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Terri McGahn Holzman
September 13, 2021
Merry & Family:
Thinking of you. So good to be working with Gabby so I can send you my best & hugs. I've walked your mile hun 38 yrs ago. Our loved ones are always with us. Be happy beautiful girl
Terri
Aaron Wiggins
December 13, 2020
Class 139, at 6 foot 2 I had to tilt my head up to look Hoopes in the eyes, even if I was 12 feet tall or an inch high, I would see the same, a great mentor, and no nonsense tough as nails ,good hearted dude
Johnette Howard
September 9, 2020
You are missed. You taught Sean and Joseph so much and were such a positive role model. Thank You
Nicole O'Neill
August 21, 2019
Been thinking about Jim alot recently...
Jim Travagline
May 29, 2019
I still miss you buddy!
Do not think of him as gone, he's with us now in each new dawn.
Ellen (Dunford) Phelps
November 2, 2012
Do not think of him as gone, he's with us now in each new dawn
November 2, 2012
It broke my heart to here that this gentle giant is no longer with us. I grew up with Jimmy, he will always be Jimmy to me. We lived on Surrey Avenue together, and played many hours of neighborhood tag together as kids. He was one of the nicest, funniest people you could have the honor to meet. A great kid who grew up into a great man. Godspeed Jimmy. Thank you for all of the great times we had as kids.
Ellen Dunford Phelps
Cathy
September 27, 2012
Jim, thank you for all the great memories you have given me in your short lifetime. You made your dad, Lisa and me, so happy and proud! You always had a big smile and enough love in your big heart for all, I will miss you, but get comfort knowing you and Dad are routing for your favorite teams again; just like old times!
I love you!,, mom
Joyce Lay
September 25, 2012
"...be strong and of good courage..." Joshua 1:6...GOD bless.
The Roman Family
September 24, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you Merry and your two boys and the rest of the family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Sean Adams Joseph Howard
September 22, 2012
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. He touched our life in so many ways. Your family is in our prayers.
September 21, 2012
We were very saddened when we heard about Mr. Hoopes' death. He was more than a landlord to us. He was a very nice and dear friend. We were always happy when he came by and visited us even though it was business. We will miss him. You and your sons are in our prayers. God bless you.
Willie & Delores Walker and daughter Valerie
September 20, 2012
I am very saddened to have read this in the paper. Mr Hoops was a great man. I ment him at Home Depot doing the Kids Workshop. He and his boys had been comming for years. I hope that Mrs. Hoops and the boys can overcome this tragedy. He was a awesome parent from what I could see. GOD BLESS Rest in Peace!
Dan Haines
September 19, 2012
Merry very sorry for your loss. I am glad I was lucky to have met Jim he was a great person. You are in my prayers.
September 19, 2012
The Hoops family, so sorry , our thoughts and prayers are with you! Iris Winokur-Palermo Family
September 19, 2012
My sincerence condolesnces to Jim's family. I remember him well from Albright and I don't think I can recall any time when he wasn't wearing a smile, on or off the court. May he rest in peace.
Chuck Barron
September 19, 2012
My prayers are with Jims wife and children. what a great man and a gentle giant...always willing to help....my prayers are with you at this sad time.
Velvietta Hollie
September 18, 2012
The staff of the Red Rooster Cafe is so sorry for your loss.
Steve Neumersky
September 18, 2012
In good times and in bad, on and off the court, Jim was the goods--a highlight reel in life and etched in the memory of those he touched forever.
Candice Anderson
September 18, 2012
To the family of Jim Hoopes,
I was very saddened to hear of the death of Jimmy. I went to Albright with Jimmy who was a very good friend of mine and someone in which I could easily confide. I will miss his endearing smile, generous heart, engaging laugh and kind ways. You and your family will remain in my prayers through these very sad times. We are blessed to have had someone so beautiful in our lives and we are so very blessed to now have him as an angel, watching over us.
12U Muckdogs Baseball Team
September 18, 2012
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.
