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Joseph Bement Obituary
1996-2017
Joseph Ishwor Bement
March 16, 1996 –
April 20, 2017
We remember Joseph as an extraordinary young man. He lit up our hearts with his megawatt smile, hugging everyone he met. He was happiest when helping others. He had a servant's heart, a generous spirit, and loved Bible stories, American history, rice, and chocolate. We are thankful for our time with this special earth angel. His death leaves a huge hole in our hearts and lives. He will be forever missed, even as we know he is with the Lord.
Joseph was born in Kathmandu, Nepal and brought to Mendies Haven Children's Home at age 3, where he first met his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. It was there that his forever family met and fell in love with him, adopted him, and brought him home at age 6. He is survived by his family, Barbara Strobel and George Bement, Aaron, Aneela, and Danny Bement, and Mickey Strobel as well as aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends who loved him fiercely. He is also survived by his many brothers and sisters in Nepal, all of whom loved him very much.
Visitation will be held at Memorial Oaks Funeral Home 13001 Katy Freeway on Monday, April 24, 2017 from 5:00pm-7:00pm.
A memorial service will be held at St. John the Divine Episcopal Church, 2450 River Oaks Blvd. on Tuesday, April 25, 2017 at 4:00pm
In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to St. John the Divine World Mission-Nepal.
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Memories and Condolences
for Joseph Bement
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Debi lee
April 17, 2023
Joseph was my godson I remember so many wonderful experiences with him he was such a loving giving soul I miss him very much I´ll always remember his positive nature he is with me always into Barbara and George I send out all my love
debi last
April 17, 2019
joseph was such an amazing young man. very kind, sweet thoughtful caring and loving to all. I think of him these are the words in my mind. I do think of him everyday. he gave me a stone in the shape of a heart and I have it on my front porch. I see him in the ark in heaven with the animals as there care taker. debi lee
Dias Family
April 30, 2017
Dearest Barbara, George, and the Bement/Strobel family
Thank you for sharing Joseph with us over the past 15 years. He was truly a Godsend, infusing love, affection, and pure joy into our family. Our lives have been enriched from knowing and loving Joseph. Memories of times shared with Joseph are countless, making it impossible for us to encapsulate all that we feel and treasure in our hearts today. We have lost a son, and for Luke, a big brother, but we find solace in knowing that his faith has guided him into the loving arms of our Lord Jesus Christ. May God keep him close always.
Our love and prayers are with you
Madeleine, Keith and Luke
Dias Family
April 30, 2017
Dearest Barbara, George, and the Bement/Strobel family
Thank you for sharing Joseph with us over the past 15 years. He was truly a Godsend, infusing love, affection, and pure joy into our family. Our lives have been enriched from knowing and loving Joseph. Memories of times shared with Joseph are countless, making it impossible for us to encapsulate all that we feel and treasure in our hearts today. We have lost a son, and for Luke, a big brother, but we find solace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
May God keep him close always....
Our love and prayers are with you
Madeleine, Keith and Luke
Dias Family
April 30, 2017
Dearest Barbara, George, and the Bement/Strobel family
Thank you for sharing Joseph with us over the past 15 years. He was truly a Godsend, infusing love, affection, and pure joy into our family. Our lives have been enriched from knowing and loving Joseph. Memories of times shared with Joseph are countless, making it impossible for us to encapsulate all that we feel and treasure in our hearts today. We have lost a son, and for Luke, a big brother, but we find solace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
May God keep him close always....
Our love and prayers are with you
Madeleine, Keith and Luke
Dias Family
April 30, 2017
Dearest Barbara, George, and the Bement/Strobel family
Thank you for sharing Joseph with us over the past 15 years. He was truly a Godsend, infusing love, affection, and pure joy into our family. Our lives have been enriched from knowing and loving Joseph. Memories of times shared with Joseph are countless, making it impossible for us to encapsulate all that we feel and treasure in our hearts today. We have lost a son, and for Luke, a big brother, but we find solace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
May God keep him close always....
Our love and prayers are with you
Madeleine, Keith and Luke
Dias Family
April 30, 2017
Dearest Barbara, George, and the Bement/Strobel family
Thank you for sharing Joseph with us over the past 15 years. He was truly a Godsend, infusing love, affection, and pure joy into our family. Our lives have been enriched from knowing and loving Joseph. Memories of times shared with Joseph are countless, making it impossible for us to encapsulate all that we feel and treasure in our hearts today. We have lost a son, and for Luke, a big brother, but we find solace in knowing that he now rests in the arms of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ.
