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for John Carter
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JT
May 14, 2023
Missing you and hoping you are celebrating Mother´s day with Fifi in the heavens. Big hugs John...~JT
Jennifer Taylor
May 12, 2020
How are we approaching a decade with out you? It seems impossible to think you've been gone that long. I saw some photos of your children and I cried. John they are SO BEAUTIFUL! I'm sure you watch over them with beams of pride daily. I miss hearing your funny stories of them. I miss so much about our casual catch up talks. I miss you.
I moved a few miles from where you rest. I come and visit and chat with you, but it'll never be the same as the Sunday morning chats,
Big hugs
Love, JT
February 19, 2020
Had a funny memory of a phone call we had, Valentines Weekend about 11 yrs ago. Gosh you could always make a friend laugh. I miss you, so much! ~JT
August 11, 2018
John, I missed seeing you on your birthday. Always know you are missed and loved.
Nancy
Gary Carter
July 23, 2018
John , Your 42 nd birthday was remembered last month : June 25 , 1976 . We lost you eight years ago last May and I still mourn your death . I will visit your grave , hopefully with Aidan , Kenzie , and Kelly & Co. , in the next week or so . We can talk . Your Mother passed away last August ------ Kelly and Andy were with her at the end . I like to think you were there also . Miss and Love You, Dad
D N
August 13, 2017
I miss you so much. I still have your LOTR books, but haven't been able to start them. I miss our morning jogs. I miss our walks together from the office to the parking lot. Who needs that shuttle anyways? Miss you.
S.A.
May 16, 2017
Still miss you
Nancy Carter
May 14, 2017
John , the print that hung in your kitchen now hangs in my kitchen, so I talk with you often. Please know you are truly missed.
Love,
Nancy
May 14, 2017
John , You left us 7 years ago today. I loved you
while you were here and I still mourn your
death ! Lets talk later........ Miss you , Dad
~JT
May 8, 2015
Our last conversation took place on a Sunday, a week after Derby. It just so happened to also be Mother's Day. Here I am approaching Mother's Day, 5 years later & I still hear your voice in my head. "Get the boy a dog Jen." I can't recall everything we spoke of that day, we spoke about the Derby Party I hosted, that you were unable to attend. We spoke about your children and my children, but what I remember most was the talk about me getting a dog for Kyle, and how special you made me feel by wishing me a Happy Mother's Day. When I always felt like I was doing a terrible job of learning 'Single Motherhood' you would reassure me that I was doing great. I find it so very hard to believe that you left us 5 years ago. I miss your laugh, your smile, your humor, your insight, I miss hearing the joy in your voice as you would brag about your children, but most of all, I miss the ever so kind and amazing John Carter.
Jess
January 28, 2015
hey you! I hope you are enjoying shooting hoops, throwing darts and just cracking jokes and being your beautiful self! Heard someone singing some Disney songs today and thought of you, Aladding songs to be honest... your team is still doing great unfortunately, but go figure...big hugs, big love and huge ice cream bowls carter, you are one in a million
~JT
May 18, 2014
Just me, thinking about you.
April 6, 2014
well, your Cats are going to the playoffs again....I bet you are celebrating Carter... big love going up to you
February 5, 2014
not trying to be "pacific" but I know u would have insanely disliked this last Superbowl... miss you and the joy u brought into this world... take care Carter!
September 3, 2013
I love it that I can still hear your laugh, see your grin, and feel the big bear hugs you shared so freely. Every day I see and hear things that bring you close to me. BIG LOVE always.
-mom
Kelly
August 25, 2013
singing Israel Kamakawiwo'ole's version of "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" and thinking of you. Wish you were here to sing it with me...I know how much you loved to sing.
Rosemary Ashley
June 25, 2013
Happy birthday Carter
JT
May 18, 2013
Been thinking of you all week.
Miss you bunches!
April 24, 2013
April 24, 2013
Still Miss you all the time
RK
March 15, 2013
It's been a long time since I've been on here, but after reading all of the recent posts, I just had to say John was born the best, kindest and most caring person ever! Everything I read on here reminds me of how I knew him back in school.
