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DANIEL DONAHUE Obituary

DONAHUE--Daniel James, A resident of Riverside, CT and Pacific Palisades, CA, Daniel J. Donahue died suddenly on October 21st in Pacific Palisades, CA. He was born in Chicago, Il on January 28, 1939. He was the eldest son of Donald F. Donahue, Sr. and Mary Fuller Donahue. He graduated from Fenwick High School in Oak Park, Il, and received a Congressional appointment to attend the United States Military Academy at West Point. After graduation, Dan completed Ranger and Paratrooper training at Fort Benning, GA, and Fort Campbell, KY. During his Army service, he was in charge of the Guerilla Warfare Training School in Korea from 1962-1963. Dan resigned from the Army in 1963 to pursue a career in finance. He joined Merrill Lynch where he worked for thirty-seven years. He started as a financial consultant in Chicago, and then became an office manager in Tacoma, WA, and then Manhattan. Next he took on the role of Director of General Services, and then became District Director in New England. During his early years at Merrill Lynch, he attained a Master's Degree in Business Administration from the University of Chicago. Dan retired from Merrill Lynch in 2000 and directed his energy to many activities, including continuing his career in the world of finance by founding the Fieldpoint Private Bank and Trust in Greenwich with his good friend, Dan Tully, and others. Dan served as founding Chairman from the bank's inception in 2008 until January 2013, after which he became Lead Director, and ultimately in May 2014, he became Chairman Emeritus. "Duty, honor, country," West Point's motto, were guiding principles throughout Dan's life. Dan was once told as he was leaving the Army and dressing out of uniform that he "looked like a soldier in civilian clothes," and he always tried to live up to the high ideals of West Point. Everywhere he lived or worked, Dan remained dedicated to a life of serving others and making the world a better place. He enjoyed being active in many charitable causes and community organizations. In Tacoma, WA, he chaired a town-wide fundraiser for all private and parochial high schools. In Greenwich, CT, he chaired the Republican Town Committee, was an early supporter of the Arch Street Teen Center, and was a founding board member of the Greenwich Point Conservancy. He was Parish Council President at St. Catherine of Siena, and a devoted member of the parish. In New York, he was the Chairman of the New York City Roundtable for the Center for Strategic and International Studies, and was also Chairman for the Tri-State United Way. He was appointed to the Grace Commission in Washington, DC. One of his favorite experiences was to be in charge of Merrill Lynch's Scholarship Builder Program in Harlem. Through that program, he helped mentor a class of 25 students from kindergarten through their school years and beyond. Recently he attended the wedding of a student with great pride and joy. It was also in smaller, less notable ways that Dan lived these principles. He spoke out and wrote letters for less fortunate people to institutions that might not otherwise listen. Dan had a serious gravitas and sterling integrity that commanded respect, and yet his sharp wit and easy laugh made him beloved by all who knew him well. He loved reading and his book club, golfing and his partners, boating and fishing with his grandchildren, travelling the world, mentoring young people, providing advice to the many who came to him, and simply enjoying his family as an incredibly devoted husband, father, and grandfather. Dan and his wife, Judy, fell in love in high school and they celebrated their fiftieth wedding anniversary this year with all their children and grandchildren in Carmel, CA. He is survived by her and his children, Daniel, Joseph, and Laura, his daughter-in-law Katharine, and son-in-law Michael, and his seven grandchildren, Daniel, Charles, Samuel, Henry, Hannah, Connor, and Ryan. Dan is predeceased by his parents and brothers and by his infant daughter, Susan. Dan will be interred at West Point after a private funeral. Memorial services will be held at St. Catherine of Siena Church, 4 Riverside Avenue, Riverside, CT at 11am on Saturday, November 22, 2014. In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to "Campaign for West Point" at WPAOG, 608 Mills Road, West Point, NY 10996, or a charity of one's choice.

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Published by New York Times on Nov. 2, 2014.

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Ethan Jacobson

August 13, 2015

Dear Judy & Family,

I was deeply saddened when I heard of Dan's death. Although I had never had the good fortune of meeting him in person, I did receive a number of telephone calls from him over the past several years. Among many other things, he filled me in on his youth, connection with Illinois, visiting family in California, et. It was clear to me that Dan was one good and exceptional man--He made the world a better place.

With my condolences,

Chandra Llewellyn-Travis

August 11, 2015

Dear Judy and family,
My sorrow is so profound. Daniel was such a generous and loving spirit. He brought much joy. Words fall short. May God' wrap you in an everlasting comfort.

LORETTA SPEAR MILLER

July 27, 2015

DEAR AUNT JUDY, COUSINS DAN, LAURA AND JOEY, I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE.

Mr. Donahue and SB students at Halloween party

BEVERLY RHETT

November 22, 2014

Always a gentleman... thank you Mr. Donahue for all that you gave to the children and families of ScholarshipBuilder2000. You went above and beyond what was expected. Condolences to the family...

