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James Whalen Obituary
Beloved Husband, Father, Grandfather, Great-Grandfather
Bristol, formerly of Thomaston – James "Jimmy" M. Whalen, 75, passed away on Saturday, July 19, 2025 surrounded by his family. He was the loving husband of Luann (Gallo) Whalen, for 53 years.
James was born in Torrington on June 20, 1950, son of the late Melvin and Ellen (Monroe) Whalen. Being drafted after high school, Jimmy served in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War. He retired from the Town of Thomaston. Jimmy was an avid hunter and fisherman, but what he cared about most was his family.
Including his beloved wife, Luann, Jimmy will be remembered by his cherished daughter, Tammy Thomas, of Newtown; his treasured grandchildren, Bryttnie Olsen, and her husband, Gabe; and Makenzie Thomas; his adored great-granddaughter, Seyla; his brother, Larry Whalen, and his wife, Alice; and many important nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.
Jimmy was predeceased by his sister, Cynthia Belfiore.
Calling hours will be held on Wednesday, July 23 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Lyons Funeral Home, 46 High Street, Thomaston. A prayer service with military honors will be held at 7:00 p.m.
Jimmy's family would like to send a special thank you to the team at UConn John Demsey Hospital for the amazing care they provided him and his family.
To leave notes of comfort for Jimmy's family, please visit his tribute wall at www.lyonsfuneralhome.com.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Jimmy's name to the VFW, 866 Thomaston Road, Watertown, CT 06795.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Senior Chief Walter R. Bruce
July 24, 2025
Dear Family of James Whalen:
I knew Jimmie from the Malone Swimming Pool. I am so very sorry for your loss. It was an honor to get to know Jimmie, we were both Navy Veterans and talked often about our experiences while serving. I will keep your family in my prayers as you go through this most difficult time.
With deepest condolences,
Walter R. Bruce
Senior Chief Petty Officer
U. S. Navy Retired
Patty Mowry
July 22, 2025
I rode the bus with him down Jackson St in grammar school days. Graduated with him. RIP
Patty (Costick)Mowry
adreanne good
July 22, 2025
my heart felt condolences go out to the family a beautiful person with a heart of gold riheavenly peace gone but never ever ever will be forgotten
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