John was always there for me and because of him, I am still here and ok. He pulled me through some really tough times. He always knew what to say to make it better. I think about him often and it warms my heart to know his babies will always know what a great man their dad was
March 14, 2013
Thanks for hanging out with me from time to time. Don't ever stop, okay? I love you to the moon and beyond.
-mom
March 6, 2013
Thinking of you...
As Is
November 25, 2012
I have thought about you so much, and your smile... and I know it's smiling down on all of right now...with all the love that came from you...I am so grateful to have had you in my life John Carter, no matter how small that tine was......you were and are one of the most simple and kind-hearted person's...I have ever had the joy of sharing life with! Big Love JCC!
Your Birthday Decorations for 2011
Deborah Clark
July 5, 2012
We celebrated your birthday and your LIFE on Saturday, June 29. But it was 107 degrees outside, so we didn't linger at your gravesite. Instead, we went to Kelly's for cupcakes and of course, ice cream! Because how could we possibly have a party for you without ice cream, right? Right!
Aidan always has questions for me about you, and I LOVE that. He wanted to know if you ever threw a trantrum. (And yes, I told him the truth.)
Here's a picture of the kiddos and your dad and sister. Aidan and Mackenzie chose beautiful flowers for you, and your dad brought the UK Wreath.
I love you, John Carter!
-mom
Deb Clark
June 25, 2012
Happy Birthday, son. You arrived 36 years ago today, at 11:40 p.m. You were huge! And beautiful, of course. The nurse was Aunti Di's friend, so instead of giving you to me, she handed you over to your wonderful aunt who could NOT wait another minute to see you! Aunti Di is with you today, and I'm thinkin' that's a good thing. I love you beyond Zebra! For your birthday I'm giving you a UK Blue flower. Kelly, Andy and I will celebrate your life next Saturday -- with their children and yours.
BIG LOVE always,
-mom
John Carter's kids at the lake
Deb Clark
June 17, 2012
Aidan and Mackenzie and I went to see Madagascar 3 a couple days ago. It was wonderful to hear them laugh, and guess what! Mackenzie has inherited your infectious laughter. When I heard it, I knew you were there with us. Happy Fathers' Day, John Carter! We will never stop loving you.
Oh yeah -- and I almost forgot -- Aidan had to have stitches above his eye. He had his mom call me and ask if you'd ever had stitches. I told him all about your knee and how you made it through just fine. He made it through just fine, too!
Hugs, John. BIG ones! Here's a picture of your kids at the lake.
-mom
June 16, 2012
having one of those days.... really wish I had your caring voice to hear... you always knew the right thing to say and to soothe... I miss you
May 9, 2012
missing you today and always...see your face in your children and still am so jealous of your lashes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love you carter, take care until then!!!!!!!!!
April 12, 2012
I was thinking about you today
C-A-T-S! CATS, CATS, CATS!
Deborah Clark
April 3, 2012
Although I know you have angels' work to do these days, I'm pretty sure -- no wait, make that pretty positive -- that you found time to follow the UK Wildcats ascension to the NCAA Final Four Championship! So today is "celebration day" for you! And as you know, Aidan Patrick is also in a state of "Final Four Euphoria," and here's the photo to prove it!
I love you, son. And I love it that your team won this year!
-mom
March 10, 2012
I remember a few years ago, you and I were searching our names on the internet. That's when I found the "John Carter of Mars Gets the Barbarella Treatment" I still have that email we sent back and forth that day.
"Look John! You're a Cartoon Character!"
"Great! Can I get royalties?"
Gosh I miss your humor!
Well, looks like Disney got their hands on it, and they made a movie. My kids saw a preview and they said "MOM! They made a movie about John Carter"... I had to chuckle, they were just as silly and excited about it as we were when we found those links back in '09.
I miss ya bunches Carter! You're CATS are doing a fantastic job this year, you'd be mighty proud!
~JT
Christmas at Calvary, 2011
January 22, 2012
Aidan, Mackenzie, Grace and Luke helped decorate your UK Christmas Tree and your Christmas Wreath. Then Aidan and Mac showed us exactly where to put them and we all wished you a Merry Christmas.