September 18, 2012
Sorry for your loss, we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
The Lamela Family
Mike and Suzanne Miltenberger
September 18, 2012
So sorry for your loss. I knew Jim for as long as I cane remember. Everytime we saw each other, we would always talk about old friends and old stories. Will keep family in our prayers.
Jerry String
September 18, 2012
You were a Model Trooper, Husband, Father, Coach, Indivdual..... You brought out the BEST in everyone around you. RIP
the Klemm Family
September 18, 2012
So sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Didn't know him personally but we knew enough of your family to know that he must have been an incredible man. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. So so sorry Lisa.
Leslie Murphy
September 18, 2012
To the Hoopes family,
You have my deepest sympathy and may God Bless All of you!! Time will ease some of the pain. Just keep his wonderful memories in your hearts and minds, this will also help ease the pain. I worked with Jim at the New Jersey State Police Academy, Sea Girt in 2003. He was a wonderful person!!!
Joanne Kreutzer
September 18, 2012
This candle will burn on in your memory Jim. You were a pleasure to work with, will be missed greatly and will never be forgotten. You are an inspiration to all.
Michael and Kandice Antenucci
September 18, 2012
Lisa (drew) and all your family--I am so sorry to hear about your brother. I remember playing against him in the summer leagues a couple years when I first got out of college and boy could he play!! Kandi and I express our sorrow and sympathy for your family. Love will get you through.
Kathy (Farrell) Pedano
September 18, 2012
SO sad to hear of Jim's passing. I grew up with Jim and have so many great memories of growing up together in Ventnor. Shocked, saddened, I will always remember that smile of yours Jim. May God Bless your family. Heaven has a new angel.
Melissa Klecz
September 18, 2012
Jim, I am so blessed to have been given the chance to know you and work under you. your spirit, compassion, and humor brought smiles to everyone you met. I will forever miss you and you'll live on in my thoughts and prayers. GOD BLESS
Catherine Van Duyne
September 17, 2012
I remember Jim as a kid, and was so sad to hear of his passing. He grew up to be a fine man, and I know his family was very proud of him. Our sincere condolences and love from a fellow Ventnor family.
Capt. Joel S. Fogel
September 17, 2012
Jim was a good guy....all around: he made the world a better, safer place.
Thank you, Brother Jim, RIP.........
Kim Brescia
September 17, 2012
Dear Merry,
My heart breaks for you, Jayson, & Joey. May all the love and prayers get you through this difficult time. Remember the best of Jim lives on in your boys & that is what will get you through. Love you.
Jennifer Schwenger Kleid
September 17, 2012
Jimmy left this world a better place for having been here. Even as a kid, he was so kind and thoughtful. Our love and prayers are with Merry, the boys, and all of the countless people who loved Jimmy. We're so very sorry.
Lou DiVentura
September 17, 2012
To the Hoopes family, Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear,just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.
God Bless.
Kevin Brooks
September 17, 2012
To the Hoops family. My prayers are with you during this most difficult time. God Bless you. Big Jim will be missed by so many, I knew him from playing basketball in the area.What a great man. Rest in Peace, you've grabbed your rebound big fella, God Bless.
Jude & Katie Maurer
September 17, 2012
So sorry for your loss. God bless.
September 17, 2012
Dear Merry and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this most difficult time. Such tragic news, but he did make the world a better place. Nick D'Annunzio
Amy (Doughty) Ricciardella
September 17, 2012
Merry, Jayson, and Joey,
So sad to hear of Jim's death...so sad, so tragic and my heart breaks for you all. Whenever I would see Jim on the beach he always had that big smile and was so sincere! I hope you can feel comfort and some sort of strengthin the memories and the too short time you had together. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Much love to you.....xoxo
Art Watson
September 17, 2012
To the Hoopes family, me sincerest condolences on your lost. I played a lot of basketball with Jim and I was a squad supervisor on Jim's first day as a NJ Trooper. That was the most nervous I had ever seen him. God Bless you, stay strong.
