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Ray Haynes Obituary

Ray E. Haynes Farwell Formerly of Lansing Born December 22, 1932, in Walnut Ridge, AK; died June 29, 2010, at the age of 77. Ray was a veteran of the Korean Conflict having served with Army Telecommunications. He loved the outdoors and traveling. Ray was preceded in death by his parents, Ernest and Ora Haynes; wife, Mary "Midge" Haynes, on February 21, 2010; brother, Ted Haynes; and sister, Nell Wirt. Surviving are his daughters, Kathy Wudyka, Julie Kapeller, and Pam Spalding; sons, Jeff (Shelly) Haynes, Bob (Lynn) Spalding, Jon (Diane) Spalding and Tod (Brenda) Spalding; 15 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren; and brother, Jack (Pat) Haynes. Funeral services will be held Friday, July 2, at 2 p.m. at the Gorsline-Runciman Funeral Homes, 900 E. Michigan Ave., Lansing, with the Rev. Frank Weller officiating. Interment will follow in Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens, Lansing, with Military Graveside Services being provided by the American Legion Browne-Cavender Post #148, Mason. The family will receive friends at the funeral home on Thursday from 6-8 p.m. Those desiring may make contributions to the charity of one's choice in memory of Ray Haynes. Online condolences may be sent to www.gorslineruncimanlansing.com

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Published by Lansing State Journal on Jun. 30, 2010.

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John Giegler

July 29, 2010

I knew Ray for only a short time but we certainly shared some laughes. Our thing was that we bantered back and forth by calling each other names of flowers. The last Sunday before his passing I wrote on his name board in his room: I prefer to be called "Flower Petunia Ray." He got such a chuckle over that because he couldn't get up to change it. I'll miss you "daisy."

Julie Kapeller

July 29, 2010

What can I say about my dad?? He taught me how to dance by having me stand on his feet and he would dance and I learned the steps that way!! He was a giving man and though this has been a year of great losses for both families (my step mama Midge) and dad so close together, there is comfort in knowing they are together, they never were apart in life it didn't surprise me they went so close together...they missed each other..we should all be so fortunte to find in this lifetime someone we can truly say we want to be with in all ways...I miss both of them their laughter, their advice (I called for that alot) but mostly I just miss them as the human beings God made them. Rest in peace dad, don't worry about your babygirl, I'll be in good hands with John.

You fought the good fight and you can rest now. You are gone but never forgotten....I can only pray they have push broom guitars in Heaven! I LOVE YOU

Rebecca DeLong

July 27, 2010

A face EVERYONE loved!

Rebecca DeLong

July 27, 2010

Kathy Haynes

July 27, 2010

He was my Papa Ray. I a comforted as I know he is with my Mama Midge. No more pain, no more grief for either. I was so blessed to have had my Papa and my 2 moms in my life. The caring, the laughter shall always be with me. They are both missed but never forgotten...

Ray& Millie Holcomb

July 2, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.May your memories of this jolly man bring you comfort as it will us. Ray and Millie Holcomb

Dana Scheaffer

July 1, 2010

your family is in my thoughts and prayers. grandpa ray was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed! much love

kathy hyden

July 1, 2010

what i wonderful man!! i thank you for the funny memories gramp Ray. i know you are with mama midge now and happy and pain free. all our deepest sympathy to all the family. we loved him very much!

Janet & Bud Kuppler

June 30, 2010

To Ray's family and friends we send our deepest sympathies. We may all take comfort in knowing that Ray and Midge are now together again and without pain.

Scott (Hillbilly) Wright

June 30, 2010

I wish to express my condolences to all of Ray's family. I am unable to attend the funeral as we have a death in our family with the funeral on Friday also. I am also sorry to hear about Midge. Time sometimes separates. My heart goes out to the family, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Georgina Zynda

June 30, 2010

To all his family know that I am so sorry for your loss. I know that Ray is happy with Midge and they are in a great place. My deepest sympathies to you all and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Pam Spalding

June 30, 2010

Thanks for being my Papa, I was so blessed to have two men to call Dad.

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