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Frank Papia Obituary

Passed away peacefully in his sleep at his home in Windsor, California at age 94. Born in Milwaukee to Giovanni and Antonia (Cresci) his family settled in North Beach in 1918. It was in North Beach that Frank met and married Helen Fasano, his wife of 50 years who passed away in 1992. A long time member of the Italian American Club and Salesian Club. Frank worked at Best Foods Co. for 50 years and as a Longshoreman in San Francisco. For 30 years he worked at the New Pisa Restaurant for owner and lifelong friend Dante Benedetti. Frank was a veteran of World War II serving in the US Navy in the Pacific. He is dearly missed by his sons John (Denise), Frank Jr. (Lucinda) and daughter Toni Papia. He is the proud grandfather of 10 and great-grandfather of 10. Our heartfelt gratitude to Dr. David Anderson and staff at Healdsburg Primary Care for their compassion and concern for our father and to the wonderful people of Sutter VNA & Hospice Santa Rosa. Private service only. Donations in Frank's name to The Alzheimers Foundation, 1211 Dutton Ave Santa Rosa, CA. 95401 are appreciated.

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Published by Press Democrat from Nov. 11 to Nov. 12, 2010.

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Pam Lagomarsino Delnevo

January 4, 2025

Toni, Frank and Johnny, I just read Lefty's Boys and am overcome with memories of your family, especially Frank, Helen and Toni. I hope you're all doing well and I wish I would have known when your parents passed away so I could have reached out then. Now mine are both gone as well . . . thank you for a wonderful book that ignited wonderful memories! Pam

Toni Papia

November 5, 2023

Thirteen years have passed since you´ve been gone. The pain has lessened but I still think about you every day! I miss you still dad! I love you forever!

Toni Papia

November 10, 2020

Dad, it's been 10 years since you went to be with mom. I miss you so much. I look out my window every morning and say "good morning mom and dad" and then I thank you for the opportunity to be where I am now. I know you are so proud of your children, all of your grandchildren and all of your great grandchildren. I wish you got to meet Russell and Allie. I know you would love them so much. Allie is a girly girl and well, Russell is a typical "boy". I think about you and mom every day and you both will forever be in my heart. I miss you dad and I love you!

November 17, 2010

Dear Papa,
I have so many fond memoris of you. The funny jokes, like look at the dead birds fly! and the catching of the flies. I remember you coming and watching alexis play softball. I know you are very proud of her and Kaitlyn. There are so many people I want you to say hi and give hugs to. I know you know who they are. You may be gone but never forgotten.
I Love You, your first grandaughter
Jennifer

Amber E

November 17, 2010

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal........ We all know that you are with Noni after all your years of apart ,just as youthful as you were when you first met and just as much in love as if you were never apart. You will be missed greatly and will always be in our hearts.

Your grandaughter,
Amber

Amber E

November 17, 2010

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal....... I know you are with noni after all these years of waiting, Just as youthful as when you first met and just as much in love as if you were never apart.
Love you papa, you will be missed, you and Noni will always be in our hearts :)

Your grandaughter,
Amber

Paul Lagomarsino

November 16, 2010

What a guy ! I always enjoyed being around him as a child and loved to see him interact with my own kids. He will definitely be missed, but never forgotten. My condolences to the entire Papia family.

Linda van Ekelenburg

November 16, 2010

Tom Brokaw called our parents' generation "The Greatest Generation." Without the accumulated knowledge of the last over half a century, without the technological advances in all fields, with a population the average formal educational level of which was much lower than it is now, these modest, industrious, selfless people carried this country on their shoulders through two world wars and a world-wide decade-long depression. Then they took on the monumental tasks of building cities, highways, bridges, and space ships. They were the vanguard of the civil rights movements, the proliferation of mass media, enabling the vigorous dissemination of ideas, and the workers of medical miracles. And, on top of that, all the while they were raising families, taking care of spouses and us, their all-too-often cluelessly un- or under-appreciative , snot-nosed, know-it-all, parasites. They often worked boring, unfulfilling, unrenumerative jobs (such as the moms who were unpaid as domestic quarterbacks). We knew too much for our own good, and often dismissed the old folks (remember, 30s and 40s was OLD) as pathetically out of the loop, dinosaurs who had never experienced what we were going through, fossils who had no idea of what real fun was, dictators who made us clean our rooms and do our homework, yet stoically loved us in spite of ourselves when we had run-ins with the authorities or spiritus fermenti.
Now that we know how difficult it is to be parents, how stressful, expensive, worrisome, frightening, infuriating, and labor-intensive it is, and now that we have experienced occasional disrespect or ingratitude, essentially our karmic hens coming home to roost, we feel the depth of the love our departed parents felt for us. We can see their perseverance in caring for us as heroic. Yes, because he was a devoted family man, Lefty was a hero.

Heather Leverett

November 15, 2010

I never had the joy of meeting you but feel like I knew you through Toni. I know you are happy with reuniting with your wife. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. You will be missed but will live on the hearts of your family.

Rick Wagner

November 14, 2010

Toni,Frank Jr., and John, On behalf of my brother and sister and myself we will remember your dad well. He was always a sweet man to us and we will remember him kindly. May you and your families be comforted by the many memories he left with you.
I personally will keep this great guy in my thoughts.
Sincerely yours

November 14, 2010

Frank, I never had the pleasure of meeting you in person, but I feel like I knew you through your wonderful daughter. You will be missed forever.

Joyce Martin

November 14, 2010

I wish I could have met you, and I feel in part that I have met you through your daughter Toni. Your legacy will live on through your children, grand-children and your great-grandchildren.

karen wise

November 14, 2010

You must have been a great man to raise such a compassionate and strong daughter. You will be missed but your legacy lives on in your loving family.

Toni Papia

November 13, 2010

I am so emotionally paralyzed right now. I miss you dad but I know that you are with mom now and you will never be separated from each other ever again. I still have a very hard time remembering that you are gone. I love you dad.

November 11, 2010

I will miss you Grandpa! You will always be remembered and you will always be in our heart!!!!!

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