Terri McGahn - Holzman
September 17, 2012
Dear Merry, Joe & Family:
Very sorry for your loss. So many years ago I walked this mile: I know it is hard, but hold onto your boys they will be your strength. Every time you feel as if you can't do it...they will give you the ability to do so.
I'm sending you hugs and lots of love hun. Thankfully I know you have strong loving family by your side.God Bless & keep you all.
Victor Fabietti
September 17, 2012
To the Hoopes family my deepest sympathy,I played in local basketball leagues with Jim only to know him as a great person. You are in my family's thoughts and prayers and may God guide you through this most difficult time.
Atlantic County Hammerheads Baseball Team
September 17, 2012
There are no words to express the sorrow we feel for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Michael Clofine
September 17, 2012
Jim and I played basketball against each other in High School, yet our rivalry turned into a friendship both on and off the court. The memories will always live on, and my thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family.
Theresa Tomlinson Snyder
September 17, 2012
I'm still in shock of Jimmy's passing. A lot of my childhood memories involved him. We went to St.James together & then HSHS. We had such a small class @ St.James & we all lived so close it was inevitable that we would have a lifetime bond. He was truly a great man. These are the times that I hate living so far away. My thoughts & prayers go out to his wife, boys, mom, sister & friends. Jimmy was always a great friend & inspiration to many. He was my parents favorite paper boy. RIP Jimmy you'll always be in my heart & I'll always remember you & your Michael Jackson jacket & your contagious smile! I'm praying for God to give everyone the strength they need to get through this terrible loss.
Hoopes u are one of a kind!
Angelina DiMatteo
September 17, 2012
Angelina DiMatteo
September 17, 2012
Dear Merry,Jayson,Joey,Hoopes Families and friends, My heart was filled with great sadness when I heard the tragic news! I was a classmate and friend of Hoopes @ HSHS 1990. Hoopes was such a great guy. Always had a smile as big as the sun! We shared several classes and lots of laughs along our journey and thereafter. Hoopes was a stand up guy who possessed all great qualities we long for in society today. May all of our moments shared be looked upon as great blessings and let the light of the Lord shine upon u in ur great time of need. Take great comfort in our prayers and that u are wrapped in the warmth of Hoopes' love! Please know that we are all here for you in your great time of need. May God Bless you all and comfort you! Hoopes you are one of a kind! I am grateful you touched all of our lives!
Truely, Angelina DiMatteo
Claudia Madalengoitia
September 16, 2012
I am still in shock after a good friend told me of Jimmy's passing..I had just had a dream with Jim and was about to write to him since I had not heard from him in a while. I met "Jaimito"at Albright and helped him with spanish, we became good friends.. years after graduation I began receiving letters from unknown people! surprise!! Jaimito had asked his spanish students to write to me as a penpal! :) that was him, an AWESOME guy, a good friend always happy,full of laughter and a positive thinker. I will ALWAYS remember him like that.. my deepest sympathy goes to his entire family.. "Jaimito, nos dejas un vacio muy grande, pronto nos encontraremos"
Damon Tyner
September 16, 2012
I still remember the first time I saw Jim flop onto the basketball floor at Spirit. Just a big kid, with an even bigger smile. Years later when we would reconnect, he still had that big smile. Jim, you have left Jayson and Joey with a such legacy of kindness. Merry, please know that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers. - Damon & Nicole Tyner
Suzanna Elezovic
September 16, 2012
Mr. Hoopes,
You always made my day brighter with your positive view on life! Holy Spirit was better because we had you. You will be greatly missed and you and your family will be forever in my prayers and my heart.
Julie Stearsman
September 16, 2012
Hoopes family,
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Wish there were words to take away your pain. Please find comfort in knowing we all are thinking about you and are here for you.
September 16, 2012
I consider Jim more of an acquaintance but I certainly wish I got to know him better. I coached against him and would say I held my own, at best, against his remarkable coaching ability. I watched Jim coach and I thought this is a guy who can teach me a lot and he was 4 yrs my junior. He had that aura about him and definitely had a gift with people, especially the kids. Prayers out to his family.
