Lisa Raquel Benitez
1967-2014
Lisa Raquel Benitez passed away peacefully while surrounded by family on Saturday, December 27, 2014. Lisa was born on December 31, 1967, in Houston, Texas, and is survived by her parents, Sandra and Manuel Benitez III; siblings, Missy Cadelago and Manuel (Manny) Benitez IV; nieces and nephews, Gabriella, Isabella, Zachary, Christian, and Alyssa; grandmother, Eva Benitez; and her loving partner John Hitt and their precious dog Elliott Piccone Benitez.
Lisa graduated from Klein High School in1986 and from the Art Institute of Houston in 1989. Lisa excelled in her career raising funds for charitable causes as an Event Coordinator/Manager for Planned Parenthood Gulf Coast and The Center for Hearing and Speech. She leaves behind many friends from her time at Foley's/Macy's Department Store, and The Clifford Group.

Lisa embraced diversity and advocated for others. She lived her life with a passion for the causes she believed in and supported them by volunteering on boards or committees such as: the Houston Downtown Alliance, The Human Rights Campaign, Houston Community College Central Advisory Board to the Fashion Department, Planned Parenthood Gulf Coast, Jane's Due Process, Houston Art Car Ball, and as a Founding Member of Planned Parenthood Young Leaders. She also volunteered for various political campaigns, art projects, Teach for America and many others.

Lisa was larger than life. She was not afraid to take a stand and advocate for her beliefs. She was funny and straight forward, but always generous and loving to all. She got involved, instead of standing by. She loved life, and everyone loved her. She was known for her amazing fashion sense and her love of the Texans.
Lisa put together many events in her life, but for some of us she was the event—the event of our lives. She will be missed.

A mass will be held to celebrate Lisa's life Wednesday, December 31, 2014, 10:00 a.m. at The Co-Cathedral of the Sacred Heart, 1111 St. Joseph Parkway in downtown Houston.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Dec. 30, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Lisa Benitez

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57 Entries

Baum Jackie

December 24, 2022

Remembering the fun we had as teenagers in Spring, Texas. Miss you Lisa.

Jess C

December 24, 2019

Lisa
I was deep in thought thinking about you today, missing you dear, sweet , and funny friend. All of a sudden : your memory popped up in my email and I knew that was a sign. How I miss our adventures at the art institute Houston. I still can not believe it has been five years. Praying for you and your family
Jess(jezebel)

Shannon Coleman

December 24, 2019

I miss Lisa every day. Every day since she left this life. Sometimes a Cardinal will fly into my yard (I live in IL), and I know it is her. So I let myself remember. Sometimes I dream about her (in all of her fabulousness), and I wake up happy. But it is an every day occurrence. And thinking of her brings me peace me. It makes me smile. Every time.

Jim Manning

March 13, 2018

I just heard about Lisa's death and I am devastated. Lisa was such a wonderful and loving person. I am at a loss because I do not know what to say. We knew each other personally and professionally. I do cherish our friendship and offer a prayer for you my friend.

Gretchen Pucci O'Neill

January 13, 2015

Where to begin? it is impossible to say in words the impact that Lisa has had in my life. Friends since childhood, Lisa and I shared many memories. She was smart and beautiful and funny and made me laugh whenever we were together. She saw me at my best and worst, and was with me through the most difficult times in my life. As we grew older, our lives changed and we saw each other less. However long between phone calls or visits, when we spoke it was as if no time had passed. I miss Lisa's smile and sense of humor and the gentle way she had of nudging me when I needed it. She was one of the most non-judgmental people I have ever known and she had an amazing ability to find the positive and the humor in any situation. To the Benitez family - Please know that Lisa touched my life in an immeasurable way and I will never forget her.

Naila Kasem/ [email protected]

January 9, 2015

My deepest condolences for the Benitez family. I am so sorry to hear of Lisa's passing. Prayers for the whole family. Take care Manny and Missy.

Suzie Hanson

January 8, 2015

Dear Benitez family,
Ed and I were saddened to hear of Lisa's passing. We became acquainted with her when the girls were in Klein High School. Lisa, Gretchen Pucci and our daughter Lee were good friends. Lisa stayed in touch with us with cards and emails throughout the years. She was very special.
We say prayers for all of you every day.
Sincerely, Ed & Suzie Hanson

