Antoinette Sedita Patronella

Antoinette Sedita Patronella obituary, Houston, TX

Antoinette Sedita Patronella

Antoinette Patronella Obituary

Published by Houston Chronicle from Jul. 9 to Jul. 13, 2014.
Antoinette Sedita Patronella, 78 years young, passed from this world on Friday, the 4th of July 2014, in Houston.
Antoinette was born in Houston on the 5th of September 1935, to Domenic J. Sedita and Lena Fasullo Sedita. She was preceded in death by her parents; her devoted husband of 53 years, Charles W. Patronella; her beloved grandson, Justin A. Patronella; and her in-laws Anthony J. Patronella and Carrie Brocco Patronella.
Antoinette was the epitome of style and grace. Although beautiful on the outside, it was her inner beauty that burnished brighter than anything else. For anyone who knew Antoinette, it was her genuineness that they noticed. Even in illness, she always looked like a ""million dollars."" She had many titles during her life. First and foremost was ""saint"" for having the strength, dedication and self-sacrifice to nurture and guide four very active boys, and a husband full of ""spirit"" and adventure. Second, was ""Queen of the Malls,"" for her prowess in being seen in the latest fashions was legendary. However, the title she treasured and cherished most was being called ""Mother.""
Antoinette was an incredible mother to her four sons and then to her precious daughters-in-law. For anyone who truly knew Antoinette, she always put her children's needs before her own. She was the most selfless, loving mother a child could ask for. Her attentive and supportive family, along with her strong faith in God, is what carried her through illness after illness from the very beginning of her life to the end. But through all of her setbacks, she showed amazing resolve, a fighting spirit and a will to survive no matter how difficult the challenge. Her love of family and being together as one is what truly made her feel alive and happy.
Antoinette is survived by her four sons and their wives, Anthony J. Patronella, II and his wife Mary Sue, Dr. Christopher K. Patronella and his wife Rosanne, Mark D. Patronella and his wife Maureen, Michael B. Patronella and his wife Dr. Allyson Patronella; as well as her sister and best friend, Vita Palermo; brother, Sammy Sedita and his wife Jeanette; her three nieces, Mary Ann Bankston, Lanette Loverde and Judy Halbert; and two nephews, Steve Palermo and Greg Palermo. She is also survived by her eleven grandchildren, Kecia Parker and her husband Zach, Michelle, Brittany Elliott and her husband Marc, Christopher Jr., Nicholas and his wife Melissa, Anthony III ""Trey,"" Gabriella, Domenic, Damian, Rachel and Vanessa Patronella; as well as her four great-grandchildren, Avery and Dean Elliott, Sloan and Wren Parker; and her brother-in-law, Dr. Jerry Loving and his wife Arlene.
Antoinette's incredible life journey, which sadly ended on the 4th of July, is so fitting, as she lit up the night sky brighter than any fireworks ever could. Mom was equally comfortable whether attending a formal affair or working the concession stand at the Little League serving snow-cones and hot dogs. Mom graduated from Blessed Sacrament School and Incarnate Word Academy and was very involved in numerous Italian cultural and religious organizations including; The Amiketos Club, Donne di Domani, The Italian Federation, St. Thomas Mother's Club, The Ladies of Sacred Heart, as well as a parishioner of Queen of Peace, St. Christopher and St. Michael Catholic Churches during different parts of her life. The time, energy and heart she put into these organizations gave her a tremendous amount of pride and self-esteem. It was through these varied affiliations that she made many lifelong friendships which brought her an immense amount of joy, comfort and pleasure.
Her faith in God attracted her to several Bible study groups, as well as the Catholic Charismatic Movement. It was during this time that our mother grew spiritually and developed the deep relationship with the Holy Spirit that carried and lifted her up through the lowest valleys, as well as the highest peaks in her life. Her thanks and praise of God, no matter the circumstance, is what always resided within her.
The family wishes to extend a note of thanks to her compassionate caregiver Ada Cedillo, who loved Antoinette like her own mother. Also, a special thank you to her generous and steadfast daughter-in-law, Rosanne, who opened her home and took fantastic care of her during the last part of her life.
Friends are cordially invited to a visitation with the family from two o'clock this afternoon until eight o'clock this evening, Sunday, the 13th of July, in the Jasek Chapel of Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston, where the Rosary is to commence at three o'clock, and scripture readings at half-past six o'clock, led by her cousin, Deacon Louis Provenzano, with family eulogies to follow.
A Mass of Christian Burial is to be offered at ten o'clock in the morning on Monday, the 14th of July, at St. Michael Catholic Church, 1801 Sage Road in Houston, where the Rev. Douglas J. Guthrie, Pastor of St. Luke the Evangelist Catholic Church, the Rev. Roy Oggero, the Rev. Patrick Fulton, the Rev. Albert Gaelens, and Deacon Louis Provenzano are to celebrate. Honored to serve as pallbearers during Monday's services are her Godson, Steve Palermo; nephew, Mike Bankston; her grandchildren, Christopher K. Patronella, Jr., Nicholas C. Patronella, Anthony J. ""Trey"" Patronella, III, Domenic M. Patronella, Damian C. Patronella; and nephew, Greg Palermo.
The Rite of Committal is to immediately follow, via an escorted cortège, at Forest Park Lawndale Cemetery in Houston.
Following the services, all are invited to greet the family during a reception in the Archbishop Joseph A. Fiorenza Community Center of Queen of Peace Catholic Church, 3011 Telephone Road in Houston.
In lieu of customary remembrances, the family requests with gratitude that memorial contributions in her name be directed to The 4500 Forever Capital Campaign at St. Thomas High School, 4500 Memorial Drive, Houston, TX, 77007; and/or to her alma mater, Incarnate Word Academy, 609 Crawford Street, Houston, TX, 77002.
""Mom, you left an incredible legacy for us to emulate and follow. The road that lies ahead will not have you here physically with us, but we have the strength and comfort in knowing the directions you left us (through your constant love and guidance) will lead us on our journeys. You were, are, and always will be in our collective hearts and minds. WE LOVE YOU!""