Keith and Kim Zelig
September 16, 2012
To the friends and family of Jim & Merry, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Words cannot express how saddened we are to hear of Jim's passing. It is unimaginable to lose a loved one. It is especially difficult to understand when someone passes at such a young age with so much to offer. My heart breaks for you Merry and for your two young sons. May God be with you and comfort you during this most difficult time.
Monica Keenan
September 16, 2012
Love and prayers.
Dr. and Mrs. Chris Keenan and family
Lisa Fineran
September 16, 2012
Happy memories of Jimmy, love and prayers to Merry, his boys, the Hoopes and Rich families, and all of us who lost a cherished friend.
Danielle Geromini
September 16, 2012
Dear Merry, I am thinking of you, your boys and family and praying for you during this most tragic time....my heart breaks for you and the pain that you are all going through. With love and healing thoughts ........
Terry Gassman
September 16, 2012
I did not no mr. hoopes personally but i know jayson and joey. he must have been a great father to have such wonderful sons. my thoughts and prayer are with all his family and friends.
Melissa & John Ford
September 16, 2012
John and I were shocked and saddened to hear the news. John has known "Hoopes" for many years and I knew him from working at the Greenhouse. He was always kind and always willing to help. In his quiet way, you knew he was always looking out for you. His presence will be missed but never forgotten by those who knew him. Prayers to family and friends of soul God clearly needed in his arms at this moment. The Ford Family
Heather (Ganaway) Gaines
September 16, 2012
May God Bless Jim's family at this most difficult of times. Jim was one of the nicest guys at HSHS class of '90 and will be remembered always with a smile.
September 16, 2012
Dear Hoopes Family,
I was at Albright with Jim. He was loved by all and always was such a kind person. I hope in time your hearts heal as much as they can - lots of prayers for you.
Deirdre Diener
Glenn Schenkenberger
September 16, 2012
Jim will be missed by family and friends. May god bless Jim and his family during this hard time.
Leon Roberson
September 16, 2012
One of my best friends growing up.. I will never forget you and all that we shared on and off the court. I will never forget catching a bus and jitney from Pleasantville just to play basketball with my friend. You and family have always taken care of me and treated me like I was family. It HURTS to the core..... I miss you Jim and you will never be forgotten. Oh and Jim don't forget..... One on One full court when I get there :) Love you Leon
Marylou Reiff
September 16, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the Hoopes family during this very sad time. I didn't know Jim, but I was Lisa's teacher and know his mom from the beauty parlor. From everything that I have read and heard about Jim, he was a fine man. May God give all of you strength during this very sad time.
Trooper II Fernandez
September 16, 2012
Trooper Hoopes was assigned to me as my mentor in the New Jersey State Police Academy. I always regarded him as the ideal New Jeraey State Trooper who always focused his attention on training recruits to be the very best and devoted himself as a decorated New Jersey State Trooper, sports coach, husband and father. His powerful presence, athleticism, carisma, striking personality, intelligence and professionalism are some of the few characteristics that made him a man to look up to and aspire to be. He will be greatly missed. The entire New Jersey State Police family are absolutely devasted by this loss. I/we extend out deepest condolences to his family and are here to support them in their time of grievence. I urge everyone to reflect on their own personal situations to recognize that life is too short. Embrace your loved ones, express how much they mean to you, and live life each day as if it were your last. Too much is taken for granted and it is losses like this that should make every one realize that life is precious. We are all here for a reason. Enjoy every encounter, experience, and relationship you have. Cherish it all. Two distraught boys have lost a father, a beautiful wife is grieving the loss of a devoted husband. A family is torn and a community mourns. My prayers are with them and I wish them all the very best life has to offer. I share in the pain in the loss of such a phenemenal person. R.I.P. James G. Hoopes III. I/we love you brother.
