Jonathan Wayne Graeber

Jonathan Wayne Graeber

Jonathan Graeber Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 18, 2009.
Taken from us too soon, MR. JONATHAN WAYNE GRAEBER, 28, passed away in his home on January 14, 2009. Trusting in God's infinite wisdom, we know Heaven holds a special place for our Jonathan, who was a warm, caring and compassionate friend to all who knew him. He was born September 9, 1980 to Larry Charles (deceased 2008) and Mary Van Rheen Graeber in Houston, Texas and he was raised in Pasadena, Texas. Jonathan graduated from Deer Park High School in 1999 and from the University of Houston in 2004 with a Bachelor of Science-Mechanical Engineering & Technology degree. While working full-time in the oil industry, Jonathan earned an Executive Master of Business Administration Banking & Finance from Sam Houston State University in August 2008. Jonathan's professional memberships were: Industrial Board of Advisors University of Houston, American Society of Mechanical Engineers, Society of Petroleum Engineers, American Society for Testing and Materials and Energy Rubber Group. Jonathan is survived by his loving mother, half-brother Justin Graeber; and his family: Connie & Steve Gore, children Alex Smith; Jennifer Smith and her children Brendan, Ashton and Madeline; Dan Van Rheen; Becky & Bruce Hanlon, children Travis and Jessica; Julie & Dennis McGowen; Barbara Van Rheen; Robert Van Rheen, children Rob, Amber and Brandon; Jane Van Rheen; Bud & Karole Ward; Kenneth & Becky Graeber; Herbert & Donna Graeber; Shirley & Tim Meier; Lynda Graeber; extended family members and his very dear friends he treasured so much. A Memorial Service will be held at Christ the Redeemer Church on Wednesday, January 21, 2009 at 11:00 a.m. located at 11507 Huffmeister Road, Houston, Texas 77065 (281-469-5533). Floral arrangements may be delivered to the attention of Ms. Bobbi Lund in the church office by 9:30 a.m. on January 21st. A memorial gift may be made in Jonathan's name to the Houston SPCA, 713-869-SPCA or online at www.houstonspca.org.

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August 12, 2025

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January 15, 2025

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December 14, 2021

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Jenn F.

August 12, 2025

I meant 2006 not 2016 (previous post)

Michelle Johnson

January 15, 2025

No matter the amount of years that passed, you are still missed each and every day. There are so many times I wish I could pick up the phone and call you. Love you my dear friend.

Kendra Cobb

December 14, 2021

Here I am in 2021 and still thinking of you. The one man who I can honestly say truly loved me the way I deserved to be loved. We were both so young, and I was madly in love with you. You put my happiness before your own, you made mistakes but owned them, you were there for me no matter what, and accepted me as I was. You set the bar so high that no other man has ever been able to reach it. You taught me to rebuild a carburetor, and flush a radiator and my favorite song is still Burning Sky by Bad Company. And Metallica´s black album always brings my thoughts back to you. Thank you for loving me.

Dan Van Rheen

January 29, 2009

JW - I am going to miss your enthuastic personality and your dynamic way of looking at life. As you know your entire family loved you very much. May God help your mon through these tough times. May you all be blessed! I know you are in heaven with Gran and Grandma. Enjoy!

Uncle Bruce, Aunt Becky and cousins Travis & Jessie Hanlon

January 28, 2009

We have wonderful memories of Jonathan that we'll treasure forever. We'll miss him always. Love -

Uncle Robert Van Rheen

January 28, 2009

Jonathan meant the world to me. I remember taking him places as he grew up. He approached everything with his eyes wide open. He was all about fun and always had a kind ear. I'll miss him with all of my heart. Love always,

Cousin Jennifer Smith and Family

January 28, 2009

Growing up with Jonathan was just like having another younger brother. I got to see him grow up and work hard for everything he deserved in his life. I was proud to be able to see him graduate from high school, then college, and lastly get his Executive MBA. Mostly, I will miss hanging out and talking. He had a lot to say, as everyone knows who knew him. My life will be different without him here, but I know he lived a full life because gratefully I was there to see much of it. Jonathan you are in my prayers and will love you always.

Connie Gore

January 26, 2009

Jonathan, you were always a delight and such a passionate, smart young man. I loved your insatiable curiosity and the sparkle in your eyes when you got excited about your work and wanted to share your knowledge. You were larger than life in anything you did and I will miss you terribly, especially your wonderful laughter and engaging grin. I will love you always. Be at peace with God, Grandma and Gran.

Aunt Connie and Uncle Steve Gore

Kendra Garner (Cobb)

January 23, 2009

Jonathan, you were such a wonderful part of my young adult life. Thank you so much for all of the great times and memories!

Mike Brune

January 22, 2009

I'm sorry for your loss. I knew Jonathan for only a short time, but his life and death has impacted my life for the better. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with Jonathan, his family and friends.