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July 24, 2014

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July 20, 2014

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July 15, 2014

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July 24, 2014

To all the Patronella Family,
I an truly sorry for your loss and more so sorry I wasn't able to attend the services in her honor. I have just lost my own mom at the same time and know the deep hurt you are feeling. May God's strength be your healing force. Love to all, Antoinette Rao Mattaliano

Sam Listi

July 20, 2014

We always enjoyed seeing Antoinette and Charles. She will be missed greatly. She is with God now.

Sam and Juliette Listi

Sandy & Plum LaCorte

July 15, 2014

We were so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. We have know her for many years. She will truly be missed. We were not able to attend the services because we were not in town. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dorothy Gabriel White

July 14, 2014

As you share, talk, and remember, may you truely find the one you love so much is still living in your hearts.
Sincerely,
Blessed Sacrament and IWA classmate Dorothy Gabriel White

John & Shirley Talley

July 14, 2014

Our sincere sympathy to all of the family. We keep you in our prayers.

Linda Jones Robinson

July 14, 2014

A loss of a mother must be among one of the greatest of life's tragedies. And yet her spirit and care and laughter continues to live among each one of you. Chris, condolences to you and your wonderful family!

Fr. Kevin Storey

July 13, 2014

So sorry for your loss. She is in my prayers and I will celebrate mass for her tomorrow here at the Basilian General Chapter in Rochester, NY. God bless,

Diane Jackson

July 13, 2014

A Strong and Beautiful Woman who was always true to her Family, her Values and her Beliefs. She gave me her love and taught me so much during my life. I carry that with me to this day and will be forever grateful. I thank God that my children had such a truly involved loving Grandmother. She will forever be in our hearts.
Love,
Diane

July 13, 2014

May God's peace that passes all understanding be with you.
Dianne White

July 13, 2014

Sweetness,kindness and compassion for your family and friends Will always be remembered
Nuncio & JoAnn Martino

Mr. & Mrs Sam C. Grizzaffi and family GRIZZAFFI

July 12, 2014

Our prayers and sympathy are with your family during this time. Blessings always.Love

Hilda Valdez and Family

July 12, 2014

Wishing you peace and courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts is my prayer.

Elizabeth Sedita-Laufer

July 12, 2014

Sending our sympathy. I know how much my Dad loved and cherished her and will miss her.

July 12, 2014

Rest in peace Antoinettee!! You will always be by Mom's (Vita Ann Sedita's) beautiful cousin.

Lisa Cashiola-Coleman

July 11, 2014

We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother Antoinette. She was such a kind and joyful lady; our parents L.A. & Barbara enjoyed spending many happy times with Charles & Antoinette. We are keeping all of you in our prayers.

Louie & Traci Barrientos

July 10, 2014

Our heartfelt sympathy, thoughts & prayers are with the Patronella family. "Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather, openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy". May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead. GOD bless your family,

Roxanne Mancuso

July 10, 2014

Our condolences and sympathy to all of you for the loss of your mother, sister, in law, relative, friend...May she rest in peace...She is forever remembered...a lovely lady...
Joe, Roxanne Mancuso

Jeanette and James Mushinski

July 9, 2014

We were so sad to hear of the loss of your mother. The house across the street will always be the Petronella House. Your mother was a lovely and sweet lady. Our prayers are with the family.

July 9, 2014

Prayers for the Patronella family as they mourn the loss of their beloved Mother, Grandmother ,Sister, Cousin, Friend. She was such a sweet, lovely person, stay strong. Barbara Talley Pieri

Becky Tittle and family

July 9, 2014

Thoughts and prayers are with The Patronella Family. May God's love lighten your sorrow.

Theresa Mandola-Palermo

July 9, 2014

A true beauty...inside and out! She will be truly missed. Take comfort in knowing that the family Matriarch is now gathered with those who went before her. My love and prayers go out to all the Patronella's and extended family.

July 9, 2014

Dear Anthony, Chris, Mark and Michael,
I am so sad about your mom. I am praying for all of you as I know you were so close to her and she was a wonderful person. All of you did so much to make her life the best it could be and she was so proud of all of you.
I will never forget how good she and your dad were to me and Jo Ann and Donald when I lived near them. I did have a good talk with her the day she had come home from the hospital. Even though we are hurting she is not suffering anymore. If I can do anything for any of you, please let me know.
Love,
Rose Ann Leonetti

Marc Elliott

July 8, 2014

I feel blessed to have known such a sweet and loving person. It was always such a joy to be in you presence. I know God is happy to now have you in his kingdom. May God bless you Mammanette!

Karen Husmann

July 8, 2014

Such a sweet and elegant lady. I will miss her!

Carolyn Trader

July 8, 2014

I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult times.

Diane Engbrock-Moss

July 8, 2014

Chris, Anthony, Michael and Mark: Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your mother, Antoinette was a wonderful, caring and sweet mother. She is also very beautiful, classy and elegant. We love all of you and your family. Hugs! Deborah Engbrock, Joe Engbrock and Diane K. Engbrock-Moss.

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