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Joseph Ngo Obituary

Joseph B. Ngo VIRGINIA BEACH - Joseph Ba Ngo, 20, passed away Oct. 22, 2011 in Blacksburg, Va. Joseph was born in Norfolk and graduated from Bayside High School Class of 2009. He was in his junior year at Virginia Tech and a member of the Virginia Army National Guard. The family will receive friends Wednesday from 1 to 9 p.m. at Smith & Williams Funeral Home, Kempsville Chapel. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11 a.m. Thursday at Our Lady of la Vang, 409 Campostella Road, Norfolk. Interment will follow at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Flowers are welcome. Friends may offer condolences at www.smithandwilliamskempsville.com.

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Published by The Virginian-Pilot on Oct. 25, 2011.

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latoya wilson

January 13, 2012

Today was a special day, R.I.P. to you

Michele Hamilton

November 21, 2011

You will be missed, my thoughts and prayers go out to your family.
May God keep you...

someone

November 19, 2011

RIP

Leslie Richmond

November 8, 2011

We are so sorry for the sudden loss of such a promising and pleasant young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.

Dr. Leslie Richmond and staff

November 5, 2011

My heart goes out to you and your family, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will watch over you and give you comfort and peace.
Sandra Delozier Norfolk, Va.

latoya wilson

November 4, 2011

My heart was sadden by the news of Joeseph. I only met him a few times but his mom was like a second mother to me. Her words of wisdom always helped me in raising my own daughter and now if I could sacrifice some of my good moments for a few moments of peace for you I would Ms. Mya. Joe is still with you in spirit he will never leave his family. He was a protector and will continue to watch over you from heaven.

Shara Hawley

November 1, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family. My we've known each other for over 14 years and I have enjoyed our friendship. I can remember when Joseph was a little boy and as time went by he grew older but he keep the great qualities you instilled in him. I admired his mannerism, volunteering at Sentara, and just being the respectful young man that you raised. He will be missed but never forgotten. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I love you like a sister. Stay strong because Joseph will want you to be the strong mother as you have always displayed. Rest In Peace Joseph Ngo

calleen clark

October 31, 2011

My heart goes out to Joseph's family. Mya, I pray for you and your loved ones and I ask God to give you peace in your heart to continue to love and be loved. R.I.P Joseph you are loved forever...

Stefanie Green

October 30, 2011

I do not have the words to express how sadden I am to hear about your family's loss. I know there will be a void in your life but please know that Joe will always be there with you in spirit. Everytime you think of him He will be right there to put a smile on your face and you feel his arms around you. Please accept my deepest condolences to you, his family, friends, and all who loved Joe. May God Bless and Comfort your family in your time of sorry. Love Stefanie

Lan Tran & Phung Le

October 30, 2011

We are very saddened to hear of your loss and deeply remembering Khuong as a good child. May the blessing of love be upon you and your family.

Amanda Beard

October 28, 2011

Ah Joe. We had good times in Chemistry at Bayside. Always had me laughing, never had a bad memory of you. Wish you didn't have to leave so soon. You're were such a wonderful, intelligent, handsome young man trying to make the better of oneself. This is going to hurt me for a while but I'll try not cry. Everyone who knows you will not forget you and those who love you, love reaches the sky to touch your heart. I'm sending my love to you up above and keep looking down on us. I won't miss you because I haven't forgotten about you. Love Amanda

Bernard and Teresita Burke

October 28, 2011

Our deepest sympathy goes to Joseph Ngo's family and extended families. We pray for strength and peace for them to overcome the grief of this great loss. May the Lord Jesus Christ keeps you all in His warmth embrace.

Lyn Michonski

October 28, 2011

I am so sorry to hear. Our kids were in elementary and middle school together. Memories of Joseph still touch many hearts.

Quan Bui

October 27, 2011

May we treasure the great memories shared with Joseph. May he rest in peace.

