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FARRELLY, JESSE PETER 20, of Duxbury, MA passed away on February 8, 2012 after a lengthy illness. His death occurred while visiting friends in Newport Beach, CA. Jesse was a beautiful spirit who could light up a room with his twinkling eyes and radiant smile. He loved to laugh and have others laugh along with him. His time on earth was short but very sweet. He enjoyed his days spent on Cape Cod and in Ketchum, Idaho, but it was in his hometown of Duxbury that Jesse made most of his friends. As a child he enjoyed Scouts, camping, boating, fishing, and recreational sports. An avid Boston sports fan, he passionately cheered on the Patriots, Celtics, Bruins and Red Sox. A 2009 graduate of Duxbury High School, Jesse went on to attend the University of Arizona and also enjoyed success in the film world, both as an actor and as part of the production crew. Jesse was born on March 18, 1991 in Santa Monica, CA. He is predeceased by his grandfather DeVere Jessee Byers. He is survived by his parents, Nancy and Bobby Farrelly; sisters, Anna Farrelly and Tiffany (Sean) Burke; grandparents, Agnes Byers, and Dr. Robert L. and Mariann Farrelly; many loving aunts, uncles, nephews, and cousins; and a heartbroken bulldog, Milly. A funeral service and celebration of Jesse's life will be held on Friday, February 17 at 3:30 pm at The Holy Family Church in Duxbury. All friends and family are welcome. A private burial service is planned for a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Jesse's name to the Cape Cod Center for Women, Safe House. (www.capecodshelter.org.)

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Published by The Providence Journal on Feb. 14, 2012.

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Summer Paris

September 17, 2014

Dear Bobby was watching outside providence. First time also loved 3 stooges .I just read about your son. So sorry!!! .I send my most sincere condolence to u n family.for ur lost. May God bless u n ur family always n my heart n my prayers .take good care..peace!!!!!!!!!

Christie Zemanchik

October 30, 2013

Bobby I just read the news, I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss.
Christie Zemanchik

Lisa Wells

August 16, 2013

Just finished watching "Three Stooges" again and noticed the tribute in the credits. I'm so sorry for this family's pain. I know it has been a while since your passing, but time doesn't heal all wounds, it just dulls the memory. May you rest in peace and may God comfort and strengthen your family and all who loved you.

Lynnie Doss Cohen

September 18, 2012

i am so very sorry.

September 1, 2012

Dear Nancy and Bobby,
You and your family along with Jesse are in our prayers daily. Blessings to you all.

Pam and Bob O'Brien

Lori Beckman

February 25, 2012

Dear Nancy,
I am so sorry to hear of your son's passing. It seems like just yesterday that you were comforting me when my twins died. I will never forget how supportive you were and you sent me a book. I never met Jesse, but I can see from his picture that he had an infectious smile and must have had a big personality. I am heartbroken that you now you have lost your baby. It should never happen. It doesn't matter how old our children are, to a mother, they are our babies. I think about you every minute of the day and though it has been so many years since we've seen one another, I wish I could be there to embrace you. Nancy, I know it hurts so much. I used to get angry at people telling me that "time will heal", but they were right. It will get better with time as you go through the stages of grief, but always remember that it is your grief and no one else's. You will get through this with the love of everyone around you. Know that your Pan Am Family loves you and is thinking of you.

The Kelliher Family

February 24, 2012

To Bobby and all of the Farrelly Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
May Jesse's smile shine through you always.
God Bless.
The Kelliher Family

Brian McDonell

February 22, 2012

So sorry to hear this news. Though we never had the pleasure of meeting him no doubt Jesse was a great kid and brought you much joy. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Kristin and Brian McDonell (Seattle, WA)

Michael Smith

February 22, 2012

The Farrelly family you are truely loved! During this extreme time all know that God is with you. Bobby you are a remarkable person your flock is amazing. Our prayers our heart is with your family thank you for allowing me to meet you and Jesse!

