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CAROL MERRIMAN Obituary

MERRIMAN, CAROL PAYNE Carol Payne Merriman, died unexpectedly on Thursday, December 1, 2016 in North Haven, Connecticut. Carol was born Carol Virginia Payne in Ames, Iowa to Loyal and Anne Payne, and raised in Lincoln, Nebraska. After graduating from Pomona College, she moved to Washington, D.C., to work with Ralph Nader, and later the Library of Congress as well as the League of Women Voters. She married John Merriman on May 31st, 1980 in New Haven, Connecticut. Later, she received a Master’s Degree in Public Health from Yale University and a Master’s Degree in History from Southern Connecticut State University. John and Carol loved in Northford, Connecticut and in Branford College at Yale University, where John is a professor of History and served as Master of Branford for nine years, before moving to North Haven. Carol and her family resided a good part of each year in Balazuc, a small village in southeastern France. At the time of her death, she was completing an historical novel set in a southern French village. Carol loved travel, good food, markets, antiques, historical churches, playing the piano, swimming, and quiet walks in Sleeping Giant State Park, and in many regions of France. Carol touched so many lives with her quiet grace, her devotion to her family and friends, and her gentle Midwestern humor. She is greatly missed. In addition to her husband John, Carol is survived by her daughter Laura Payne Merriman, her son Christopher Alex Merriman, her sister Susan McNair Cobb Payne, and her brother Thomas Stewart Payne. The family would like to express thanks to Carol’s dear friend Janet McCarty for her support. Memorial services will be held in New Haven, Connecticut in April, and in Balazuc, France this summer. Please consider donating to the Syrian American Medical Society (http://foundation.sams-usa.net/donate/) in memory of Carol. The Washington Memorial Funeral Home, 4 Washington Ave., North Haven has been entrusted with arrangements. www.washingtonmemorialfh.com

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Published by The New Haven Register from Dec. 22 to Dec. 23, 2016.

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david kess

December 29, 2023

Never me you and always listen to John M. Merriman course at YALE

GOD BLESS

Dr. Peter Hughes

October 5, 2022

Carol was the perfect big sister and friend to anyone struggling with a test or term paper. Out of the blue while a few of us were eating lunch in Pomona's cafeteria she offered to look at my term paper and, in a few hours, organized and edited it sufficient for me to finish it and receive a B+ from a notoriously demanding professor of philosophy. She was kind and sweet to everyone and always offered uplifting insights.

David Lacey

January 19, 2017

Dear John, Candace and I were profoundly saddened to hear of you and your family's loss of Carol. Words, of course, can do little to help in your suffering and pain, but Carol was a wonderful person and she will be missed by many. Please let us know if you need any help this summer in Balazuc.
With all our sympathy and support,
David and Candace

KARINE MOUGEY-CHEMETT

January 11, 2017

A toute la famille, ma peine et mes pensées affectueuses.
En souvenir de tous ces étés à Collioure, le château rose, Fifine, Happy...
Je vous embrasse.
Karine MOUGEY-CHEMETT.

Gena Nadeau

December 24, 2016

Laura, I wish I had met your mother. She sounds like a very special person. I am so sorry for your loss.

Ronni Sue Verboom

December 23, 2016

I am so thankful to have been blessed by Carol's friendship growing up in Lincoln, Nebraska. So much of who I am is a result of sharing those formative years with her. My heart is broken by this loss. Her spirit lives on in so many people!

Diane Calhoun

December 23, 2016

Tom, we are so sorry for your loss.
Love and prayers,
Diane and Steve Calhoun

Famille Lacheray

December 23, 2016

De tout cur avec Laura, Christopher et John. Nous sommes très tristes d'avoir perdu cette amie très chère. Que de bons souvenirs en vacances aux quatre coins de la France et de l'Europe avec la famille Merriman. On ne se lassait pas d'évoquer les péripéties de ces aventures !
Un gros Toubisous à tous !

Thierry, Carole, Tom et Léo

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