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Dorothy Shaw Obituary

Shaw, Dorothy Gourley, well known rental housing industry executive, educator, author, entrepreneur and mentor peacefully passed away at home surrounded by family on September 8th. She was born in Detroit and lived in Santa Ana and other Orange County cities for over 50 years. She is survived by her husband, Robert Shaw; daughter, Karen Gourley Tisdale; son, Jim Gourley, and 4 grandchildren; Scott Tisdale, Kristy Tisdale Lorenzen, Lindsey and Leslie Gourley. Dorothy had a lifetime teaching credential from UCLA, was VP of Arnel Management Company in the 70s, owned her own company for over 20 years, authored 8 books, served on the board of directors of the Apartment Association of Orange County, had a lifetime achievement award named in her honor, was a founding member of the Crystal Cathedral and, in retirement, volunteered as a New Hope counselor, travelled the world and became a prolific artist. A public funeral service will be held at the Crystal Cathedral in Garden Grove on Wednesday, September 15, 2010 at 2 pm. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations to the American Cancer Society.

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Published by Orange County Register on Sep. 14, 2010.

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Kelly Turner Costa

January 23, 2024

My Aunt Dolly was one of the most beautiful, smart and kind women I ever knew. I lost touch with her after my father (her cousin) Lester Turner died in 2008. I´m so sorry to read she has passed away. We lost our mother and brother last year. Aunt Dolly has been on my mind. What a beautiful human.

Levi Laine

October 28, 2022

I was thinking about you this morning, thank you for the lessons, Recognizing me and acknowledging me at so many events. You were one cool lady. Please put in a good word for me with God.

Karen Gourley Ransom

September 10, 2011

There are moments in life when you wish you could bring someone down from Heaven...and spend the day with them just one more time, give them one more hug, kiss them goodbye or hear their voice again, to hear them laugh just one more time...One more chance to say I Love You.

My mother passed away a year ago. Her family misses her with all their hearts. She is always in our thoughts. Someday we will hear her voice again...it's a promise from our Lord.

Carol Owens

September 8, 2011

Dear Dorothy ~ On the anniversary of your passing, know that you are still in our hearts! I think of you often with fond memories, my dear friend and mentor. You are missed.

Dorothy & Bob enjoying the 'Ol Ball Game.

May 10, 2011

Our first visit with Mindy's twins, Tom and Emily, who are now 2 years old

Mark Lacey

May 9, 2011

My dear Dorothy, I love you and still miss you being with us every day. However, you live on in my heart, mind and hopefully my actions and I know that is true for so many others who love and admire you too. You just helped me through a rough spot so you are one special angel for me. One of my life's goals is "to be like Dorothy".

Lindsey Gourley

December 27, 2010

Dorothy was my Grandmother, Friend, Mentor and so much more. There is not one day that goes by where she isn't in my thought and prayers.

She always loved unconditionally and now that she is gone I feel a huge empty hole in my heart.

She guided me towards my career and had so much wisdom, there was never a dull moment!

I love and miss you always Grandma.

Karen Gourley Tisdale

September 29, 2010

My mother was an inspiration to her family, friends, collegues, and anyone she met along her path. Her light will glow in my heart forever. Bless you, Mom, for your love, your guidance, your patience and your wonderful hugs. Not a minute goes by without you being in my thoughts. You will always be my champion!
Karen

Vali Gourley

September 27, 2010

I love Aunt Dolly and will miss her terribly.

Vali Gourley

Terry Gourley-Stolfo

September 26, 2010

Aunt Dolly was the most positive person I have ever known. She always had a kind word for everyone. She was a wonderful Wife, Mother, Grandmother and Aunt. Aunt Dolly was also a gracious hostess. If everyone could be like Aunt Dolly the world would be a much better place. What a beautiful legacy she has left her children, grandchildren, family & friends. I love you and will miss you so much.

Betty Lusk Lundgren

September 22, 2010

I have wonderful memories of the years that Dorothy and I served together on the Board of the Apartment Association of Orange County. She was a very special person. I send my heartfelt condolences to her husband, Bob, and to all in her family. She will be greatly missed.

Kristy Lorenzen

September 17, 2010

Dorothy Gourley was my grandma. I wrote about her on my blog. Here is the link:
http://www.pampersandpinot.com/2010/09/i-take-you-with-me-in-my-heart.html

Carla Schock

September 17, 2010

I truly believe Dorothy was sent from Heaven above! I loved her...
She taught me so many wonderful lessons on life and happiness...it's a choice she always said. Today, Heaven is a better place...and we will miss her lovely face! To her family...blessings to each and every one of you...how lucky you are to have had her in your lives! She'll touch each and everything you do forever and ever!

Robert Schock

September 17, 2010

Dorothy, you taught me how to love the apartment business. Your always positive attitude and nature will continue to be an inspiration to me, and I know all you have touched during your long and full life. But most of all, thanks for always believing in me.