Michael Smith

Julie Byers

February 22, 2012

Jesse Farrelly, you were an amazing cousin. Thank you for all of the memories I will hold close to my heart forever. We were all blessed to have you in our lives for 20 years, and it hurts so much that you are gone. I know you are in a better place. Someday we will meet again.

James Macdonald

February 20, 2012

Dear Bobby,

I hope you find consolation during this extremely difficult time and pray that God extends his peace to you and the entire Farrelly family.

With Great Sympathy,
Jim Macdonald and Family

Billy Payne

February 18, 2012

So very sorry for your loss Bobby & Nancy , our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Billy & Laurie Payne ( North Providence, RI)

Dyan Kane

February 18, 2012

"Bobby and family: I can only imagine your devastating sorrow at this time. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and that the memory and spirit of your son will live on through you and all future endeavors."

Steve

February 18, 2012

Bobby,
I just heard the news of your son today. Living in Vermont, news travels slow. I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. God bless.

Laura and Scott Kennedy

February 17, 2012

Nancy and Bobby, We are so sorry to hear of your loss of Jesse. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Eddy family

February 17, 2012

RIP sweety
It was a beautiful service.
Love to the family

February 17, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all -
With much love, Tony & Cindy Gardner
(with Brianna, Kyra and Austin)

Getting hair done for 3 Stooges manion scene

Angel Fallon

February 17, 2012

Praying for you who are family and close friends. I pray God's peace and comfort over you in a way that only God can provide you with during such difficult times. Though I did not get to know Jesse well, he added brightness to my life. He came across as one who wouldn't meet a stranger and had kindness and a huge smile to offer to all.

Brad Server

February 17, 2012

Dear Farrelly Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Jesse.
Sincerely,
Brad Server
( Curly Howard's Grandson )

Leslie Pearce, Cape Cod Center for Women Board

February 17, 2012

My deepest condolences to Nancy, Bobby and the Farrelly family

Charlie & Sue Clark

February 17, 2012

May the comfort of good friends and family help you through this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dan & Paulina Geraci

February 16, 2012

Bobby, Nancy & Family: While no words can fill the void, know that you are loved and in our thoughts and prayers. Celebrate Jesse's life and the joy he brought to those he touched.

Ken & Debby Burke

February 16, 2012

To all of the Farrelly Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with Jesse and all of you during this difficult time and beyond. May he rest in peace and God be with you.

Jen Davis

February 16, 2012

Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
....
much love I send..let the light of love above not only give you hope, but also, give you guidance when you feel like this life is overwhelming.
Jen

Randy & Staff at Randy's Dry Cleaning & Tailoring

February 16, 2012

Our thoughts & prayers are with the entire Farrelly family at this difficult time.

February 15, 2012

There are no words.... now the ultimate friend with his wonderful smile will be the ultimate star with his quiet and warm grace.. Love All of us XOXOXOOXO

Brianna Gardner

February 15, 2012

Dera Farrelly family,

I can't begin to express how sorry I am about Jesse's passing. This is such a tragedy, and I can't imagine what you are going through.

Jesse was a lovely human being, and such a gentleman. I'm so happy to have been able to meet him on Shallow Hal and then hang out with him again on the set of the Three Stooges. He was a genuinely kind person full of laughter. I will miss his smile, as it was so beautiful in the way it lit up his face and everyone's around him. I wish I could've spent more time with him, and that we had been able to visit each other last semester, or still could during school breaks. I will miss his humor and sporadic messages. Fond thoughts will always accompany him, and "our scene" as he called it, in Shallow Hal will always bring smiles. He was a cute kid.

If there is anything you need, or any way I can help please let me know. My love and support goes out to the whole family.

Distant Friend

February 15, 2012

So sorry. May peace come to you soon. I love you.

Vicky Barr

February 15, 2012

To the Farrelly Family- I was a teacher at the Alden School and knew Jesse as a 4th grader when I worked as a permanent substitute in his classroom. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. I still have fond memories of Jesse back in elementary school. He was always so happy. May you find peace in this difficult time. Please know you are in my thoughts.

