackieann, John and Jenny of South Windsor, CT. An uncle John Shumski of Colchester. His former in-laws Frank and Diane Gilchrest of Old Saybrook as well as a former brother-in-law, Michael Gilchrest and his wife Erin, nieces Hayley and Cassidy, and nephew Luke; and former sister-in-law Leigh Siobodzian and her husband Mark. And many other loving cousins, nieces and nephews. Visiting hours will be held Saturday, October 11, 2014 1:30-5:30pm at the Dillon-Baxter Funeral Home, 1276 Berlin Tpke., Wethersfield, followed by a memorial service with Sister Joanne Fahey, C.P. officiating. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Paul's memory may be made for the benefit of his children to: Dutch Point Credit Union, P.O. Box 290788, Wethersfield, CT 06109 - make checks payable to John Simonelli. To share a memory with the family please visit www.dillonbaxter.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 10, 2014.

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Stephanie Larson

April 2, 2015

I am so sorry to all of Paul's family and friends. What an amazing man, rest now, you're home

December 3, 2014

My condolences to all that knew him. Sounded like he was a good man.
Karl Halfmann Local 9

Tom Scherer

November 11, 2014

To John, Cathy and all the Simonelli family - I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences to all in the family.

October 18, 2014

To all members of the Simonelli Family
Sorry to hear of Pauls passing. He was truly a Elevator Gentlemen. He will be missed by all members of the Elevator World in Connecticut. May God Grant him Salvation. James V. DiVita/Retired Elevator Inspector

October 15, 2014

I'm so sorry Pat. Paul was a great friend to many. I had so much fun with him over the yrs. I am so sad for your loss.He will be missed. Scott Strouth

Crystal Jackson

October 14, 2014

John,Cathy & family
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. We are thinking of all of you.
Hold on to all your memories.
Dick and Crystal Jackson

Sue Foote

October 14, 2014

John & family, I just learned of Paul's passing. I am so very sorry. May God give you comfort during this time. Please know you're in my prayers.

October 12, 2014

To The Simonelli Family:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
May God Bless you all in this time of sorrow.

Heartfelt condolences to each and everyone who has found memories of him.

Lenny Silvia & Hollie Forgetta

John Coelho

October 12, 2014

Paul, an old friend and classmate. It's been so long but I have lots of great memories of you from those high school days. May you rest in peace. Prayers & condolences to your family.

October 12, 2014

Dear Pat-Iam heart broken. The news of your loss brought back painfull memories of John.
May God's angels watch over your family and may our Lord shower his gifts and graces on you.

Ron Fanelli

Bill Callan

October 12, 2014

John, Cathy and family, my sincere condolences are extended in your time of loss.

John Ehlers

October 11, 2014

John, Catherine and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss especially of someone so young. Heartfelt condolences to all.
Sincerely,

mike kssane

October 11, 2014

to the simonelli family, I still have very vivid memories of playing little league baseball with both steve and paul. one thing I remember about paul is how he always had a smile on his face whenever he showed up at hyland park for practice or a game.
my sincere condolences to all of you.

Lance Woodland

October 11, 2014

To the Simonelli family, please accept my sincere condolences.Although its been about 40yrs. My memories of Paul are all good,whether you needed a homerun in little league or in the lot across from his house or if you needed someone on your side anyone from the old crew could count on Paul.I'm proud to have been friends with you Paul. REST IN PEACE BUDDY.

October 11, 2014

John and Kathy
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Joanne Giannetti

Donna, Matthew, Kayla Cassidy

October 11, 2014

Thinking of you with our most heartfelt and deepest sympathies. Paul may be gone from our sight, but not from our memories; gone from our touch, but not our hearts. Paul will forever be loved and missed.

Jamie Aiudi-Emmanuel

October 11, 2014

Debbie, Abby, John & the entire Simonelli family - we are so saddened to hear of your incredible loss. May your cherished memories flood you with love and peace as you navigate through your immense grief. Paul & your family are in our thoughts & prayers.
The Emmanuel Family
Tom, Jamie, Olivia & Charlotte

October 10, 2014

Our condolences go out to all of you. We will have to in our thoughts and prayers.
Kim and Tim DeMarco

Lucy Nadeau

October 10, 2014

Paul...i have so many memories growing up and you are such a huge part of them. We had the best times driving to sound view and spending lots of time at the ranch and playing cards in your basement. Your van was the only way we ever traveled. You will forever be in my thoughts and I will smile whenever I think of you. May you find the peace you deserve. My condolences to your wonderful family. With much love. Lucy Brancato Nadeau

mike hainsworth

October 10, 2014

my sincere condolence to the simonetti family.He will be greatly missed as a friend and a good union brother

Larry Holt

October 10, 2014

My deepest sympathy to family and friends.
He is at peace now and rest with the Master.

Ed Marchitto

October 10, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the Simonelli family. Paul was one of the best guys you could ever want to work with. He will be greatly missed. Rest in peace Paul

Wayne & Jeff Tazzara

October 10, 2014

Steve and family, my son Jeff and I are deeply saddened by your loss, everyone's loss. I've had countless laughs, shared stories while working with Paul that will be with me forever. Jeff has had the pleasure of working under Paul's leadership with Kone which was a tremendous learning experience with a laugh or two. Paul's presence will always be with us.

Linda Casasanta

October 10, 2014

Steve and family I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I love the memories I have of Paul from the neighborhood. Love to you all!

