NORMAN CAFIK

NORMAN CAFIK obituary, Sidney, BC

NORMAN CAFIK

NORMAN CAFIK Obituary

Published by National Post on Oct. 3, 2016.
CAFIK, Hon. Norman Augustine
December 29, 1928 - September 30, 2016
It is with profound sadness that the family of the Honourable Norman Augustine Cafik announce his passing on Friday September 30th, 2016 from the complications of Parkinson's Disease. Norman was born on December 29th, 1928 in Pickering Ontario to Mary Reid and Stephen Cafik. Norman, the sixth of seven children, is pre-deceased by his wife of 45 years, Patricia Ann Cafik, and brothers, Lou (late Ruby), Jack (Lois), and Raymond (late Muriel) and sister, Marion (late Howard). Norman is survived by his children, Monica, Julianna, Anthony, Yvonne, and Michael (Sandy), and grandchildren, William, James, Jennifer, Victoria, Marissa (Drew), Megan (Marshall), Sydney, John, Emily, Laura, Madison, Alex, and Stephen. He is also survived by brother Albert (Dianne) and brother in-law Phillip (Marilyn), a large family of adoring nieces and nephews, and his spouse of ten years, Pat Brown, her children, Elaine (Randy and sons Jeffrey and Jason) and Gordon (Melony) and cousin, Rose Mary Forbes.

There were few things that this self-made man some affectionately called, "Stormin Norman" couldn't do. He started out in industry as a tool and die maker, soon became an inventor, publisher, and successful businessman. He was a proud Canadian and committed public servant who was first elected to the House of Commons in 1968 as the Liberal member for the Ontario riding representing the people of Whitby, Ajax, Pickering and North to Lake Simcoe. He served three terms under the Right Honourable Pierre Elliot Trudeau becoming the second person of Ukrainian descent to be appointed to the Canadian Federal Cabinet and Canada's first Minister of State for Multiculturalism. He served in several key leadership positions in Trudeau's 1968, 1972, and 1974 governments, including Chairman of the Standing Committee on Finance, Trade, and Economic Affairs, Deputy House Leader of the Government of Canada and Chairman of the Ontario Liberal Caucus. He took a brief stint out of federal politics in 1974 to run for the leadership of the Ontario Liberal Party finishing a close second in the final ballot to Robert Nixon. A principled leader and gifted orator, he earned the respect of his constituents, colleagues, and Prime Minister, representing the Government of Canada on numerous occasions at home and abroad.

An amazingly accomplished and humble person, Norman was a pillar of strength to his family and all who knew him. His resiliency and strength came from a deep Catholic faith and desire to make a difference in the lives of others. He was a Knight of Malta, Knight of the Holy Sepulcher and member of the Knights of Columbus and on the day preceding his death was awarded Knight of the Month by the local Council of Knights. He received numerous awards and recognitions, including honourary Chief of the Ojibwa First Nation on Christian Island in Georgian Bay, Simcoe County and an Honourary Doctor of Laws in Political Science from Ukrainian Catholic University. For many years he was President of St. Elizabeth's Parish Council, served on numerous Diocesan task forces, and was the former editor of the Victoria Diocesan newspaper. He also served on numerous boards of directors spanning the public, private and not for profit sectors and mentored entrepreneurs and companies helping them turn ideas into products and successful business strategy.

He was extremely well read, had a love of philosophy, and enjoyed boating, camping, and cooking in the great outdoors. He was an enthusiastic gardener, and for over 30 years, was assisted in this task by Dave Vergowen, whom he affectionately referred to as Goldilocks. He had a special bond and relationship with Vera and Jackie Burrows, Dianne Giguere, and his good friend, Marcel Fauchon who shared his faith and love of carpentry and woodworking.

He was accepting of all people and situations and showed much grace and the Cafik intellect and wit even as his disease progressed. The family is extremely grateful to Father Rolf Hasenack for his love and compassion and Drs. Kennedy and Davidson and the nurses, staff, and volunteers who cared for Norman in the Palliative Care Unit at Saanich Peninsula Hospital.

