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Grace-Lynne Martin Ingle Obituary

Grace-Lynne Martin Ingle July 16, 1929 - February 11, 2012 There is a new angel in heaven and she has perfect pitch. Grace-Lynne Martin Ingle, 82, passed away peacefully, in her home of natural causes on February 11, 2012. Grace-Lynne "G.L." is survived by her loving husband of 57 years, John Houston Ingle, and by her five daughters: Jessica Pretkus, Jennifer Bandy, Carey Haynes, Melanie Nelson and Christina Ingle. Grace-Lynne was born on July 16, 1929 in Pasadena, CA, and she has been a San Gabriel Valley resident all her life. At the early age of four, she crawled up onto the piano bench and began what would become a lifetime of making beautiful music. A true child prodigy, by the age of six, she was playing piano on the radio. But it was not until she began to sing, at the age of 16, that the world would begin to hear her true gift. Her crystal clear Soprano voice would lead her to world-wide acclaim. She was an early protege of Igor Stravinsky, recording his works for both Columbia and Epic records. Her vocal talents lead to performances at New York's Lincoln Center, the Hollywood Bowl, the Los Angeles Civic Light Opera and concerts in both the US and Europe. She was a soloist at the Glendale Methodist Church for 13 years and began the music program at Mayfield Senior School in Pasadena. Grace-Lynne's warm and gentle nature brought her love of music and life to every environment she graced. Equal to G.L.'s love of music, was her love of the ocean. Her happiest childhood memories were at the family beach house in Sunset Beach, shared with her brother Dr. Richard Martin, and his wife Peggy of Glendale, and her sister Faith Anne Martin Fischer and her recently deceased husband, Dr. Peter Fischer of Whittier. Grace-Lynne loved water, sand, sun and bare feet. Amidst all her talents and many accomplishments, Grace-Lynne's greatest accomplishments began when she met her husband, John at Occidental College in 1949. They were "the beautiful couple", with John directing Grace-Lynne in school productions while their love for each other flourished. Together, they began to weave a tapestry that is today, their family. For 41 years, Grace-Lynne and John raised their five daughters in a loving home on Christmas Tree Lane in Altadena. It was a home full of music, children, laughter and friends. Grace-Lynne taught her daughters to be tolerant, open minded, hardworking women with a sense of adventure and love for life. When her family began to grow, making her a grandmother "Gainy" to Hillary, Andy, Johnny, Christopher, Kelly, Nicole, David, Henry and Maggie, she became the wise, yet fun grandmother. She taught all of her grandchildren how to sing, how to float on their backs in the ocean, and how to ride a boogie board. She taught them how to carry themselves with "grace". Most importantly, she taught all her children and her grandchildren how to give a proper hug. "You must wrap your arms tightly around the other person, stand close, and fill in all the empty space between you". As an angel, Grace-Lynne, Mom and Gainy will provide strength, guidance and wisdom to all of us, including her new great grand babies, Warren, Carson and Gianna. We will speak of Grace-Lynne, Mom, and Gainy often, and miss her daily. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you kindly make donations to The Smile Train foundation, www.smiletrain.org in her name. The family plans for a private service in the weeks to follow.

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Published by Los Angeles Times from Feb. 18 to Feb. 19, 2012.

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Cynthia Westphal Johnson

July 12, 2024

What a wonderful memory to recall this amazing woman who profoundly affected my life. Gracie-Lynne was my voice teacher at Long Beach State in my junior and senior years, 1978-79. She was my safe-haven and taught me to fall in love with music, sing the music I truly loved, and accept myself. She had such an enthusiasm for life and gave me wings. I went on to have a career as a singer and voice teacher. Thank you, Grace-Lynne, for your inspiration and support.

Lily Miceli

February 12, 2023

Miss both Grace-Lynne and John very much. John, besides representing him was a good friend. Lily

Carol Harmon Kemp Walker

February 12, 2022

Not sure why this came up in my email, but it reminds me how much I do miss you. You were the best voice teacher!!

Emilio (bambino) Margain-barraza

February 24, 2019

Mrs Ingle you are always in our mind and heart, so many times we do remember your words, thoughts, advice and most of all love.
We feel the same love for you and Mr Ingle
We the Margain-Miranda family will keep you in our heart.

