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Rodney O'Neal Obituary
Resident of San Jose
61, passed suddenly on Oct. 15th. He was truly loved and is survived by his children, Jeff & Jennifer and their mother, Michelle, as well as his father Lloyd, and siblings, Rodger and Julie. Rod was preceded in death by his mother, Darlene. He will be deeply missed and remembered by his significant other, Judy McAllister and her extended family and beloved pets, J.R. and Bobo.
Rodney was well respected in his life career in the paint industry that concluded with Kelly Moore Paint Co.
His noble character and desire to put everyone before himself will be remembered by us all. In lieu of flowers, donations to The O'Neal Family may be brought to the service. Celebration of Life: Sunday, 10/24/10 2:30 p.m. @ IAHF 425 N 4th St, San Jose, CA 95112.
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Memories and Condolences
for Rodney O'Neal
Julie
October 15, 2022
Miss you so much Rod.
Judy McAlister
October 15, 2022
Dear Rod It has been 12 years and I still miss you. Love you lots judy
Judy McAlister
October 15, 2021
My Dear Rod
There isn´t a day that I don´t think of you for your kindness and love to me and my family will always be remembered. You were always so thoughtful of others helping in any way you could.
Love and miss you until we meet again.
Your Little Judy
Julie Pulsipher
October 15, 2021
Miss you Rod.
Julie Pulsipher
October 15, 2020
Miss and love you more then ever Rod.
October 16, 2011
My Sweetheart Rod
I loved you very much and miss your Happy Smiley face everday.
Your Little Judy
David Lemont
January 13, 2011
Rod gave me my first shot in sales at KM, for several months I was essentially his assistant as I learned the ropes at 24 years of age. He always said I reminded him of his son and I took that as a great compliment. Though he was a Raiders fan I found him to be a great person who had great empathy which is what made him a great salesman and manager. I just learned of his passing yesterday 1/12 and still today I am bummed out. I really loved the guy he left the world way to early. To his family I heard so much about but never met, I am very sorry for your loss. "The Rookie" as he called me, will never forget him.
Betty Lou Nyhus
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas Rod
I am thinking about the great Christmas we had last year it was so wonderful. Went to the Christmas Church Service yesterday and lite a candle in your memory. I miss you so much you were such a wonderful person.
Love you
Betty Lou (Judy's sister)
Judy McAlister
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas My Sweetheart Rod
I miss you and thought of all our Happy memories,Decorating the Tree, Buying our gifts for the family just enjoying each other and having lots of laughs shopping as I know how you love to shop, everything I did this December you were right there with me.
Honey I missed you so much and love you lots my Rodney.
Your Little Judy xxxooo
Betty Lou Nyhus
December 12, 2010
Happy Birthday Rod. I have great memories from your birthday last year Dec. 12th. You have been in my thoughts all day. Love and miss you lots
Betty Lou (Judy's sister)
Judy McAlister
December 12, 2010
Happy Birthday Sweetheart Dec. 12th
Thought of you all day and all the specials Birthdays we had together. Love You and Miss You Lots My Honey.
Love Your Little Judy
Sam Trieu
December 7, 2010
I posted a picture of Rod O'Neal in my Office, just a reminder that a gentleman is missing at Kelly Moore. Rod is a good inspiration to all.
Judy McAlister
October 29, 2010
My Sweetheart Rod
I Love You and miss you so much.
Your Little Judy
Annette Sullivan
October 26, 2010
I have worked with Rod for as long as I can remember. Rod was one the most happy, kind and caring persons I know. He always had a smile on his face and his laugh was infectious. He was always there when we needed something special, and he always tried his hardest to get what we needed, even if it was the impossible. My heart goes out to the O'Neal family for your loss. Rod will be greatly missed!
Kim Ware
October 26, 2010
I am very sorry to here about the passing of Rod Oneal, a real gem of a man. I had know Rod for over 2 years and had the best experiances sharing large jobs, and creating specifications. Together we both worked very hard to capture large jobs, with all of his DSM's and sales representives at Kelly Moore Paints he so loved working with on projects , problem solving and troubleshooting daily. Rod always had a great attitude about everything, and I am glad I had the pleasure working with the man! Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all at this time of your loss ! Kim Ware (San Clemente, CA ) and Fiberlock Technologies Inc (Andover, MA )
October 26, 2010
I am very sorry to here about the passing of Rod Oneal, a real gem of a man. I had know Rod for over 2 years and had the best experiances sharing large jobs, and creating specifications. Together we both worked very hard to capture large jobs, with all of his DSM's and sales reps at Kelly Moore Paints he so loved working with on projects , problem solving and troubleshooting daily. Rod always had a great attitude about everything, and I am glad I had the pleasure working with the man! Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all at this time of your loss ! Kim Ware (San Clemente, CA ) and Fiberlock Technologies Inc (Andover, MA )
October 25, 2010
I am very sorry to hear of Rod's sudden passing. I will remember him as a colleague, professional and most of all a kind soul who always tried to do right in life. He will be missed by many!
