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Bobbie Slayton Obituary

Bobbie Sherwood Slayton, our beloved husband and father, left this earthly realm to begin his eternal rest with the Lord, a little after 12 noon on January 8, 2011. Our mother was with him at his bedside, and angels sent by the Roanoke City Fire Department guarded him as he passed. Bobbie was born on February 27, 1944, in Roanoke, Va. to Woodsie and Lelia Slayton, who preceded him in death. He is also preceded in death by his brother Roger. Bobbie loved his family very much, and we loved, adored, and admired him in return. Bobbie was our hero. Bobbie is survived by his wife, Vicky, of 47 years. Vicky was Bobbie's sweetheart, baby doll, and angel. She greatly loved him and will dearly miss him. He is also survived by three children, all of Roanoke: Rebecca Briggs, Jennifer Schilke and her husband, Mark, and Zachary Slayton and his wife, Sharon. Bobbie was blessed with nine grandchildren and one great-grandchild: Meghan Sizemore and her husband, Patrick Wright, and their son, Conner Wright; Bradley Sizemore; Ethan, Victoria, Lelia, and Edward Schilke, Kenzie and Emma Slayton and Kailee Bryant. Bobbie is also survived by two sisters, Shirley Tatum and her husband, Robert, and Leoney Snyder; as well as many nieces and nephews and one special nephew, Lynn Tatum. Also surviving Bobbie are his three half-sisters, all of Greensboro, N. C.: Melissa Reeves and husband, John, Jeannette Skinner, and Donna Sampson.
Bobbie was a member of the Roanoke City Fire Department, and rose to the rank of Battalion Fire Chief before retiring on July 1, 2010, after almost 45 years of service. Chief Slayton began his career in the Department on December 6, 1965, and held the honor of being the longest actively serving firefighter on record there. Bobbie was the head of the Apparatus Committee for the Department for over 20 years and was instrumental in the design and purchase of their fire equipment. Our father loved the fire department, which was his life's work. More importantly, he loved the men that he worked with and served, and each held a special place in his heart.
We would like to thank the staff of Roanoke Memorial Hospital for the loving care given to our father in his final weeks. We would like to express our eternal gratitude to the brother hood of men from the Fire Department who came to our family's aid: visiting, standing watch over our father, and comforting and supporting our family throughout this time of grief. Our father never met a stranger, and friends circled around him his entire life. He believed that there was good in all people and always gave them the benefit of the doubt. He taught his family the meaning of Servant Based Leadership and to be strong, independent, hard-working individuals. He taught us that family was the most important thing in life. Our father loved his family, loved his work, and loved cars ... if he wasn't working, he was tinkering on an old car. Our father was always busy with something or some kind of project. Our Dad was the hardest working man on the face of the earth. We never knew him to have less than three jobs at a time. Besides the Fire Department, he drove a tour bus for Abbott Bus Lines, delivered fire trucks for KME all over the country, was a talented automobile mechanic, and volunteered at his church, Belmont Baptist. He loved dogs, hunting, bluegrass music, and NASCAR races. He loved to drive and he loved to travel.
He loved his gentle kind mother Lelia, and he talked of her often. We trust that he is with her now in heaven. We love you always, Daddy, and will miss you so much until we meet again.
The family suggests that memorials be made to the National Fallen Firefighters Foundation at firehero.org or P.O. Box 498, Emmitsburg, MD 21727. The funeral service will be held at First Baptist Church Roanoke (515 3rd Street SW) at 2 p.m. on Wednesday, January 12, 2011 and officiated by the Rev. John Fox. Interment will follow at Cedar Lawn cemetery with formal Fire Department honors. The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 p.m. and from 6 until 8 p.m. on Tuesday, January 11, 2011 at Oakey's Roanoke Chapel, 318 Church Avenue SW, 540-982-2100.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Jan. 10 to Jan. 11, 2011.

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January 5, 2020

Prayers for all the family. Rev. Doug Milliner

Steve Smith, American Red Cross

January 15, 2011

When on the scene of a house fire or other disaster, Chief Slayton was always approachable and receptive to our disaster workers. He was concerned for the welfare of the victims and accommodated us whenever possible. Thank you for sharing him!

