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SHEILA JOY ANCONA

1945 - 2014

SHEILA JOY ANCONA obituary, 1945-2014, Kansas City, MO

BORN

1945

DIED

2014

FUNERAL HOME

McGilley State Line Chapel

12301 State Line Road

Kansas City, Missouri

SHEILA ANCONA Obituary

Sheila Joy Ancona passed away Sunday, August 24, 2014 after a courageous two year battle fighting cancer. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Thursday, August 28th, 10:00 am, Church of the Nativity, 3800 West 119th Street, Leawood, KS. with burial following in Resurrection Cemetery. Visitation will be Wednesday, August 27th, 5-8 pm, at McGilley State Line Chapel, 12301 State Line Road, Kansas City, MO. where Rosary will be prayed at 4:30 pm. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Sheila's name to Catholic Charities, the American Cancer Society, the Humane Society, Wayside Waifs or any organization that offers aid and support to animals. Sheila was a founding member of the Church of the Nativity, and a member of the Ladies of Charity of Metropolitan Kansas City. She participated on multiple committees, worked with the Humane Society and several rescue organizations for care and support of animals. Sheila was a devout Catholic and her faith and prayer was of great comfort to her. She was a beloved wife, daughter, sister, mother, aunt, grandmother, cousin and friend. She lived a life filled with compassion, generosity, loyalty, devotion, prayer and love. She was a blessing to all her family and friends and she will be deeply missed. Sheila was preceded in death by her father, Charles Brammer; mother, Marian Brammer; sister, Sandra Watson; and brother, Robert Vaughn. Survivors include her husband, Frank A. Ancona; sister, Michelle Liddle (Kirk); children: Christine Middleton (Dan); Vita Boeing (Reed); Kathleen Johnnie Ewing (Craig); Lori Tomkewitz; Melodie Ancona; Michael Ancona (Kim); Debra Cuthill; Grandchildren: Frank Kearney (Angie); Micheal Kearney (Kelly); Bree Friedl (Craig); Brandon McDaniel (Heather); James Carter (Elizabeth); Christopher McDaniel (Jayna); Clinton Carter (Cassidy); Rick Hydorn; Christopher Schroer; Emily Ancona; Austin Schroer; Leah Umstead; Catherine Ancona; 13 Great Grandchildren; Nephews; Jeffrey Watson (Joan); Drew Liddle; Niece, Kara Liddle. Condolences may be left online at www.mcgilleystatelinechapel.com Arrangements, McGilley State Line Chapel, 12301 State Line Road, Kansas City, MO, 64145. McGilley State Line Chapel, 12301 State Line Rd, Kansas City, MO 64145, 816-942-6180

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Published by Kansas City Star from Aug. 26 to Aug. 27, 2014.

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September 9, 2014

Frank, Michael, and family. Our sentiments to you. Sheila was named right, truly a JOY to be with. I will cherish the wonderful times we had together at Leawood South Country Club. She was a true lady and blessing to everyone who knew her. Sheila is at peace with our Lord amidst all of the other beautiful people and animals in OUR KINGDOM. Love to all... Doug and Mare

darrel robertson

September 4, 2014

frank and family, my condolences in the loss of the matriarch of the family. she was kind, gentle and caring. truely a great loss to the community.now that she rests in peace may the good lord keep a watchful eye over the entire family.

Ryan & Karen McBride

September 2, 2014

Frank, Michael and family,

Karen & I are so sorry for your loss. Sheila was always so incredibly kind, and amazingly generous, to us over the years and we carry nothing but great thoughts and memories when we think of her and your family. Please know that you will be in our prayers.

Ron Stockwell

September 1, 2014

It was an honor to know Sheila, she was one of the most kind people I have ever met. She will be missed and my deepest sympathies to Frank and all of her family.

September 1, 2014

Frank, Michael and all the family It is with great prayer of sorrow to hear of Sheila's death I am being so sorry for being so late I know what you are going through I and my family have you all in our prayers, and She is in the hands of the good lord no more pain. God Bless You all.

Joe Cascone

Jim & Conni Gerstner

August 29, 2014

Frank, Michael, and family. We were so sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. I so enjoyed the many times I worked with her.

August 28, 2014

Frank, Michael, and the entire Ancona family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please rest in the fact that she is at peace with God.
Rosemary Ancona Sylvan

Rosemary Passantino Lanfranca

August 27, 2014

Frank, I am so very sorry to hear about Sheila. She was such a beautiful and sweet lady. I will always remember working with your mom at the dress shop. You and Sheila made me feel like a part of your family. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Chris Cumberford

August 27, 2014

Frank my family and I send prayers for you and your family Sheila was always sweet to us when we were visiting or working at your house. She always had a warm welcome for us. We will miss her. Take care of yourself Frank you need somthing call us Chris Maria Jenna and Cara Cumberford

Rob Hulse

August 27, 2014

Johnnie, Please accept my thoughts and prayers to you and the family.

