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Betty Bare Obituary
Betty Bare Betty Bare passed away on August 27, 2010 in Gulf Breeze, Florida. She was born Betty Gloria Nicholson to John and Helen Lambert Nicholson on May 16, 1934 in Houston, Texas.
Betty graduated from the University of Houston with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Special Education. Betty dedicated her life to volunteerism and community service. She was president of Parent Teacher Organizations, Friends of the Library, the Pensacola Symphony Guild, The Wives' Club of the Armed Forces Industrial College, and Gulf Breeze United Methodist Church Stage Presence. Serving as a Scout Leader was one of Betty's favorite positions. She was both a cub scout and girl scout leader and loved the girls and boys equally.
Over the years, Betty followed where her husband led as he was a pilot with the United States Air Force. Many happy times were had both across Europe and in the British Isles where her son was born. After her husband retired, the Bares traveled to Australia, New Zealand, South America, Hawaii, Alaska and back to Europe. She loved God and had no fear of dying.
Betty's personality was magnetic and attracted lifelong friends everywhere she went. She was filled with empathy for others and was always there when her friends and family needed her. She loved to smile and make others smile.
She is survived by her husband of 48 years, Merle Monroe Bare; daughter, Mary (Chris); son, Charles (JoEllen); five grandchildren, April, Ross, Jackson, Conner and Davis; brother, Johnny (Sue); and four nieces and a nephew.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Covenant Hospice, Interfaith Ministries or the American Lung Association.
This obituary was originally published in the News & Messenger (Woodbridge, VA).
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Tera McFarland
September 2, 2024
She was always a delight and inspiring to me. I still remember her and think of her kindly. We never met in person but were buddies just the same.
Tera M McFarland
September 2, 2023
Betty was a special friend to me when I needed a friend. We only talked online but we forged a beautiful friendship there. I will always remember how kind and supportive she was. She was a blessing to me.
Tera McFarland
Tera McFarland
September 2, 2021
Betty was my online friend. We were both going through the same things at the same time. She was special to me and I really missed her. She was a wonderful friend to me.
tera McFarland
September 2, 2020
She was a special friend of mine when we both were fighting cancer. I have a place in my heart for her and her kindness and friendship with me.
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Tera McFarland
October 9, 2010
Betty was my online angel. We never met in person but she inspired me through my illness and I felt her warmth and spirit through her words. She was a very special, very loving, very funny lady. I know she's smiling in Heaven. I thank God for having her touch my life.
September 14, 2010
My sympathy to the Bare family. Betty would be so proud of the library system in Prince William County, VA that she helped establish.
Kathleen Seefeldt
September 13, 2010
Dear Merle,Charles & JoEllen, We are so sorry, may God bless you. She was a wonderful women and a terrific friend. Bernard & Rita Johnson Sun City West, AZ
September 11, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the Bare family. I was blessed to be with Betty on The Walk to Emmaus. I will treasure the memories of her smile, her laughter and her sweet spirit. I am so thankful I got to share with her that special time in both our lives. I pray God will comfort you and give you peace. Charlene Baker (Pensacola, Fl.)
Capt Ron
September 10, 2010
Charles, after reading your mom's bio I bet she made the best apple pie! My parents are in their late 70's and I often pray that t hey develop a closer relationship with Jesus Christ. I know your faith is strong and your heart is at peace with the passing of your mother. Her faith in Christ has made this so. In His name we pray.
God Bless,
Capt Ron
Don Snowden
September 10, 2010
My deepest sympathy to Merle and the entire family. I know I could always count on seeing Merle and Betty's smiling faces supporting my concerts. She will be sorely missed.
September 10, 2010
Keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. ~ The McKnight Family
Renee Christian
September 9, 2010
My deepest sympathies for the Bare family. I had the extreme pleasure of arranging vacations for the Bare's. Betty was such a breath of fresh air. She surely will be missed.
Renee Christian
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Ann & Guy Livingston
September 9, 2010
Dear Merle, Charles, JoEllen,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. She was a beautiful lady who will be missed by many.
JoEllen Bare
September 9, 2010
My precious mother in law....what a blessing to have been a part of her life for 15 years! I will miss her and pray I can pass on the indelible love she left with her 3 grandsons.
Joe mankin
September 8, 2010
It was a true honor to have crossed paths with Mrs. Bare.My prayers are with you all.
Sheena O'Leary
September 8, 2010
I will never forget the rolling chair in the kitchen!! I have never seen someone cook an entire dinner sitting down like her, this was one of her many talents!! She was so special to me and touched my heart in a way that I will never forget. I was so blessed to have her in my life and hope to pass all the love and amazing memories on to my kids. I will miss her contagious laugh but I know that heaven is the right place for an angel like her!! I love you aunt granny and I will be sure to watch out for the "winebox flu" !!
Cindy Seay
September 8, 2010
My loving Aunt, I will always remember you and will never forget the fantastic memories we made together.
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