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Gladys Jackson Obituary

Gladys passed away peacefully in her home with her daughter at her side on October 25, 2010. She was born in Date, South Dakota on December 1, 1912 to Absolum Day (Dode) and Clara Willey. Her husband, James W. Jackson passed away in 1977. She and James were married on August 4, 1943 and had two children, Max Russell Jackson, who passed away in 2000, and daughter Bonnie. She leaves her daughter Bonnie (Dennis) Hachmyer of Sebastopol; daughter-in-law Yvette Jackson of Novato; grandchildren Melanie, Kristen and Nolan Hachmyer of Sebastopol, Jim (Christine) Jackson of Navarre, Florida, Cristiann (Dave) Milano of Novato; and four great-grandsons. She is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. Gladys was preceded by brothers Noble, Orman, Alden and Robert Curtis and her sister Bonnie Steeves. Gladys moved from South Dakota to San Francisco with her two young children in 1946. The family lived in various areas of California following her husband's work in the U.S. Customs Service. For the last 25 years Gladys has lived in Sebastopol on the same property as her daughter Bonnie in a family unit built especially for her by her son-in-law Dennis. Gladys loved to travel, visit friends, and spend time with family. One of her recent quotes to dear family friend Melanie Mathew was, "Things don't mean anything, it's relationships that are important." Gladys was a member of the Moose Lodge in Sonoma for several years. No service will be held at Gladys' request. She will be interred in Sturgis, South Dakota with her late husband. Memorial Donations may be made to Hospice of Petaluma, 416 Payran St., Petaluma, CA 94952. Family assisted by: PARENT-SORENSEN Mortuary - Sebastopol, 829-5433.

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Published by Press Democrat from Oct. 31 to Nov. 1, 2010.

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Kristen Hachmyer

November 29, 2010

Grandma I love and miss you very much. Things are not the same without you and I can't wait to see you again.

Dennis Hachmyer

November 28, 2010

Gladys, my mother-in-law, I called her Ma. Mother-in-laws can be a thorn in your side at times but Gladys was more of a rose. I will miss her for sure. She lived next door for almost 25 years until she passed away. Her and I usually shared a bit of conversation in the evening along with a cocktail. That was the routine for years. Ma always was good to us, she loved us and we loved her. I will always remember that when I had to barbeque Ma would walk down and sneak me a drink and say,"here, thought you might like a drink while your working so hard". She would do it on the sly so B.K. wouldn't see. I'm going to miss Gladys but am grateful for the years she spent with us. There won't be another like her.

Melanie Hachmyer

November 27, 2010

There isn't a significant moment in my life that I don't remember my grandma being there. She was there for every birthday, graduation, and she loved the holiday's where she could spend time with family & friends. She was a soft and gentle person. I can't recall her ever getting upset or angry with me. We'll maybe once or twice if I used bad language!
My grandma lived next door to me the entire time I was growing up. She used to let me come up to her house for dinner and we would have sleep overs. However, I was lucky if I could sleep through her snoring! I did numerous arts and craft projects with her sewing kit and she loved every one... despite my lack of ability. Her house was full of fun. From Fig Newtons to all her music boxes and old brass decor she would let me polish until it shined. As I got older and spent more time outdoors with my horse and animals I could always expect to see her on her deck watching and smiling. She always had to know what I was doing.
Once I started high school boys and friends were around a lot. I remember the first party I threw when my parents were out of town. Grandma came down and sent everyone home! Living so close she was able to keep us in line. But don't get me wrong, my grandma was a partier! When the time was right she never hesitated to come down and visit when my sister Kristen and I had party's with our friends. She would have a Old Crow with a water back and talk to us about old times.
Everyone I have ever known who had a chance to meet my grandmother really liked her. She was a tough cookie and a heck of a good time! To me my grandma was going to live forever, and she will, in all of us. I miss you Grams!

Robert Hachmyer

November 27, 2010

Grandma Gladys was always young at heart and the best grandma one could ask for. She is loved by many and will be missed. Her spirit lives on in all of us that were fortunate enough to know her.

Pam & Dave Bassett

November 21, 2010

BK and family~
We'll truly miss not seeing Gladys around and enjoying her company when visiting you. She was one of a kind. Now we have a Guardian Angel to watch over us. We need one! Rest assured that she's "tossing them back" with all of her old buddies. Gladys, we'll never forget you!

Dave Docken

November 13, 2010

Although I haven't seen my Aunt Gladys for many years, I have always carried fond memories of the limited time we spent together. She was a very nice person and had a great sense of humor.