Frank Herrera

January 22, 2009

My prayers go out to Jonathan's family and friends. I only worked with Jonathan at BJ briefly, he always brought smiles and happiness to those around him. You will be missed. From one Cougar to another, May God bless you and I hope you have found the peace we all long for.

Nic White

January 21, 2009

He was one of my best friend and like a brother to me and I will really miss him. I have so many fond memories of us that I know he will live on in my mind forever. The love that I had for him can never be taken away.

The Stone Family

January 20, 2009

Much love and prayers across the miles to the most wonderful family. We are with you in spirit.

Kellie Ryan

January 20, 2009

Jonathan was such a great inspiration to me and who I am. He was a wonderful friend and although we lost touch for a bit I still continued to have him in my thoughts and prayers. Jonathan, I will miss you dearly. Untill we meet again dear friend.

Edie Goodwin

January 20, 2009

I only talked to you once as your life was always so busy, but I was impressed with your firm handshake and your look-me-right-in-the-eyes way of talking. I kept an eye on your home as a good neighbor should do and will continue to do so until it is occupied again. My heart goes out to your family and vast number of friends. You'll always live in the hearts and minds of those that loved you and they will keep your spirit and memory alive. RIP and God bless you.

Michelle Johnson

January 19, 2009

There's so many words I could use to describe Jonathan - he was intelligent, passionate, fun, thoughtful, kind, and so much more. If you ever needed a friend, he would be there. I'm going to miss him tremendously. I am grateful that I had the opportunity to know and love such a wonderful person.

Crystal Acuff

January 19, 2009

I enjoyed having lunches with you & you hanging out with me when I was @ BJ Services. You were a good friend & always a crazy laugh. You helped me keep my head up high. You will always be in my prayers, mind, & heart. God will always bless you & you will bring smiles to everyone in your path.

Lee Harvey

January 18, 2009

Jonathan's family is in my heart a prayers. I only knew this talented man for 3 years, but he quickly became my friend after our first meeting. His personality and kindness made it easy to bond with him as a friend, and someone I enjoyed getting to know. He held no agendas, and was truly available as himself, a friend I will sadly not have the opportunity to grow with. You will be missed!!
Lee Harvey

Renee Barrett-Gonzales

January 18, 2009

I met Jonathan when I became his real estate agent. He was excited about buying his first house. He was such a kind sole. We quickly became friends and talked often. Through his stories, I learned so much about his family and friends. He often talked about his mom, Donald, his aunt and uncle and was excited to learn he had a half brother. I know we will all miss him greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Adriana Montero

January 18, 2009

I met Jonathan at his favorite place, in the gym. Always hard working and loved to workout with me. He truly will be missed not only there but in our hearts. My prayers are with all that had the privilege to know him. -Adriana Montero

Jennifer Cuellar

January 18, 2009

Jonathan was always a great friend to me for the last 10 years that I had the privilege of knowing him. He was more than a friend, he was like a brother to me. He will always have a special place in my heart. I will never forget you!

Troy Premeaux

January 18, 2009

Jonathan,
Was one of those people, whom you'll never forget, I was a privledge to be his friend.

Troy
Montrose Patient Advocates
Houston, Texas 77019

Steven "Bull" Reynolds

January 18, 2009

You were a great friend and will truly be missed. I was lucky to have a friend like you growing up. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Stacey Yates - George

January 18, 2009

The family are in our thoughts and prayers. He will be missed.

Jane Van Rheen

January 18, 2009

The part of Jonathan's life that I got to be a part of was very special. He was a talented young man with lots of gifts and we will miss him so much.
Jane Van Rheen

Donald Carpenter

January 18, 2009

You were one of my best friends, and I will miss you so much. You were always there for me and part of so many memories. You were one of the kindest and most giving people that I have ever met. You helped me through some of the most difficult times in my life, and I am forever grateful for the privilege of being your friend. I love you bro'. May you be at peace. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers forever.

Cassie Sivley

January 18, 2009

I remember hanging out with him all through high school. Him, Alex and Brian. Times I will never forget. I still can not bellieve that he is gone.

JW, Jessie and Travis

Uncle Dennis & Aunt Julie McGowen

January 18, 2009

Our beautiful Jonathan is now in God's hands along with his Grandma Van Rheen, Gran, Granny Graeber, Grandfather Van Rheen and his dad watching over him.

Love in Christ-

Barbara Van Rheen

January 18, 2009

Jonathan will be deeply missed by his family. It is hard to imagine going on without him. Growing up Jennifer, Alex & Jonathan were the "Three Muskateers". Always having fun, laughter & in mischief. He was a mentor to his niece & nephew, Jessica & Travis. Our memories of Jonathan and belief in God wil help us through our grief.

Aunt Barbara

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