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Lt. Col. Charles R. Swilley, USMC, Ret. Loving husband, father, friend, and dedicated Marine OCEANSIDE -- Charles Raymond Swilley passed away on Sunday, February 27, 2011 at Tri City Medical Center. He was born on February 4, 1927 in Screven County, Georgia, to Charles R. Swilley, Sr., and Sarah Jones Reddick Swilley. Charles joined the Navy at 18 years of age at the end of WWII in which he served as a radio operator gunner aboard a PBY. He then entered into the Navy Reserves and attended Mercer University in Macon, Georgia from 1946 to 1950. From there, he joined the Marine Corps and was commissioned as a Second Lieutenant. He served in the Korean and Vietnam Wars. Then Major Swilley was awarded the Bronze Star, retiring from active duty in 1971. Charles was a member and former Elder of the First Presbyterian Church in Oceanside, Calif., since 1968. Charles was preceded in death by his brother, Bill S. Swilley in 2006. He is survived by his wife of 60 years, Myra Lee Swilley; daughter and son-in-law, Charlene and Tom Calabrese; sons and daughters-in-law, Bill and Casy Swilley, Mike and Wendy Swilley, and Bob Swilley; granddaughters, Jessica Stirk and her husband, Kenneth, Sarah Swilley, Katie Mishkin and her husband, Zach, Rebecca Swilley, Bethany Tate, Emily Swilley, and Randi Swilley; grandsons, Joshua Swilley and his wife, Stacy, and Matthew Swilley; and great- granddaughter, Scarlett Swilley. He will be interred at Fort Rosecrans National Cemetery in Point Loma, San Diego, Calif., with Military Honors. Sign the Guest Book online obits.nctimes.com

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Published by North County Times on Mar. 10, 2011.

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Michelle evans Christman

March 4, 2022

I remember col swilley well, always a gentleman, Charlene hope all well with you and your family

January 22, 2012

Dear Myra, sorry about your loss, I remember, "Mr. Swilley" very well, fun times with Charlene. I realize this is very untimely yet I am just finding this information and wanted to express my condolences and would like to hear from Charlene, Now am Michelle Christman, was "Mike" Michelle Evans, we rode horses together and moved to Oceanside from Camp P. Mr. Swilley was a great guy, Michelle Christman

March 24, 2011

Mrs Swilley, your husband was my first commanding officer when I (2d Lt) joined Comm Co during Jun 1965. I have never forgotten his leadership and his patience with a somewhat irresponsible young officer. It was a loss and he will be missed.

Major General B. Don Lynch, USMC (Ret)

March 15, 2011

Dear Myra I just received the e-mail from Marty Lazar informing about Charlie. Charlie was a good friend and a good guy. We enjoyed many great rounds of golf at Quantico. My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Elwin Hart Federal Way, Wa.

Mary and Jim Gallagher

March 15, 2011

Charlie was a great person. His quiet and friendly manner would light up a room. He was devoted to his wife, Myra, and to his family. He was kind to all. We were honored to be able to call him our friend. Rest in peace, good and faithful servant of the Lord.

Jim and Ruby Woodring

March 13, 2011

Myra, we go back a long way! When I saw the news of Charlie's passing in the paper, it brought back so many memories. I think the last time we saw you both was at the golf course at Pendleton a loooong time ago. Our paths just haven't crossed even though we don't live that far apart. I could not find an address for you so am grateful that you can be contacted this way. Please know that we will hold you close in thought and prayer at this difficult time. May God Bless You and your family.

Bill and Judy Holston

March 13, 2011

Myra, We feel so blessed to have known Charlie. We had so much fun with him at our football club parties. We wish he could have lived to see that darned coach fired. We will miss him. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. With sincere sympathy

March 10, 2011

3/10/11 Charlie was a true leader. I had the pleasure of serving with him four times. He was my first boss in 1954 and again in Vietnam in 1966. Regards to Myra and family.
Art Jensen
LTCOL-USMC-Ret.

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