Barry

February 15, 2012

God Bless your family and may He help you to endure the great pain of losing a son, brother, grandson, nephew, friend. There is no greater pain or emotional upheavel that can ever be endured than the loss of a vibrant youth... May your family obtain peace in the memories that will always live on. The Barry Family

George & Annette Kouri

February 15, 2012

Docky & Marian
So sorry to hear about Jesse. Our thoughts anf prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Sarah Downer

February 15, 2012

I was lucky enough to meet and work alongside you on both Hall Pass and Three Stooges. I, just like you, grew up in and around the business and also witnessed first hand the blessing and hardships this can cause. You were so blessed and lucky to have the most amazing, close-knit family I've ever known. The civilized, fun, and family friendly atmosphere that Bobby and Peter create on each of their productions is a reminder to every crew member of what matters most: FAMILY and Jesse knew this.

Jesse was such a kind, sweet spirit and had a wicked funny sense of humor. He always had the girls in the costume department cracking up with something he had said or something funny he had done. He was smart and knew he was the next generation of funny in the family. I always enjoyed seeing Jesse and saying "HI!"

I feel so deeply sad for the family. I so wish I could be there on Friday to pay my respects in person. I know that through the love and support you have for one another, with time, you will be able to one day move forward.

All the love in the world,
Sarah Downer

Tony Gargiulo

February 15, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

February 15, 2012

To all in the loving Farrelly family(ies):
We send along heartfelt sympathies for the loss of young Jesse. His "Uncle John" Jordan is our cousin and was a beloved godfather to Jesse - the loss is a tragedy for all who knew and loved him -much beyond family ties.
Mark, Betsy, Ross and Lizzie, and Lisa
Gabrielson

Kathy MacFarlane

February 15, 2012

Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about the loss of Jesse. We are here to support you in your grieving process. With sincere sympathy. The MacFarlane Family

Fr. John Peterson, O.P.

February 15, 2012

Dear Nancy and Bobby,Tiffany and Anna,
Peter and Melinda,

No words of mine can mean much now. Your loss is far too great and much too close.But for our Dominican community at Providence College, in behalf of our alumni & alumnae, and in my own name, we want to make known to you, our deepest sympathy. In the praying we are doing, Jesse is with us...so are you!

At a time such as this, nothing anyone says makes much sense. (Perhaps better than most I know that.) But it is my hope that the consoling thought of a gifted Trappist monk might help.

Thomas Merton wrote, death is where the hills end, and the stars begin.

Jesse's "hills" are over now. It's his time to be with the "stars" and their Source.

It is my hope and I pray, that the deep, inner Peace that thought can induce will be with you and your family...especially now.

May Mary, the temple in whom God's Son became a priest, keep you near, in her care.

With God's Love and all mine,

Mindy Barclay

February 15, 2012

Jesse's spirit and energy was like no other. He will live on in the hearts and minds of all who ever met him. My heart is with the entire Farrelly family during this extremely difficult time. Your unconditional love for Jesse will shine on through to Heaven, until you meet again. <3

Blossom

February 15, 2012

Dearest Farrelly Family,
My heart aches for your loss. Jesse was a lovely, kind spirit. I am happy to have known him. With much love,

Danny & LaGena

February 15, 2012

Sweet Nancy & Bobby,
Our hearts are broken with this devasting news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family for peace and the comfort of Our Lord. There is a new twinkling star in the heavens. Take compfort in knowing you will see him again.We love you.

Gaby Sumner

February 15, 2012

Jesse was my neighbor, my prom date, my good friend, my homeboy. All us kids are going to miss him so much...he is in God's kingdom now will all the greats and not suffering anymore. I am so so sad. HOmies for life, see you at the crossroads. Love You Jesse, ..Gabs <3

Vivie Doughty

February 15, 2012

I graduated high school with Jesse, and I have many fond memories of him. He had the happiest smile.

