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BENT--John Peale, Jr,

(79), of Hillsboro Beach, FL and Essex, CT, died suddenly on April 16. He graduated from Hotchkiss (54) and Yale (58). After a career in finance, he transitioned to volunteer leadership in medicine and education. He was the beloved husband for 55 years of Janet Blackwell Bent, devoted father of John III (Rebecca), David (Robbie), and Stephen (Christine), and adoring grandfather of Zoe, Gemma, Faith, Addison, Clara, Blake, Chase, and Brooke. His brother Stephen P. Bent also survives him. A memorial service will be held at First Congregational Church in Old Lyme, CT at 2:00pm May 7.

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Published by New York Times on Apr. 22, 2016.

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Sue & Cal

May 2, 2016

Janet & family, we just learned of John's passing with shock and great sadness. Our thoughts are with you all.

April 29, 2016

Dear Bent Family: I am deeply sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in Isaiah 3324, where God promises to soon end all sickness and death. JM

April 27, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope Jeremiah 29: 11, 12 brings you some comfort during this difficult time.

Kim Glassbrook

April 26, 2016

My deepest condolences for the Bent family. Truly a remarkable, kind, gentle, generous, one of a kind man. One of my favorite clients. He will be sorely missed. I am shocked and saddened by this loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

April 25, 2016

Sincere condolences goes out to the Bent family for your sad loss. May GOD be with the family as you mourn.

Debbie Feeks

April 24, 2016

Dear Janet and Family - I wish to express my sincere condolences on the passing of John. I am so saddened by this news. His love for his family is what I will remember most about him. He will be missed by many. May you find peace during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Best wishes, Debbie Feeks

Stuart Coleman

April 22, 2016

My condolences to Janet and the Bent family. When I heard the news of John Bent's passing, I was flying home to Oahu from the Big Island. Staring into the clouds, I could see John's warm smile and hear his laughter. I remembered the fun times when I was a guest at the Bent's home in Point O'Woods, and John was always the magnanimous patriarch who brought the family together. He will be missed but always remembered for his warmth, generosity and grace.

Robert Murray

April 22, 2016

Janet, I remember when I flew with you from N.J. To Chicago, where you were announcing your engagement to John, my Hotchkiss friend. Very sorry to hear about your wonderful Husband. Fondest Regards, Bob Murray

April 22, 2016

Janet Such a loss, we are so sorry.

Bonnie an Mitch

Karen Hall, CubeSmart

April 22, 2016

What a beautiful love story John and Janet have fulfilled. May their everlasting love forever sustain Janet.
What a dynamic man. It is my honor and blessing to have known him at all.

Nelson Badillo

April 22, 2016

My deepest condolences to Mrs. Bent and the entire family. My prayers are with you, I will always remember him, he was a true gentleman.

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