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Harold Galef Obituary

1928 - 2012
Harold R. Galef, M.D., of Scarsdale, NY, died at age 83 on May 13, 2012. An associate professor emeritus in clinical psychology at Albert Einstein School of Medicine, as well as a former director of the Westchester Center for the Study of Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy, he was a Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association and a member of the American Academy of Psychoanalysis. He also maintained a private psychiatric practice in New York City and Scarsdale.

Born in Manhattan the year before the stock market crash, Harold graduated from William Howard Taft High School at age 16 and from Syracuse University four years later. He earned a master's degree in psychology at Columbia University and went on to receive his M.D. from Chicago Medical School, after which he served as a psychiatrist in the Public Health Service. He married Winifred Kron and began training at the New York Psychoanalytic Institute, graduating when he was 40. Widowed at 41, he later married Bernice Schutzer, who survives him.

A lifelong music devotee, he sang in the Collegiate Chorale and other choruses and had a fling with cello-playing. An avid tennis player till knee injuries sidelined him, he was a keen walker till his last years. Always eager for new experiences, he traveled all over the world with his family, from Europe to South America, China, and India. Of all countries, Italy held his fascination most, leading to investments in Italian lessons and many home espresso machines.

He possessed a caustic wit, with an affinity for puns and spoonerisms. He also wrote poetry and recited others' poems, such as W. E. Henley's "Invictus," especially the lines "I am the master of my fate: / I am the captain of my soul." Most of all, he had a real verve for life, an enthusiasm he communicated to his family, friends, patients, and supervisees. Independent in his work, he was not affiliated with any specific school of analysis. He loved to teach, and from many, many accounts, his students loved their teacher.

In addition to his wife, his survivors include his children, Debby and David Galef; his stepchildren, Dena and David Schutzer; his sister, Marian Weinberg; and seven grandchildren. A memorial will be held at 4:00 on Wednesday, June 6, at the Women's Club, 37 Drake Road, Scarsdale, NY.

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Published by New York Times from May 17 to May 18, 2012.

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Susan Galef Riley UHL

March 17, 2025

Harold was my cousin, who always cared about my mother.
and me. He was one of the most caring persons I have ever known.

April 23, 2013

I am an old friend of Bernieces and trying to get in touch with here. can yu tell me how. I have tired calling and the number has been disconnedted. We go back to Life days and I miss her.I am so sorry about your Dad. I never knew him, but if Beniece loved him, then he had to be great .My deee;st sympathies. Marjoire suydam

Yvonne Widenor

July 1, 2012

Our thoughts and memories of our time downstate would not be complete without Harold, his fondness for jazz, excellent wit, and instructions for the perfect espresso and charred potatoes.

Linda Levine

May 29, 2012

Debbie and David
Harold was one of my parents oldest and dearest friends. They shared in good times when Winnie was alive and then shared them with your father and Bernice.
My deepest sympathy for the loss of your father.

Jenny Netzer

May 28, 2012

Debby and David, what a beautiful obituary. It brought back so many warm memories of your father. My condolences to all of you.
Jenny

Susan Uhl

May 24, 2012

Debby and David,
Harold was a very kind and warm person who always took an interest in my family. He gave his aunt, my mother Anna Galef Riley, advice whenever she called him for his suggestions regarding a personal problem. She, in turn, truly valued his friendship as did I.

May 23, 2012

David - I will also write to Bernice - I only met you once, and read one of your books. Our parents were good friends with Harold and Winnie and Bernice; and your dad was a good friend to me. He was a terrific guy and I know you will miss him.
sincerely
Amy Levine Oliver

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