Sandra Molle

August 27, 2014

Frank and family, I along with Phyllis and Gina were shocked to hear of Sheila's passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. As long as the heart beats and the memories linger they are there. Bless all of you!

Joe Webster

August 27, 2014

Dear Frank: Very sorry to hear about your wife, she was truly a wonderful person. Many lives have changed because of her. Everytime I delivered a package to her, she always had a great big smile.I know it will be hard to go on but she will always be looking out for you and her family. Joe Webster, (your mailman for a long time).

Leon and Lori Wharton

August 27, 2014

Frank, Michael and the entire Ancona family. Lori and I are so sorry to here about the loss of Sheila. Through the years of business relationships I had with your family, I could always tell at the end of the day, the strength of the Ancona family was always the driving force in your lives. I know that Sheila was a big part of that strength. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both and all your family.

Connie Wittman

August 27, 2014

Frank and family my sympathy to all of you. I got to know Sheila when I worked for the Eye Specialist she went to in Overland Park. She was such a sweet lady. She mentioned her family several times in our visits. I will have a mass said for her at my church. God bless you all.

August 27, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Please be assured God cares for you and will comfort you at this time. 1 Pet. 5:7

August 27, 2014

A great loss for.all, I am so sorry! We all loved her so much..there was three of us cousins, that had a bond especially as children, we were born the same year , and we had great times and memories... I will miss her and know that I will see her again in heaven... God Bless you all at this time. Sharon Derkits. And Family

Joe and Teri Moshiri

August 27, 2014

We were so very sorry to hear of your loss. The Ancona family is in our hearts and prayers. Sheila was a beautiful, kind, and caring person who always put others first. She will be greatly missed. Joe and Teri Moshiri

JOYCE RUNYON

August 27, 2014

WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS MY SORROW. SHEILA WAS LIKE A SISTER TO ME FOR 44 YEARS-A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN INSIDE AND OUT!! MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU IN YOUR LOSS-SHE WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN OUR HEARTS AND OUR MRMORIES-AND WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER BEAUTIFUL LAUGH. STACI AND I ARE SENDING MUCH LOVE AND MANY PRAYERS TO EVERYONE.GOD BLESS-WE ARE THINKING OF YOU... JOYCE AND STACI

Paul Madden

August 27, 2014

Frank, I am so sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. I'm thankful for the opportunity to know you both. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

August 27, 2014

We are so sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. God Bless Her.
The DiCapo Family

Rick and Linda Lesniewicz

August 27, 2014

Linda and I mourn for you and our loss of a grand dame friend, Frank. Our last meeting together at the Disette wedding will be cherished. Be strong in these very difficult times. She is in the glory of His company you can rest assured. We regret not being there to comfort you and your family in some small way. Rick (the stick) and Linda Lesniewicz

Vicky Wirtz

August 26, 2014

Melodie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Hold close all those wonderful cherished moments and know how much you were loved.

Mindi and Joe McKenna

August 26, 2014

To Frank and Sheila's entire family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We loved her too. She was a wonderful neighbor, thoughtful friend, and gracious role model. We've been touched by her love of God, people, and animals. Her spirit lives on in the woods of Timber Trace, and in the hearts of many.

Landon Blackburn

August 26, 2014

Frank and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I have no words that could comfort you but I believe our Heavenly Father does, so I will leave you with a verse. Philippians 4:7
"And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

Luciana Souza

August 26, 2014

"Sheila was a treasure, Frank. I am SO sorry. I will keep both of you in my prayers."
I am sorry. Lucianacleaningservices.

Bill Latta

August 26, 2014

Frank , I'm so sorry. Your wife, my cousin was and is one of the sweetest thoughts in my mind. I , along with you and many others will always have Sheila in our thoughts. I'll always remember her soft voice and upward smiling glance that always made me feel warm. i often think of you and your smile. I'll always think of how much she talked about you. She showed love everywhere she went You will be on my mind.

Joe & Celia Massimino

August 26, 2014

Sheila was such a prayerful person, enjoyed the Rosary, and as her illness invaded her body; she took consolation in the many prayers that were sent to her. In her Memory, we offer this Prayer to Frank and the family.

Safely Home:

I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh, so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.

All the pain and grief is over,
every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.

Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus' love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.

And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on,
Could I have one doubt or dread?

Then you must not grieve so sorely
For I love you dearly still:
Try to look beyond earth's shadows
Pray to trust our Father's Will.

There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth-
You shall rest in Jesus' land.

When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come.!

August 26, 2014

Dear Frank,I will miss Sheila also. From the time she was a little girl, she brightened any room that she was in. Her soft voice and gentile upward glance and smile has always been in my mind and I'm sure it is in the minds of many others that she touched. That's what is going to be one of the memories I'll have of Sheila and it will make me smile. Your friendly smile is another memory i'll have

Mary Moore

August 26, 2014

I will miss my dear first cousin Sheila, She was a true lady,.soft spoken, kind and loved her family very much. We felt same about our family, though we did not have alot of contact thru the years, we knew our hearts, thoughts and prayers included each other and all of our extended family. May God's peace be with all who knew her and loved her. She was a sweet blessing. From cousin Mary Moore and family.