May God keep him close always....
Our love and prayers are with you
Madeleine, Keith and Luke
Laura Byerly
April 29, 2017
It saddened my heart to hear this. Joseph was such a selfless, kind person. I am so grateful I was able to know him. I remember playing on the playground after church when we were kids. I will cherish those memories forever. Words are so hard to find at this time. I know he he is happy and at peace living with our Lord.
Kathy Parsons
April 27, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. I just spoke to your mom. Wishing I had the right words to say, just know I care. Keeping you all in prayer.
April 27, 2017
Offering deepest heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your loved one. May your cherished memories sine through you sorrow. John 11: 33-44
Susan Laviage
April 26, 2017
I am so saddened by this news. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.
Lapo Okedara
April 26, 2017
It was a shock to see Joseph's obituary. I saw the name and I was no, not the Joseph I know. I met Joseph in choir at Bellaire High School. He was an awesome person with an amazing personality. I never for once saw him get upset, he was always, always happy and smiling, and so eager to help. The last time we spent together was in High School where after a choir workshop, he gave me a ride back to the school. He was incredibly nice. May Joseph's soul rest in peace. My condolences to the Bements.
Jackson Brownstein
April 25, 2017
I am deeply saddened to hear the news of Joseph's passing. He had such a warm heart and kind soul and left us all way to early. I will never forget the time he and his family were generous eneough to take me to Schlitterbahn in New Braunfels on a family vacation. My prayers go out to his parents and siblings; Joseph was truly a wonderful person and I'm honored to have grown up with him call him my friend.
Meaghan Bond
April 25, 2017
Greg and I met Joseph when we helped with high school Sunday School. He was a ray of sunshine, always greeting me with a smile and a hug. His love for Jesus showed every week. He often asked for Greg to take off his sunglasses as he entered the room as, "Bond, Greg Bond." We are deeply saddened to hear of his death and will miss him dearly. We have been blessed to be "of the Race that knows Joseph," as Anne Shirley would say. Much love to his family and friends.
Susan Giesecke
April 25, 2017
Sighs too deep for words.......
April 25, 2017
Joesph , thank you for always being so nice and kind. You gave me hope when I was down and never had a bad day. You helped when I was struggling in classes and did it because you wanted to . Your an amazing person . Sorry to hear your gone, but I know God has received another amazing angel .
Karen Flores
April 25, 2017
My prayers will be with his family during this time of grief. My deepest sympathies.
Mae G.
April 25, 2017
Thoughts and prayers are with each of you dear family members. "May the love of GOD and Christ Jesus (John3:16) comfort and sustain each of you in this precious hour of deep and personal sorrow. A Friend in Christ Jesus, our Lord and Savior.
Brendan Kelly
April 25, 2017
Cliff & Myra Condit
April 25, 2017
We are shocked and saddened to hear of Joseph passing. He was such a dynamic young man. And though we did not know him well, one could never forget that beautiful smile and warm heart he always had for everyone. May the God of our salvation be with all of you giving you strength at this time.
Laura Campbell
April 25, 2017
Joseph played football at Pin Oak with my son, Alex. Joseph was always so cheerful and bright - a true ray of light and joy. He was like a second big brother to my daughter, Sami. Joseph was always kind and respectful. The light of the Lord shined through him; Joseph is now in the very presence of that divine light. My heart breaks for his family and friends. He is already deeply missed. The world has lost a precious soul. Rest in peace, Joseph.
April 25, 2017
Joe was always there to brighten up anyone's day and provide a smile for anyone who needed it. He was so funny and sweet to everyone, every moment with him was full of laughter. I haven't seen him in a few years, but I remember laughing with him like it was yesterday. He'll be deeply missed. Rest in peace, Joe
Ella Menefee
April 24, 2017
Joseph entered my kindergarten class with an enthusiasm to learn about everything. His willingness to share was demonstrated daily. Joseph's smile brought joy to so many people. Memories of him at Kolter Elementary will be with me. My prayers and condolences are for the family.
LeAnn Tromanhauser
April 24, 2017
So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine losing a precious child. Prayers to your family.
Left to right: Joseph, Jarrett, Luke and I at Lutheran Hills
Eugene Alsandor
April 24, 2017
Um, I really don't know where to start....
