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Mary Renee' Edelen Howard

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HOWARD, MARY RENEE' EDELEN, 48, died Thursday, August 9, 2007 after a courageous 5 year battle with cancer. Renee ' s business career began in the Finance Dept. at The Logan Co., followed by Norton's Hospital, Physician Services of America, and lastly her most beloved position, as a preschool teacher at St. Bernard Catholic School. She was preceded in death by her father, John Patrick Edelen of Holy Cross, KY, and her sister, Sharon Edelen Stokes of Louisville, KY. She is survived by her husband of 28 years, Joseph Jeffrey Howard; her sons, Joshua & Parker Howard; her mother, Lucille Lyvers Edelen of Holy Cross, KY; sister, Donna Edelen Costello (Roger) of Louisville, KY; two brothers, Chris Edelen (Debbie) of Bardstown, KY, and Rob Edelen (Kim) of Holy Cross, KY. She is also survived by the St. Bernard Preschool staff & students whom she dearly loved and considered her second "family". A funeral Mass will be held at 11 a.m. Monday at her church, St. Bernard Catholic Church 7500 Tangelo Drive with entombment at Resthaven Memorial Park. Visitation will be held 1-8 p.m. Sunday and after 9 a.m. on Monday at the Arch L. Heady at Resthaven Funeral Home 4400 Bardstown Road. Expressions of sympathy may take the form of donations to St. Bernard Preschool, The American Cancer Society or Hospice of Louisville.

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Published by Courier-Journal from Aug. 11 to Aug. 12, 2007.

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August 17, 2007

Renee was a very kind heart and will be greatly missed. Jeff, Josh and Parker - We continue to pray and send positive energy your way. Pat, Mary Ellen & Kate

Mary Carey

August 16, 2007

Even though Renee was just a few years older than me she was an awesome Aunt...She always had a kind word and a contagious smile. She will be greatly missed. I feel so blessed to have even known her.

Tresine Howard

August 16, 2007

Jeff, you have been in my thoughts and prayers since I heard about Renee's death. The one thing that I'll always remember about her was that 'smile'.....she was always smiling. She was a very special lady and in time, you will be able to smile everytime you think of her.......I know you have many many wonderful memories. Hang in there Jeff and turn to your God, family and friends for help...that's the only way you can make it after loosing someone that has filled your heart with love for so many years. God be with you and your boys.

Frankie, David, Grant and Connor Epperson

August 13, 2007

Renee will be truly missed. Her cheerful attitude was always a reminder to me to appreicate the small things and not waste time complaining. The boys are so special - she can be proud and at peace she was a wonderful mom. We send our sincere sympathy to her family.

Your Friends from Carbide Industries

August 13, 2007

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Captain Rob Dwyer & Family

August 13, 2007

We are praying for the Howard family. Josh is a faithful member of the Highview Fire District's Explorer Program and we are very proud of him. God Bless you all,

Dan and Beth Beyke

August 12, 2007

Our prayers are with you Jeff, Josh and Parker. Renee always inspired us with her constant cheerfulness through both your injury and her illness. The best testament to Renee (and you) is how well your sons have turned out. Again you and your family are in our prayers.
God Bless you,
Dan and Beth

Beth Fouts and Family

August 12, 2007

Renee, you have always been a friend, co-worker and most of all a mentor on how to get the most out of life. You made me look at myself from the inside and always told me that I could do anything if I just put my whole heart into it. Renee you rock and I know you will do the same in heaven. God Bless!!!!!

Nina Carta

August 12, 2007

I never knew Renee', nor had I ever met her. But I believe I saw her spirit: It's in the love & caring that Josh has. He is such a wonderful young man, that Renee' could have only been a loving & devoted mother.

Donna Brodt

August 12, 2007

Renee asked once, "Do you think I'll be remembered as a good person?" I think the answer to that question has already been answered. All that knew her or had any contact with her, will answer "yes". She was always "fine", she hardly ever complained! We had to send her home several times from class, because she wasnt feeling well, but was reluctant to leave. I have a few words to leave. Renee, you are a rock, you always found strength , searched for hope and the good in everything you ever did. I have been blessed to have been able to have met you, worked with you and the best, to say you were my friend. You are my hero. Take care and until we meet again, may God wrap his loving arms around you.

Mike and Gail Yates

August 12, 2007

We are so sorry for the Howard family. Josh is very special to us.
Rene was a special lady.

Brent Fullenkamp

August 12, 2007

We are deeply saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.Even though we did not personally know Mary Rene, Jeff's outpouring love for her was spoken so diligently it's obvious what a wonderful and caring woman she was. With love always.
The Fullenkamps

Brittany Cox

August 11, 2007

Renee had a wonderful smile that I never saw her without. I always admired her courage and strength. I see so much of Renee in both Parker and Josh - such good boys with a wonderful attitude about life. I know that she will live on through them, guide them and protect them. What a gift it was to know someone like her. Blessings and Love.

Michelle Donahue

August 11, 2007

Renee was an inspiration to Mom and all of us during her cancer treatments. We always admired her courage. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all the family.
Love,
Uncle Carl, Aunt Rose and Children

Dean Hagan Roche

August 11, 2007

Mrs. Lucille, I was shocked and saddend to read about your daughters fight with cancer and subsequent death. I was out of town at the time of Sharons' death but Ada Jane did inform me at the time. My heart goes out to you for your enormous loss! Thank you for the many,many memories that I still carry with me of week-ends that I would spend with you and Mr. Pat helping him grade eggs and all the good meals you would prepare and serve. The entire Hagan Family send there love and prayers, My best, Dean Hagan Roche

Jennifer Mitchell

August 11, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you all and your families.

God bless you through this difficult time.

Jennifer Cole Mitchell,friend of The Costello's

Roxanne Koopman Erica Noltemeyer

August 11, 2007

Myself and Erica are truly sorry for your family's loss. Death is a very hard thing to go through. We will keep all of you in our prayers constantly.

We love you guys.

Molly (McCall) Williams and Family

August 11, 2007

God bless you and your family during this difficult time. Renee was a wonderful person. She gave the gifts of love, patience and kindness to all those around her. The children were so fortunate to have her in the preschool program and the teachers were blest to have worked alongside her.
Our thoughts and prayers,

Aunt Joyce and Uncle Ralph Hornback

August 11, 2007

Renee's constant happy smile and bubbly disposition will always be a reminder of how she lived and how we should all live. She will never be forgotten. Our prayers and deepest sympathy go out to her family.

Wendell and Vicki Ward

August 11, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless you and your family.

Kelly, Earl, Stephen and Christopher Wilson

August 10, 2007

May you go with God. You will be missed by all you knew you. Your courage and strength were an inspiration to all of us.

Jeff, Josh and Parker are in our prayers and please know we are here if you need anything.

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