Andrea Gallegos

February 15, 2012

Thank you for sharing your light with me and many others. You will be dearly missed. Rest now Jesse. Smile from above and keep watch over your family. We love you. Andrea (Palm) Gallegos (Sun Valley, ID)

Becky Vuilleumier

February 15, 2012

There are no words to express how helpless we feel for all of you, are thoughts, are prayers go out to you, but we have such heavy hearts for all your family and your relatives, you have such a great family and love is so strong and genuine in you home. Jesse was always so silly and sweet, are three girls have so many great memories at your Duxbury house and Cape house, as do we, Jesse was always welcoming. Whether swimming in the pool, playing video games, goofing around in the basement, eating over or better yet ordeing out, Christmas Eve at the Jordans. We will always remember him and smile when we think of his bright smile. I was actually thinking of Jesse that morning, and a little while later I couldn't get Nancy out of my mind when I received that tragic life changing phone call. Glen, Chandler, Kelton, Madison and Becky (Cha Cha) Vuilleumier will never forget him. Bobby, Nancy, Tiffany, Anna you were so lucky to call him Son, and Brother. We all thinking about Milly too.

Collette Gagnon

February 15, 2012

Bobby - My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family.

Lisa Dodd-Roest

February 15, 2012

I send you all prayers, and I hope you find comfort in the belief that you will be together again. Jesse will always be with you.

Pia, Felicia and Andreas Fem

February 15, 2012

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Andy L

February 15, 2012

I have, and always will have great admiration for the entire Farrelly/Burke Family. I'm extremely grateful for the time I was able to spend with Jesse on several occasions, as he was a very important member of a family with which I'm privileged to be associated.

I'll be here for any and all of you if you need me.

Sean Burke

February 15, 2012

He was a wonderful Brother-in-law and uncle to my two sons Holland and Blake. Jesse, you will be missed and we love you very much.

Steve Gehrke

February 15, 2012

No words can express how deeply saddened I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire family.

Kathy Zimmerman

February 15, 2012

Rest in peace Jesse. Our prayers are with those you have left behind. We know where you reside and that you are with the Lord. We know you'll be our guardian angel now.

Ilana Mcallister

February 15, 2012

For Bobby and Nancy I wish the strength to continue to live and love and know that so many were touched by your beautiful son. With love and compassion you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Michaela

February 14, 2012

Dear Bobby and Nancy,

On behalf of the Feeleys, Maggiacomos and Bissonettes, I wanted you to know how incredibly sorry we are for your loss. I remember this poem was read when we lost our cousin at age 17. I hope your memories of Jessie and the comfort of all those who love you will ease the burden of this pain, somewhat.

I'll Lend You A Child

by Edgar Guest
"I'll lend you for a little time a child of mine," He said.
For you to love - while he lives
And mourn for when he's dead.

It may be six or seven years
Or twenty-two or three,
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care or him for Me?

He'll bring his smiles to gladden you,
And should this stay be brief
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.

I've looked this world over
In search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd
Life's lanes, I have selected you.

Now will you give him all your love,
Nor count the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call to
Take him back again?"

I fancied that I heard then say,
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done,
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,

The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.

But should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that come
And try to understand."

Michaela

Jim Hagan

February 14, 2012

Our thughts and prayers are with Jesse and the Farrelly family.

katherine

February 14, 2012

i will always be grateful for the time i spent with jesse late summer 2011. he was awesome and especially entertaining and hilarious when rap-jogging. many thanks for the laughs when i desperately needed them...i'll never forget you, kid.

Carol Bellis

February 14, 2012

Dear Farrelly family, we know your pain, and we are praying for your entire family. May a million angels surround Jesse and your family during this traumatic time. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love is eternal and Jesse is always with you. Carol and Jerry Bellis

Jim Ahern

February 14, 2012

Bob and Nancy, well written. Like everyone out there, I just wish I could help ease the pain for all those suffering. Take care Jesse!