Brett Bechtel
Collin O'Neal
October 23, 2010
Uncle Rod! You were a special Uncle to all of your nieces and nephews and we all will suffer this tremendous loss for the rest of our lives. We all loved you so much and we at least cling to the many special memories we have of you over the course of our lives. We love you so much. Shannon (O'Neal) Wainman; Sean O'Neal; Ryan O'Neal; Shana Davis; Russell Davis; Collin O'Neal; Colby O'Neal; Connor O'Neal; and your great-nephew, Jacob Wainman.
October 23, 2010
Uncle Rod! You were a very special uncle to all of your nieces and nephews who loved you so much. You will forever remain in our hearts and we have such special memories for the rest of our lives. We loved you so much. Shannon (O'Neal) Wainman); Sean O'Neal; Ryan O'Neal; Shana Davis; Russell Davis; Collin O'Neal; Colby O'Neal; Connor O'Neal; and your great nephew Jacob Wainman.
Diane Gangi
October 23, 2010
Dearest Michelle, Jenn and Jeff -
It is such a shock still to think Rod will not be here to share in the many, many family memories yet to come.
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of loss. It was a true gift that everyone was together just weeks ago in celebration of Paul. Rod was a wonderful man and will be missed by many.
My love to all
Kathleen and Bill Drotar-Raddatz
October 22, 2010
We didn't know Rod very long but we loved him from the start. His gentle nature, his thoughtfulness and his love for his Little Judy were a delight to behold. We truly appreciate the time we spent with him, and know his spirit will stay in the hearts of all who knew him and help them be better people. We hope to meet him again one day in Heaven.
Ramon Flores
October 22, 2010
To Rod O’Neal’s Family
Please accept my condolences for your lost.
God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you and whispered come home to me.
With tearful eyes I watched you and saw you pass away.
Although I love you dearly, I couldn’t let you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest.
God broke my heart to prove to me the he only takes the best.
October 22, 2010
Rod, I appreciated all your professional help and advice through the past 20 years, as well as your friendship. Lynn Jackson - Portland, OR.
Judy McAlister
October 22, 2010
I Thank God for the last 5 years together Rod you were so precious and kind to me and I loved you very much. My memories will always remain and I was truly Blessed to have you for that short time. Love You Honey Your Little Judy XXXOOO
October 22, 2010
Rod was truly a wonderful person that we respected and loved. He will be greatly missed. Going to the races will never be the same without Rod. We pray for comfort for his family and friends during this time and we will remeber what a wonderful friend he was.
Chris & Cheryl Ellington
Betty Lou Nyhus
October 21, 2010
Dear Rod
I am so saddened by you leaving us. Mom and I loved you so much and you were so kind and loving to us. We were truly blessed to have you in our lives only wish it had lasted longer. I will always treasure our fun times and memories. Thanks for your love. I will miss you. Love Judy's sister Betty Lou. XXOO
Judy McAlister
October 21, 2010
I loved you so much and will always know you loved me to. You were a wonderful loving kind person who treated me so kind and I know you loved me Honey. I know you are in heaven which gives me peace. Love you sweetheart Love From Your Little Judy
Michael Viverito
October 21, 2010
Rod and I use to stand on the corner and catch the bus for school when we were kids. I lived around the corner from him. Through the years we became friends and even doubled dated. When ever Rod and I were together we use to laugh and laugh. We became good friends and then he stole my cousins heart. We then became not only friend but family. God bless Rod. He will be in my memory for the rest of my life.
Marie Godfrey
October 21, 2010
I am sorry to hear of Rod's passing. I worked with Rod at Kelly Moore. He was truly a wonderfully, kind man. He will be missed immensely. I wish you comfort and my prayers are with you at this time.
Trish Hoffmann
October 21, 2010
My heart goes out to you during this time of loss and sadness, and in the days ahead as you learn to live without him. He was a wonderful man and will be missed.
My love to all,
Trish Decker Hoffmann
michael viverito
October 21, 2010
Yes! Rod will be missed. Rod and I use to catch the bus together for school many years ago. I lived right around the corner from him. We doubled dated a long time ago and had a great time. When ever Rod and I were together we use to laugh. Rods the one that stole my cousins heart and then Rod and I became not only good friends but family. God bless him!! His memory will live with me forever.
Sam Reynard
October 21, 2010
We at Kelly-Moore have lost a friend, our colleague and ambassador to the industry. A life well lived that will be remembered for his kindness to all he dealt with. My deepest sympathies to the O'Neal family and Judy. We all share an immeasurable loss.
October 21, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of Rod's sudden passing. We will remember him for his love for his family and his passion for his business. We wish you and yours the comfort of knowing Rod is home with our Lord now. Love Bonnie & Ty Waudé
Paulette LoMonaco Bavilacqua
October 21, 2010
May our Good Lord give you ALL strength during this unexpected time of loss. It does not seem real that Rod has passed- He will be missed. We will treasure the memories we have created over the years and hold them dear to our heart. My continued prayers are with you.....Love Paulette
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