Jim Meyer

November 21, 2014

Sorry to hear of the loss of Dan...a classmate of mine at both Resurrection as well as Fenwick...both Dan and Bob remain as memories...!

bill shea

November 21, 2014

Dear Judy,Mary and I offer our condolences to you and your famly on the passing of dear Dan. I say passing because that is what WE believe. Like St. Paul,Dan ran the race and now a crown awaits him in Heaven. He embodied "Duty, Honor,Country"!I'm sure Dan is resting in the arms of The Lord!

All uor love,
Bill,Mary and Lindsay

John Toal

November 20, 2014

Having shared the same time at Fenwick, Class of '56 it seems like you always have a bond that never ends. Even though our lives take a different path that bond is ever present. Our prayers are with you his family.

Tom Cashman

November 20, 2014

Dear Judy-
Very sorry about Dan's passing- He was such a wonderful guy. I'm so thankful we spent the evening together at our 50th Fenwick reunion.Our deepest sympathy to you and your family-You are in our prayers.
Tom and Jacquie Cashman

Ron & Cathy Fox

November 17, 2014

So sorry Judy: Cathy & I knew both of you growing up on the West side of Chicago. Dan was a wonderful guy. I will never forget those Holloween parties in the Donahue basement in the 60's & Freddie's with Dan & his brother Bob. Great remembrances of you both. God Bless

John & Kay Collins

November 9, 2014

Dear Judy and all the Donahue children and grandchildren: We were very saddened and surprised to hear of Dan's sudden passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers in this very difficult time in your lives. There is no doubt in our mind that Dan was a great person, husband, father & grandfather. We will say a prayer for him and may he rest in peace.

Hoyt Ludington

November 6, 2014

Dear Mrs. Donahue, Dan, Laura and Joey;

Please accept my deepest condolences. Mr Donahue influenced me greatly while I was growing up. Just being in his presence always left me with the desire to be a better person. He provided a great example for all that passed through the welcoming doors of your house. I will remember him fondly. You are all the most wonderful family that I know and your loss saddens me deeply. My prayers are with you.

Lisa Robb

November 5, 2014

Judy and Family, I am so sorry to learn that Dan has died so suddenly. What a loving, fine and honorable man Dan was. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

william shea

November 5, 2014

Dear Judy,Like St. Paul Dan fought the good fight ,ran the race and now a crown awaits him in heaven!He was a great man.
His humility made him great.
My prayers are with you and your family.

Bill and Mary

Melanie Trexler

November 4, 2014

Everyone that knew Dan and his incredible family is saddened by this huge loss.
Their love and caring for others will live on through the loving memory of Dan
Wishing you comfort,
Melanie Trexler
(Kahanovitz)

November 4, 2014

Judy, Dan, Laura & Joey,
We were shocked and saddened to read of Dan's sudden death. We have wonderful memories of him and your family from our time in Greenwich. Please know that you are all in our thoughts ans prayers.
Peter &Ann Kashatus
Charlottesville, Va.

Laurie Bennett

November 4, 2014

Dear Judy and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
- The Bennett Family (Wyatt, Aura, Alyson and Laurie)

November 3, 2014

Dan, Laura, Joey and Judy,
I was truly saddened tonight when my Mom told me of Dan's passing. I have fond memories of West Point games growing up and truly appreciate the friendship he (and you Judy) have blessed my Mom with. My thoughts are with all of you.
John Doyle

Michael Mattes

November 3, 2014

Dear Judy and Family,
I cannot ever forget Dan as a wonderful mentor and leader. He was a prince of a man in every respect. I can never repay a man who gave a poor kid from the Bronx a chance! My heartfelt condolensces. May he live in eternal glory!

Elaine and Dan Morton

November 2, 2014

Dear Judy and Family;
We are so saddened by this surprise news that is staring back at us on our computer screen. It is so difficult to comprehend that this wonderful man--truly one of God's "Good and Faithful Servants"--has gone to be with our Lord. He touched our lives in so many areas from Merrill Lynch to AmeriCares to Field Point and others too numerous to mention, over 35 years. He--and You too, Judy, have Blessed us and so many others in more ways than we can possibly count. Our hearts, our love and--most of all, our Prayers-- go out to you all.

Ginny Caragol

November 2, 2014

Dear Judy,
We are thinking of you and your family during these sad times.

Sally Dommerich Lineberry

November 2, 2014

Dan, Laura and Joey, I am so sorry about the sudden loss of your father. I am thinking of you and praying for your comfort and healing. I have so many happy memories of time spent at your house with your family. Please send my love to your mother.

November 2, 2014

Dan was an exemplary citizen of out Town, in addition to his professional and family successes. He always had time to listen, to advise, and to share his thoughts. What a lucky family he had! And how fortunate he was to have shared his life with Judy, a star herself. Our deepest condolences to all the family.
Steve and Chris Thurlow

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