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Jacqueline Graefe Obituary

Jacqueline Ann Graefe, 70, went to her Lord and Savior on Monday, Jan. 17, 2011. She lived the last months of her life with cancer, but God took her peacefully in the early evening hours.

Funeral services will be held at 1 p.m. Saturday, Jan. 22, at Little Lost River Bible Church in Howe, Idaho, with a graveside in Howe Cemetery. A lunch will follow at the Howe Community Center. A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Friday, Jan. 28, in Kooskia, Idaho, at Valley Bible Church.

Jackie was born to Eulah and Clinton Liles on May 18, 1940, in Sacramento, Calif. She was followed by her sister, Leeta, and later by her brother, William. She spent her childhood roaming the wilds of Northern California. She married David Gooch in June 1958. Her house was soon filled with children whom she fondly referred to as number one daughter, Lori Denise, born in 1959; number two daughter, Jane Ann, born in 1961; number three daughter, Joan Darlene, born in 1962; and number four daughter, Kristina Kay, born in 1964. The family moved to Ririe, Idaho, in 1967 and eventually ended up in Howe with the purchase of the old post office. Jackie took over as postmaster and served in the position for 33 years.

David and Jackie divorced in 1970, with Jackie and the girls staying in Howe. She worked at the post office in Howe in the neighborhood of the Sinks Inn Caf, home of the Graefe brothers. Jackie met the love of her life at that cafe, Robert Graefe. They were married April 9, 1972. Jackie and Bob soon filled their house with one last child, number five daughter, Mary Rebecca, born in 1972. Bob and Jackie were married for 38 years.

Upon Bob's retirement, they moved to Kooskia. Although they left many dear and wonderful friends in Howe, Kooskia was Jackie's most beloved home. Their log cabin in the mountains brought many new friends and memories. The wonderful view, the ponds, the deer, the turkeys, the trees and the garden were truly her blessed retreat, especially in her final days.

Jackie was truly a beautiful person both inside and out. Everything she touched would turn into something amazing. She had a gift of music and song and shared that gift with everyone. Her wonderful voice is missed here on Earth, but we know she is leading the choir in heaven.

During her final days of fighting cancer, Jackie was truly an inspiration.

Jackie was preceded in death by her mother, Eulah Newell; father, Clinton Liles; stepfather, Robert Newell; and stepmother, Hazel Liles. She is survived by her husband, Robert Graefe; daughters, Lori (Richard) Frasure, Jane (Milt) Jensen, Joan (William) Howard, Kristi Olson and Mary (Kevin) Ellis; 10 grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; sister, Leeta Fitzsimmons; and a brother, Bill Liles.

Funeral arrangements are under the direction of Lost River Funeral Chapel in Arco, Idaho.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to Clearwater Valley Pregnancy Center, Attn: Nancy Connolley, P.O. Box 577, Kamiah, ID 83536.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Post Register on Jan. 20, 2011.

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Mark Davis

January 23, 2011

Bob and Family, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your wife. My thoughs and prayers are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. May you be comforted in the many pleasant memories you shared together.

Tara & Roger Lindsay

January 22, 2011

We're so sorry to hear of Jackie's passing. I will always remember her wonderful singing and playing and her kind and joyful spirit. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with all of your family. May God comfort you all. Tara (Reeves) and Roger Lindsay.

January 21, 2011

Mary, I was so sorry to hear of the death of your mother and our friend Jackie. She meant a lot to Stacey, especially as a good friend. Please accept our condolences. Gary and Grace Bauer and Family

January 21, 2011

Bobby and Family ; Thoughts and prayers are with you from the Glanert family in Wisconsin. Karen, Larry, and Linda. May the good Lord comfort all of you in the time of grief and loss.

January 21, 2011

Bobby and Family ; Thoughts and prayers are with you from the Glanert family in Wisconsin. Karen, Larry, and Linda. May the good Lord comfort all of you in the time of grief and loss.

Amy Frasure

January 20, 2011

Dancing with Jesus in Heaven. Grandma Jackie, you are my inspiration.

January 20, 2011

Bobby and family - Our families in Colorado and Virginia send our prayers and thoughts to you at this sad time.
Love,
Betty and Sandy

January 20, 2011

...During her final days fighting cancer, Jackie was truly an inspiration. She loved the Lord with all her being and there was no question she was headed for heaven. Even in the roughest of times she had an amazing attitude – she was always “fine”, things were always “good”, and always – til the end – she had a smile on her face and a kind word for those around her... (A section edited for space)

Gaylon Hanson

January 20, 2011

Bob, My thoughts are with you at this time of grief,
God bless, Gaylon Hanson

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