Nhu Hoang

October 27, 2011

Our condolences to Co Hanh and family for their loss. We pray for the strength to overcome our grief. Joseph will always be in our hearts and memories.

Eleanor Finger

October 27, 2011

While I did not know Joe personally, I have learned of his compassion and acceptance of others from all walks of life. He was a noble and caring young man. I'm so sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences during this incredibly difficult time. Eleanor Finger, Housing and Residence Life

Alyssa Beda

October 27, 2011

Joseph, I miss you. I can't imagine KL MS without your silly jokes, or high school swim meets without your encouragement. You always had me beat on fly, even with the shoulder injuries. You gave some of the best hugs, and I am upset that I can't give you just one more. You are an amazing individual and I will always keep you in my heart.
I'd give anything to give you another hug right now.
I know you're probably looking down at us all with the Big Guy upstairs—making jokes and laughing at our inability to understand Vietnamese, but hey, I'll see you again one day and maybe we can laugh together.

To Joseph's family and friends: you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Let us continue to support each other in both our times of need and everyday life.

friend of VTCC

October 27, 2011

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal"
prayers of love and peace for you all

Rebecca

October 27, 2011

I can only imagine how heartbroken you must feel. Our children should outlive us parents. As the mother of a former cadet who is still a Tech student, my heart goes out to you. My son Alex and I are praying for you and hope that God gives you peace in this very sad time.

Wanda lopes

October 27, 2011

May the Lord Bless you with the strength needed in this difficult time.
cadet Mom

Mandy McKinley

October 26, 2011

We did not know your son but he was part of our sons Company at the Corps of Cadets. We understand he was a great young man. Our sympathies and prayers are with you. God bless you through this difficult time.

Nikko Tanap

October 26, 2011

It is strange to think Joe is really gone. Albeit short the time I knew him, he was a man full of potential and authenticity.I feel only profound sadness knowing he is no longer with us.

May we find the strength in one another to get through this time of grief and may we bond together as one family.

I hope you have found eternal peace where you are and know that you are loved as well as missed. God Bless.

David Tuan Luong

October 26, 2011

I'm so glad that I had the opportunity to see Khuong again, after so many years, when he stopped by our house last December. He was no longer the little kid that I remembered, but had grown up into the fine young man that he was. My heartfelt condolences to Chu Khoa & Co Hanh. I know that you love Khuong very much and I am deeply saddened because of your loss.

Family of Cadet Jacqueline J. Jackson

October 26, 2011

Our hearts are breaking for your loss. Joe was a very respectful young man, who touched my daughter’s life in so many ways. More than a best friend, a brother she never had.

Michael Junge

October 26, 2011

Kho and My,
please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family in this difficult time. May your memories bring you comfort.

Parents of a cadet

October 26, 2011

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Larry Cadet Dad

October 26, 2011

My sincerest condolences go out to your family. Although I did not know Joe personally, he was a real fried to my daughter Tawny, who I'm sure like others touched by Joe's spirit, will be forever blessed to have known him.

Ngan Nguyen

October 26, 2011

Khuong was a dear friend of mine back in the days of Thieu Nhi Thanh The. He was my partner in everything, but somehow we lost touch after the program stopped. I am deeply saddened to hear this news that he has passed, and I can only pray that he is at peace with God now. Khuong, you will be missed by everyone, especially me. You will be in my thoughts and prayers now. May you rest in peace.

Claudio D'Amato

October 26, 2011

Joe was my student in a philosophy course at VT last year. He was bright and engaged even in the early hours of the morning. I worked him hard and he worked me harder to meet and exceed my expectations, and he earned my and his classmates' trust through dedication and commitment. My love and deepest respects go out to the family.