Bonnie Hachmyer

November 6, 2010

Gladys, my beautiful mother, friend, a good grandmother, great grandmother, mother-in-law, sister-in-law and adored Aunt to many. My mother was noted for her candor, her apparent love of family and being young at heart. She was tough and did not complain very much about life. She said that she was very fortunate. Mom would want everyone to remember her as being fun and having the courage to try those drinks known as "Prairie Fires". She always got a kick out of the younger generation as they did her. I will certainly miss her but will always be grateful for having such a good mom. Time will help us all heal.
We will celebrate her life on Dec. 1st which would have been her 98th birthday.

With love and respect,
B.K.

Anne Craver

November 6, 2010

I will always have a special place in my heart for Gladys. God bless her family and friends.

November 4, 2010

Bonnie and Dennis,Jerry's girlfriend will be missed. We both enjoyed sharing her humor for life and wisdom her years brought to the table.
You were so lucky to have had her for so many years and she was very lucky to have you both.
Love,
Jerry and Lynne

Jodi (Willey) Casperite

November 4, 2010

Aunt Gladys was an inspiration to us all and will be dearly missed. She had a twinkle in her eyes and I loved hearing her stories at family reunions. She always made a point to hear what was new in my life and was very attentive. I loved her spirit and her spunk and aspire to be like her.

November 3, 2010

"Love never ends..." 1 Corinthians 13:8
Gladys was a guardian angel to a bunch of raggedy kids many years ago and I was the oldest of them. Bonnie and I have been friends for over 60 years; she is dear to me and so was Gladys. God bless you all through this tough time.
Janet Harper & Family, Modesto, Ca.

Erica

November 3, 2010

Gladys will be missed for sure. She was always so pleasant and made everyone feel like family. Gladys was fortunate to have such a wonderful family who surrounded her with love and support, and always included her in everything until the very end. She leaves great memories behind for all of those who knew her.

Linnea Mullins

November 3, 2010

To me Gladys was Grandma, but also part mom too. She was the best mother to BK and taught her to love all of us and have one family party right after another. Talk about feeling comfortable it is far more than that, it was always with a warm smile she greeted me. I love her so much and she taught me many things about the beauty of life and loving your family more than anything. Sticking together no matter what life sends our way.

A legend in her own time, her gifts will be with us forever in our hearts. Grandma always was concerned for her family and those less fortunate. It is with the deepest respect and admiration that I send her on her way to the other side. Missing her like crazy and hoping BK has the strength to get through this. I was blessed to be in her company so many times. Love you! Linnea

Nancy Willey

November 2, 2010

How fortunate I was to marry into such a great family, inheriting wonderful aunts and uncles like Aunt Gladys - I smile when I think of her. I still have a vivid memory of my first visit at her home in San Diego before we were even married, feeling so comfortable there and having such a good time. My mom always felt a special connection with her, as do my kids. I've always loved that. She was one of a kind and I'm blessed to have known her.

Jerry Willey

November 2, 2010

I'm so thankful I was able to visit my Aunt Gladys the very last weeks of her life. Just think, living 97 plus years and wanting family to visit and being able to entertain and seemingly enjoy it! I learned a lot from her about family. Her mind was always so keen. I always enjoyed our interesting phone conversations.

Chris Convery

November 2, 2010

Bonnie, I never had the pleasure of meeting your mother, but everything I have been told she was quite a colorful fun person. You were so lucky to have had such a wonderful mother, and she was so lucky to have you too. May God bless you and your family in you time of sorrow.

Love,
The Convery's

Marlene Johnson

November 2, 2010

The loss of this beautiful lady is the end of an era. It is so hard to believe my dear Aunt Gladys is gone. I will miss her so and always treasure the memories of her and my dad (her brother) visiting about the old days.

My thoughts are with her family. Hugs to all.

Janelle Sutter

November 2, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with her children and grandchildren... The times I visited with her, she was always full of life and humor. I hope to enjoy life and stay young as she did until the end.

Barbara E. Grinnell

November 1, 2010

The gates of Heaven opened for a beautiful angel.
My condolences to Bonnie,Dennis and family members.
May the peace which comes from the memories of loved shared,comfort you now and in the days ahead.
May God bless you all at this sad time.

Robert Wood

November 1, 2010

I feel lucky to have been able to meet you and share some conversations.

Dolyce Wood

November 1, 2010

We will miss our aunt Gladys terribly. She was with us so long and gave so much to all of us. I know there is quite a celebration going on right now with all the family who went before her, and that's a happy thought. Love Dolyce

Valerie McGee

October 31, 2010

I will never forget my dear Aunt Gladys and I will miss her very much. She was such a joy to be around and had such a terrific sense of humor and had me and others laughing! My thoughts and prayers are with BK (Bonnie), Yvette and family. Love, Valerie

Yvette

October 31, 2010

I will miss my Dear mother-in-law so much. She was such a great friend to me. I want to grow up to be like her.
Love Yvette

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