Darren Tomlinson
September 16, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Dennis Haney
September 16, 2012
Truly just an all-around great guy who gave so much of himself, and now will be missed by so many. Jim made the world a better place with his positive outlook, great personality, and dedication.
God Bless His Family during this deeply sorrowful time.
September 16, 2012
Watched Jimmy grow up from little league to pirates footbal. Sports were his first love til his real love came along merry and his boys were everything to him!!! Your husband and your dad will never ever be forgotten. God bless BIG JIM Hoopes!!
Aunt Cindy
September 16, 2012
I still call him "LIttle Jimmy".
His swift departure is not for me to understand. I am honored to have had him as my beloved nephew. And to have had his father Jimmy as my beloved brother.
Aunt Cindy
September 16, 2012
I still call him "Little Jimmy".
His swift departure is not for me to understand.
I feel honored to have had him as my nephew.
And to have had his father as my brother.
Mary Fran Buckberg
September 16, 2012
Jim and I worked together many years ago at The Greenhouse. He always had a smile on his face. I had the opportunity to run into over the years in Northfield. That same smile was still there. My prayers go out to the entire Hoopes family at this very sad time.
Taylor and Matt Lyons
September 15, 2012
Dear Hoopes Family,
I was so sad to hear the news about Jim. I was Lisa's college roommate at FSU and had always heard about her wonderful big brother and how much she adored him. I got to finally meet him at her wedding. His love for his beautiful wife and sons was so evident and I could tell he was a truly special person.
I have no words to express how sorry I am for your loss.
Sending you love and prayers.
Taylor and Matt Lyons
Nicolle Tepedino
September 15, 2012
My heart is so heavy,I can't express in words how deeply sorry I am for you Merry and your sons Jayson and Joseph. I have known Jim since grammer school and he is one of the finest people I have a had the honor of knowing. I can't imagine the pain your feeling and I hope you can get some comfort in knowing my entire family have your in our thoughts and prayers. It is an incredible loss for all especially you. If you ever need anything please don't hesitate to contact me. My love and friendship is always with you and your family. Rest well Jimmy "Hoopes" and give us all strength to deal with the things we cannot understand. With Love always Nicolle Tepedino Piergiovanni
September 15, 2012
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with the Hoopes Family in this very difficult time.
john williams
September 15, 2012
My prayersamil go out to the Hoopes family, jim was a very good guy. R.I.P Big Guy.
Glenn Wagner
September 15, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with the Hoopes family.
The Kurlands
September 15, 2012
Jim was truly an inspiration as shown by his devotion to his family. While we will miss him dearly, he will remain strong in our memories.
Tom and Marie Corson
September 15, 2012
Jim was a great coach and friend. So sorry for your loss. May God give you all peace at this time.
September 15, 2012
There are no words to express the sorrow we feel for you and your family. But hopefully you will find some peace in knowing how much he loved all of you and what an outstanding man he was.
Our thoughts are with you.
Debbie(Spain),Paul,Brian and Megan Kelly
Julie Lawler
September 15, 2012
Thoughts and prayers! God speed!!
Ray Went
September 15, 2012
Jim was an umpire for Little League baseball in Ventnor when he was teenager. From a very young age, he made contributions to his community with every chance he had. Jim's life made a difference to kids in Northfield . . . and kids from Ventnor who are now 35 years old. Jim was a man. Jim will always be someone we look up to, who reminds us to give to the community and to be better. God's speed, Jim.
September 15, 2012
As a teenager, Jim was an umpire for Little League baseball in Ventnor. From a very young age, he made contributions to his community with every chance he had. Jim's life made a difference to kids in Northfield . . . and kids from Ventnor who are now 35 years old. Jim was a man. Jim will always be someone we look up to, who reminds us to give to the community and to be better. God's speed, Jim.
September 15, 2012
Police Officer's Prayer to St. Michael
Saint Michael, heaven's glorious commissioner of police, who once so neatly and successfully cleared God's premises of all its undesirables, look with kindly and professional eyes on your earthly force.
Give us cool heads, stout hearts, and uncanny flair for investigation and wise judgement.