Collette Dougherty

October 25, 2011

Joe was one of the most amazing people I have ever met and without a doubt my best friend. He could always tell when something was upsetting me and would do whatever he could to make it better or at least to make me laugh. I honestly cannot imagine the last seven years of my life without Joe. We did so much together, quite literally hand in hand. He was a fixture in my life to the point that my family considered him one of our own. I love him dearly and always will. To me, this isn't goodbye. He lives on in my heart and in my memories. My thoughts are with his family and his friends, especially Wolf Pack and the Corps of Cadets. I don't have the words to express how thankful that I am to have known Joe, however briefly it has been. I miss him so much already. I can only hope that he has found peace.

Chi Tammy Nguyen

October 25, 2011

Khuong, my sweet cousin. My heart is aching for not being there to say the final farewell to you. May your soul rest in peace. May your memories last for ever. May your eternal life lead you to your destiny.

Keith MacDonald

October 25, 2011

I remember meeting Joe while swimming with him at Bayside. He showed me how to push through physical pain and injury and still come out on top in the middle of a race. I love Joe, and I hope that all family members and friends have support through this. He deserves our best. I would love to come down and play amazing grace on the bagpipes for the service.

CAF Swim Club

October 25, 2011

You were one of the best. A true champion. May you rest in peace and may God protect those who love you. You are missed by many.

Oanh Huynh

October 25, 2011

Con thanh that chia buon cung Co Ut va gia dinh Co.

Rachel Stofocik

October 25, 2011

Joe Ngo had to be one of my all time favorite students. He was a critical thinker and his altruism is unmatched. Teachers wake up daily to listen to students like Joe. I cannot imagine the world without him. My heart goes out to his family.

Rachel Stofocik

October 25, 2011

Joe Ngo had to be one of my all time favorite students. He was a critical thinker and his altruism is unmatched. Teachers wake up daily to listen to students like Joe. I cannot imagine the world without him. My heart and thoughts go out to his family.

Kimberly Nguyen

October 25, 2011

I will miss you, Uncle.
You'll always be in my heart, even though we've only met once.
I love you.

Nicole Luong

October 25, 2011

I've known Joseph since we were little kids. He was my childhood friend. I still have old birthday pictures and video footages of Joseph and me. It seems like it was yesterday when Joseph and I were really young and we would play around at my house whenever he came over. Even though we grew apart from each other, I think about him from time to time. I can't believe that he is truly gone. I'll pray for you and your family. I will always cherish our childhood memories. You will be missed. Love you Joseph.

Chuc Hien Nguyen

October 25, 2011

Rat mong Hanh hay giu gin suc khoe...Chi va gia dinh xin Cau Nguyen Cho Chau Som Duoc Joseph Ngo Som Duoc Vang Sanh....

Chuc Cam Nguyen

October 25, 2011

THANH THAT CHIA BUON CUNG EM VA GIA DINH , NGUYEN CAU CHO
CHAU JOSEPH SOM VE MIEN LAC CANH. EM HAY GIU GIN SUC KHOE NHA.

Chi Chuc Cam va gia ginh.

Laura, Cadet Mom

October 25, 2011

My prayers and sympathy go out to you during this difficult time. Although we have never met, we are bonded by the Corps of Cadets and your family will remain in my heart.

Dustin Anthony

October 25, 2011

One of my very first friends here in VA, and I am so glad I met him 12 years ago. I can't imagine having grown up without Jo being there...he will be greatly missed.

Nick Tibbetts

October 25, 2011

Joe, I didn't know you well, but you were a great guy and I enjoyed the little time we did spend together while you were in Air Force. My prayers go out to your family, both blood and Corps, and friends. God Bless you all...

Jill Sible

October 25, 2011

On behalf of the College of Science, let me express our heartfelt condolences. Joe was an excellent student and a fine member of our community. He will be greatly missed. Jill Sible, Associate Dean, College of Science, Virginia Tech

A mother of a cadet

October 25, 2011

The entire family of the Corps of Cadets mourns with you and sends their prayers and deepest sympthy at this difficult time.