I guess, where it began for me, with this scrawny little nepalis kid who came to my door and answered the prayers of a majorly damaged, and hate filled kid who only saw the of the world and himself. That day was like the first time I saw the sun shine. I was about 4 or five and he was 6. I had just had my usual run in with some guys that enjoyed beating me and taking my things for fun so I was reluctant to go to the door. He saw my face and only smiled happily. He asked if I would be his friend and play with him cause he was kinda new and I said "Yeah, sure I guess". Joseph didn't become my friend or acquaintance or that guy who I went to see to be cool around. He was my brother and he always will be even in eternity.
Having traveled the world at a very young age with my parents, I have seen and met a lot of people. Millionaire children, pro athletes, movie stars both young and old, missionaries, pastors, rabbis and more. But never have I met anyone who cared and loved like Joseph did. Didn't matter what you had done, what your background was, or who you had wronged, Joseph would always be there when you needed him with a smile on his face like you meant the world to this guy. He brought the unlikeliest of boys together on this one, unimpressive street called Cheenah and made us into brothers who would ride together and would have died for each other without a second thought. Before him, I had no friends, but because of him, I was able to make something out of a toxic mess of myself. He taught me how to stand up for my self, make people laugh and love, to be sensitive to their pain, to throw a football, use my strength to build and help others rather than hurt and destroy, to find my imagination, to not care what others thought or said about me, to love others unconditionally, and to find in my self what God could use me for when I felt alone and discarded like a mere toy. It is because of him that I am the way I am today and have my other brothers Jarrett and Luke at my side.
Joseph, if I could I'd raise a city in your name and erect monuments to your love and kindness, but all I can do is honor your life and the big brother you were to this crazed, fearful and lonely black kid by being the boy who was inspired by you to step up and become a man who lived for others and above all else for Christ and brotherhood. So Joseph, I will live on even as you depart man. I will live for you and for the memory of the man you were to the countless lives you touched and changed each and every day of your life, and "I'll tell you all about it when I see you again"
Good bye brother, wait for me on the other side because I will see you again, and knowing that makes me smile even in this bitter time of loss.
Love you man, I can never say it enough.
Eugene
Alyssa Ezanidis
April 24, 2017
Joseph always made me smile and made me happy to go to youth midweek and volunteer. He always gave me a hug and made me feel so happy. He will forever be remembered as a amazing, loving, kind person. I will never forget him and the love he had for Jesus and helped me grow my faith and love for God by being my role model. My prayers are with y'all.
Kerri Lyons
April 24, 2017
Sending my thoughts and prayers to your family for the loss of Joseph. I will miss his visits to Kolter to catch up on news. He was a bright star and always had a big smile.
Elaine Hess
April 24, 2017
My heart hurts for your loss, George and Barbara. Sending you strength, love and healing during this time.
Angela
April 24, 2017
My sincere condolences to the family for your loss. May your treasured memories and the drawing close to God
in prayer help comfort you in your time of sorrow. Jeremiah 29:12, 13
Amber Parker
April 24, 2017
I am so very sorry to hear of Joseph's death. I remember him from Children's Ministry and Youth Group at SJD and from the POMS community. He was always a dear, kind young man and he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and his friends.
Amber Parker
April 24, 2017
Barbara
So sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
Dick Brown
Dana Thacker
April 24, 2017
So sorry for your loss. I remember Joseph as having an honest smile all the time. He had a warm and happy spirit about him. As a Spanish student, he added so much to our 9th grade Spanish II class at Bellaire. He was an angel on earth and forever will he be.
Dana Thacker/ Bellaire High School
Sandy Lawrence
April 24, 2017
I have no words to express the grief that I am feeling at the moment. I taught Joseph US history in 11th grade. He was a wonderful person and a great student.
My prayers are with all his family and friends. Rest peacefully in your heavenly home. The Lord loves you.
Jeff Waller
April 24, 2017
Joseph was in my class for only a short time, but I occasionally saw him after his schedule was changed, and he was always eager to engage in conversation. I'll always remember his positive attitude, his sincerity, and his inquisitive disposition. I was shocked and saddened to learn of his untimely passing. I hope that you can take some solace in the fact that he touched more lives than you'll probably ever know.
April 24, 2017
Everyone that knew Joseph at Pin Oak MS and UST will miss him greatly. Joseph was such a great person, I will miss such a good friend. May he rest in peace.
Waylon Lee
April 24, 2017
I'll always remember a radiant smile that would cheer my day up no matter what. I'll remember that awesome choir trip my freshman year, and how Joseph took all the pictures of my friends and I so that the others wouldn't be left out. Joseph was always kind and giving to others. He would always tell me how I would do great things in the future. I will fulfill that. I won't let those words go to waste. Rest easy, Joseph.