Make us the terror of burglars, the friend of children and law-abiding citizens, kind to strangers, polite to bores,strict with law-breakers and impervious to temptations.
You know, Saint Michael, from your own experiences with the devil that the police officer's lot on earth is not
always a happy one; but your sense of duty that so pleased God, your hard knocks that so surprised the devil, and your angelic self-control give us inspiration.
And when we lay down our night sticks, enroll us in your heavenly force, where we will be as proud to guard the
throne of God as we have been to guard the city of all the people. Amen.
Allison Boehm
September 15, 2012
There are no words to express how sorry I am of the passing of one of my oldest friends in the world. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you! RIP Jimmy my partner in crime as a kid!
Love and thoughts to the entire Hoopes family
Audrey Knorr Smithouser
September 15, 2012
I am still shocked of the news. I have known Jim for so many years...from watching him and Lisa when they were younger to hearing of all his achievements growing up through his dads friendship with my dad. My family was devestated when we lost his dad and again we are feeling the same pain. I know your dad is waiting to meet you again to tell you how proud he was of you...as we all were. You will be missed by everyone that knew you...
With deepest sympathy to the Hoopes family.
Crosson Kevin
September 15, 2012
I met this fine man actually at his father's funeral. Our platoon(VCPD) escorted his dad out of town and after I would run into him at the gym and he would always say thanks again. He was a great guy and I know he will be sadly missed by all who knew him. Prayers to his family and Brother and Sisters OF the NJSP.
Taylor Skanes
September 15, 2012
Miss Rich to Mrs Hoopes - Our love and prayers go out to you and your family. Please find comfort in your faith and know how much you and the boys are loved.
Bruce Peacock
September 15, 2012
I played basketball and was a fraternity brother of Hoopes at Albright. We shared a lot of good memories over those years and I will miss him deeply. My thoughts and prayers go out to his entire family.
trudy straus
September 15, 2012
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Hoopes Family.. Jimmy was a great guy. There are no words I could ever say to make your heart stop breaking... Know that he was a great guy and he will always love you and watch over you...
September 15, 2012
Our prayers and thoughts are with Merry, the boys, and both the Hoopes and Rich families. Jimmy was an amazing person; his impact will live on through the lives of all of those he touched.
Jennifer (French) Hogan
September 15, 2012
My deepest sympathy to all of Jim's family and friends and especially Merry, Jayson and Joseph-
Praying that wonderful memories fill the void he left and help comfort you in days to come. I'm so sorry for your loss!
Lori McLaughlin
September 15, 2012
The world would a better place with more people like Hoopes. May God bless his mom, sister, wife and boys...and all the kids whose lives he touched...
Steve & Susan Tuohy (Lex)
September 15, 2012
To the Hoopes family - Sorry for your loss of Jim. May God bless all of you in this time of need. Our deepest sympathy.
Aimee Scotti
September 15, 2012
I'm so sorry. Praying for you Merry, Joey and Jayson.
Upward Basketball Coach
Aimee Scotti
Matthew James
September 15, 2012
Thanks for all the great basketball game memories at Albright!
Adrienne Saccone
September 15, 2012
Mr. Hoopes was my Spanish teacher at Holy Spirit High School. A life taken way too soon. Prayers go out to the Hoopes family.
Mary Jo Messick-Dooling
September 15, 2012
Jim's journey was full of humor, courage and grace. He touched so many lives. It blew me away when I read this remembrance. Eventough we were only classmates, my heart goes out to all that are mourning his loss. Please take care and know my family is praying for you at this time.
September 15, 2012
Hoopes Family, Ventnor one of the best we watched young Jimmy grow up. Janis, George and Nick Korkos.
Scott Bittner
September 15, 2012
Jim was a great great guy a true gentle giant. It seems every sporting event i attended i saw jim with his two sons. My heart breaks for his family god bless you all.
Randee Palmer
September 15, 2012
Thank you for all your years of coaching! Our prayers are with your family.
The Palmers
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