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Roger McCandless Obituary

On the night of the eclipse of the full moon, Sept. 27, 2015, Roger Lee McCandless took his final bow at the age of 81, as always departing the stage while the audience wanted more. He leaves a wife of 60 years, Janet Marie McNabb; and daughter, Cheryl McCandless Fallstead, both of Las Cruces; two sons, Michael and Richard McCandless, of Poway, California; and six grandchildren.

Roger was a wanderer from his early days, when as a toddler he'd be delivered home to his parents, James and Laura, by the Whittier, California, police. That wanderlust - and his career working for textbook companies - led him to live in many parts of California, then Lenoir City, Tennessee, and finally Las Cruces, New Mexico.

Roger was a lifelong member of the Society for the Preservation and Encouragement of Barbershop Quartet Singing in America (now the Barbershop Harmony Society). In his 50 years of active membership, he served as president and/or director of the Whittier, San Jose, Napa, and Oxnard chapters in California, among other roles, as well as being an active participant in many quartets. He found no SPEBSQSA chorus or quartet in Las Cruces, so he joined and soon directed the Young at Heart Chorus and later formed and coached the Cactus Chords quartet. He is also a founding member of the Las Cruces Ukes, a community group of ukulele enthusiasts. Probably the second-most cruel act of the lung cancer that took his life was to steal his vibrant singing voice.

Another lifelong love was the water. He participated in and coached swimming and water polo competitively, even being selected as an alternate to the U.S. Olympic water polo team in 1956. At his alma mater, San Jose State University, where he earned bachelor's and master's degrees, he is honored as a member of the sports hall of fame for water polo. Even his service in the Air Force included the water: along with being a dental laboratory technician, he served as a lifeguard while stationed in New York. At that time, he was selected as a member of the Eastern Collegiate All Stars in water polo and later was a swimming coach for the Hamilton Air Force Base swim team. Also at this time, he was a member of the Northern California All-Star Collegiate Water Polo Team. Into his senior years, he was still participating in indoor and open-water swim competitions in California and was ranked No. 10 in the world in indoor swimming. He won his age group in the Oceanside Rough Water Swim three times.

Although he claims to have been a middling student, he had a love for trivia and word games. In 2003, he found himself on national television, solving the final puzzle to be a big winner on "Wheel of Fortune." His widow, Jan, will sorely miss his assistance in completing their daily crossword puzzle.

As a textbook salesman, he worked closely with teachers, and was, prior to that, a teacher himself at El Rancho High School in Whittier Union High School District, California. He advanced to become a sales coordinator for Harcourt, Brace, Jovanovich, training teachers in many parts of the world, such as Kuwait, Panama and Canada.

He counted among his greatest accomplishments the raising of three wonderful children who have all done well with their lives, and he was always proud of his grandchildren. Whenever he could, he and his wife attended the Moon Picnic, a reunion of extended family held each year in California.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Mesilla Valley Hospice or the Barbershop Harmony Society's scholarship program, Harmony Foundation International.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Las Cruces Sun-News on Oct. 4, 2015.

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Chuck Riggs

September 28, 2023

Here's a picture of the original Cactus Chords. He was our coach for many years. I still miss him.

Karen Vance- McQueen

October 11, 2015

So many fond memories of neighborhood days in Lenoir City, TN. Countless cookouts, Holiday parties and lazy days on Ft. Loudoun Lake. Roger & Jan had a way of making any day batter. Roger's wit, wisdom and encouragement touched my life forever and I know I am indeed a 'Better Person for knowing Him'......

October 8, 2015

Soooooo glad we spent so many wonderful times together these past years. Our trips to Colorado to visit Grandma's childhood places were wonderful. We'll miss your smiling heart but we'll keep remembering the good times and the laughter and love we shared. Love, Cathie

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Cheryl Fallstead

October 7, 2015

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October 7, 2015

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October 7, 2015

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Cheryl Fallstead

October 7, 2015

Thank you to friends and family who have expressed their condolences for the passing of my dad, Roger McCandless. He fought cancer for two years with an amazingly strong attitude. It's hard to believe that he's not with us any more and that the phone will never again ring with him on the other end, perhaps asking me to bring the dogs over for a visit. That I'll never again hear him strum the banjo or ukulele or tickle the ivories. Or get some bad forwarded joke in an e-mail! I'll so miss his positive, upbeat, can-do attitude. Love you and miss you, Dad, more than you'll ever know!

Marjorie McCollum

October 6, 2015

Roger/Roget/Eclair the Moose Hunter: Your passing has brought me to my knees, Old Friend. You have always been an inspiration with your zest for life your wonderful sense of humor, your beautiful voice and your many talents. I will keep you in my heart and miss you until the end of my days. My love to Jan, Cheryl, Mike, Rick and all the family. Marjorie (Terry) McCollum

October 5, 2015

Roger, Darling, Lo, I've loved and enjoyed you these many years. Will miss you. And, no doubt, see you soon!!! Love to you and your precious loved ones, Cousin Marj Johana

Harry Whalen

October 5, 2015

I Knew Roger for a few years thru the Young at Heart Chorus in Las Cruces. He certainly was Young at Heart, a true and much admired and talented gentlemen,it was a pleasure to know him and count him as a friend.

Ray Scroggins

October 4, 2015

Roger was one of my best buddies in Las Cruces. We shared a love of singing and had some great times together. Will miss and remember him always.

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Charles Riggs

October 4, 2015

Roger was a good friend from the day we met. Sang and directed together at YAH. Of course he helped start the Cactus Chords barbershop quartet, and was our coach for many years. I miss him and he'll always remain my friend.

Ann Palormo

October 4, 2015

I only knew him during his "retirement" years in Las Cruces but I was impressed by his exuberance for life right up until the very end. My condolences to the family. His spirit will be greatly missed.

Patsy Villarreal

October 4, 2015

My deepest condolences to the family! I did many CT scans om Mr McCandless. He was always a great patient and never complained. May God bless you all during this difficult time.

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