Robin Mooney

February 14, 2012

There are no words to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I had the pleasure of meeting Jesse a few times through my daughters. His smile and energy were contagious. I hope that you are able to find comfort in the fact that he brought joy to everyone he encountered. He is at peace now. Our prayers are with you.

February 14, 2012

The loss of a young person still in his prime is especially painful. It seems the natural order of life is disturbed when children precede parents and grandparents in death. Our prayers for all the family are for peaceandcomfort in all the good memories you share about Jesse's life . Ev & Ori McPhillips , Hernando, Fl.

Adrian D

February 14, 2012

It is with great sadness that I learn of the death of this fine young man whom I met once for a couple of hours in June 2011. My thoughts are with his parents, sisters, relatives and friends.

Kevin Fennessy

February 14, 2012

Sincerest condolences to Bobby, Nancy, and Jesse's family and friends for your loss. May he eternally rest in peace

February 14, 2012

To all the Farrelly family: John and I pray Jesse's spirit and loving nature comfort you at this very difficult time. We are thinking of you and send our deepest condolences. May God's healing power bring peace and understanding to you.
Rosalie and John Franks (Barrington, RI)

February 14, 2012

DEAR BOB and NANCY, OUR HEARTS ARE BLEEDING WITH PAIN AND SORROW FOR THE LOSS OF JESSE. ALL OUR LOVE AND ALL OUR SUPPORT IS THERE FOR THE WHOLE FARRELLY FAMILY...LOVE MICHAEL and DONNA DALESSIO

Francine Brown

February 14, 2012

To the entire Farrelly family, I offer my heartfelt condolences and my prayers for your healing...

Mary Ellen Grimes

February 14, 2012

To all the Farrelly's,
To help you get through this sorrowful time, keep eternity in mind...
Peace, Mary Ellen Grimes and Family

Pam O'Brien

February 14, 2012

I wish the tears I shed for you could wash away your pain. In time I pray that prayers and fond memories will bring some comfort to you. Please know that when you think of Jesse and grieve his loss you are not alone. As God watches over you, Jesse and you are and will be in our prayers daily. Our hearts ache for you. God Bless you, Bob and Pam O'Brien

Jesse Gines

February 14, 2012

To the Farrelly Family; Joy, comfort and peace be with you all as it is with Jesse.
Love Jesse Gines Gilbert Gines and Families. Middleburg Florida

Tom Dolan

February 14, 2012

To the family of Jesse Farrelly,
I had only met Jesse once in his short lifetime but I found him to be a delightful, enthusiastic individual.It is difficult to understand why the Lord chooses for some of us to have a shorter ride than others,but what we can understand is that he has reached his destination and is at peace and with the Lord now. Our prayers are with you.
Tom Dolan
Narragansett, RI

Ralph Jaccodine

February 14, 2012

Ellis Paul, Flynn and I send out prayers of healing to Bobby and all the Farrelly family

Marc Levine

February 14, 2012

I am so very sorry for your loss, and cannot imagine the pain and sorrow you're feeling right now. But with family, friends, thoughts and prayers, may the memory of Jesse bring much joy to your lives.

Coghlan Family

February 14, 2012

Nan, Bobby, Anna, and Tiff,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Love to you all.

Coghlan Family

February 14, 2012

Nan,Bobby, Anna, and Tiff,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in these difficult times. Love to you all.

michael Parfitt

February 14, 2012

Bobby and family,I can't imagine your sorrow in loosing a loved one at such a young age,I did not know Jesse but I am sure he was a wonderful person as all the Farelley's are.Sincerely heartbroken for your loss

Diane Burr

February 13, 2012

Docky & Marianne, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire Family. God is watching over your beloved Jesse now. May he have Peace

Mark & Stacey Ducharme

February 13, 2012

Although no words can really help to ease your loss, we just wanted you to know that Jesse and your family are in our thoughts and prayers...

Janet Shemligan

February 12, 2012

Docky & Mariann - I heard the heartbreaking news and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

February 12, 2012

Nance & Baba-
WIll always have fond memories of Jesse(jester) You guys are in my thoughts.
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