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CATHERINE MCCABE Obituary

McCABE--Catherine. Catherine McCabe (nee Henry), wife, mother, professor, counselor, friend and a long time resident of New Rochelle, NY died peacefully on Tuesday August 23 at age 85. A woman of great dignity, faith and affection, Cay was born on January 7, 1926 to John and Theresa Henry in the Bronx. She was raised in New Rochelle and was a 1947 graduate of the College of New Rochelle. Cay married Hugh McCabe in 1949 and with him raised seven children. While the older children where in school and the youngest were in pre-school, Cay earned two masters degrees, one in Theology at Manhattan College and one in Pastoral Counseling at Iona College. She had also begun her career as a professor of Religious Studies at Iona that would span more than 30 years and touch the lives of generations of Iona students. Cay and Hugh had a wonderful partnership including working at the college they loved, Iona. Both were participants in the social movements of the 60's. She balanced her family, career and studies while still being active in her church (Holy Family in New Rochelle) and her community. As her granddaughter Kate Walsh wrote in a college paper about her, “her roles as a mother, activist, and professor were intertwined throughout the era and helped fuel each other rather than come in conflict. The relationships she formed as a mother and professor pushed her to become active in social movements for the 1960s. Her involvement in the movements informed her parenting, and her role as a professor came into her life because of her experiences as a wife and mother. In the 1970s, with her family's support, Cay enrolled in the doctoral program at Fordham University. Unfortunately Hugh died suddenly in 1978 leaving Cay to raise her still young family so she did not complete her degree. She retired from teaching in 1994 and spent the remainder of her life traveling, reading, and spending time with her family and friends. Cay is survived by her seven children, Hugh (Janet), Thomas (Joan), Mary (William Walsh), Mark (Beth), David (Evelyn), Lawrence (Nancy) and Catherine (Jill), her seventeen grandchildren, Jennifer, Drew (Jodie), Sean, Glynis, Claire, Kate, Jack, Colin, Brian, Emily, Maura, Courtney, Alanna, Madeline, Mary, Hugh and Katherine and her six great-grandchildren Haley, Zachary, Serena, Nolen, Aria and Phoenix. Calling Hours at the Fred H. McGrath & Son, Funeral Home, Bronxville, between the hours of 6 to 9pm Wednesday, 2 to 5 and 7 to 9pm Thursday. Mass of Christian Burial will be held at the Holy Family Church, New Rochelle, on Friday Aug. 26th at 10:30am. Interment to follow at the Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Hawthorne, NY. In lieu of flowers, you may make a donation in Cay's name to Hope Community Services, 50 Washington Avenue, New Rochelle, NY 10801 914-636-4010 [email protected].

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Published by New York Times on Aug. 24, 2011.

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Yvette Taitt

August 30, 2011

It was a pleasure speaking with Mrs. McCabe on the phone when she called for her daughter Cathy. My prayers are with your family.

penelope carter

August 25, 2011

When Iona College began recruiting female coeds, she was a beacon of light and gentility in infiltrating that 'good old boys' club. She did everything with kindness, charity and humour. When she left Iona, a shadow presented itself, and that space never saw the same light again. She was a subtle, discreet and compassionate woman who lived her religion to its fullest.

Gloria Y Meneses

August 25, 2011

My condolences go out to the entire McCabe family . May your hearts soon be filled with loving memories as you celebrate a life well lived.

Michele Gokey

August 25, 2011

I would just like you to remember her great smile that could fill a room.

Mary Beh Marchiony

August 25, 2011

Mrs. McCabe was kind and generous. She, and Hugh, always made me feel welcome in their home. My sympathies to all of you.
Mary Beth (Dunkak) Marchiony Iona '80

Bill Martin

August 24, 2011

Mrs. McCabe was a wonderful person and a great representative of the IONA community. Her values and beliefs are personified in her many children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. It is a sad day for those who loved and cared for her but a rewarding day for her life's efforts as she joins with God in her heavenly reward. Bill Martin '80

Carrie Rivera

August 24, 2011

My condolences to the entire family. Ms. Cay was a phenomenal woman and a great example to society. She has impacted many through her career and her legacy will remain. May the lord give the family the strength and guidance through this difficult time.

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

August 24, 2011

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any man's death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

August 24, 2011

Cay's Family, I offer my sympathy to you at the death of your Mom. I was thinking of her on Monday which was the 7th anniversary of the death of my sister-in-law Joanie Dennean. They were such good friends, had many fun times together. Joanie loved all of you children. Cay and Joanie have probably joined hands again and are enjoying life together. May the Lord shine His/Her face on them. God bless. Anne Dennean

David Brown

August 24, 2011

As a student at Iona College, Mrs. McCabe welcomed me as part of her family that still exists today. I still apply her teachings today. Her legacy will continue not only through her children but the MANY lives she touched. Love you

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