Susan Sirota

September 16, 2010

Dorothy, for decades you were an inspiration to me and so many others in a profession for which we shared a passion. Your energy and commitment to teach, share and support others will forever be remembered and appreciated. Know that you continue to live in the hearts and minds of so many you touched, personally and professionally. Be at peace and thank you.

Dorothy, at Peace

Veronica Leimbach

September 15, 2010

Dorothy's service was incredibly elegant; just as she was. May God Bless all her Friends and Family as we remember her and what she meant to all of us.

September 15, 2010

Dorothy will always hold a very special place in my heart. Although there were over thirty years between us, our times together were agesless. I will forever hold those precious memories in my heart. Thank you, Dorothy, for your gift of love and friendship.

Renee Reisch, Orange, Ca

Debbie Andrews

September 15, 2010

Dorothy was a wonderful inspiration for me in the Apartment rental arena. She was one of my first real teachers on how to be a great manager. She was the best. My condolences.

September 15, 2010

DOROTHY WAS "ONE SPECIAL LADY". HER IMPACT ON THOSE PEOPLE WHOSE LIVES SHE TOUCHED WILL LAST THEIR LIFETIME.

ELAINE & SID REISCH, MISSION VIEJO,CALIFORNIA

September 14, 2010

Dorothy's energy of love, hope and reassurance will always be a inspiration to all her friends, family and loved ones. May your love Dorothy spread throughout the heavens......... Jennifer Nevitt Casey (Philadelphia, PA)

Mikel Persky

September 14, 2010

Over the 20 plus years that I knew Dorothy she became a true friend, mentor and confidant. She inspired me with her love for others and her passion to help others to achieve and overcome. Her accomplishments were great but she always held a humble spirit and remained sincere. Our beloved Dorothy is gone from this earth and oh how I will miss her on this earth but she is in the arms of her Lord. Save a place for me Dorothy...I love you dearly,
Mikel

Pam Myers

September 14, 2010

I had the privilege of painting with Dorothy at Kirk Miller's Art Studio in Tustin. She was an extaordinary woman who could easily add her artistic talent to her long list of strengths. She was so proud of her grandchildren and always shared something special about each. I will miss her wit and know that she now shares a special place in Heaven alongside her Lord and Savior. God Bless you Dorothy.

Deb Bronson-McGrath

September 14, 2010

Dorothy was a woman of strength, grace and profound optimism. Like so many others, I loved her. She encouraged, mentored and inspired me in so many ways both personally and professionally. Although she will be greatly missed; the impact of her amazing life continues.

September 14, 2010

Life is so precious and Dorothy had a way of making it better for everyone she met. She will truly be missed as her imprint has been on so many of us. Our Love and prayers go out to her family and friends.

Dick Clark
Seattle Washington

Lillian Miles

September 14, 2010

In your honor for all that you have done and for the person you were that we all will always remember......Lillian Miles

Debbie Frigault

September 14, 2010

I met Dorothy Gourley in the early 90's and felt like I was meeting a movie star in the property management business. She lit up a room when she walked in and was a force of positive energy! If she was present at a meeting, you’d hear everyone saying, "Dorothy Gourley is here!" I had the pleasure of seeing her again just a few months ago at a lunch club meeting. She was just as beautiful and spirited as when I first met her. She will be sorely missed but never forgotten.

September 14, 2010

Dorothy,
I will miss you but know that you will be spending eternity in heaven.
With my love,
Lee Jacobs

Dorothy, Mark, & Angel 10/2009

Angel Rogers

September 14, 2010

I have admired Dorothy since the first time we met when she came to LPC to teach telephone techniques! She ignited a spark in me that I did not even know I had. Not only did Dorothy guide me with my career, she was a wonderful friend who was generous with both her love and wisdom. I love you Dorothy.....thank you for being a part of my life.

Cindy Smith

September 14, 2010

I had the pleasure of working with Dorothy at Arnel Management Company in the early 70s. She was a mentor, an encourager and simply a lovely lady. I extend my deepest sympathy to her family.

Carolyn Harmes

September 14, 2010

I loved Dorothy's love of her Lord, life, & party planning! She will be missed! Our sympathy to Bob & her family.

John Wathen, Dorothy Gourley Shaw & Ralph Kent

September 14, 2010

Dorothy Gourley Shaw was the most amazingly kind, gifted, talented, artistic and loving person I have ever known. She was also the most positive person I have ever know in my life; it was always uplifting just to be around her. She was the catalyst for so many new ideas in both the rental housing industry and also in people's personal lives. She was truly one of the great ladies of the world. She will be sadly missed and heaven will be a better place now that she is there. Ralph Kent, Clarksville, TN

Veronica Leimbach

September 14, 2010

Dorothy was an amazing woman with such warmth, love and charisma. She will truly be missed by all those whose lives have been touched by her grace. It was an honor to have her in my life.

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