October 10, 2014

Steve and family, My deepest sympathy for the loss of your beloved brother and son. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. Rest in Peace.

Robin (Petersen) Peterson - schoolmate of Steve

Brian Anderson

October 10, 2014

Our deepest heart felt sympathies go out to you all during this trying time. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Brian Anderson and Family

October 10, 2014

To the Simonelli family, our deepest symapathy for the loss of Paul. The Bourgeois family.

Susan Marshall (Yeadon)

October 10, 2014

Steve - Keeping you in my prayers that you will find comfort in all of the great memories you have of Paul. My deepest sympathy.

October 10, 2014

Our deepest sympathy to Paul's family and friends.

Michael, Erin, Hayley, Luke and Cassidy Gilchrest

Rob & Sue Breen

October 10, 2014

Our deepest sympathies for your loss. Debbie, John, Abbey and all of Paul's family and friends, we shall continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

David P. Watson,Sr.

October 10, 2014

I was deeply saddened to hear of Paul's passing. Paul's father, John ,was my helper when he started in the elevator business and I remember Paul when he started. I had occasion to work with Paul at various times in my career and enjoyed it. He was a true craftsman. He will be greatly missed by all. My sincerest sympathy's to his mother Pat, Uncle Jack and Aunt Emily and to all of his family,relatives and friends. Rest in Peace.

October 10, 2014

Dear John & Cathy,
I am so sorry to hear of the unexpected loss of your brother. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.

Sincerely,

Tracey Nieroda(Morin) and family

October 10, 2014

Steve and Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you my friend.
Ron Andreoli

Mike Okonuk

October 10, 2014

My deepest sympathies to the Simonelli family. Words can not express my sorrow of the news of Paul's passing.

Steveo

October 10, 2014

Co-worker,Brother,roomie and best friend.Work,coffee in the morning on the weekends,golf and happy hour on Fridays with the boys will never,never,never be the same,going to miss you Bro

October 10, 2014

Sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. We enjoyed knowing him and spending many good times with him.

The Parker Family

Tom Hultine

October 10, 2014

John and Kathy,

So sorry to hear this news. You're in our thoughts and prayers to get through this tough time.

Rick & Lisa Tardette

October 10, 2014

Rick and I were deeply saddened to hear about Paul's passing. We have great memories all growing up together. Our sympathies to his entire family at this time and our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lynn Strong Kostek

October 10, 2014

John and family,

I am so sorry to hear about your brother's passing. May he be in God's arms now. I hope you find peace soon.

Michael Zame

October 10, 2014

I was so very saddened when i heard the news of Paul`s passing I have so many great memories of him having known him for over 30 years from bowling nites to to partys and eventually Paul being in my wedding party he was a great friend that was loved and will be missed.Although as we grow and things change we didnt see each other often but when we did it was always a laugh filled reunion from him flooding his Ramcharger to his first cell phone a(brick)he was a genuine great guy and i could go on forever with stories.My thoughts and prayers go out to Steve and his whole family rest in peace my friend

October 10, 2014

The Cominsky and Babicz families wish to extend our very deepest condolences to all, especially Aunt Pat Simonelli. You are in our thoughts and prayers, as well as our hearts.

ROCCO GUERRIERO

October 10, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Dillon-Baxter Funeral Home - Wethersfield

October 10, 2014

Our sincere sympathies for your loss.

October 9, 2014

So sorry to hear of Paul's passing. My sincere condolences to Pat Simonelli and his Uncle Jack and Aunt Peg and all the cousins. I remember him on New Britain Avenue with his Mom, Dad and Grandmother at all the holidays.

Kacey French

October 9, 2014

My deepest sympathies to you all. I am saddened to hear of your loss.

October 9, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the Simonelli family. Paul was one of the best elevator adjusters and the smartest kid
that I had the pleasure to work with. I'll always remember with fond memories of him teaching me the computer. We enjoyed golfing together and was my best "drinking" partner. I will always have happy memories of him. Paul, I will always miss you. Rest in Peace.
Billy and Cathy Hess, Stamford, CT

October 9, 2014

To the Simonelli Family,
My sincerest condolences to you all on Paul's passing. I worked with Paul many times during my career at Montgomery and Kone Elevator companies. He was a hoot to work with and he taught me a lot. He will be missed very much.

Bob Frey
IUEC Local 91, retired.

Andrew & Jennifer Deane

October 9, 2014

Andy and I find ourselves with no words. The sadness and shock is truly overwhelming. We will keep Paul close in our hearts and memories always. They say "The weary never rest". Our dear friend, we hope you can finally rest peacefully. Love and prayers to the family.

Nancy DiMitruck

October 9, 2014

To Steve and the Simonelli Family,
Our deepest sympathies to all of you at this very difficult time. Paul will be sorely missed by all - his sense of humor and workmanship. We will all keep a happy moment with Paul in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Nancy DiMitruck and the Elevator Inspectors- State of CT

Jim LaTorra

October 9, 2014

Paul,my friend and coworker, I will miss you and the many inspections we did together. May God bless you and your family. My deepest condolences.

Susan Coyne

October 9, 2014

I am very saddened by Paul's passing. We grew up together and had a great gang of friends! My deepest sympathies to John, Steve, Mrs. Simonelli, Debbie & the kids. May he rest in peace.

Linda Cassells

October 9, 2014

Rest my dear friend, rest. I will think of you often. I will miss you and our wonderful lunches.

Denise Shumski-Lovley

October 9, 2014

Heaven has received one of the best !! Rest in Peace you will be missed by many.

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