Glenn and Pam Mullins

January 15, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

January 14, 2011

Vicky and family, May God give you the comfort that your family so richly deserves during this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Helene and Barry Ferguson

Gerri McDaniel

January 12, 2011

Vicky and family we are in Florida on vacation but have been praying for you and Bobby during his illness and now in his homegoing--you and your family. We will continue to keep you in our prayers.
Paul and Gerri McDaniel

Doyle and Michele Ferguson

January 12, 2011

Rebecca, Vicky and Family,
We were saddened to hear of the passing of your Father. We want you to know that you are in our hearts and prays. We pray that the Lord will comfort you and give you strength at this time of sorrow. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. May God Bless you and your family.

Brenda and Larry Bland

January 11, 2011

Dear Vicky and family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I pray that God will heal your broken hearts, and may all your precious memories of Bobby lift your spirits.
Sister Vicky, I have had you on my heart and mind a lot. My church, Harvest Baptist wants you to know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love in Christ

Leslie O'Neal

January 11, 2011

Vicki, Zack, & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bobbie was such a great man and he'll be greatly missed.
Leslie

preston conner

January 11, 2011

i am so sorry about bobbie death i will never for get him i use to go with him and his nefu lynn tatum to the races in daytona back in the late 70- early 80 i will never for get bobbie saying back in 1978 watch out for that guy dale earnhart he beleved he was going to be someone to recken with and boy was he right i know that same year we wear coming through basset va.a house was on fire and know one around bobbie nocked the door down to if there was antone in the home and had to show the basset fire department how to put the fire out never will for get that to all the famlie god bless preston conner

Ann Dillon

January 11, 2011

May God bless you and your family during this time of sorrow. Although I did not know this kind gentleman, I'm sure my husband, Posey, knew him. My husband was a member of the Rocky Mount Volunteer Fire Dept. for 33 years and served as chief for the last 20 years until his line-of-duty death on 7/26/10. He and a fellow firefighter were killed in a terrible crash while responding to a house fire near SML. I hope Posey was able to welcome Chief Slayton into heaven on January 8. While reading his obituary, I thought how similar their lives were and seemed to have so much in common. Posey too, was a strong, independent thinker, hard worker and lover of cars. My husband retired one month before Chief Slayton. Probably like you, we had hoped to finish several projects, travel and finely enjoy retirement. We were married 35 years. I had also retired on May 1.

My heart aches for you, and know the pain you must be going through right now. May the love of your family, friends, and the brotherhood of fire departments nationwide give you strength and comfort now and in the days and weeks ahead. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Ann Dillon
Wife of Chief Posey Dillon

Kennie Harris

January 11, 2011

One of the things that I value about getting to know Zach & Sharon and the kids over the years that they have been our neighbors is getting to know Bobbie. He is one of the few people who could make me smile just by seeing him. Toni and I will miss him very much. Call us anytime you need us.

January 11, 2011

I AM SO SADDENED to hear of Bobbie"s untimely death,We were classmates all through high school,having same surname we always were beside each other in classes.i did get the opportunity to chat with him on trip to Atlantic city just 2 month's before his stroke-he was full of life,polite as always,recognized me from almost 50 yrs ago.MY deepest sympathy to his family,V ICKI and I belonged to same chrch growing up,also worked with Rebecca for many yrs.GOD BLESS YOU.Regina Slayton Ambielli.

Janice Grigsby

January 11, 2011

To The Family, I did not know this wonderful man. I do respect and Any and All FireFighters. I appreciate all what he did. A Silent Prayer Was Said,A-Men

January 11, 2011

Our Deepest Sympathy.
Paul is not well and will not be able to attend the funeral.

May god Bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You are in our prayers.

Paul & Hester Webb

Debbie Blankenship

January 11, 2011

My heart goes out to the Slayton family I knew Bobbie from Huffman's,the Fire department and of course Garden City. He will be greatly missed. Bobbie was truley a great man.

bobby&jerry kelley

January 11, 2011

our deepest sympathy,thought's and prayer's to you all.bobby was a good neighbor for many years.

Missy Mills

January 11, 2011

So many memories to cherish... What a wonderful man "Chief Slayton" was. Im so grateful to have known him. (To his family, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all).

Linda Marks

January 10, 2011

Vicki,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I am so sorry for your loss.
Linda (Leslie's Mother)

Ken Hogan

January 10, 2011

To Bobbies family
I've known Bobbie for many years, growing up in the garden city area. Also spent many days with him as a fellow Abbott bus driver and working on old cars at Huffmans garage. He will be sadly missed by all who new him. He was a very special person.