Sharon

March 14, 2012

My heartfelt condolences for John and his family.
Caring thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
God Bless your beloved Wife and Mother's
Sweet heart and soul.

A devoted General Hospital fan

stephanie guyton

March 13, 2012

posted this 2/12 but it was on twitter and remains no less true on 3/14:Thinking of you John and all the Ingle family. ....Grace-Lynne Martin Ingle was Class Heart Dignity Family and LOVE....Truly the words will always remain appropriate **Rest In PEACE** Grace-Lynne Ingle

Susan Brandes

March 12, 2012

john. Thinking of you. One of the girls called nancy and said you were being inundated with calls and visits. Otherwise i would have come to see you a few weeks ago. Didn't want to call so this is a perfect way to tell you how much you are in my thoughts. Love you. Susan Brandes

Susan Morgenstern

March 12, 2012

Dear John & Ingle Daughters:
I am deeply saddened to hear of this tremendous loss. The foundation of such a beautiful loving family as yours is Mom and Dad, husband and wife. While her presence will be greatly missed, know that she will live inside all of you forever. Much love, Susan Morgenstern

Emilio Margain

March 11, 2012

Dear Ingle Family:
I couldn't find the words to express my feelings to you about Mrs Ingle but I found that the words I wrote before we went to her Tribute were right.
"We, Silvia, Angelica, Toño and I, will always remember her spontanous smile and her loving welcome.
I do remember an Angel turnes into a human being whose light us transmitted through her plain and clear communication to mankind which I always identified as a natural sing of love for those who had the opportunity to meet her.
Her spirit full of comprehension and help allowed her to understand each individual's world in order to guide her or him to enjoy full hapiness in profesional and personal life.
The Angel has let her human dresses to show her true nature and continue to illuminate as a Star the path of her beloved ones and mine, as she did it in the past, does it in the present and will do it in the future, since her thougts and words acquire greater strenght, deepness and meaning each time I remember them.
EMILIO MARGAIN-BARRAZA; SILVIA MIRANDA MARGAIN, ANGELICA AND EMILIO ANTONIO MARGAIN-MIRANDA.

MEXICO, CITY. 11/03/2012

Connie Barringer-Douglas

March 7, 2012

During a particularly difficult time in my life following a divorce, a friend recommended me to Grace Lynne for voice lessons. I always brought my (then) ten year old daughter along and she would play with Grace-Lynne's youngest while I took my lesson. I learned far more than voice from her. She was such an elegant person and had such deep abiding love for her husband and her girls. She inspired me and introduced me to Bill Hall who accepted me into his Chorale. I will forever be grateful to Grace-Lynne for her amazing and inspiring instructions in voice and life. She has been on my mind lately and when I checked Google found the sad news. She was an angel among us and I will never forget her. She was a very important person in my life.

Lynn & Vic Calmes

March 3, 2012

Dear Jenny, Glen and Family of Grace-Lynn,
Vic and I send our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. We read her life and she was a beautiful woman. May you always cherish the Love of your Mother and may the special memories of her remain in your hearts forever. You are in our thoughts, today and always. Love, Lynn and Vic Calmes

Diane De Young

March 1, 2012

Dear John and the girls, I was so sorry to hear the news about G. L. from John(my brother). Mom was truly grateful for your Mom and Dad's friendship and so so sad for your loss. Though we didn't see each other much over the years, you guys were always mentioned. I am so glad I ran into your Mom and Dad in the Houston's parking lot last year. As I was walking through the parking lot I hear Dianeie! I knew exactly who it was, your Mom, calling me from the other side of the parking lot. We had such a wonderful chat and caught up on all the
"scoop". I cheerished that day then and it brings a smile to my face just thinking about it now. You all are truly Blessed to have chosen such wonderful people for parents. Mom sends her love. Take care, Diane

Lillian Miceli

February 27, 2012

Dear John: I received the letter today from your family. My heart was both sad but so grateful to have known Grace-Lynne and made to always feel through her and you that I too was a part of your family. She was so beautiful. I took out my scrapbook and found Christmas cards you have sent me...plus the current on my fridge...and the beautiful 50th Anniversary invite you sent me. I hope your health is better. Please email me when I can call and talk with you.
Love, Lil
Lillian Miceli

Deborah Sikes

February 25, 2012

Grace- Lynne, you always took the time to truly listen to my deepest thoughts and concerns. I only hope you know how much you helped me through those difficult times. I love you dearly and miss you always. Your Niece, Deb. (Siloam Springs, AR.)