Kenzie and Gracie were wearing "play" capes that made them look like royal nomads, and we ALL celebrated our love for you and yours for us.
BIG LOVE as always, John. Every minute of every day.
-mom
Fall 2011 at Calvary
October 28, 2011
Happy Fall, John! We all brought fun stuff for you. Grace and Luke even decorated their pumpkin, and your sister left some Fraggle Rock Cars for you that aren't shown in the picture.
October 28, 2011
Someone told me that Aidan and Mac came to visit your grave a couple weeks ago, and that Mackenzie brought her Hula Hoop to show you how well she can "hula" now. Then she lay down upon your grave to give her daddy a "hug."
Yeah -- I know you watched from your cloud and smiled big, but I wanted to write it down here so that the rest of us will be able to keep that precious memory forever, too.
Aidan is playing flag football this fall. He's gotten at least one touchdown already! This makes me remember the one season you played football and how you were the youngest on the team. You played hard, just like you did every sport, but after that one year you told me that football required putting on too much stuff, so you opted for soccer instead. I've always suspected that the real reason you didn't like football was because your mom had to help you get dressed for it! :)
BIG LOVE from mom.
October 22, 2011
I thought of you with love today but that is nothing new
I thought about you yesterday and days before that too,
I think of you in silence I often speak your name
All I have are memories and your picture in a frame
Your memory is my keepsake with which I’ll never part
God has you in His keeping I have you in my heart.
author unknown~
August 21, 2011
There are these days Sunday's especially, when I sit at work and start to miss our Sunday morning conversations...
I miss updates on Baby Mack & Aidan in the way only a daddy could tell them.
Luckily I get to see pictures of those precious babies from your mom.
State Fair is here, and I want to know just how many calories you think are in the new deep fried Kentucky Derby Pie... I know once I were to tell you that I'm thinking of trying it, you'd tell me to get some carrot sticks!
Sweet Ci Ci's opened in the Highlands
amazing frozen yogurt... and yes it is just as good if not better than Ice Cream.
I know you know all these things, cause you're watching from above.. but just incase you missed it... I was thinking of you and wanted to share it.
I was listening to the radio this morning (when am I not?)on my way into work and heard a song that made me think of you..
The Band Perry - If I die young
you would like the band, they have great harmony.
I really miss picking song of the day with you John!
I really miss you!!
~ JT
August 2, 2011
Aidan's baseball team came in first in the league, and then he and his buddy Landon were chosen for All-Stars. Their All-Star Team came in second place. Aidan played his heart out, just like you always did.
Mackenzie had a dance recital. I got pictures that show her having SO much fun. And now she's on a Volleyball Team, so I'll be going to watch her play soon.
I saw you in the way Aidan ran and threw the baseball. I saw you in his batting stance, except that he's a lefty like Uncle Robby. I see you every single time that he smiles and lights up the whole room like you always did.
I saw you in Mackenzie's dancing eyes when she told me that Uncle Andy was coming to the ball field to pick her up. She was all hot and sweaty after being there a long time, and I saw you when I looked at her little hot red face and the fuzzy blonde curls on her head. I always see you when she can't sit still for more than a couple seconds, which is, of course, every time I see her.
Thank you for my grandchildren, John. I love you so very much.
-mom
June 26, 2011
Happy Birthday Carter, hope you have a HUGE ice cream bowl there.
June 23, 2011
Always loved you, always will
June 19, 2011
I wish you were here so I could wish you Happy Father's Day, the same way you used to wish me a Happy Mother's Day.
~JT
Memorial Day 2011 at Calvary
Deb/Fifi Clark
June 18, 2011
Your sissy says it all, John....and says it so well.
-mom
Kelly
June 17, 2011
John,
There isn't a day that goes by that you don't enter my thoughts. Sometimes you sneak in unexpectedly like a few weeks ago when Grace and Luke asked to use the fire pit and roast hot dogs and make Smores. That was our final meal together last spring when you brought Luke's birthday present over and gave Grace a gift too so she would not feel left out. I often wonder if you were saying goodbye to us then...I will always wish I had more to offer you than hot dogs and chips. I could and would have given so much more.
