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Jean H. Lander

1935 - 2013

BORN

1935

DIED

2013

Jean Lander Obituary

Lander, Jean H.

Jean Holmes Lander died peacefully at Northern Westchester Hospital, in Mount Kisco, New York, on February 12, 2013. She was the widow of Richard N. Lander late of Armonk, New York. She is survived by her sons David R. Lander (Tracey Thompson Lander) and Jonathan H. Lander (Beth Myers Lander), and her three grandchildren, Rebecca Jane Lander, Andrew Richard Lander and S. Radigan Lander. She is also survived by her sister, Mary Case. Jean had survived her father, George B. Holmes, her mother, Elinor Holmes and three siblings, Pearl Maranaccio, Robert Holmes and June Chory. Jean was a woman of great accomplishments. She earned a Bachelor of Science degree from Hunter College in New York City, and before having children, she worked as a hospital dietician and in research for General Foods. After her children were born, she devoted her attention to family, managing a household, supporting her husband's political and professional careers and raising two sons and, in that process, becoming "den mother to the world". Jean was devoted to lifelong learning which she willingly shared with all who asked. She was the "permanent substitute teacher" at the Crittenden Middle School in Armonk, New York. She could teach any subject to any age group, but focused her attention on grades six through eight. When she wasn't in the classroom, Jean devoted her considerable teaching skill to tutoring. Many a young scholar was run through their academic exercises at her dining room table. Jean was a person of great faith and was a pillar of the Armonk United Methodist Church. It is safe to say that at one point or another she has done everything a lay person can do in the church (often holding many offices at the same time), from directing the Christmas pageant and running the famous Election Day clam chowder luncheon (including knowing the secret recipe) to serving as Chairperson of the Administrative Board and later Chairperson of the Board of Trustees. Her love of the Church was not limited to Armonk's United Methodist Church, as Jean also served as Chairperson of the Board of Trustees of the Middle Patent Methodist Episcopal Church, an historic church preserved in time. The family will receive callers from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Friday, February 15, 2013 at the Oelker-Cox & Sinatra Funeral Home 262 East Main Street, Mount Kisco, New York. Services will be held at 10:00 a.m. Saturday, February 16, 2013 at the Oelker-Cox & Sinatra Funeral Home 262 East Main Street, Mount Kisco, New York.

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Published by The Journal News on Feb. 14, 2013.

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Mary Ellen Isaacs

March 9, 2013

I remember your mom well! We were members of the Methodist Church, and I was in many of those Christmas pageants with Mrs. Lander. My mom (Louise Isaacs) was a great admirer of Jean and our family sends their love and condolences. She lived a full and beautiful life, and there is peace in that!

Elaine Rosino

February 18, 2013

I will always Jean & Richard as they were our neighbors when we lived on Maryland Ave. Richard (Dick) as so many of us knew him were always very kind to whoever entered their door. I know Jean will be deeply missed by all who knew her.
Elaine Rosino

Pat Johnson Mercier

February 17, 2013

My deepest sympathy for the loss of your mom. Jean was the best. Most of my fondest memories of your mom had to do with the Armonk Methodist Church. She could talk me into doing just about anything for the church. I still use the bible she gave to us second graders at Christmas 1959. God blessed Jean.

February 16, 2013

Jean Lander's Family
Our deepest sympathy; Jean was an elegant lady, a fantastic teacher, and a wonderful and true friend to our brother, michael muccio. Truly a great loss; she was a terrific person; charming; lovely in every way. with deepest sympathy, maria and caroline muccio

Evelyn Partalis

February 15, 2013

Dear Jon and David,I was saddened to learn of your mother's death. She substituted in my classroom many times while I taught at Crittenden. It was like having my alter ego there. I admired her many abilities and her large capacity of enjoying life. I hope that you and your families will take real comfort in the memories that you shared. In time, these will be important to you. May her memory be eternal. Please accept my deepest sympathy and please convey my condolences to your families.
Evelyn Partalis

Varina Caton

February 14, 2013

Jean will be missed, a great Lady in the truest sense. My condolences to the family.

February 14, 2013

Dear Jon and David: I am sad to hear of your Moms death. She was a wonderful women, one who I admired very much. But, you boys will always have wonderful memories of you great Mom. With a tear in my eye and the deepest of sympathy----Dave Buffington

Robb Colleluori

February 14, 2013

my deepest condonlences to Jon & his family and David & Tracy and their family -- Mrs. L was a great influence in our lives as her students and many boys as den mother - always genuine and heartfelt - she will be greatly missed.

Geri Mariano

February 14, 2013

She was first Mrs. Lander to me when we moved to North Castle in 1972 and began attending AUMC. She truly did make our congregation a family ...there were countless fellowship/potluck (Methodists are singers and potluck dinner makers) where we'd make crafts, play games and sing. She contributed to every Outreach project...including Midnight Runs where she'd fund whatever we were needing from socks to soup fixings. She directed many a Christmas Pageant and Children's Choir at the Annual Advent Service at Middle Patent. She taught Sunday School classes and presided over countless meetings. Somewhere along the way she told me it was time to call her "Jean" and I would nod in agreement saying, "Ok, Mrs. Lander!" And I would have her frequently as a substitute teacher at HCC ...and she taught lessons. Teachers would fight to request her for the week of the Washington Trip. When in 10th Grade recuperating from major spinal surgery and needing home tutoring she pulled me through Social Studies/European History. Every subsequent surgery she was always a tremendous support -- sending cards and calling. Jean knew and shared our history and was the keeper of traditions including the Clam Chowder recipe. Jean Lander was a force of life and she will be missed.

Barbara Russo-Bardell

February 14, 2013

My condolences to the Lander family, friends, and community. May Jean rest in peace knowing she touched so many lives.

Jane Cahn

February 14, 2013

In her many years as a constant substitute teacher at Crittenden, every student knew Jean and she certainly knew each and everyone of them. She also knew all the course work for every grade at HCC. When she subbed, she really taught!!

Glenn Thomas

February 14, 2013

Thinking of you and your family during a time of sorrow.

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