Gail Levine

February 21, 2012

Dear John, So sorry to hear of the passing of Grace-Lynne. Jim and I have missed you folks sitting behind us at the Ahmanson. It was such a pleasure sharing stories and like minded ideas with you both. Your wife was such a lovely, charming, classy lady. I know she will live on in your heart and mind and you and your loving family will have many warm memories and stories to share thru the years. Gail Levine

February 21, 2012

Mom, I have been writing my tribute to you and listening to your beautiful music for the past several days. Your presence fills not only my home, but my entire world. Your "song" will be with me always and forever imprinted on my heart.

With love, from Baby "B"

February 20, 2012

An old soul at a young age, she only became more wise with time. This she did while retaining an appreciation for the simple things in life and a showing a love and appreciation for everyone whose path she crossed. I was very fortunate to have had her as a mother-in-law and friend for the past 16 years. Glenn Bandy

February 20, 2012

We miss you and love you so much Mom. Ron and I are finding comfort by listening to your beautiful recordings of the "Gesualdo Madrigals". Just know that you are here with us always.

Love you, Jessica (daughter #1) and Ron

February 20, 2012

Mom, I hope you know how much you are loved and missed. Ron and I have been listening to your beautiful recordings of the "Gesualdo Madrigals" and your exquisite voice is bringing us joy and comfort. We love and miss you so much.
Jessica (daughter #1) and Ron

Kerry & Claudia Severson

February 20, 2012

What a blessing Grace-Lynn was to all of you, as well as you were to her. I can't think of the last time I have heard of such a loving, united family. She obviously touched so many, yet made her greatest impact in the lives of her husband, daughters and grandchildren. It seems that you all carry on a part of her in your beauty, kindness and loving ways. May our good Lord continue to bless you through His love for you, and your love for each other.

Mit Musser

February 19, 2012

I remember Grace-Lynne's wonderful singing. Warmest condolences to John and the family.

Tom Joyce

February 19, 2012

Crossing the Bar

Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.

By Alfred, Lord Tennyson
The Poetry Foundation

February 18, 2012

She was my voice teacher at Cal State Long Beach in the mid 70s. What a wonderful lady. I still use the vocal techniques she taught me. I also remember her story of her and Marni Nixon in an hours-long recording session of some Gesualdo pieces having to sing straight-tone "forever." Grueling. RIP beautiful lady. Carol Harmon Kemp Walker (Santa Cruz, CA)

Cheryl Spitler

February 18, 2012

Prayers are with the family. Grace-Lynne was my very first voice teacher at Long Beach State, and I adored her. Saw her perform in the Sound of Music. She also introduced me to my husband of 29 yrs now.

She was a lovely lady inside and out.

Timothy Hoover

February 18, 2012

I am so sorry to read of your loss. My wishes to all of you, whom I have never forgotten, are that the heartaches from your loss be short-lived and that the amazing memories of your "Grace-Lynne, Mom, Gainy" will leave you with heartsmiles that will last forever ... and maybe it might be comforting to know that perhaps she has not "gone" ... just "gone on" !!! Most Sincerely, Tim Hoover

Carrie & Kevin Martin

February 18, 2012

You will be missed, beautiful Auntie.
Kevin & Carrie

Jake and Skip Ferraris

February 18, 2012

Our thoughts and heartfelt condolence to the entire Ingle family.

Bill and Nina Hicks

February 18, 2012

Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
God bless you and your family.

Carey Haynes

February 18, 2012

My wonderful Mom and friend. I love you. Carey

Tom and Diane Joyce

February 18, 2012

Our sincere condolences to Graces friends and family. What a presence she is in the community of Altadena and Pasadena. To think of her and John was enough to bring a smile of appreciation to ones countenance.
Hospitallity, Music, Joy and Love were manifested wherever she went.
May she rest in peace and perpetual light shine upon her.
She lives on in our hearts and memories

Chrissy Ingle

February 18, 2012

We love you very much Mom... thank you for everything you gave us. Love, Daughter #5

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