Viewing will take place on Wednesday October 5th at 7 pm followed by the Rosary at 8 pm at St. Elizabeth's Catholic Church, 10030 Third St. in Sidney, British Columbia, Canada. The funeral will be held at the same location on Thursday October 6th at 11 am with a reception to follow. As an expression of sympathy, donations can be made to St. Elizabeth's Catholic Church or a Charity of Your Choice. Condolences and memories of Norman are appreciated and may be shared with the family online.

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Rebecca Happy

November 8, 2020

Was a friend of the family when I was very young. I remember the kids and some of the campaign events hosted at our place on Lake Simcoe. Sharing this found photo here in case the family ever looks.

Warren Bayley

February 13, 2018

Cousin Norm was always very kind and open to help in any way that he could .I remember as a young boy visiting Aunt Mary in Pickering when it really was a small town and Norm being older was kind enough to listen to me and asked what my dreams where ,that I would like to be in life. I will always remember those visits with his mother and his brothers Howard , Jack Norm , Bert and of course Lou , they are all remembered even though we lost contact with the family over the years except Lou who Passed away and unfortunately we only found out a year after his passing ,God Bless them all, Rest in Peace Norm

December 30, 2016

Unfortunately, we just heard the sad news. Our condolences to all the family. Such wonderful memories of wonderful times with all of you. Norm was certainly "one of a kind" and will be warmly remembered always.
Love Frank and Rita

November 28, 2016

Norm Cafik is a name that resonates profoundly when I reflect on my formative years. Some of my memories revolve around the wonderful gifts Norm Cafik would bring my brother "Norm", his godson, and the house-swap during Expo 67 - our modest bungalow in suburban Montreal for his "estate" in Pickering! Moreso, I think about my Mom's and Dad's friendship with the Cafiks in the 1950s and how that relationship influenced my father's conversion to Roman Catholicism (eventually my Mom converted as well). My dad's relationship with his religion has had an extremely meaningful impact on his life, so I can't think of a more wonderful tribute to Mr. Cafik than to share this story and offer appreciation for a life well lived.

Roseanne McAvoy

October 28, 2016

I am sorry to hear of the passing of Norm Cafik. My condolences to his brother Bert and wife Daiane and his immediate family members. o

Annette & Bob Mason

October 25, 2016

We count ourselves so privileged to have known Norm for more than 45 years, initially as political opponents but soon after, working on the same side. He became a mentor to Bob and for both of us like a brother. We shall miss him dearly, but know that we have so many memories of a truly fine man and a great Canadian. R.I.P , Norm and we'll see you again in heaven. Our sincere condolences to the family, many of whom we have come to know over the years.

Annette and Bob Mason

October 25, 2016

Norm was one of the finest people we've had the privilege of knowing, having first met him when he was the candidate for the Liberal party in Ontario Riding, and we were working for the Progressive Conservative candidate, Clark Muirhead. Norm handily won the election and endeared himself to us when we applied for Canadian citizenship during a postal strike. Norm picked up our new Canadian passports from the passport office in Ottawa and met us at Toronto airport as we were leaving for a return visit to England. In the 1972 election we worked for Norm and he became a mentor to Bob, while almost like a brother to us. We shall miss him so much, but hold on to the wonderful memories of one of the finest people, and a truly great Canadian. R.I.P. Norm, and we'll see you in heaven.

Frank Comery

October 6, 2016

We grew up next to the Cafik family in the late 60's. Wonderful memories of Norm and family. He was a big personality who was generous and fun to be around. He would drive his convertible in the winter with thecroof down wearing a snowmobile suit! Condolences to the family.

October 6, 2016

Our deepest condolences to the family.

RIP Norman.

Agnes and Frank Shin

Michael Moldenhauer

October 6, 2016

Witty, passionate, determined, loving and a contagious sense of humour are top among many qualities that Norm shared with so many.

Our family was very fortunate to witness the remarkable bond and beauty of Dad and Norms life long friendship.

I'm pretty sure that Leo's been patiently waiting for Norm to get up there so they can pick up where they left off having so much fun together.


It is with great sadness to learn of Norm's passing but with greater appreciation of the moments we were able to experience with him.