Lee Bell

January 6, 2015

Lisa, I Love You to the moon and back! I will never forget all of the wonderful times and adventures we had the past 30 or so years. I'm so grateful that you were in my life and I don't know how it would ever have been the same. I remember the year after we graduated high school and my dad was out of a job and you pretty much lived with us. We would play spades and stay up late watching movies and sit rememnising about high school. Later I remember my mom telling me that if it weren't for us being there he never would have made that year he was out of a job without you, Gretchen and I. My family has always considered you just another sister and daughter. My father has had an extremely hard time hearing of your passing and you know my dad he hardly ever shows expression, so he loved you so much! I don't know of a single person that didn't love you. For now it's not goodbye it's ill see you later and today I light this candle in celebration of our times here on earth and for many more good times to come when I join you. I Love You to the moon and back.
Lee

Steven Anthony Zavala

January 5, 2015

That Girl From Woodville Lane

“There have been many times since I find myself driving alone down her lane. And it's always at that precise magic hour in my life that I'll stop the clock for just a moment and look towards that yesterday girl now gone...”

Some of my first memories I have of Lisa date back to our middle school days at Strack Intermediate. I can still recall with crystal clarity that moment I first laid eyes. Never could I have imagined that a single gaze from “that girl” off of Woodville Lane; the one with the beautiful chocolate eyes and that kitty-kat smile, could have ever brought me to my 14-year-old knees.

But she could. And she would. And she did...

She was my very first girlfriend, she was my very first homecoming date, she was my very first kiss. Each man has a starting point; a reference mark to where his true north had once been discovered.
On my compass, she was mine.
During our time as friends together, we shared countless late night conversations, fused with a few adolescent explorations and many a playful banter towards one another. A sparring partner was she, the likes of which to be rivaled by none ever since.
Those fortunate enough to know Lisa back in her early butterfly stages would remember the name of Coach Poole. He was the part-time detention coordinator who would ultimately bestow the honor of “King and Queen Detention” to both Lisa and I at the end of our eighth grade tour. Recognized for our combined and tireless dedication to the in-school discipline lock-up program, the prestige came complete with a mock ceremony and penny paper certificate.
It was really something to behold. And it's still one of my favorite memories of her.

I often look back to those years and am eternally grateful to Lisa for allowing such memories to be made with her. Just knowing her as I did gave me a confidence as a person that I lacked before the arrival of her on my shores.
I never saw her coming, yet cannot imagine those years without Lisa lurking somewhere over my left shoulder. Like pirates wielding play rubber swords, gently poking and prodding each other in the halls or during our social outings with well-calculated jabs.
“Abstinence Queen” was one of her favorite taunts flung at me. She had that kind of moxie. And everybody knew it.
But she also possessed a very sensual side to her. And those few lucky enough to experience it knew that as well. To be standing in that radiant glow that was cast off her when you were by her side; friend, that was one for the books.
I can still see and hear the way I could make her laugh.

The way she would always make me laugh…

Even as I write this, that summer night Lisa and I played side one of the classic rock album ASIA over and over in her bedroom will always hold a special footnote in my life.

She meant more to me in my pre-adult life than I ever told her, but I suspect by the way I was always vying for her attention back then, she probably already knew. Some of the most successful relationships I've had in my life are in some ways a result of the love and respect and then re-kindled friendship I had with Lisa.
She taught me that just because a love was not returned in the exact form that it was given, it didn't mean that it wasn't love. It was just a different shade of it.

The very last time I saw Lisa, she left me with nothing less than an immense respect, caring and a similar shade of love for her for which I carried like a pocket charm with me all of my forward days to come.

And for that, I will always be thankful.

Armed with the most noble of intentions, I always meant to somehow re-cross that bridge back to her; to venture boldly over those murky waters of our long ago past. If for nothing else, just to share with a friend: a drink and a dose of “Remember back when...”

But I let the years and the distance build between us both.

I regret them both now.
And with the sad passing of such an amazing soul, I'm sure she wouldn't be surprised that after all this time, she can still bring that once 14-year-old kid to his knees.

Like she could. And she would. And she has...

Lisa, I hope you know now that the fingerprints you left back then are still scorched onto the walls of my heart. As I'm certain with the others that have come before and after that you have undoubtedly touched in your own unique way.
Your own patented way.
So as you sail on from this place to the next, Lisa Raquel, hear me now for I say to you this:
“I will once again look upon your beautiful face someday, my friend. You girl that once brought me to my knees. You girl with the beautiful chocolate eyes. You girl with that kitty-kat smile. Though separate were the roads we both took, I'll still love you all the same. And until that day sees us both sparring together again; like those pirates a told on our eternal fabled seas, I'll always keep the moving pictures you helped create in my life and in my heart, so very close at hand.”

Like I whispered to you that long ago night, “You'll always be my first...”