On some days you crash into my thoughts like yesterday in the van. Prince's,"When Doves Cry" came on the radio and I was jolted back to the summer of 1984 and Gunbow Court. You liked to put your radio close to the back door so you could blast your music while you were outside. "When Doves Cry" was one of your favorites. "How can you just leave me standing, alone in a world that's so cold..."
I used to look for you. I would see you in a black Honda Civic in front of me at a red light. I would see you while in the check-out line at Kroger, paying for your groceries with your hat on backwards and your especially baggy shorts, looking so young and strong. I would see you at the park playing with some little ones and laughing and having so much fun. Of course you were not really ever there but just for an instant, it was you.
I have stopped looking for you where ever I go. Instead I know I can find you by listening to the music that you loved. I know I can find you by telling Grace and Luke and Emma all about their Uncle John. I know I can find you by watching Aidan and Mackenzie in their joy and delight of all things FUN! I know I can find you when I close my eyes and see your smile and hear your laugh. I know I can find you in my heart where you shall remain for always. Love to you.
May 15, 2011
There are days when I stil hear your laugh in the distance, still after a year. You're dearly missed.
JT
Lisa Souders
May 14, 2011
John,
It's so hard to believe it's been a year, we miss you so much and work has not been the same, we always try to brighten our bad days with something silly you said or something funny you did. You was an amazing friend, co-worker and father to 2 beautiful kiddos. Your Mother has been so great to us sending us pictures of the kids and how they are growing and coming to support us in the kickball tournaments. We all just love her. Until me meet again, keep watching over us.
Dad
May 14, 2011
John Craig Carter:
One year ago today your Mother let me know you were gone. In that instant my life and perceptions changed in so many ways. For 33 years, while you were with us, I loved you and did as much as I could for you but was often limited by what you would allow. I wish I had known how to have been of more help with the things that, as it turned out, really mattered. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you, several times, with love and sorrow. I do know this ....My life and this place was better because of John Carter. The many sentiments from Friends and Family alike attest to that fact.
John, I know you did what you felt you had to do to find shelter but I still fight the bitter grief while trying to understand. One of these days, maybe sooner than later, I'll come looking for you to see what we were all about. For now I will look after your children who you loved so dearly, Aidan and Mackenzie, and make sure they know and remember their Daddy.
To Have Known John Was To Have Loved Him. I did and I will never forget.
May 14, 2011
John,
I wanted to say so much and yet I do not know the right words to say.
It was truly a blessing to know you and to enjoy having a son. You are the shining moment for your Mom and Dad. The love they have for you helped you grow into a wonderful young man. You have such a giving heart and you gave it all to your children. You can see your love in their eyes and in their smiles. God made no mistake when he blessed your Mom and Dad with you. Thank you for being you, and making memories for me to cherish. I will think of you each time I look into the eyes of your children, for I know I will see you smiling back at me.
John, it was wonderful to share the same birthday, even thought I had a few years on you.
Each year you and I will have a special birthday wish together.
Nancy
M H
May 9, 2011
John,
I see ur picture everytime I leave RCC, the girls put up a small photo of u for all of us to see on our way out! I sure do miss you! I love getting to read all the wonderful things that ur mom post on here, just really sad ur not here to see these miracles for ur self! I will always hold u close to my heart! And I will always blow u a kiss on my way out the door!
May 7, 2011
still stuck in its not true "you gave me everything you had, oh you gave me life".... I love you Carter, until we see each other again.....there will never be another beautiful soul that graces us that's like you, you were perfect....
April 4, 2011
Wasn't it awesome to see Aidan so excited about The CATS making the final four? He is definitely his daddy's boy!
And how about Emma Colleen arriving on April Fool's Day? Rachel said if she had inherited any of her Uncle John's genes she would show up early just to mess with us. So now we're waiting for her to show us more of your personality as she grows. We can't WAIT! By the way, Emma looks EVER so much like you and Kelly did as newborns. I think maybe we've finally gotten a Carter in the Morrison clan! You are my heart, son. Always.
-mom
R
April 3, 2011
C A T S!!!
March 19, 2011
Your CATS are Sweet 16 Bound...
I bet you knew that before the rest of us ;) Miss you're excitement at this time of year!! Missing you always!!