Forever remembered.
Your Godson, Michael

Philip Conniff

October 6, 2016

I'm deeply saddened of the losses of my brother in law Norman Cafik, I have so many good memories with Norman fishing and Travel around so pleased I saw him when I did wishing we could have lived closer for ever in my hearts,
R.I.P. Norman Cafik
Love Philip @ Marilyn Conniff and the boys

Richard Turnbull

October 6, 2016

I am privileged to have met Norm and enjoyed his witty banter when I worked at his home doing various project for him and Pat. My kids enjoyed the odd visit as well and we will all miss him. My deepest condolences to all his family.

Gerry McQuade

October 5, 2016

We are very sorry to learn of Norm's passing. We had contact with him for over 40 years, first as our member of parliament, then as a board member of a Victoria firm and as a fellow parishioner of St. Elizabeth's Church. He was a very honorable man.

May he rest in peace.

October 4, 2016

Our deepest condolences to the family. Maya and Jim Lemyre

Stephen Plitz

October 4, 2016

Mere words can not express my deepest sympathies to the Cafik family on the loss of such a great and dynamic individual as Storming Norman. I had the greatest times of my life being his chauffer and gofer during the 1972 Federal and Ontario Provincial leadership campaigns . It opened up my eyes to the world as I had never imagined it. Norman helped so many people on so many fronts , it was astounding. His boundless energy was inspiring to say the least. Twenty years his junior and I had trouble keeping up to his pace of living. We should have all been so lucky to have had a Norman like him in all of our lives. Although we had loss touch over the last number of years I often thought of the great times Norman and his team had during that part of Canadian Political history. If anyone in this country made a difference for the better it was Norman Cafik. I shall miss him profoundly as I know all others whose lives he touched shall also. See ya around Norm...R.I.P.

Diane Parro

October 4, 2016

So sorry for your loss, He will be remembered.RIP

Rose Mooney

October 4, 2016

I grew up in Pickering. My parents both worked on Norms campaigns. This was my first introductions to politics.I helped my dad silk screen T-shirts for his campaigns.Our family home had his bumper stickers plastered all over the basement. He severed his constituents with dedication and respect! Thank You Norm R.I.P.

Sherry Whiteway

October 4, 2016

On behalf of my parents, Herb and Ina LeGard and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories be always cherished and the laughter never stop.

October 4, 2016

may you rest in peace

pickering R.I.P Mr.Cafik

sally otis

October 4, 2016

Paul,Tim,Roddy, our sympathy to your family

October 3, 2016

I was very proud to work for 'Storming Norm' in 1975/76. He was a great boss - full of energy, humour, kindness and savvy political skills, not to mention a formidable work ethic. My husband, David, joins with me in expressing our deepest sympathy and love to all of Norm's family. His was a life well lived.
Penny Collenette (Ottawa), On

Richard Eppich

October 3, 2016

We are greatly saddened by the passing of Norm. The employees and owners of Epic Data and Ebco Industries, where Norm worked immediately after his political career, very much appreciate the leadership and growth he brought to our companies. Our sincere condolences from the Eppich Family and all the employees of Epic Data and Ebco.

Allan Cafik

October 3, 2016

I was always proud to say "Yes, Norm Cafik is my uncle" I will always remember Norm taking us fishing along Duffins Creek in Pickering. Norm had more chocolate bars than lures. At age 16 he let me drive his 1963 Buick Convertible, I loved that car. - I worked as a "young liberal " in his campaigns, and helped out on his bid for the leadership of the provincial liberals. On business trips to B.C. I always made a side trip to see Norm and Pat at their lovely home on the water, on the island. Great memories of learning about his gardens, the bees he brought in to be the first with early blooms, caught Dungeness Crabs when the tide was coming in, saw his professional carpenter setup in the garage, and of course shared a few beers and a lot of laughs. All the Cafik boys had loud booming laughter when they got together, I miss that. God bless you Norm, God bless you Pat, God bless all my cousins and your families, Norm was an inspiration to us all. I will be sure to keep him and all of you in my prayers. Al

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