Steven Anthony Zavala
December 31, 2014

Ann Sullivan

January 4, 2015

My heart goes out to Lisa's family. I loved reading how she made such a difference in the world. My God give you peace. Ann Sullivan

Janie Schwartz-Shaw

January 1, 2015

I never had the pleasure of meeting Lisa but I do know that her mother loved her dearly and was so very, very proud of her. No parent should ever have to say goodbye to their child. Sandra, you and your family are in my prayers and I am so very sorry for your loss. A candle will be lit and a mass will be said in Lisa's memory. May peace be with you all.

David Osherow

January 1, 2015

Lisa is one of the most genuine person I have ever known and honor to call a friend. It been a whole since we talked last, but we could always jump right in where we left off. Her dedication to her family , meaningful social issues and love of her friends are unmatched and set the bench mark us to follow. A beautiful legacy Lisa has provided . She was blessing to me …even after the time away . Lisa, her wonderful family, cherished friends and loved ones are I'm my prayers and deeply in my soul for this loss. God Bless to all...David Osherow

Shandolyn

December 31, 2014

My prayers and condolences to the family. Lisa was full of so much energy, love and a need to help others. I have so many memories and She is and will be truly missed.

December 31, 2014

Please accept my condolences, may the family find comfort @ Isisah 25:8.,

Gabe Santos

December 31, 2014

Our deepest condolences to all the Benitez families. From the Santos families (Sylvia Quinones Santos) in Texas and Colorado.

vanessa estrada

December 31, 2014

My deepest condolences to Lisa's family and close friends. Lisa would come to the art openings at the gallery where I work and she was always warm and friendly. She will be missed.
Vanessa Estrada
assistant director, koelsch gallery

Barb

December 31, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Lisa was such a shining bright light! She was loved by so many and will be sorely missed. This world is now a darker place. Prayers, love, hugs and peace to all.

December 31, 2014

You touched so many lives. You will be missed.

Fran Boland

December 30, 2014

Sandra, I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family during this trying time. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

B. Cheuvront

December 30, 2014

So sad to learn of Lisa's passing, particularly at this time of the year. As a Via Colori artist I had the honor of working under her expertise as an event coordinator; she was both kind and approachable. Heartfelt condolences to her family and loved ones.

Monica Fuentes

December 30, 2014

Still so heartbreaking to say goodbye too soon. My thoughts are with your loving family. I know you're sitting at the coolest table in heaven, girl...rest in peace

Sherma & Bud Bartels

December 30, 2014

So sad to learn of Lisa's passing. It is so hard to imagine losing a child at such a young age. Yet she is at peace and pain free. May wonderful memories guide her family in days ahead! Our love to Sandra, Manuel, Missy, Manny and the rest of the family.

Ernesto Castillo

December 30, 2014

My prayers go out to the Benitez Family. I will always remember her laughter and outgoing personality . We will miss you.RIP. Ernest /. Vanessa Castillo

Christina Hoffstot

December 30, 2014

You will be missed. My heart goes out to all the family and friends. Sending prayers.

Anita wiles

December 30, 2014

i will always remember your sassy fun personality on our many adventures. You were loved and will be ever missed. My heart aches for Manny and Missy. Ya'lls sibling bond has been so very strong,
You showed us how to treasure family!

Lilibeth

December 30, 2014

Thank you for making me feel special. It was a pleasure to share a weekend in life with you each fall and experience your energy and force to make it happen.

Charles & Adrienne Lyons

December 30, 2014

May God help Lisa's family to find strength in their faith at this very difficult time. Charles and I will carrying you and your memory in our hearts as we move forward. You will be missed.
Charles and Adrienne Lyons

December 30, 2014

I had the honor to meet Lisa last year for ViaColori 2013. My deepest sympathy to her family and friends.
peace & Dino

Roz Gabriel Williams

December 30, 2014

Death lives a heartache no one can heal, but LOVE is a memory no one can steal. My deepest sympathy to the Benitez Family. I had the honor of working with Lisa at Foley's and she was truly a wonderful person. RIP, we will meet again.

Heaterh Hannan

December 30, 2014

I briefly worked with Lisa at Macy's - but even in that short time I could see the passion she had for everything she did. My most recent memory of Lisa is from my co-worker Kamal Bosamia - who always had a picture of he and Lisa displayed in his office at the State Street Macy's store in Chicago where Kamal and I worked. Once Lisa touched your life, she was with you forever! And every time I commented on that photo, Kamal always smiled. Lisa will certainly be missed.

Melinda Castillo

December 30, 2014

Lord be with the Benitez family. Lisa your smile will be missed.:( Melinda Castillo

Evelyn

December 30, 2014

Deepest sympathy to Lisa's family. May you find comfort in the strength of GOD to sustain you through this very difficult time.