Marie Szymanski (ancona/pace)

August 26, 2014

May she rest in peace. My condolences to you. Cancer is a disease that needs a cure. It's been 7 years since I lost my daughter. Take care it's been so long since I seen you. Love cuz. Marie

August 26, 2014

Frank and Family,
Paul and I are so very sorry to hear of Sheila's passing. Shiela was an amazing woman and will be missed by so many. Our thoughts and our prayers will be with you and your family. God Bless Paul & Vickie Hudson

Toni Giordano

August 26, 2014

We are sorry to hear of Sheila's passing, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Frances Tousa

John Noel

August 26, 2014

Sheila was a treasure, Frank. I am SO sorry. I will keep both of you in my prayers.

Lucy Martel

August 26, 2014

Dear Mr. Ancona,
I am very sorry to read of your wife's passing,may she rest in peace with our Lord now. Take care of yourself and always treasure the wonderful memories of the Love you both had for one another.God Bless You and Your Family, I only had the pleasure of meeting you once when you shopped with me at VM and we had such a nice conversation it left such a lasting impression.

S. Hill

August 26, 2014

To the family, Luke 20:38 assures us that your loved one is in God's memory. Please find comfort in that hope.

August 26, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about Sheila! I know you have had a long battle of problems, you and her. I pray that there is no more suffering for you and your family. God Bless and my condolences to all of you! Henry and Brenda Gonzalez

Karen & John Ancona

August 26, 2014

To my brother and his family. We were sorry to here about Sheila's passing. We hope that the love of family and friends will comfort and strengthen you in the days ahead.

Sharon Valleau

August 26, 2014

The first time I saw Sheila Ancona - I was with my mom Catherine Daugherty at a Ladies of Charity event. I asked mom, "Who is that strikingly lovely woman?" Her beauty and grace remain, now transformed, now eternal. With deepest sympathy.

Max Hayes

August 26, 2014

Frank, We are so sorry to hear that you and your family have lost dear Sheila. May the prayers of your many friends and relatives supply you with God's strength and peace.
We will remember her kindness and grace. Love, Bonnie & Max Hayes

Janice Gumtow

August 26, 2014

There are no words that will ease the pain of loosing such a beautiful person. Just knowing Shelia made a big difference in my life. I was so fortunate and proud to call Shelia my friend. RIP and give LG a big fat hug and kiss for me, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

August 26, 2014

FRANK MIKE AND FAMILY OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU. JOHN AND LU AMARO

Joe Saccone

August 26, 2014

Frank, Michael and the entire family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

carol Pippin

August 26, 2014

Uncle Frank and family. So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Heaven did gain a new Angel. All of my love, Carol Ancona Pippin

August 26, 2014

Sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Linda & John Shipley

Paul and Terri Vette

August 26, 2014

Dear Frank, Michael and family,

Remembering all of you and Sheila in our thoughts, in our hearts and in our prayers. Sheila was a very special and truly classy lady who always greeted everyone with a warm smile and a kind heart. Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies and condolences for your loss.

All the very best.

Greg & Diana Kessler

August 25, 2014

Frank, Michael and the entire family. Our thoughts are with all of you as you remember a great lady.

August 25, 2014

You were so blessed to have her as a mom and I was so blessed to have her as an Aunt. She was the sweetest, most caring, generous and gracious woman I have ever met and she will be so dearly missed. Love you guys, Elaina (Spinello) Tumberger

Joe & Celia Massimino

August 25, 2014

As we remember Sheila, thoughts of her bring to mind the following expressions; Don't think of her as gone away, Her journey's just begun.
Life holds so many facets, passages, joys and sorrows, life on Earth is only one.Just think of Sheila as resting, from the sorrow , pain and tears. Now in a place of warmth , and comfort, where there are no days, months and years.
Think how she must be wishing that we could know today, how nothing but our sadness, and grief, can really pass away.
Just think of her as living, in the hearts and minds of those she loved , and touched.
For nothing loved is ever lost, and she was loved so much.
Our heartfelt Condolences, Joe & Celia Massimino

Mary Lauber

August 25, 2014

Melodie- Prayers for all the family. Your Mom was a lovely person and always so kind to Larry, the boys and me. We will miss her.

Arlene Way

August 25, 2014

Mel so sorry to hear of your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family . Please let me know if I can do anything for you..

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Memorial Events
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Aug

27

Rosary

4:30 p.m.

McGilley State Line Chapel

12301 State Line Road, Kansas City, MO 64145

Aug

27

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

McGilley State Line Chapel

12301 State Line Road, Kansas City, MO 64145

Aug

28

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Church of the Nativity

3800 West 119th Street, Leawood, MO

Aug

28

Burial

Resurrection Cemetery

MO

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12301 State Line Road, Kansas City, MO 64145

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