JT
February 13, 2011
The baby will be here in a couple months. I will look for signs of you whenever she does anything that could be remotely construed as a "JohnCarter." Hopefully that will include the ability to carry a tune and helping her siblings with math homework. Miss and love you daily.
Robi Johnston
January 27, 2011
Seeing your picture today made me smile.
January 25, 2011
This winter has been colder with out you. I miss my friend...
JT
2010 Christmas at Calvary
mom
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas, John Carter.
And BIG LOVE!
(We left you a present at Calvary.)
Mary Beth Pendleton
December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas Carter. This peak has not been the same without you. I miss seeing your smile.
Rosemary Ashley
December 22, 2010
hey just wanted to say merry christmas and missing you up here during peak and i would also like to thank your family for the card and if u can do something from up above make us kick louisville's butt!!! go wildcats!!!!!!!!
Lisa Souders
December 22, 2010
Merry Christmas Carter, I wish you was here with us this peak it's just not the same you was our backbone and your not here to get us through it and I will say this has been the worst peak ever. We all miss you so much!!!
November 14, 2010
It's been the longest 6 months with out you.... Miss you so much!!!!
JT
Jen Taylor
June 27, 2010
I really missed singing 'Happy Birthday' to you again this year. Somehow, I'm sure you enjoyed your Birthday view of the NBA draft from up above, MUCH MORE than my singing ;)
Happy Birthday John, Miss you bunches... JT
June 25, 2010
Happy Birthday John...Big Blue came through again 5 1st round picks in the NBA..woohoo GO BIG BLUE!!!!
Rosemary Ashley
June 25, 2010
Happy birthday john carter you would have been so happy last night kentucky had 5 picks go in the first round in the nba drafts with john wall as the number 1 pick I bet your grinning ear to ear right now RIP
May 31, 2010
Precious memories just keep coming, John -- filling my heart to overflowing and bringing me joy and laughter. How very thankful I am that you can be so many places at once now -- here in my heart and also in the hearts of others -- yet flying blessedly free and at peace. How very thankful I always have been that you are my son.
I shall love you unconditionally all the days of my life and beyond, Kid. And the best part is that I know that you know it.
Godspeed as your ever curious soul learns the answers to earthly mysteries and explores every nook and cranny in your new universe of peace and serenity. Be sure to memorize EVERYTHING, because I'm gonna have LOTS of questions when I get there to join you.
BIG, BIG LOVE -- yesterday, today, and forever.
-mom
May 30, 2010
If you only knew how bad my heart aches and wonders why...
My brother, John Carter
May 30, 2010
Carter Christmas
May 30, 2010
Daddy and Mac at Huber's
May 30, 2010
Daddy and Aidan at Christmas
May 30, 2010
GO BLUE!
May 27, 2010
When Aidan was brand new!
May 27, 2010
May 27, 2010
John & Gracie Ride the Bus
May 27, 2010
When Mac was almost brand new
May 27, 2010
May 27, 2010
Daddy & Mac at the beach
May 27, 2010
Daddy & Adian at the beach
May 27, 2010
Lisa Curry
May 23, 2010
Just when the caterpillar thought it was the end it turned into a beautiful butterfly. Everything people have posted about John is so so true. What a great guy to work with. May God give your family peace at this difficult time.
Melody Akridge
May 22, 2010
when I first met John he would call me on the radio everyday with either a hot swap or some silly maintenance request that I would have to fuel. I loved giving him crap cause he would give it right back. Then I got go through the births of both of his beautiful children. We both had kids very close in age. He was so excited when he had his boy and when he found out he was having a girl, let me tell ya I couldnt have removed the permanent smile if I wanted to. He adored his children and was one of the most wonderful, caring, and charming men and fathers I ever met. I remember the last time I spoke to john, it was Mothers day and I just happened to be up at RCC...which I hardly ever went up there anymore. He wished me a happy mothers day and gave me a big hug. I loved Johns hugs, they were truely geniune. When I get to heaven you better be waiting for me with open arms. I will miss you so much. With love
Sister Ruth Ann Haunz
May 21, 2010
I just heard of John's death. I have such fond memories of John in RCIA at St. Gabriel. I send prayers and sympathy and love to all who loved him.