Catherine Carson

December 30, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss, Catherine Carson, former Foley's / Macy's

George and Charlotte Bravenec

December 30, 2014

To the entire Benitez family: we are so very sorry for the loss of Lisa...praying for peace and comfort for all of you...rest in much deserved peace, Lisa.

Lisa Orso

December 30, 2014

My most sincere condolences on the loss of my childhood friend. It has been many years...and I am truly saddened to learn of her passing. Our prayers to the Benitez', from the Miranda family.

Gloria Maddison

December 30, 2014

Lisa,
You will always be in our hearts. Paul and I will never forget your kindness to our family.

Much love...
Paul & Gloria Maddison

Cindy Clifford

December 30, 2014

Lisa was such a positive force with her family, her friends and her community. She was a member of my staff for almost 4 years in the early days of my firm. She was a hard worker, very smart and could always make me laugh in stressful business situations. I loved her very much and she will be greatly missed.

Ajzagado

December 30, 2014

In this very difficult time, may the family of Lisa find real comfort that only our loving Hevenly Father can give because He cares- 1Pet 5:7

Lisa Bray-Roberts

December 30, 2014

It is with great sadness that I've learned about the passing of Lisa. I will always remember her from KHS and how obvious it was then, she would become a woman who would achieve amazing success. May her family and closest friends find comfort in the memories you shared with her!

Bonnie Klein Dwiggins

December 30, 2014

Very sad to hear a fellow Bearkat has past on, but Heaven has received another great person up there!!! You touched many people and you will never be forgotten!!! RIP Lisa!!!

Jackie Baum

December 30, 2014

I just can't believe this. I'm bawling my eyes out! I went to school with Lisa and Missy. I'm so sad for you all. This sucks.

Heather Breuer

December 30, 2014

To hear of Lisa's passing was a shock. My heart truly breaks for her family & my close friend that were also hers. Gone to soon beautiful girl, gone to soon. May god bless you Lisa & your family now.

December 29, 2014

I pray for Lisa's family during this difficult time. My sister has shared many stories of the fun she had with Lisa. May God comfort your family.

Leslie Romaniuk Watson

Heather Breuer

December 29, 2014

learning of lisa's passing completely shocked me. i am so very sorry for the loss of such an amazing young woman. my most heart felt condolences to family and close friends of whom a few i know. blessings to all.

Tina Cohen

December 29, 2014

There are no words for this. You were so young. RIP Tina & John Cohen

December 29, 2014

Lisa- you always made me laugh; sometimes just hearing you laugh would bring on the chuckles no matter what the subject was. It is hard to describe the void that will be left by your absence but I know everyone understands what I mean. Miss you already without a doubt. Love you Lisa and thank you for what you gave to the world.

Lee Belk

December 29, 2014

I will always love you LB! This is not goodbye this is I will see you on the other side! Your friend in life and in death the other LB, Lee Bell

Donna Alexander

December 29, 2014

We will miss your kind, funny and always pitch perfect opinions! I am honored to have known you.

C Tabrizi

December 29, 2014

I will miss you and your contagious smile ??

December 29, 2014

Remembering Lisa as a terrific co-worker and great fun. Also as a huge fan of the Houston Texans. We exchanged texts during especially tight games! Annette Askew-Macy's

Donna Reilly

December 29, 2014

so many memories we shared...You are the example of the person I strive to be.. I miss you and love you Forever...

Rhonda Sargent Chambers

December 29, 2014

Saddened deeply at this loss of an amazing woman! The world was a better place having Lisa and her humor in it. My most sincere condolences to the family and close friends of Lisa's! Rhonda Sargent Chambers

Mari Ruiz-Zamora

December 29, 2014

So sorry to hear about Lisa,, May god comfort you all during this time in your lives.

Shannon Coleman

December 29, 2014

Lisa was my longtime friend (since Strack Middle School!) our friendship was revived in 2006 and we saw each other multiple times a year since then. My life is different now, without her here, darker. But she is lighting up the space she has gone to, making it far more fun and fabulous. I love her, and I will miss her for the rest of my days.

Robert Lozano

December 29, 2014

To my loving cousin, I will always miss and love you. As I know you are in a better place, I still wish you were here with your big smile. You touched so many lives. Till we see each other again, love you always...vaya con dios
Robbie and Gretchen Lozano

Andrea Greer

December 29, 2014

Hearts are broken. We are all so fortunate to have been friends with such an amazing, generous, compassionate, beautiful woman. She did so much for so many, and she did it with style to spare. My love to Lisa's family, and deepest appreciation for all you did to make her who she was.

December 29, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of your loss, May the God of Comfort help the family with their hurt.
2 corn 1:3,4

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