Jim Fowler
April 23, 2017
Dear Barbara and George,
Heidi and I were so sad to learn of your loss. Over the years, we got to spend time with you two and Joseph. We hold you both in prayer.
Jim & Heidi Fowler
Cindy Irr
April 23, 2017
My heart breaks for you, Barbara, and your family. No words can describe the loss that will be felt by all. Joseph was a wonderful young man who always had a smile on his face for everyone. We will be praying for you and your family for peace and comfort through the difficult days ahead.
Erin O'Dea
April 23, 2017
I had the pleasure of knowing Joseph by working with him at Faith Camp. His smile lit up a room and he always had an incredible work ethic. The kids adored him along with the entire staff. Thank you for letting him influence many children and young adults. My heart goes out to his family and friends. May his soul forever rest in peace and harmony. God Bless.
sarah cartwright
April 23, 2017
I was so lucky to of known Joseph At PinOak my 6th- 8th grade year, Joseph and I had a very special connection that we were so proud of .. being adopted into a loving family who gave us a 2nd chance in life. We were in choir together and had always a great time. Especially on the Disney Trip. Im glad we got to continue to see each other in the halls continueing for high school at Bellaire. You would always show a big smile at me and say hello and asked how i was doing. The last time i saw you was at Fuzzys and you still had such a bright smile on your face. It saddens me that beautiful smile that could light up the world is gone now , but it will always be there in my heart
- i am so sorry for your loss to the Bement family
Leanne Ireland
April 23, 2017
I remember it was the first day of fourth grade, and at a new school for me. I was so nervous because I didn't think I'd feel accepted there, or make any friends. But later that day after school Joseph shared his snack with me, and i found out that he was adopted as well. He was my first true friend at Kolter Elementary, and throughout middle school as well. He had a huge impact on my life.i will never forget the fond memories i have of him. May he forever rest in peace.
With love;
Cidney Aae
April 23, 2017
I'm so sorry for this incredible loss. I hope that your family will be surrounded by peace and love.
Cheryl Lidsky
April 23, 2017
Joseph was a special human being; he was a joy to teach and had a heart of gold. My thoughts and prayers to his family. May you all be comforted with happy memories of this special young man.
April 23, 2017
We never met, but we feel like we knew you all as we watched Joseph in church week after week. We were so sad when we heard about your loss. Please know you are in our prayers. Joseph was an incredible young man with incredible parents.
Brenda and Russ Jacobe
April 23, 2017
To all those suffering this young man's loss, I didn't know him, but the emotion of loss to death is a universal feeling. My deepest regards to all those mourning.
April 23, 2017
May God's loving kindness and comfort help you and your family through this very sad time Psalms 29:11
Barbara Pfluegner
April 23, 2017
So very sorry for your loss. Joseph seemed to have enhanced the lives of all with whom he interacted. May he have eternal peace in Heaven.
J.B. A Stranger who cares
April 23, 2017
What a moving eulogy...I am so very saddened and heartbroken for you to read about this young man's passing....although, Joseph is not here with you on earth it is SO comforting to know your beloved Joseph excepted JESUS CHRIST as HIS LORD AND SAVIOR and is now SAFE IN HIS ARMS. I'll sincerely be praying for the Promises of Our Heavenly Father to continuously sustain you through this most unimaginable difficult time and comfort you until you are reunited with your beloved Joseph again....my heartfelt condolences to all who knew this exceptional young man. PSALM 147:3
April 23, 2017
Our hearts are broken for your loss of dear Joseph. We have special memores of a precious little boy who grew into a wonderful young man. Joseph had a special place in the heart of our daughter Quinn as they shared so many fun times together at church, camp and school. We have no doubt that Jesus welcomed Joseph with open arms into the Kingdom of Heaven where they will live together forever.
Our love to you all,
Bob, Sharyn, Taylor and Quinn Otte
April 23, 2017
George, I am so sad to hear about your son. I wish your family peace and healing.
Gail Cote
April 23, 2017
Dear Bement family,
I remember Joseph well. He had a big heart and everybody loved him! It was my pleasure to teach him art at Kolter Elementary. He was always cheerful and smiling and a pretty good sense of humor! What a great kid! I'm so sorry for your loss.