January 10, 2011

My deepest sympathy to your family. I am the daughter of the late, Roanoke City Fire Department, Daniel Rufus Ralph Sink, 1913-1979. He served for thirty-eight years, retiring after having served as Drill Master at old Station No. 1 his last duty location. Best wishes to your family. Mary Ann Sink Barnes

Michael Milton

January 10, 2011

Bobbie Slayton,, What Else can Be Said,,Rough And Tough,Never Shirked A Task,And Loyal to A Fault ! He Helped Me
Get Started As He Did Many, Many Others !! You're In GOD'S Firehouse Now, And
He Knows You've Got Gobs Of Experience !! Rest In Peace, Bobbie Slayton, Until
We Meet Again In GOD'S Heavenly Mansions !!!!!

Kerri Johns

January 10, 2011

Zach and Sharon,
I am so sorry for your loss. If you need anything at all call us. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love you
Love
Kerri and Phil

January 10, 2011

Vicky:
You probably won't rememember us - we lived right next door to you when you and Bobbie were first married - way back in the late 60's - we moved to Franklin County shortly thereafter. I have been in touch with your family thru your sister in law Shirley Tatum who works at the same elementary school that I do. I cannot begin to tell you how I felt this morning when I read the obituary - it just brought tears to my eyes - it was so beautifully written.
We will definately be coming to the funeral home Tue evening - in hopes of maybe getting a hug from you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Kathy(Boswell)Meador and sister Betty Bowswell

Lonnie Blankenship

January 10, 2011

Vicky, Becky, Jenny, and Zack my heart goes out to you each and I cannot express into words what Bobbie has and will always mean to me as a friend,mentor and teacher. Please know you are all in my thoughts and prayers and I love you all very much. Please let me know if I can help in any way.

K-Mart Pharmacy

January 10, 2011

Mrs. Slayton and family it was a pleasure to have known Bobbie and served him over the years we will miss seeing and talking with him. our thoughts and prayers are with you. The Staff of Kmart Pharmacy

Lisa Bowman

January 10, 2011

Dear Family,
Please know that you and all the family are in our prayers at this difficulty time. Shirley works with us at Dudley Elementary, and we all express our sincere sympathy on your loss. We read the article in the Roanoke Times. I know each of you are so proud of your wonderful brother, husband, father, and valued friend! May God grant each of you comfort, grace, and peace.
Dudley Elementary Faculty and Staff

Douglas

January 10, 2011

May God truly comfort and bless The Slayton family at this time of great loss in their lives. Heavens gain is our loss here but if we hold fast to our Lord Jesus Christ we will meet again in a better place. Bobbie was one of the most caring people I have ever met and the world all around will greatly miss him and his thoughtfulness. Blessings and prayers for his family.

Rev. and Mrs. Douglas Milliner

January 10, 2011

Zach, Sharon and family,

We are so sorry for your loss, we will keep you and your family in our prayers, please let us know if you need anything.

Melisha and Tony Smith

Kimberly Fifer

January 10, 2011

My deepest sympathies and heartful condolences go out to the Slayton family. My your faith and your family get you through this hard time.

Janet Edwards

January 10, 2011

Bobbie i did not know you but respect you and your fellow Fire fighters very much .you,ll risk your lives for us every day you put your uniform on .and go to work .your loved ones dont know if you will be back or not.for this we the public thank you,ll with all our hearts .and we greive with your loved one,s cause we have all lost a true HERO and God has a new ONE .so rest in peace .MR SLAYTON and know you will be missed

January 10, 2011

Beckie want you to know we are thinking about at this time.
I so sorry you are going this. I never knew you looked so much like your dad. I know you was so proud of him.

David Jones

January 10, 2011

I will miss Mr. Slayton, I have not seen him in a few years but thought of him often. He taught me a lesson that saved my fathers life more than once. He will be missed. I will say a prayer for Mr. Bobbie although he does not need one.God just got the best angel yet. God Bless your soul Mr. Bobbie and I will never forget you. Thank you.

Jenn Shannon

January 10, 2011

We are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. Your father was such a nice man, always welcoming when I came to visit Trevor at Station #2, and always wanting to talk and play with our little one, Tyler. He always would refer back to his great-grandchild when he played with Tyler and it was so sweet! He loved his grandbabies!

Donna Rierson

January 10, 2011

Vickie and children,
My heart is full of sympathy and love for each one of you in this time of such loss. I pray that each one of you will feel God's presence and abiding love as you go through this time.Hold to His unchanging hand. Each of you are in my daily thoughts and prayers.
In His Service with much love,

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