Dana Guyer
May 21, 2010
I only know John from talking with him at work. I always enjoyed talking with him. he always had a great attitude and a willingness to help. He was a good man and will be dearly missed.
stephanie faller
May 21, 2010
my thoughts and prayers are with you and you family...may God give you beautiful kids strength at the time and forever. may they be blessed by your presence and forever remember a great father. you will be dearly missed at UPS john..my heart goes out to your friends up in load planning....The ramp didnt get to see your handsome face much but you voice and sense of humor will forever remain....God Bless ....STEPHANIE FALLER
Kelsey Minniefield
May 20, 2010
GodBless Him and all that he loved and cherished as well as all that loved and cherished him. My heart goes out to his children and his parents, GodBless you and you are definetley in my prayers!!
Jennifer Taylor
May 20, 2010
John,
The rain stopped for a few hours today, first time since I heard of your sudden departure. I have to think that the gates of Heaven opened and pushed away the rain clouds in SDF, to allow so many (really there were so many John!!) friends and family to gather together & share some cherished memories and honor the life that you shared with us, just before you entered those precious gates to Heaven.
I'm sure a number of us have said, "I wish I could of had just one last moment......."
I know I loved being around you John, your infectious laugh, contagious smile and sparkling eyes. I too have said the very same thing "... just one more time...". The question is, would we have known even then, that it was indeed our last moment with you? I think back to the last time you came to visit me, I never thought at that moment, it would be the last time you'd walk thru my door.
Every June 25th I will think of Cold Stone Creamery ~ Ice Cream Cakes, for your Birthday.
Every 'UofK' Hoodie I see in a department store, I'll remember your staple basketball season attire.
I'll miss music trivia, 80's 'flash back' memories and 'Book of the moment' Novels. I'll miss our visits, like when I'd bring you my daughters retired Disney Princess items for Baby Mac & clothes for Aidan that my boys couldn't fit anymore, the book collections my children had grown out of. With out a doubt, I'll miss our 'Song of the Day' submissions; Today I remembered the one you submitted awhile back, when you Aunt passed away. "Go rest High on that mountain" by Vince Gill. When we pulled up to park at Cavalry I noticed how high your resting place was, and I smiled when that song came to mind.
So many things that I will miss about you John, yet so many things I will forever be thankful, grateful & honored for, especially my friendship with you John. Grateful for all the insight you brought into my life & the ear you lent to me in some of my weakest moments, thankful for the friendship that we built over several years, and very honored that you shared your time & heart "with a lil gal like me" ;)
I gave your mom a hug good-bye today, just after I thanked her for raising such an "Honorable Gentleman". I see now where you learned to give such a warm embrace, for a split moment I felt as if your arms were wrapped around us both. John I wish so much that you were able to see how much you were loved and adored & by so many.
I hope I thanked you enough for all the laughs you shared? The Smiles you spread? The tears you dried? The time you gave? I know I tried, but sometimes one doubts if they ever did enough.
I remember that usually when we'd meet up, I would be the first to arrive, so I'd wait for you. Just like the closing on our homes last year, you beat me there buddy. I pray & hope you'll swing by those gates to Heaven & greet me when I finally arrive.
Aidan & Mackenzie,
I pray you never forget the joy that you brought to your daddy. Your daddy always loved to share your latest pictures, stories of how his baby Mac was so cute at the jungle gym at McDonald's, Aidan's cool dancing video, off of his cell phone. If ever on this earth there was a father that adored his children, I Promise you Aidan and Mackenzie, that father was yours.
FiFi,
Thank you once again, for raising such a wonderful son. I have nothing but great memories of John, he started as my right hand guy on Sunday's and became one of those amazing people that touched my heart and soul and helped to change me for the better.
With much Love,
JT
“Never part without loving words to think of during your absence. It may be that you will not meet again in this life.”
Rest Peacefully my dear John Carter... Rest Peacefully
May 20, 2010
Deb Carter,
We haven't seen you in over twenty years, but I still do remember your sweet boy running around from time to time at MER. Know that we are praying for you and your family and send our love to you all from Virginia.
