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FRANK HUSTEDDE Obituary

Frank Hustedde, age 85, was born on September 1, 1928, in Tulsa, OK and passed away peacefully on June 26, 2014. Frank was born on the infamous "Route 66" and grew up milking cows with his two older brothers during the Great Depression. Though he grew up poor, Frank developed his strong work ethic on his parents' dairy and carried it for the rest of his life. Poverty also taught him to wisely live on a budget and helped shape his overwhelming generosity. Moving with his parents to Orange, CA as a teenager, Frank received his high school diploma and his AA Degree. He served four years in the US Air Force before transferring to UCLA where he graduated in 1955 with a B.S. in Marketing. Frank went on to work in the produce industry for the next 32 years, coming to Fresno in 1972 as the new Vice President of Marketing for the California Table Grape Commission retiring in 1988. After retirement Frank earned his teaching credential and became a substitute teacher for Fresno County Schools. Though successful and self-made, Frank's first priority was family. Before he had children, he was the favorite, "Uncle Frank" to his nieces as he always made time for them on visits. He carried that generosity with him as a father, returning home at the same time every night to work in the yard, throw baseballs, give rides in the wheelbarrow, or ride bikes after dinner. Unless he was traveling out of town, Frank was a regular sight at all of his children's events. His sons' memories are filled with yearly trips to Disneyland, family vacations to Oregon and Washington and camping excursions with YMCA Indian Guides and Trailblazers. He was as generous with his money as he was his time having funded his children's high school education at San Joaquin Memorial and, later, college degrees. As a husband, Frank was always the best example of how a gentleman treats a lady. Rarely did Rowena have to open her own car door. Dates for the two of them without kids were regular, as were special gifts for her specifically picked out by him on birthdays and anniversaries. When he returned home from extended business trips, his suitcase seemingly had more gifts for Rowena and the boys than it did clothes. As grandparents, Frank and Rowena continued this dedication with their eleven grandchildren, graciously appearing at countless sporting events, recitals and award ceremonies and opening their home for any family get-together or formal occasion, including two garden weddings. They were regular Wednesday night volunteer Citizens on Patrol in southeast Fresno for the Fresno PD for over 12 years, and, up until a few weeks ago, Frank could regularly be seen tending to his delicious tomatoes, mowing the lawn on his John Deere tractor and grilling his famous hamburgers. A proud, lifelong Catholic, Frank passed into the arms of our Lord on June 26, 2014. He died peacefully in his favorite family room surrounded by three generations of Husteddes. Frank was predeceased by his parents, Hugo and Christine; and brothers, Raymond and Ken. He is survived by Rowena, his loving wife of 52 years; his four sons and their wives, Hugh "Nick" and Akiko, Ken and Maria, Larry and Teri, John and Tammy; eleven grandchildren; and a great-grandson. A Mass in his honor will be held at St. Helen's Catholic Church 4870 E. Belmont in Fresno on Wednesday, July 9, 2014, at 11:00 a.m. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Divine Mercy Building Fund, Hearing Impaired Project, 2525 Alluvial Ste. 241, Clovis, CA 93611.

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Published by Fresno Bee on Jul. 6, 2014.

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Rosemarie Ross

July 12, 2014

I just found out today of Franks passing. I am a neighbor who on my routine jogs I would regularly see Frank give of himself to the neighborhood by cleaning or spraying weeds so our neighborhood would be safe and look clean. What a kind man and I am so sorry I never got to tell him what a special person he was and how much he was appreciated. I will miss not seeing him.

Hans Underbrink

July 12, 2014

Growing up with "Uncle Frank" was a gas! He was actually my moms cousin, so mine too...and he and his wife, Rowena, were my closest aunt and uncle growing up!

Uncle Frank had a great smile and an incredible sense of humor which I will never forget! I remember when he would be in LA at some grape convention and he stopping by my parents house to visit, it was always a treat. Sometimes, in the summer, I would have the privilege to go back to Fresno with him! He would always drive much faster than my father, so the trip never seemed that long! I would get to stay with him and the family for a few days to visit my cousins' Hugh, Ken, Larry, and John. I give Aunt Rowena a whole lot of credit for dealing with 5 young boys at that time.

I remember Uncle Franks' old Jaguar that he kept working on over the years...I always enjoyed sitting in it with it's real wood dash and authentic gauges pretending with my cousins that I was participating in an old road race, kind of like the one I remember at the beginning of the movie, Chitty Chitty, Bang Bang!

I always enjoyed visiting the Hustedde home, it was always full of life and many things to see and do...including their various farm animals that I would enjoy since I never experienced these animals growing up in the city!

One of the most recent memories of spending time Uncle Frank and his family that I have was when I was fortunate enough to be in Fresno one day without notice. When I showed up at the house, Frank had hitched up their lake boat and he and my cousins just took off to go water skiing at a nearby lake!

I will always cherish and be grateful of these and many other fond memories of Uncle Frank!

With Love and Appreciation,

Hans Underbrink

Bob Lightfoot

July 9, 2014

It was a real privilege to have known Frank. He and Rowena volunteered to work Citizens on Patrol in my policing District for many years and It was a bright spot in my day when they showed up on Wednesdays. He is loved and will be greatly missed.....Sgt. Bob Lightfoot, Fresno Police Department (retired)

Karen Tombs

July 9, 2014

My heart is full of sadness and sympathy for the Hustedde family. I have many fond memories of being a recipient of wheel barrow rides, kickball games, soccer and many other sports in the front lawn and countless bicycle rides throughout the neighbor hood. I remember being just as excited to run down the driveway to greet Frank as he came home from work every day as the boys were. He gave his time, love and blackboard tutorials to all the kids on Fine street. It seems like just yesterday I saw him riding his bike down the street. I have so many fond memories of his love and generosity. I feel blessed to have known him. It was 43 years ago that my family moved to that street almost to the day and the Hustedde family welcomed our family into their home and hearts. Frank will be missed dearly but his memory will for ever be cherished. What I wouldn't give to sit next to him in the car and work the gas pedal and steering wheel one last time.

July 7, 2014

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

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