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Porter Parris Obituary

PORTER P. PARRIS, born on August 7, 1917, passed on to the Lord on May 31, 2009. Born near Gilliland, Texas, on his parents' farm, Porter was the youngest of five children. His family moved to Denton when he was seven. After high school went to Lubbock and enrolled at Texas Tech College and joined ATO. After receiving his B.A. he went to work at the Lubbock Hilton. Shortly thereafter he was promoted to the front desk, became front office manager, then assistant manager, and then moved in to the hotel as resident manager. He married his college sweetheart, Mary Ross Edwards, the daughter of the mayor of Lubbock. Together they had three sons; Porter born in Lubbock, Thomas born in El Paso, and Robert born in Dayton, Ohio. He enlisted in the Army in 1943 and served for two years, earning a purple heart. His career with Hilton spanned 50 years. As General Manager, Managing Director, and Regional Senior Vice President, he operated numerous hotels including The El Paso Hilton, The Conrad Hilton, The Palmer House, The Plaza in New York and The Shamrock Hilton. Parris was long involved in the American Hotel and Motel Association, and in 1979 was elected President. He retired as Senior Vice President and Special Assistant to Barron Hilton in Washington, D.C., and concurrently was Chairman of the Governmental Affairs Committee of AH&MA. He was a past president of the Houston Hotel Association, the Texas Hotel Association, the Chicago Hotel Association, and the Illinois Hotel Association, and was a member of the Tavern Club of New York. Additionally, the honor of Distinguished Alumnus was conferred on him by Texas Tech. He enjoyed his retirement in Houston, which he considered his home base because of the numerous good friends there. He was long-time member of River Oaks Country Club and had a special fondness for the wonderful staff there. He had much fun in Allegro and other social organizations. He was congenial, fun, kind and generous, and loved to travel. His inviting and gregarious personality, wonderful sense of humor, and his excellent singing voice made him a popular person in the many cities in which he lived. He will be greatly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. Porter is survived by his two sons; Porter and his wife Lou, and Thomas and his wife Billie Sue; grandchildren Samantha Ross Eagle, Keith McAuliffe, Barry McAuliffe; and several great-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held at 3:00pm on Thursday, June 11, at Christ Church Cathedral, 1117 Texas Avenue in Houston, where the Rev. Lucrecia Littlejohn, Canon Pastor, will officiate. After the memorial service a reception will be held in the Foyer of the Ballroom of the River Oaks Country Club, 1600 River Oaks Boulevard. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations in Porter's name be directed to Christ Church Cathedral, 1117 Texas Avenue, Houston, TX 77002, or Texas Tech University, P.O. Box 41081, Lubbock, TX 79409-1081, or to the charity of one's choice.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Jun. 7 to Jun. 9, 2009.

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Diana Bland Linder

June 1, 2021

Hugs to Busy and Tom on the anniversary of the loss of their Dad, whom I remember as a dignified, bigger-than-life gentleman... with an audacious sense of humor.

Burton Burrus, Jr.

June 22, 2009

Busy and Tommy,
Sorry to read of your Dad's passing. He was a good man and always helpful to my mother which was always greatly appreciated. Condolences in your loss. Warmest regards.
Your Cousin,
Burton Burrus, Jr.

Diana Bland Linder

June 15, 2009

Tom and Busy! I remember what a solid, good man your Dad was, though I'm sure a taskmaster. A privilege to have met him, and condolences for your loss.PLEASE send me an email! It's been too long. Warm wishes...

Phyllis (Polk) Liscum

June 13, 2009

Tom and family,
I heard nothing but good things about your dad during the time I lived in Houston. You and I worked together at the 'dome. My condolences and best wishes to you all.

Jennifer Waring

June 10, 2009

My condolences Samantha. I know how much he meant to you and your family.

Bruce McIntyre

June 8, 2009

My sincere condolences to you and your family at this time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Linda Juba

June 7, 2009

Your father lived at my Grandmother's home in Lubbock while attending Texas Tech. Her name was Mary Neathery. Your Dad was a friend of my Mother (Blandina Neathery Trojan), Uncle Sam Neathery and cousin Sam Bejach while at Texas Tech. My Mother was also a member of Sans Souci with your Mother. I was born in 1940 in Lubbock, graduated from Tech and now reside in Dallas. My sister lives in Houston. She shared the passing of your Dad. My Mother passed away in 1985 and my Uncle passed away about six years ago. I heard many stories about your Dad. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Jim Clifton

June 7, 2009

It is a privilege to have known the Parris family. Porter had a grand sense of humor, and Lou was a formidable mixed doubles tennis partner.

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