With sympathy,
Louise Wilson Brown
April 23, 2017
My dear Barbara, my heart is broken for you and your family. There is little i can say but the faith that placed him in your care so long ago will sustain you in knowing where his new 'home' is now. I will continue to pray for you and your family. Laura Parsons-Sergent
Paige McDonough
April 23, 2017
I was Joseph's counselor for a couple of years at Bellaire. Joseph was a wonderful person who always had a smile on his face and big dreams to give back to the Nepali community. He was a beacon of light. To say his loss will leave a tremendous gap is an understatement. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Brielle Thomas
April 23, 2017
Joseph was such a kind and smart young man. I met him through a friend while at bellaire and we met again when we were office assistants during our senior year at bellaire. He had the most vibrant personality and always made me laugh everyday. That was my favorite class period to go to. I knew my day would be brightened by him. I send my deepest condolences to his family. He will be greatly missed. He was a great individual and a great friend. May he rest in peace.
Frazier family
April 23, 2017
Dear Bement family,
It is with a heavy heart that we are learning about Joseph's passing. We not only knew him as a student at Kolter ES but he was also one of Pierre's good friends at Kolter, Pin Oak MS and Bellaire HS. We have only good memories of him: his beautiful smile, his kind heart, hard work and wittiness.
I remember when he used to come back on Kolter campus just to say hello and check how things were. It was just so nice of him.
Please accept our family's sincere condolences. We will keep Joseph and your family in our hearts and prayers.
Mr and Mrs Frazier and their children, Pierre, Ines and Isabella
Kiner family
April 23, 2017
So deeply saddened and so sorry for your loss. He was truly a bright soul.
Gene & Renee Alsandor & Family
April 23, 2017
Our hearts are broken. Joseph was loved dearly and will never be forgotten. He was the little angel that appeared on our doorstep in 2001 and changed our world forever. His smile was as sunshine. His loving, caring way with children younger than himself, never forgotten. He was the spark that created our community of boys and we are forever grateful. He was a friend and brother to many, both old and young, and will be missed by us all.
George, Barbara and family, we love you and are praying for you during this time of sorrow. We are here for you. As the days and months fade away, I pray that our bond never will. You have been a rich blessing in our lives and, although we live farther away, we hope to be as wonderful of a blessing to you as you have been to us. You are loved!
Janet Eastmond
April 22, 2017
My heart goes out to Joseph family,a nice young man may he rest in peace. Gone but I will never forget him
James Martin III
April 22, 2017
You will be missed dearly. It was a true honor and privilege.
Bement family, you are in my prayers.
Rachael Manraj
April 22, 2017
I was one of Joseph's high school counselors at Bellaire. Every peer admired your kindness and we did also as staff and adults. We are saddened by your loss. Praying for the strength of your loved ones. You'll always be a part of our Bellaire family ❤
Ann Smith
April 22, 2017
Barbara and George I am so sorry for your loss. I can't how difficult this is for you. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers
Marissa Schwartz
April 22, 2017
You will not be forgotten.
Steen Beck
April 22, 2017
Joseph had the most vibrant and infectious smile in our high school Choir. Everyday I walked in I knew he would be there to greet me and genuinely ask how I was. To hear that he's gone is not only a loss to our choir family, but to everyone who had met, been impacted by, or loved Joseph. As undeniably heart wrenching as this is, I am thankful that I knew such a beautifully souled human. Rest in peace, buddy.
April 22, 2017
I am so sad to hear of Joseph's passing. I will always remember him as such a kind, gentle, polite, and happy young man. He was a light in my classroom back at Kolter Elementary, a wonderful student, and was loved by his peers. Every time I would happen to run into Joseph, he would greet me with his sweet smile and infectious enthusiasm. Please accept my sincere condolences and prayers for strength during this difficult time. May Joseph Rest In Peace.
Love,
Mrs. Brownstein
April 22, 2017
I remember Joseph as he started Kolter Elementary as a Pre - K student. I was privileged to have him in 4th grade and he will always have a special place in my heart
Sharon Grimm
April 22, 2017
Dear Barbara and George, and family....There are no words to convey my sadness upon hearing of Joseph's passing. There will be prayers said on the altar tomorrow for Joseph. and for all the family, at St. Paul's Lutheran church. May God grant you and George strength in the days to come. May God rest and bless Joseph who brought joy and happiness to so many who knew him.
In Christ's Love, Liz Biggart
debi lee
April 22, 2017
I will miss my godson. his kind loving giving personality made him so special. everyone loved him. he was only about 9 when I lost my husband and Joseph said that Ms. Debi needed to move in with us because she was alone. His insight for others was beyond. he thought of others first. whenever I saw joseph he hugged me and was so happy. he always had interesting activities and projects he was doing. He was a real joy!!!! I will always keep him in my heart. I feel honored to be his godmother. I love u forever
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