T. Appleton

October 25, 2011

Please know that the prayers of many are with you in this time of grief. We pray the God of all comfort will be especially present in the days ahead.

Melissa Scoggins

October 25, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss My. I will continue to pray for you and your family. I am here My if and when you need me. Joe is your Angel and he will always be in your heart.
Love, Melissa

Another Cadet

October 25, 2011

May your soul rest in peace. May your memories last forever. Keep the faith and fight the fight. Be forever faithful and strong.

Never forget that we all come home together. Leave None Behind.

Tammy McGuigan

October 25, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Hendren Thornton

October 24, 2011

We are so sorry to hear about Joe. His friendship to my son will be cherished by him forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. A shooting star...he is.

Tawny Pelletier

October 24, 2011

Joe, I already miss you so much. Even today I can repeat your voice in my head saying some of your little phrases. Being your friend these past few years has been truly unforgettable.
I am so incredibly lucky to have known you. You are such a light in my life. You could always tell when I was down and you knew just the ridiculous things I needed to get my spirits up again! You always cared so much for everyone.
You are definitely among my closest and best of friends. I wish we could have spent more time together. I love you so very much Joe. And I hope they serve special green tea wherever you are now!

Jacqueline Jackson

October 24, 2011

Joe was one of my best friends. We spent the last two years growing closer to one another, and I just can't believe he is gone. I will never forget the impact that he's had on my life and the things that he has taught me. He will be greatly missed. I love you Joe.

Gordon Hunt

October 24, 2011

There really aren't words to describe this kind of thing. I can't say enough good things about Joe, I have nothing but fond memories of him because he was just a genuinely great person. He always had a smile and a high five for me whenever I saw him at Bayside. As cheesy at it sounds, I guess it was just his time. Requiescat en pace, Joe. Know that you will be missed, and my condolences to your family.

Mercedes Welch

October 24, 2011

I am praying for grace and mercy and peace for you in this hard time, you are loved Ngo family. Much Aloha,

Taylor Laster

October 24, 2011

Joe Ngo, you will be missed by so many.You were such a great person..you always knew how to make people laugh and smile.Anytime i was ever unsure of anything in class i could ask you and you were there!we all love you and will miss you dearly!REST IN PEACE JOE! <3

Caitlin Greene

October 24, 2011

I never knew Joseph Ngo, but my cadet dorm mates did. I've been told that Ngo was a great student, a great cadet, and a great leader. I know his presence in the Virginia Tech Corp of Cadets has made an impact on the lives of many other young cadets, and with his passing, his influence will remain in their lives. I wish only the best for his family, and to let them know that there are many people who care for Joseph. May he rest in peace.

Un Known

October 24, 2011

Love is stronger than death even though it can't stop death from happening, but no matter how hard death tries it can't separate people from love. It can't take away our memories either. In the end, life is stronger than death

Un Known

October 24, 2011

Love is stronger than death even though it can't stop death from happening, but no matter how hard death tries it can't separate people from love. It can't take away our memories either. In the end, life is stronger than death.

C R Williams Jr

October 24, 2011

I didn't know Joe but he was a brother and a son and a friend to those who knew him - that alone is enough to honor him. Peace and blessings.

Victoria Goss

October 24, 2011

Joe Ngo was very loved and cared for. He touched may lives. He will never be replaced or forgotten by anyone who knew him. He was a part of a group that called themselves the "Wolf Pack." The other three are Joshua Kim, Bobby McDonald, and Kiefer Mattox. They were always together it seemed like. Joe was, by far, one of a kind. He is greatly missed and loved by all.

Tia Puchala

October 24, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about this, He was a great friend. I hope you find peace and happiness and celebrate his life rather than be sad that he is no longer here. I know it is hard I lost my brother a year ago.

Daniel Newcomb

October 24, 2011

"On thy grave the rain shall fall from the eyes of a nation." - Thomas William Parsons

Joe, you will be missed.

An Kieu

October 23, 2011

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

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