Ann and David Hogge
Richmond, VA
Britney Young
May 20, 2010
I still can not believe that you are gone. I will miss our Sunday mornings at work and miss your early morning smile. I am honored to have known such a great man and call you my friend. If you were standing here today I would want you to know that you are very special and loved by so many. I must take comfort in knowing that you are at peace now because that is the only thing that will help me through the hard days. I will miss you my friend until we meet again. I know that you are a beautiful angel watching over us now.
Melanie Jamison
May 20, 2010
Andy and Kelly- My thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family. There are no words to express my sorrow. I love you both.
Gloria Elliott
May 20, 2010
It is hard for me to believe you are gone. Words can not express what I am feeling! I will miss you my friend! I pray God's peace over you and your family.
Jeana Frazer
May 20, 2010
John Carter,
We have never met. We have never shared stories over coffees at our parents’ house nor have we spoken on the phone. I only know you from the photographs and tales my mother and your father have told me; as I am sure you would have received the same. However, despite this unknown, I have come to know you as the giggle in my mother’s voice and the twinkle in Gary’s eye when they speak of you and your beautiful children. These moments of happiness arrive when they recall how they had hoped that the travels of my family would cross the path of yours. How, we, as their children, have so many common elements, apart from being Nancy and Gary’s kids, that the bond must be more just the marriage of our parents. You and your adorable babes are in our thoughts, dear unknown friend. May peace be with your children, your parents, your sister and friends; known and unknown.
Ellen Stromberg
May 20, 2010
I also had the pleasure of working with Carter at UPS. One of the nicest guy you would ever want to meet. Pleasant always had a smile.I pray that you are at peace now. My thoughts and prayers go to the family.
Carrie
May 20, 2010
Kelly and family - you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Carrie, Howard, & Halle
Jessica Pruett
May 19, 2010
John (B), you were honestly the first person in my life that taught me how some people are genuinely "just because" and you had one of the most beautiful souls that I ever had the chance of encountering in this lifetime. To be more "pacific", the love, kindness and generosity that came naturally from you will never be forgotten. My love, prayers and sympathy are with your family.
May 19, 2010
I had the pleasure of working with John at UPS several years ago. Though I haven't seen him in years, I still carry fond memories of our friendship. He truly was one of those people that you meet who touches a special place in your heart. I doubt I've ever met and ever will meet a more caring, generous, and friendly individual. I am so sorry for his families loss and pray that one day a sense of peace will be with them. Know that John exists now where there is no death and no pain and he is always with you and patiently waiting to walk with you once again.
With my Deepest Sympathy,
Stephanie Logsdon, UPS Twilight Front Line Supervisor
Amberia Owens
May 19, 2010
I've known who Carter was for some yrs now just from working in load planning and speaking to him if I had a late enough to be there still when he came in for the morning shift. But, last June I transferred to day shift and that's when I really got to know him.
I will never forget....when I first come to days, I printed one of my sheets wrong and he kindly said" ma'am, on days, we print our reports in landscape, not portrait." And the he showed me how to set it to where it would print the next one that way. I never told him that I knew how to set it. It was nice of him to show me how, I just let him. He was so funny lol. He loved, loved, loved his kids so much. To hear him talk to them made we wanna call my own father just to say hey :).
Everytime I'd start singing completely off key and extremely loud, he'd quickly let me know how terrible I was lol. I'd say Carter! I really can sing and he'd say "uh....okay" lol. If he wasn't anything else, I can say he was really honest and genuine, he was funny and caring, he would do anything for any of us...even if we got on his nerves, and he was just an overall good person. It is going to be quite the adjust to get used to him not being around everyday asking for a piece of gum / candy or tellin me "for the love of god please stop singing" but, I'm sure over time I will. I'm going to miss him as much. Almost as much as I would a member of my own family because to me, we are all like family up in load planning. We drive each other nuts and make each other mad but at the end of the day...this is a family. And between us all, he will be GREATLY missed.
To Carters family....I am very sorry for you loss and pray that the Lord will wrap his loving arms around you, bringing comfort to your hearts and peace unto your minds.
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